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No manual to relationship. Your points are good but a hoe will always be a hoe.

Jayzx:
No manual to relationship. Your points are good but a hoe will always be a hoe.

Of course.... hoe will be hoe.... He covered that too ...that some men make mistake of wifing women that are not wifable..

And it's the truth .......some people are beyond redemption and so damaged they even enjoy their damaged life, not seeking to change and use it to hurt others ....they have no business in marriage

They exist on the male side too...so it's no just a woman thing

advanceDNA:
Of course.... hoe will be hoe.... He covered that too ...that some men make mistake of wifing women that are not wifable..

And it's the truth .......some people are beyond redemption and so damaged they even enjoy their damaged life, not seeking to change and use it to hurt others ....they have no business in marriage

They exist on the male side too...so it's no just a woman thing

May God deliver us from Jezebel claiming saints. Ti marry sef dey fear person

advanceDNA:
Sadly that's not how Karma works in real life....
Fvcking around is an individual decision and not karma.....I've seen decent men marry whorîsh wife and good women marry community penîs.

Karma will not automatically turn his wife into a whóre if she chooses to live a sexually disciplined and decent life....

Who knows...Something else might happen to him because of his sexually indiscipline lifestyle.... But that his wife will automatically be fvcked by men is a truckload of bullshiit & fallacy....

Prostate cancer.

luminouz:
You have a point but OP made salient points that every man out there should take notes of

Yeah, he made salient points but in a blanket generalization manner.

ConfidentialDoc:
Prostate cancer.

prostate cancer??
Pple don't get prostate cancer because of having plenty sex... They get it because the penis has become dormant....i.e zero sex or not having enough sex ....

advanceDNA:
prostate cancer??
Pple don't get prostate cancer because of having plenty sex... They get it because the penis has become dormant....i.e zero sex or not having enough sex ....

Nope. Both.
Too much or too little are risk factors.
Check it again.

gaby:
Yeah, he made salient points but in a blanket generalization manner.

Well I thought as much. His points are valid but probably might not apply to every situation. May God save us from bad women

Jayzx:
Well I thought as much. His points are valid but probably might not apply to every situation. May God save us from bad women

Exactly, my point.

Some people are just who and what they are and it doesn't even have anything to do with a particular gender.

You'd agree with me when you thin about some natural words used to describe some conditions such as Nympho, klepto, etc.

In our climes, there are a lot of Nymphos, some of who went on to marry due to what society would say, and others are out there glamorizing or funkifying the true definition/name of what they do and call it "RUNs".

There are billionaire kids in this category too, so you understand what I mean.

ConfidentialDoc:
Nope. Both.
Too much or too little are risk factors.
Check it again.

Okay... how do u know he's having too many sex to develop prostate cancer...
Btw ..that's not a good punishment...even faithful men have prostate cancer...

I was expecting the OP to say something about HIS OWN GIRLFRIEND

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i'm sure he doesn't trust his own babe with the way he is fuckyn around with that of other guys

KingEarnest:
That's one problem with Nigerian men. They think money will solve all their issues with women.
If you like don't listen to the OP, hustle and make one billion dollars; without these knowledge, you may discover that one of your kids isn't yours but for one broke guy(with the knowledge) down your street.

You'll never escape woman problem. Rich smart or not...focus on yourself and leave things you can't control alone

advanceDNA:
Okay... how do u know he's having too many sex to develop prostate cancer...
Btw ..that's not a good punishment...even faithful men have prostate cancer...

Honestly OP sounds like a sexaholic.

The faithful men could have been sex starved and undersexed by their wives
Which is why a British urologist recommended that men can masturbate to decrease the risk of prostate cancer.

ConfidentialDoc:
Honestly OP sounds like a sexaholic.

The faithful men could have been sex starved and undersexed by their wives
Which is why a British urologist recommended that men can masturbate to decrease the risk of prostate cancer.

Are men not generally sexaholic by nature?

advanceDNA:
Are men not generally sexaholic by nature?

Some men are still discriminatory when it comes to sex.

