I been think say all the motivational speaker don die oooo.
Where dis werey come from😡

MARRIAGE is not an ACHIEVEMENT. It is a RESPONSIBILITY.

I agree, being married doesn't automatically make you successful. It is important to know the right person with whom you will be happy. This is a fact. Because life is long and to spend it seeing a person you don't love every day is very, very sad.

ukaface:
Well some see it as award sef

cum here, make I pay your bride price. You've been lonely for long

Parizz:
cum here, make I pay your bride price. You've been lonely for long

* sideeyes*👀

Naa achievement now😂😂😂

If getting your Msc, PhD ddd, FCT etc is an Achievement? Getting married is an Achievement, howbeit being married to the Right partner and a good person is the A in the Achievement and how else are y'all looking to progenate for a decent and stable Blessed Family devoid of curses and traumas? Some married women self too do + some single ladies self too do.
Las las do what's convenient for you, eventually as you lay your bed, so you'd lie on it. If Marriage is not your thing, enjoy your life. If Marriage is your thing, way to go! Y'all just respect that institution Marriage; e no start for una villages but GOD the Supreme Creator established Marriage and the Marital Union for heterosexuals who'd seek to Honor HIM.

michaelcwyatt:
I agree, being married doesn't automatically make you successful. It is important to know the right person with whom you will be happy. This is a fact. Because life is long and to spend it seeing a person you don't love every day is very, very sad.

It would be narrow minded to view success solely on material/ financial grounds. Success is Multifaceted as well Relative. A person may be successful financially but a failure at building the right Relationships and Relationships in most cases, the right relationship can be currency...in the business circle, in society etc Now as pertaining to this context of Marriage...a man may be successful financially but a failure maritally and in the course of his life, if he ends up with the wrong partner, that can cost him his entire financial fortune or worse still his very own life. So if you say marriage does not automatically make one successful, marrying the right person has the capacity to make you a better person as it has the capacity to undo any person who marries the wrong person. Marriage is an Achievement, Marrying the right partner is a greater achievement. There is a reason society is structured and must abide by the structures whether as divinely created or man's construct.

Na so them dey put sand sand for another person family.... Girls wey no wise make them follow her talk

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Marriage is an achievement. Those who thought otherwise always end up learning the hard way. As a human, it is psychologically defeating to realize that not a single soul find you worthy even as a discounted item.

But then...look who is talking---a married woman.

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Marriage is an achievement.

What overcoming financial financial limitations is to a man is same thing getting married is to a woman.

A man that has not made money feels like he has not really achieved anything. Same way, a woman that is not yet married, feels haven't achieved her purpose is bn here. Please, don't tell me about Western world.

Any woman that tells your that she doesn't want to marry is not normal. She may be mentally unstable, or may have bn in bad relationships that may have turned her thinking and feeling too become abnormal. She may also have some medical issues that will not let her get married

Every normal woman want to get married deep inside her.

Every woman feel
fulfilled once she's taken same way every man feel fulfilled once he hits good money.

crossfm:
Hehehe.

Motivational speaker .

She is married, don't take her advice too serious single ladies.

I know why am giving this advice, don't let Shiloh 2040 be your portion.

You probably didn't read her message, she's actually rooting for the singles.

Psoul:
Marriage is an achievement.

What overcoming financial financial limitations is to a man is same thing getting married is to a woman.

A man that has not made money feels like he has not really achieved anything. Same way, a woman that is not yet married, feels haven't achieved her purpose is bn here. Please, don't tell me about Western world.

Any woman that tells your that she doesn't want to marry is not normal. She may be mentally unstable, or may have bn in bad relationships that may have turned her thinking and feeling too become abnormal. She may also have some medical issues that will not let her get married

Every normal woman want to get married deep inside her.

Every woman feel
fulfilled once she's taken same way every man feel fulfilled once he hits good money.

You can only speak for your self

Money is not that important to every man
Just speak your own
Very few people HIT money
They work hard for it over many years
If You are hoping to hit You are dreaming

InvertedHammer:
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Marriage is an achievement. Those who thought otherwise always end up learning the hard way. As a human, it is psychologically defeating to realize that not a single soul find you worthy even as a discounted item.

