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My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 5:14pm On Feb 13
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Acidosis(m): 5:21pm On Feb 13
You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by foxxydude: 5:25pm On Feb 13
She may have also been hypnotized

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 5:25pm On Feb 13
Acidosis:

You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).

She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 5:26pm On Feb 13
foxxydude:
She may have also been hypnotized


Can such a thing last for years

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Acidosis(m): 5:28pm On Feb 13
KingintheNorth:


She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.

Then forcefully get her phone and request her account statement. Go through her transactions, you'll find the answer you seek.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Nonexisting: 5:31pm On Feb 13
Put a scammer alert on her phone number, report her BVN and NIN for identity theft, no agency will lend her money ever again. Problem solved.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 5:36pm On Feb 13
Nonexisting:
Put a scammer alert on her phone number, report her BVN and NIN for identity theft, no agency will lend her money ever again. Problem solved.


Isn't this too harsh??

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Wealthoptulent(m): 5:41pm On Feb 13
KingintheNorth:



Isn't this too harsh??
the DEBT no be potashium too, u come dey say HARSH, continue paying DEBT... abi she dey play SPORTTY with zero surety

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Nonexisting: 5:43pm On Feb 13
KingintheNorth:



Isn't this too harsh??
No measure will be too harsh to stop your mother with limited future from destroying you with unlimited future.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 5:45pm On Feb 13
Wealthoptulent:

the DEBT no be potashium too, u come dey say HARSH, continue paying DEBT... abi she dey play SPORTTY with zero surety


Lol...she can't be involved in sport betting.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 5:46pm On Feb 13
Nonexisting:
No measure will be too harsh to stop your mother with limited future from destroying you with unlimited future.


I guess you are right .

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by TheFreshVanilla: 5:52pm On Feb 13
Another stupiid fake story.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 5:56pm On Feb 13
TheFreshVanilla:
Another stupiid fake story.

It's not fake bro, it's a real life situation.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by SouthSouth1914: 6:43pm On Feb 13
Acidosis:

You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).

False prophet who he deceived her with the life of her son at stake!

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Blitzking: 6:58pm On Feb 13
KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.
Which kind mama be this...would av tot she is using the money to train his siblings but na sister he get.
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Gadafii: 7:05pm On Feb 13
Demand for her account statements for a year and see what she spends money on or who she sends money to, this will help a bit

However I will suggest you stop paying the loan sharks once she defaulted for a long time they wil blacklist her and can’t take loans anymore

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by KingintheNorth(m): 7:17pm On Feb 13
Gadafii:
Demand for her account statements for a year and see what she spends money on or who she sends money to, this will help a bit

However I will suggest you stop paying the loan sharks once she defaulted for a long time they wil blacklist her and can’t take loans anymore


That has been done secretly..but there's only cash withdrawals no transfers to any number.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Karleb(m): 7:18pm On Feb 13
Don't pay.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by foxxydude: 7:33pm On Feb 13
KingintheNorth:



Can such a thing last for years
Hypnosis can last a lifetime

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by DyingFetus: 7:40pm On Feb 13
Give me her number and I'll help you locate the problem

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Switinthemiddle(m): 7:50pm On Feb 13
Does she attend parties a lot or these women meetings and is she into politics. Also try and do dna test for those kids
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by gaby(m): 8:09pm On Feb 13
He should continue paying her loans. Indulging and reinforcing her borrowing like our government is a very good way to love his mother.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Streetmovement(m): 8:14pm On Feb 13
Wotoporiously cool speaking

No parents of mine will try this rubbish cuz I'm not going to pay shishi, yes you can call me wicked but truth is i can't die by my respect when I'm not foolish.

People need to stop putting people in unnecessary problems irrespective of who they're to the person, mistakes like this can ruin a nigga for life if not handled properly.

Damn!!

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Sonnobax15(m): 8:39pm On Feb 13
Acidosis:

You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).
. Guy you too get sense.....I swear you just took the words out of my mouth and brain cheesy

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:09pm On Feb 13
Take her into your custody for some time to identify the reason why she has been borrowing money and how she spent it

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by candygist: 9:10pm On Feb 13
Acidosis:

You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).

Exactly bro, your read my mind....
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by oglalasioux(m): 9:22pm On Feb 13
KingintheNorth:


She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.

It's most likely a 'man of God' who is also sleeping with her. It won't be far from that. Women fear their pastors more than they fear God.

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Anguldi(m): 9:26pm On Feb 13
Acidosis:

You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).
Gbammm, man wey Sabi cheesy you know as the matter dey evolve wink

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by Bammy2002(m): 9:29pm On Feb 13
You abandon your mother and you can't continue paying for the loan debt incurred.

My broda you need to invite the family members on this matter for you to know [b][/b]where and How the money is been spent.

I feel your pain bro embarassed undecided embarassed

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Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by rexesq(m): 5:45am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:


She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.

Them 1 and 3 are likely the cause
Re: My Mother Wants To Throw Me Into Bankruptcy by rexesq(m): 5:49am On Feb 14
KingintheNorth:


It's not fake bro, it's a real life situation.
If not fake why countering all suggestions? You want the thread to grow?

Pls, moderators, close this already!

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