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Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Yeah u will divorce n become food for us married men.we are waiting to take turns wit u in d name of dating

Klass99:
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Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Dey play!!

Most lady that never marry will be the first to list do &don't.

In marriage, you manage issues

Klass99:
In old age, from a toilet in a private residence? Not possible unless one is extremely dirty.

If you are talking about public toilets or ones from secondary school I may agree, but not when grown ups are involved and they live in a private residence without sharing facilities with others.

I don't use public rest rooms any how or just any where. The day an STD occurs in marriage I will know exactly where it came from and it won't be from a public toilet.

Marriage is much more complicated than that.d best marriages hav gone tru that stoem n come out stronger.ask those married couples who hav been married 50yrs n they will tell u.

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

Thank God for your redemption..

But you still need to understand women nature..

When you forgive a woman for offence that she know she shouldn't commit, she will punish you for it and still blame you.

When you forgive her for what she should scolded for, you emboldened her and she will blame you.

Women are so brutal when they want to move on.

IamMobisola:
Coming from the same gender that always have children from outside their marriages, same gender that made themselves "polygamous" because of greed. Lmao

Well Bisola, it not our fault that you always attract men who has kids out of wedlock dat keep or constantly approach you, maybe you look way older than your age or maybe that's what your appearance stance for, because I know this your summittion is based on your point of view and experiences.

I suggest you change your frience, the areas you keep visiting, the way you dress and the way you talk. So you can attract, tall, loving, very single, responsible and awesome men like me🥰💯

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

All those women once bragged like this.

In our Kingdom which Jesus Christ is the King ,there is nothing like divorce,yes separation for a season cos of threat to life but not divorce-[For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away-Mal.2:16].Also Mathew 19:3-9.God bless you.

Notfogotten:
This is intended to educate and warn young men and women planning to get married.

Why did you divorce your spouse?

Are there things you did or didn't do to make your marriage work?

Let the story commence.

She don't like doggy style only missionary style and divorce her no time.

UnemployedGradu:
was she your wife or girlfriend?

Girlfriend... I was the understanding boyfriend till she broke my heart but fixed my vision

duduade:
To the poster who above me please Sha try and marry

You will need a companion as you age

lol oversabi people. Wàtin consign u? Nah wah o. Your life is not another person like. Make una stop to dey do this Africa yeyee talk. Secondly divorce is not a bad thing

woginid967:
Girlfriend... I was the understanding boyfriend till she broke my heart but fixed my vision

lol, if she was your wife, I would have adviced you to pour acid on that junior colleague! Someone like me would do worst than just pouring acid in his face and body because I would pour acid in his penis!

IamMobisola:
Coming from the same gender that always have children from outside their marriages, same gender that made themselves "polygamous" because of greed. Lmao

which one is because of greed?

Men are polygamous in nature.
Not because of greed. It's our nature and there is nothing bad about it as already knew women to love money and the reason for that is simply for them to take care of themselves and their kids. Do we fight y'all over it? 😂

IamMobisola:
It isn't purchase but more like charity. Orphanage homes are like a (non-profit organisation) in the sense that they have lots of kids to take care of(feeding, healthcare and other stuffs). The money you pay is actually a way of paying them back for taking care of that particular child and also for running the organisation for other kids to get a chance to be taken into the orphanage home. It's like paying a nanny for looking after your child for the day.

Something in that sense

Never mind. The guy I quoted was trying to sound clever because he made a choice and at the same time trying to underrate other peoples choices. That's why I wanted him grilled until he lacks what to say.

They weren't married, she was his fiancee....

Onyemaboy:
Did the marriage produce children? If yes, what happened to them. Are they in your custody or with their mother

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

Kobojunkie:
Does knowing origin make your children better than those other children? See African man delusion! Look around the see the end of the seeds wey una don sow so far in the name of being viable. Are they any better than the children with unknown stocks?

you are a woman. You won't understand. Leave this point for men 😂

Notfogotten:
This is intended to educate and warn young men and women planning to get married.

Why did you divorce your spouse?

Are there things you did or didn't do to make your marriage work?

Let the story commence.

start with yours

Kukutente23:
This is a thread for broken hearts and frustrated souls

I sell handkerchiefs

The first post that made me laugh out demnnn!!!

UnemployedGradu:
lol, if she was your wife, I would have adviced you to pour acid on that junior colleague! Someone like me would do worst than just pouring acid in his face and body because I would pour acid in his penis!

People would blame me na.

They may begin to blacklist my business

Kobojunkie:
BUllsheet!

There is everything reasonable about divorce. Marriage was never meant as a prison for any human being and divorce is the legal and rightful approach to exiting a marriage that is going nowhere. If you must warn those afraid of divorce, suggest that they never get married and problem solved.

He's right and you're right. But the thread is for those that still want to get married and learn from others mistake

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

can you give me her details let me use her to cure konji sometime?

I know her vagina should be a dilapidated borehole now but I can manage it as substitute to empty my balls.

EEIA:
can you give me her details let me use her to cure konji sometime?

I know her vagina should be a dilapidated borehole now but I can manage it as substitute to empty my balls.

If you're in lekki or ajah, i would give you

As in eh.. the self- deception is out of this world! So much for a faceless forum where church rats can claim affluence. Lol🤣

Scentedgrance:
Continue deceiving yourself cheers!

Klass99:
Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Look years ago I broke up with a lady because of infection. I never knew ladies could contact infection from toilet.
I felt sorry for how I treated her and blocked her. What she needed was advice on self hygiene Jah forgive us our short coming.
Some years later the odour coming out from another lady in the hotel I lodged almost cut my life short. I couldn't breath.

I later politely told her she should go treat herself, and gave her some money. The funny girl went home to tell my guys that I was so caring .
Since then some dey see me as Maga, I don't want to talk sey we Nak to protect her image

UnemployedGradu:
lol, if she was your wife, I would have adviced you to pour acid on that junior colleague! Someone like me would do worst than just pouring acid in his face and body because I would pour acid in his penis!

Mumu advice, he should destroy his reputation because of wife and junior staff lol.
Why una dey think like dis na

woginid967:
If you're in lekki or ajah, i would give you

i always come to lekki

woginid967:
For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

Gbam

IamMobisola:
Isn't that the same way side chicks harrass wives all the time because of the same husbands who can't do without belittling their wives?

Yea it's exactly the same. How do u mean the same husbands though. Lol some of u can't prove a point without the gender defending spirit. No one is fighting u or any female I see bad I call it the fvck out regardless of who's responsible cos I see people not gender ✌️

EEIA:
i always come to lekki

Gym lady

She is very flexible

EEIA:
can you give me her details let me use her to cure konji sometime?

I know her vagina should be a dilapidated borehole now but I can manage it as substitute to empty my balls.

U no need am bro

woginid967:
Danjuma shaibu
Dangote
Selman
Pastor chris


The list is endless.

Proof is, MAN who has lots of money will never need woman.

Though just have a child and if the child loves you it's another feeling, I avoided marriage for as long as possible but my child made me feel compensated. Marriage is actually nothing, but if yours works just manage it. Any day I will choose comfort over marriage

woginid967:
Gym lady

She is very flexible

No give am anything

dkidd:
U no need am bro

You wan give me your own babe/wife or sister make I us cure the cure Konji sometimes instead? 🙄