STEWpid:



Chai..


I still insist you need immediate medical attention.


You will record 1 million gender-mixed hostels before you count one single gender hostel.


Please, tell the doctor to also inject you with drugs that will make you sleep. You really need it!!

Your moniker says it all.
You looked into the mirror and thoroughly assess yourself and took a befitting name for yourself ....STUPID.
That's what you truly are.
You chose your name very correctly.
That's the most reasonable thing you have ever done in your life.
Kudos.

Gerrard59:


Na the research theme I wan study when my money plenty. 2 our 3 Igbo women are bitter feminists and I am willing to bet, the majority of lesbians/bisexual women in Nigeria are Igbos.

Wahala for man wey marry 21st century Igbo woman.

I swear guy....they are d most championing toxic feminism in this country...the hate in them is too much

if u read wat these ladies say online, u will pity fr their boyfriends or husbands

Maxxim:

I was having a conversation with an igbo man, he's older than I am, and I reasoned with his point.
He said one of the factors is exposure to education at an early age for the ladies meanwhile the men on the other side are often expected to travel out to the city to hustle, leaving the women with an advantage over the men in terms of education, at the end of the day the men after making it comes back to pick a wife and the both parties doesn't interest each other anymore sighting the imbalance between them, so the dude looks for a feminine young lady to marry and sponsor.

Yeah, that is one of the reasons being peddled largely because of limited economic resources resulting from the Civil War. It is happening in the West (abroad) too. Another reason for Igbos' own is the adoption of the Western version of Christianity and its corresponding values, both good and bad. Western values promote freedom of thought, speech and ideas. The complete adoption of those values without factoring in cultural differences is a recipe for disaster.

I don't know if you notice this has been happening here in the west too, the parents spends ridiculous fees to sponsor their female children to school whereas the male counterpart is on the street hustling his life some even ended up becoming nuisances and at the end of the day the lady won't want to marry down and ended up becoming one bitter feminist. In some case, the parents finds a partner for their kids through blind dates and after having more than one kid they divorce cos the lady is claiming the role of an alpha.

The "West" here, is it North America&Europe or South West Nigeria?

Yes,I am

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Are you schooling In UNIZIK AWKA, if yes, get back to us

CharleyBright:


Your moniker says it all.
You looked into the mirror and thoroughly assess yourself and took a befitting name for yourself ....STUPID.
That's what you truly are.
You chose your name very correctly.
That's the most reasonable thing you have ever done in your life.
Kudos.

There's a clear difference between STUPID and STEWpid.


Who do you this thing??




Chai..

Fine girl with an ugly heart.

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Warning - Disturbing Photos

A 200-level student of the Nnamdi Azikiwe University in Awka, identified simply as Chioma, has allegedly poured hot water on the president of her hostel, Mark, a third year Agricultural Economics student.

It was gathered that the incident occurred on Saturday, February 17, 2024, at Twins Fall Lodge in Ifite-Awka following a disagreement between both of them over hostel cleaning.

Details of the incident are still sketchy at the time of filing this report but it was learnt that Chioma allegedly stabbed Mark in the process leading to him being taken to a local hospital for medical attention.

A Second Year Student Of Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Awka, who was identified as Chioma, has allegedly poured hot water on the president of her hostel, who was identified as Mark.

A Facebook Source, Valentine Mbadugha said the female student also stabbed mark.

The disagreement between both students was said to have started over sanitation on school hostel where both of them habited, where Mark was said to be the hostel president.

The Incident occurred on Saturday, 17th February 2024, at Twins Fall Lodge, Ifite-Awka.

Chioma was said to have reacted violently when Mark reminded him of her duty to join others in ensuring that the hostel was kept clean.

Though details of the attack is still sketchy, Mbadugha said Mark had been taken to a local hospital for medical attention.

The State Police Command’s Spokesperson, DSP Tochukwu Ikenga could not confirm this as at the time of filing this report.

Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/2/unizik-female-student-allegedly-baths-colleague-with-hot-water-over-hostel-cleaning-2.html

see wife material o🤣🤣

STEWpid:




There's a clear difference between STUPID and STEWpid.


Who do you this thing??




Chai..

You mean same way there is a difference between slowpoke and M0rOn abi?
Continue to fool yourself.
Self acclaimed Stupid clown.