But then...look who is talking---a married woman.

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Have you had the experience you are describing? How do you know if you Have ACHIEVED marriage

You simply cannot know

Only a dead person knows what it is like to die

Your reasoning is upside down

Women exist who have REFUSED offers to marry and Never marry.
They do not want children or marriage
They do not want what you want or think everyone must want.
If you have never met such you simply have not travelled enough.

People are different . Not everyone must be like you

Marriage is not always an achievement. Marriage is not the destination.
In African culture marriage without children is not an achievement,in fact children without marriage is better than marriage without children

Write it in as many languages available under the African sun, women will not listen. Maybe she’s not fulfilled in her marriage for now, hence her clear thinking. Once marriage sweet am, she go shout am for rooftop say she don achieve.

aribisala0:


You can only speak for your self

Money is not that important to every man
Just speak your own
Very few people HIT money
They work hard for it over many years
If You are hoping to hit You are dreaming

You know I dislike holding talk or argument with people that reason like bunch of fools.
Can you go through this silly trash you typed here as a comment and grade your brain if it worths anything. Stay away from argument that is beyond your loss IQ brain.

African women especially Nigerians left the group chatAfrican women especially Nigerians left the group chat...

But marriage is Honourable !!

the Bible said so, not the society!
the problem now is that the bed is defiled and that's what brought your confussion ni

MAAARIGE IS HONOURABLE AND THE BED UNDEFILED! rEAD YOUR bible .... tHE FOUNDER OF MARRIAGE PROVIDED THE MANNUAL, READ IT!!

wunmi590:


They keep preaching against marriage and they don't want to leave the institution or still want to get married.


Believe this people at your own peril...

Is this what you understood?

So says every prostitutte on the street

DyshApp:
Popular actress, Mary Remmy Njoku pens an open letter to married women worldwide as she speaks on why marriage isn’t an achievement.

She took to her Instagram page to chide married women who consider marriage as an achievement and pressure others to also get married.

Remmy Njoku stated that marriage isn’t what can be considered an achievement, but the marrying of the right partner.

She maintained that people must be allowed to take their time to choose the right partner and not placing them under pressure to get married.

She wrote:





https://www.instagram.com/p/C27YmGSoGlG/?igsh=bWN6b2ljdGxzcTQ1

for coming out loud promoting your single hood, I pray marriage locate you

Every right thinking person knows that marriage is not an achievement. You can go out and say am a landlord and people will clap. You can say I have PhD people will clap but go out there and say do you know am married, people will just hiss at u for being stupid.

Exceed15:
MARRIAGE is not an ACHIEVEMENT. It is a RESPONSIBILITY.

. She is Very Right But Many Pretenders would still Argue this ....Yes it is a Responsibility.

aribisala0:

Have you had the experience you are describing? How do you know if you Have ACHIEVED marriage

You simply cannot know

Only a dead person knows what it is like to die

Your reasoning is upside down

Women exist who have REFUSED offers to marry and Never marry.
They do not want children or marriage
They do not want what you want or think everyone must want.
If you have never met such you simply have not travelled enough.

People are different . Not everyone must be like you

Marriage is not always an achievement. Marriage is not the destination.
In African culture marriage without children is not an achievement,in fact children without marriage is better than marriage without children

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There is a reason outliers are not used as data points in a graph. English people understood and came up with the word "abnormal". Exceptions do not make the rules. Since no man is an island, the society still dictates how we live. No marriage, beastiality, marriage to inanimate objects are heavily frowned upon. You are free to believe what you want just as the society has the right to judge whichever way it deems fit.

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InvertedHammer:

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There is a reason outliers are not used as data points in a graph. English people understood and came up with the word "abnormal". Exceptions do not make the rules. Since no man is an island, the society still dictates how we live. No marriage, beastiality, marriage to inanimate objects are heavily frowned upon. You are free to believe what you want just as the society has the right to judge whichever way it deems fit.

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You are half clever
The graph is changing in front of your ignorant eyes and you are bleating about normal

Before you talk of graphs ,normal and data you must have data. Real data
People of this generation are not interested in marriage. That is the new normal