Therock5555:
I get your point bro but you're actually accusing the op of something that he didn't do.

He never said he was dating any of the ladies, it's all about the sex and BTW they're both using themselves, the onus is on the non suspecting bf or hubby that thinks their relationship or marriages are still bed of roses.



What I realized is that, there's no template to handle a woman.

Give her all the good things of life, she'll still crave companionship, something you can barely afford since you're trying to give her a dream life.

Okay, be a broke ass but always available to her attentions and desires, she'll still crave for a life of flamboyance which your considerate ass cannot afford.


Then you'll ask yourself, what exactly do women want?


I won't give you the answer.....


If you stand at the op's POV, you'll know that being the odd man in any woman's life is the best position to be, problem is that, things get way complicated if you ever try to settle down.

This is the exact spot where I find myself right, too wise for my own good.

You aren't too wise for your own good if you choose not to settle down. You can reprocreate as that's our main priority in life as biological things. You might be coerced to marry due to religion though.

Rizzputin:
Once you realize that women LOVE sex and would do just about anything to get earth shattering orgasms, you'd start to see them in a more accurate light.

Before I dive in, I have to make it abundantly care to the moral police out there that my try to lecture me on the dos and don'ts of married women. Kindly put whatever advice you have in a folder called "Not important"

Because after all, concerning what you're about to read, the morals are not that important. If i didn't fùck them, someone else will.

So yes, for the past for years, people's serious girlfriends and "God fearing" wives have been graciously sucking my dìck with little to no remorse for their partners. They make a good percentage of women i have romantic affairs with

But I'm not here to boast but rather to inform you on some discoveries i made. Some are surprising. While others are shocking you might think you're reading something from a movie. You might know some of them already too.

If you've ever wondered why women cheat, this will explain a lot. And if you've ever wondered why i say men are usually at fault when women cheat you'll understand why too.

So let's look at some insights I've discovered. I wanted to separate them into different categories, (you'll get why once you continue reading) But no time for that.
So we'll just have to go with what we have


● Boring men finish last. If I could pick one recurring theme why these women cheated, it's due to lack of passion. Somehow, the fire and spark ran out.

Their bfs and hubbys stopped performing and being the man they used to be. They stopped showing attention and affection. Stopped being exciting & adventurous. And that's all that was needed for the devil to steer their direction into my arms.

The amount of clueless men are rising. And they're everywhere. From the red pill to blue pill to purple pill. Men don't seem to understand that if you want your woman's devotion, you have to be someone worth devoting to.

In fact, i have come up with a theory: Give any new relationship 4 months, 7 months, 2 years and 5 -7 years checkpoints and the girls would cheat. These are the time lines when men on average tend to start slacking

It's always funny when these women complain about how their relationship is boring. Or how they wish their husband was loving like me.

You might be tempted to say "why can't she communicate with him?" You'd surprised how many have. But trust most men with their over bloated egos. That they can't see when their ship is sinking cuz their ego blinds them

● Picking the wrong woman. No matter your game or money or charms or looks, it won't save you from the wrong woman

Wrong women come in different forms: maybe she's not compatible with you or you both argue a lot. But that's not the kind of woman I'm referring to

Im referring to women that are too damaged to be wife or gf materials. I don't believe in degrading women so I won't call them hòes. But you get the idea... some girls are just to far gone to be saved.

The problem is this women often bring the sweetest vibe, sex, chemistry and conversations. They are experts at playing the feminine submissive role. After all, they've been in that position so many times... they've mastered the art of pretending.

Sometimes after fùcking or vibing with someone's gf or wife, i spot so many red flags i wonder who is the clown that wifed her up.


●Manipulation Tactic 1: Opening up.

Some time last year i went to a girl's house for Netflix & chill. I brought pop corn and a bottle of coke for two of us.

Her bf called soon after and they were just vibing. Then she decided to "open up" And tell him that a guy brought pop corn for her. They talked briefly about that: You know the usual who is he bla bla

Once they were done, few minutes later... we were passionately kissing each other and then i was pounding her fat ass (her ass was fùcking fat)

I've noticed a lot of clown men fall for this. Because their gf told them about a guy, then surely she's loyal.

