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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by dkidd: 8:59pm On Jan 20
nedekid:

Bros, the truth is that you should not have any links to where your spouse works, do not work in same company or have paddies that work in same place, why, you go hear tori you no suppose hear.
See, either you like it or not, possibly as high as 80% of women would cheat or misbehave in their place of work. The issue is does it get to your ears as the spouse? Walai as high as 90 if not 99% of women are cheating or close to. As they say, the only cheater is the one caught.
The one you look as innocent, God fearing, you met her as virgin and other crap are the ones that will likely even fall for infidelity. The issue is that it should not be too much ie if you marry a hot pant.
See, all the smallies my paddies had as girl friends, those that have now married young men are still disturbing, wishing to continue the sugar daddy runs, codedly. Some still sleep with them. There are the ones that will disturb, sending nudes, discribing how they are still "tight". One even wanted to bang while 8 months pregnant, another 2 months after giving birth.
Point is very few marriages will remain if on some misadventure homes are broken. As I always say, when a man gets a child, do DNA immediately, applies to all kids. Make sure they are yours, further to that, marriage is then companionship which we all need. But if you are over 50, omo, no need for DNA, your kids are already grown and you don't need the heart attack. Take life as it is.
If you doubt and want wahala, this night, suddenly take your wife's phone from her and go through it thoroughly. Just try it, if it is not divorce you will be talking about by tomorrow. Lol
No need for the epistle bro. Truth is; them nor dey trust woman... Period

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by worldclass68(m): 9:02pm On Jan 20
woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

Thank u ...your so on point, they don't realize they re the price! All the girls I dated asked me out themselves cuz I no dey underrate myself for anybody... women dont offer anything rather than to come take over one's life, freedom, wealth and everything in the name of marriage... even the children still belong to them las las...

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Lorayne(m): 9:06pm On Jan 20
woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.
Y'all know this is lamba, right?

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Astra101: 9:06pm On Jan 20
Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either grin
@ the boldest, don't say with confidence what you're not knowledgeable about. Some of you exchanged fear for fact. Ignorance is bliss!

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by MrSly(m): 9:11pm On Jan 20
Kobojunkie:
Does knowing origin make your children better than those other children? See African man delusion! Look around the see the end of the seeds wey una don sow so far in the name of being viable. Are they any better than the children with unknown stocks? lipsrsealed
Children aren't commodity to be bought. Adoption is an option of last resort. Making it your sole option herald a wannabe who hardly understands between action and its essence.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:12pm On Jan 20
Onyemaboy:
Did the marriage produce children? If yes, what happened to them. Are they in your custody or with their mother

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by TheMostComplex1: 9:15pm On Jan 20
YorubaRonu01:
These days people divorce for the smallest reasons, wokeness and social media made matters worst.
I just pity the growing children because they will turn out to be men-haters and female-haters!
As far I am concerned, Infidelity and when someone's life is at stake are the only valid reasons for divorce
Comparison, insatiability, disrespect and ego won't let this generation concentrate on their marriage!

But Infidelity is almost the most common ingredient in today's marriage?

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by tishbite43: 9:15pm On Jan 20
leisuretym:
Not yet but will soon, she started listening to Joyce of Nigeria info, stopped cooking, joined the feminist radio gang, always waiting for me to come back home to practise everything Joyce taught them that day, well she will soon move in with Joyce
😂😂😂

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by princemillla(m): 9:17pm On Jan 20
dkidd:

Omooooor that girl is the lowest of the lows. In the same compound and ur tenant haha. I will give him quit notice. Make them leave my yard. She's always been a community kpekus na u nor quick know sha.

Case of overlooking n forgiving her short coming. But she proved me wrong.

I don learn my lesson wella.
Am blessed up now

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Nyascobar1414: 9:17pm On Jan 20
Meself:
He is a narcissist
.
Such a good man,that couldnt bow for your manipulations

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 9:17pm On Jan 20
MrSly:
â–  Children aren't commodity to be bought. Adoption is an option of last resort.
â–  Making it your sole option herald a wannabe who hardly understands between action and its essence.
What in the world makes you think adoption means purchasing kids? Are you alright at all? undecided

So, with millions of children out there waiting to be adopted, adoption should not be the sole option at all for anyone. You folks give me the shivers with your many utterances. lipsrsealed

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by IamMobisola(f): 9:22pm On Jan 20
Emma1Oj:
I'm not marry yet.

But from dating experience; The female gender are the problem.

Their wahala is too much that I'm even scared of commitment.
Coming from the same gender that always have children from outside their marriages, same gender that made themselves "polygamous" because of greed. Lmao

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by IamMobisola(f): 9:24pm On Jan 20
dkidd:

Of course yes. When they're both sharing the same woman and she's probably belittling him before the boy toy. Na so women dey take set their husbands up for fatality grin
Isn't that the same way side chicks harrass wives all the time because of the same husbands who can't do without belittling their wives?

