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Popular actress, Mary Remmy Njoku pens an open letter to married women worldwide as she speaks on why marriage isn’t an achievement.

She took to her Instagram page to chide married women who consider marriage as an achievement and pressure others to also get married.

Remmy Njoku stated that marriage isn’t what can be considered an achievement, but the marrying of the right partner.

She maintained that people must be allowed to take their time to choose the right partner and not placing them under pressure to get married.

She wrote:

Dear married women
Enough!!! Marriage is not an achievement. Finding the RIGHT partner is. Give them space to make one of the biggest decisions of their. Lives. Let them find GOOD partners in peace. Haba!
Over 60% of couples CLAIM happiness often due to societal expectations Na so una push Ifeoma, she go marry Nonsense Every weekend na hospital appointment for blacke eye, and spiritual warfare against physical side chicks. Yet she sef dey troll single girls for SM.
Rest Biko . Focus on the Economy! And Let the singles BREATHE

You wed a man who intimidates you during pregnancy with potential side chick, yet you audaciously mock single girls. Aunty, you have a resident problem.

You marry a man, who provides for everyone except you and your children. Aunty off mic! You are a single parent.

You marry 'community man' instead of 'your man' Sister! You are the Ring Bearer!!

We are all going through a lot or coming from a lot.
But when we see a single girl about 35, we abandon our prayer point and focus on her! 😉😉 Team " I am happily married " 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Focus on your Focus o!!!!

Nobody truly wants to be alone dem never find who go give dem Peace.

Again. Let the single breath.

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Whether you view marriage as an accomplishment or not is entirely subjective. Everyone is entitled to their personal opinion. However, it's important to respect and allow married women to find joy in their relationships with their husbands

Using your view as everyone's view shows that you lack understanding.

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This one dn see shege inside marriage is like...

But honestly speaking. Marriage is overrated, many have discovered it thats why u see single mum and dad everywer

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Hehehe.

Motivational speaker .

She is married, don't take her advice too serious single ladies.

I know why am giving this advice, don't let Shiloh 2040 be your portion.

True talk

True that

You are right young woman.

But the issue is, a man can still find a good looking young chick at age 46-48 a marry her happily.

But a woman has short years to arrange herself properly for a good looking and promising man to propose to her.

So as a woman, quickly begin to work on yourself now in character repair. Not just for the wedding, but the marriage; that is to be a source of peace and fulfilment to your husband.

A man wants to settle down with a woman that will give him peace of mind and respect him. He will show her love automatically in such context.

Hmmm

They keep preaching against marriage and they don't want to leave the institution or still want to get married.


Believe this people at your own peril...

African women especially Nigerians left the group chat

I don't think she has been picked yet ... Anyway men are wiser now, we have seen everything and so it's only the uninformed that will be looking to marry wife in this age and time.

Thank you social media!!!


Funny enough I am married but .... If.

Will you keep quiet

Marriage is an achievement if you marry God's choice for you.
If you marry the wrong partner, you are in soup..
If you didnt die despite all the battles you faced as a single, do not let wrong marriage kill you.
Beg God to give you the right spouse.

I can relate but no dey disturb us. Go tell that person directly... No dey fear her.... I know she don over disturbed u...lol

Marriage is a woman's greatest achievement in life

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Influencer

And her husband does most of the things she just said but she still hasn't left the marriage.

It is

Same way having a BSc isn't an achievement but having a First class, Right?

Women Ladies bringing thier emotional bursts to Social media, for some other gullible followers to use as thier placard.

Funny thing, She'll look at herself as the right partner and the other person the wrong partner.

Myopic Naive rantings of inexperience.

Be thankful for where you are while trying to make something good and excellent out of it. 👌

To her, with genuine excuses.

For you.

Always my Igbo sisters

Well sha, it's none of my biz