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limcar:
hoe, do you breastfeed your husband

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Mukina2 Dominique Obinoscopy

These oyinbo ppl sef, make dem come Africa here where everybody dey breastfeed everybody...

d only fuckup there be say she throway those baby formula.... but then that one suppose no cause too many issue wey go come be say popo go come show up.

maybe plenty matter don dey ground between them before and na this one come finally blow the lid off the top..... I dey suspect that sis Pheobe be someone wey like to dictate for sis Simone and she don dey calm for her since but this time she no wan gree......$140 is not an amount she can't let go but i believe plenty things dey para her and not only this.

in the olden days, mothers breastfed children of their sisters. That's not a big deal

Very funny. I really can't say but I don't think it's proper to breastfeed another woman's baby without her approval.

Women actually enjoy the tickle by little babies

Sometimes I just feel we Africans are better off without these Oyinbo people and their ways of life.

An ingrate Sister you are indeed. If your sister had the same selfish mindset you have do you think she would even agree to take care of your son for the duration of your medical treatment? Especially while having her own baby she needs to take care of.

If you had complications from your medical situation and died, who do you think will be burdened with care for your son.
Ungrateful fellow.

Cashsteady:
She was probably hornyand wanted her boobs sucked as most women love it when their boobs are sucked so she had to use the innocent baby ..


This is not right at all

Oga hope all is well?

She’ll complicate things by doing that! In Islam: once she breastfeeds that baby, the baby becomes her maternal son/daughter; that then prevents that baby from marrying her own real children in the future (as cousins are allowed to marry one another according to Islamic ruling, except if they share same breastfeeding)!

Absolutely 100% wrong for breast feeding the child against her sister's wish.
Remember, we personally make choices for our family, just because someone is my sibling doesn't give them that authority to defile my child.
Her sister provided formula food for her son. The instruction is to feed the child with formula milk. If the formula milk is finished and she breastfeed him as an alternative, then that's reasonably understandable, but throwing away formula food for a child just because you don't agree with it is pure evil, insensitive, and lack of emotional intelligence.
This is a case of deformation.

Benjaminy:
The Sister was a bit wrong. Could have still breastfed the child while keeping the baby formulas aside, without discarding them. But I agree with you. The one that called the cops ain't just wrong. She's a terrible human. Calling the cops is the thank you, for taking care of your son for days?

Agreed that she should not have discarded the baby formula, but the whole analysis faulting her for doing that is looking at the monetary loss, which from the comments I have seen so far put at about $140.00.

Contrarily, have you seen the cost of babysitting a child in America? In this case a seven weeks old child for that matter. Many Babysitting agencies and people would not take a child that young from anyone, because it involves a lot of risks and the challenges and troubles are enormous and require nearly 24/7 vigilance. In the US any little slip from the caregiver, cops can be called on you even for things you tolerant when they happen to our kids under your watch.

As a result of the above, when you find childcare for infants it is very expensive and priced hourly, between $15 to $50 per hour, so for three days, that would be 72 hours, and using the lower estimate, she saved 72 * $15 = $1,080.00 and she is been blamed for discarding a mere $140?

Mindlog:
Throwing tins of baby formula away and breastfeeding the baby without the birth mother's permission is so very wrong and not safe because of chances of infection, reason they have to thoroughly screen women before donating breast mil, make baby no go drink syphilis, Hepatitis B and C join.

Genz at it.
In the olden days, it was it way to go for any baby who lost his mother or who's mother was no available for breastfeeding.
Breast milk is also much healthier.
I understand a modern day mother not being too comfortable with that but it's a simple matter they should talk over as sisters

Cashsteady:
She was probably hornyand wanted her boobs sucked as most women love it when their boobs are sucked so she had to use the innocent baby ..


This is not right at all

Sometimes it's ok not to think like a white person.
Breastfeeding your sisters son because she was not available can never be wrong.
The only thing she did wrong was that she did not take permission.

ghettochild:
She did no wrong in feeding the child owing to her belief and she didn't strictly inform her sister not to breastfeed her son...
But throwing those formula away was so very wrong...
She should have left them till the sister returns back.
And tell her you know I don't believe in formula but now u r back...u can continue feeding ur child formula...
If na me..... she will buy back those formula..
Cos I didn't get em free from the store.

When you leave your child in the care of someone else, don't expect them to treat your child like you do. Expect them to treat your child as they treat theirs.

Keep on following foolish pink men ( oyinbo) till they lead you into the ditch.

In the Afrikan traditional society, a lactating sister can feed her sister's child , if death occurs or sickness or any other impediment.


Keep on following oyinbo o.
Continue.

Mindlog:
Throwing tins of baby formula away and breastfeeding the baby without the birth mother's permission is so very wrong and not safe because of chances of infection, reason they have to thoroughly screen women before donating breast mil, make baby no go drink syphilis, Hepatitis B and C join .

Babies can't drink those through breastfeeding, they can only contract it during delivery

linearity:
Agreed that she should not have discarded the baby formula, but the whole analysis faulting her for doing that is looking at the monetary loss, which from the comments I have seen so far put at about $140.00.

Contrarily, have you seen the cost of babysitting a child in America? In this case a seven weeks old child for that matter. Many Babysitting agencies and people would not take a child that young from anyone, because it involves a lot of risks and the challenges and troubles are enormous and require nearly 24/7 vigilance. In the US any little slip from the caregiver, cops can be called on you even for things you tolerant when they happen to our kids under your watch.

As a result of the above, when you find childcare for infants it is very expensive and priced hourly, between $15 to $50 per hour, so for three days, that would be 72 hours, and using the lower estimate, [/b] she saved 72 * $15 = $1,080.00 and she is been blamed for discarding a mere $140?

So, because she helped her save 1080 dollars, she had to make her lose 140 dollar baby food? See justification!

It also happen to me oo I saw my wife mother breastfeeding our daughter.

maasoap:
So, because she helped her save 1080 dollars, she had to make her lose 140-dollar baby food? See justification!

It is not a justification, it is just looking at the bigger picture, I believe she was not counting on the dollar values. I brought it up to show further how ungrateful she was.

If someone did something that causes you pain before you try to go into any outburst, pause and check their value to you or the good things they had done to you in the past, not just go ahead and call the Cops on them.

OLAADEGBU:
https://nypost.com/2023/08/18/i-came-home-and-found-my-sister-breastfeeding-my-son-i-called-the-cops/

What do you think?

She acted natural.

BloomingDale:
You know breastfeeding can most times be painful, right? I’ve seen some mother’s nipples fall off due to the constant breastfeeding by their babies.

fall off kwa?? Big lie

Cashsteady:
She was probably hornyand wanted her boobs sucked as most women love it when their boobs are sucked so she had to use the innocent baby ..


This is not right at all

Sorry Mr Pedo, the sensation women derive from babies sucking on their breasts is not sexual and in fact, they derive no fun from it

This one na oversabi

[quote author=Cashsteady post=125271567]She was probably hornyand wanted her boobs sucked as most women love it when their boobs are sucked so she had to use the innocent baby ..


This is not right at all
The feelings u get when breastfeeding is completely different (nothing pleasurable s£xually ),sometimes it is painful. I breastfed twin boys na wound 4 my n!pple back to back.

'I screamed in horror' Read more: https://trib.al/zdJYFoU