Well let me make it clear unless it was something really funny or embarrassing if she's telling about a guy toasting her, you can be 99% sure she will fùck him or already has. If she tells you about a guy "disturbing" her and then asks what should she do, make it 99.99% that's she's fùcking him

A really loyal girl would not entertain such things. Or start asking you what should she do. Unless the guy is harassing her. And even then, it could still be a lie

The next point will help you make a better decision


●Your intuition is your best friend: Trust your gut

Sure, sometimes guys have trust issues or are unnecessarily paranoid. But your gut feeling would hardly ever lie to you.

Case in point: a girl and i passed her bf's house to a hotel. While i was kissing & fingering her, his call came in

Of course, i applied pressure. She could barely talk and as the words came out she let out soft moans. Girls love this by the way. She cut the call because it was getting to intense. But she picked it again. This time, her bf, suspecting something was off, requested a video call. He said the place she's at is echoing

She declined and said she's on the road so she cant do it.Lol. And then proceeded to get angry that why would he suspect her.

The bf started apologising and saying he trusts her but that he just wanted to be sure. They both ended everything on good terms. The guy posted her that night with "my forever" lmao

If your gut is hinting at something, most likely a good idea to confirm


● when men don't have boundaries

One delusional mindset men have is that once they find a "good girl" then everything has set.

Well here's something for you. Every girl will test you and if you fail, even if she's good... she'll be tempted to get smashed if you don't bring her back in line

Women generally have this self destruct mentality. That is, if you dont guide and lead them with a firm but caring & genuine hand... she'll ruin herself, you and the entire relationship.

Another case in point: A guy had a good gf. But his gf had a childhood friend that was more of a baddie. She was throwing a birthday party. The theme from the fliers and all was screaming naughty. And you bet it was.

Now i know the guy and the girl told him about the party... and rather than telling her not to go because it was an all night event and the nature of the party, he agreed to let her go

She came to the party... got turned on by the unending display of dìvks and her friend that encouraged her to have fun... and me and another guy ended up railing her that night.

Of course, me and the bf are not friends so he'll know nothing about that night from me. But whether he realizes it or not, that night has changed their relationship

And he could have been prevented by saying no. Probably he didn't want to offend her. But you shouldn't have a problem offending your girl in the interest of you, her and the relationship

Creating & maintaining boundaries is crucial for a working relationship


●Being too controlling

I know i just told you to have boundaries. But the goal is to be in control but not to be controlling

Unnecessary red pill toughness, too much check mating will just make her feel trapped rather than safe in the relationship.

And as humans, once she feels trapped, she starts craving freedom & adventures.

You have to find a balance. Too much of everything is bad. Including control. You want her to feel safe but not too safe. You dont want her to feel "trapped"

A common word I've heard with girls that have controlling bfs. She might put it up with it for a while till she finds an opportunity to let loose.


● Fùck her well

This one needs no further explanation. If you're NOT fùcking her well, there is lack of sexual compatibility and things will end sooner or later


●Buying affection, love

Never start a relationship based on money. It will end.

There's a saying, the more you spend on a wedding, the weaker the marriage.

Strong beautiful relationships are built on love, passion, emotional connection, communication, lust and good sex. Money helps but it should never be your starting point or your foundation

Unless your aim is just to be fùcking. But for long term relationships the deeper stuffs matter more than superficial materialism

Anyways, that's it. Feel free to reflect on them and see ways you can improve your overall lifestyle

You are wasting your energy, time and life on unimportant things and at the same time sounded proud of yourself.

Wonders shall never end.

CoronaVirusPro:
Poor people love sex too much


Fvcked 50+ but won’t have 50 million Naira in his account!

That's their only means to happiness & At That Moment ... They are as Equal as the Richest man in the world....

Let the poor breathe & don't take away their little joys as small as some Fvcks ... !

Jayzx:
No manual to relationship. Your points are good but a hoe will always be a hoe.

No manual. But there are best practices