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by MrSly(m): 9:26pm On Jan 20
Kobojunkie:
What in the world makes you think adoption means purchasing kids? Are you alright at all? undecided

So, with millions of children out there waiting to be adopted, adoption should not be the sole option at all for anyone. You folks give me the shivers with your many utterances. lipsrsealed
If you don't purchase them how exactly do you acquire them? We try to twist a simple fact. Adoption of children in ophange is a charity open for all including married people with kids. Adopting a child because you need it isn't charity but meeting ones need. So what exactly is your point?

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 9:30pm On Jan 20
MrSly:
â–  If you don't purchase them how exactly do you acquire them? We try to twist a simple fact. Adoption of children in ophange is a charity open for all including married people with kids. Adopting a child because you need it isn't charity but meeting ones need. So what exactly is your point?
Huh? shocked shocked shocked

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by theamazonguru(m): 9:31pm On Jan 20
woginid967:


Danjuma shaibu
Dangote
Selman
Pastor chris

The list is endless.

Proof is, MAN who has lots of money will never need woman.

Take this out of your list. There has always been a Selwoman called Sandra.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by IamMobisola(f): 9:33pm On Jan 20
MrSly:

If you don't purchase them how exactly do you acquire them? We try to twist a simple fact. Adoption of children in ophange is a charity open for all including married people with kids. Adopting a child because you need it isn't charity but meeting ones need. So what exactly is your point?
It isn't purchase but more like charity. Orphanage homes are like a (non-profit organisation) in the sense that they have lots of kids to take care of(feeding, healthcare and other stuffs). The money you pay is actually a way of paying them back for taking care of that particular child and also for running the organisation for other kids to get a chance to be taken into the orphanage home. It's like paying a nanny for looking after your child for the day.

Something in that sense

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Malroux: 9:33pm On Jan 20
Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either grin
So according to your story, divorce is all men's fault abi, because it is only women that are divorcing men according to you.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by gassbee: 9:39pm On Jan 20
Klass99:


In old age, from a toilet in a private residence? Not possible unless one is extremely dirty.

If you are talking about public toilets or ones from secondary school I may agree, but not when grown ups are involved and they live in a private residence without sharing facilities with others.

I don't use public rest rooms any how or just any where. The day an STD occurs in marriage I will know exactly where it came from and it won't be from a public toilet.
are u the only one using your office toilet
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by StemCellTherapi(m): 9:41pm On Jan 20
Somebody's wife met me yesterday and complimented me by saying I'm handsome.

I guessed she was married cos I overhead her telling someone her husband has gone to work.

One thing lead to another, she collected my number.

Is it what I think it is? undecided

Hmmm...

Things are happening in marriages.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by sylve11: 9:41pm On Jan 20
sammysmiles:
One thing is for sure, if you take a hasty, carefree or foolish decision, you must be ready to face the consequences. It's only we humans try to act drama, blame others and generalize life to be unfair, when we start reaping the consequences of our decisions.

Na so cool
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by sonofthunder: 9:49pm On Jan 20
woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny


Is immorality also an option?

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by GO0dharddick: 9:49pm On Jan 20
woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.

So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...

Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.

Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

It has been scientifically proven again and again that it is women that needs men the most. Without men, women are more likely to commit suicide and end their pathetic lives.

True words have never been spoken like this before. God bless abundantly honourable senior comrade sir. The SIMP won't understand the bolded

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Floramie: 9:50pm On Jan 20
Due to domestic violence. He has anger issue and I won't keep calm always too.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Olichoke: 9:51pm On Jan 20
Lack of commitments and practical steps to keep marriage together is the cause.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by GO0dharddick: 9:53pm On Jan 20
Scentedgrance:
Continue deceiving yourself cheers!

As a SIMPLETON that you are, of course I don't expect you to understand his comment

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by bdon12: 9:53pm On Jan 20
woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.
For 6years?wow how did u survive d betrayal.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by imagrg(m): 9:54pm On Jan 20
You are a real MAN!
Women are cheats...all of them!
woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Saspi718: 9:55pm On Jan 20

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by bdon12: 9:56pm On Jan 20
woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny
I would hav supported ur idea if u didnt mention adopt.Get a girl pregnant n continue living ur life
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by franchasofficia: 9:57pm On Jan 20
Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either grin
Fake reasons that only exist in the minds of whoever told the first story shocked
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by imagrg(m): 9:58pm On Jan 20
It would come to this later. All men would be this wise.
woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

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