Gerrard59:


Yeah, that is one of the reasons being peddled largely because of limited economic resources resulting from the Civil War. It is happening in the West (abroad) too. Another reason for Igbos' own is the adoption of the Western version of Christianity and its corresponding values, both good and bad. Western values promote freedom of thought, speech and ideas. The complete adoption of those values without factoring in cultural differences is a recipe for disaster.

That's true

The "West" here, is it North America&Europe or South West Nigeria?

South west I mean

CharleyBright:


You mean same way there is a difference between slowpoke and M0rOn abi?
Continue to fool yourself.
Self acclaimed Stupid clown.

Chai..


E pain am!

Delicious22:
Why are you bringing your frustrated mother's misfortune to Nairaland

another unfortunate single moma product spotted.

There is more to this.

May be Chioma dey eye Mr president gbola and Mr president no won give Chioma chop.

Seeing other girls arounf Mr president makes Chioma to be jlos.

Maxxim:


South west I mean

Interesting. I never knew it is brewing in the west as well. Well, Islam will tame it down. Western civilisation is incompatible with Islamic civilisation. And so far, that is the only ideology I see that can withstand the incursion of Western ideas into its circle. Indian and Chinese civilisation can be penetrable (examples abound), but so far, Islamic civilisations haven't, and certainly not the ones in Africa.

But to be balanced, it is not just the southwest that is reeling from the effects of educating the female child over the male child. I wrote about it in detail here: https://www.nairaland.com/7990643/marry-beautiful-nigerian-women-uk/4#128293405

So, does this mean that there is a rise in divorce cases amongst educated women whose husbands aren't as educated as they are (women)? Also, if you note the cultural differences between the East and West, parents go ahead with blind dates for their children; I doubt that is possible with Eastern women, especially as the children are scattered across the country more than women from the southwest. For instance, there are more Igbos in the southwest than Yorubas in the east (both genders). So, maintaining control isn't that easy.

Which brings me to another research question: Which ethnic groups in Nigeria have the highest number of unmarried women above 30? And what could the reasons be? Nigerian ethnic groups with the highest rate of single mothers? Why? What are the factors?

_{My money needs to plenty. So many questions to be asked.}

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Gerrard59:


Interesting. I never knew it is brewing in the west as well. Well, Islam will tame it down. Western civilisation is incompatible with Islamic civilisation. And so far, that is the only ideology I see that can withstand the incursion of Western ideas into its circle. Indian and Chinese civilisation can be penetrable (examples abound), but so far, Islamic civilisations haven't, and certainly not the ones in Africa.

Yes the southwest would have been infiltrated with the feminist ideology if there have been no islamic presence. I agree the religion has a positive remarks on this.
Most educated parents has this sense of believe that their daughters are entitled to marry someone with higher level of education, even without no job o they believe miracles will happen somedays. Compared to someone with lower educational background and a trade skill already making a life for emself they'll choose the former.
If they ended up choosing you as a skilled labor/ trades man then you've agreed to step up your education qualifications.

But to be balanced, it is not just the southwest that is reeling from the effects of educating the female child over the male child. I wrote about it in detail here: https://www.nairaland.com/7990643/marry-beautiful-nigerian-women-uk/4#128293405

Hmmn the write up is so insightful, I wonder how the world will look like few years to come when this ideology finally gets accepted amongst most countries.

So, does this mean that there is a rise in divorce cases amongst educated women whose husbands aren't as educated as they are (women)? Also, if you note the cultural differences between the East and West, parents go ahead with blind dates for their children; I doubt that is possible with Eastern women, especially as the children are scattered across the country more than women from the southwest. For instance, there are more Igbos in the southwest than Yorubas in the east (both genders). So, maintaining control isn't that easy.

Some houses have became divided and both couples divorced but those avoiding social backlash ended up living in same house as strangers.
In some cases the husband ends up submitting to the wife cos she's earning more.
Other times it becomes some kind of competition whereby the the wife secures properties without the husband knowledge.

This are my observation around most places in lagos which is just one part in the southwest, in context when i mention the southwest.

Which brings me to another research question: Which ethnic groups in Nigeria have the highest number of unmarried women above 30? And what could the reasons be? Nigerian ethnic groups with the highest rate of single mothers? Why? What are the factors?

_{My money needs to plenty. So many questions to be asked.}

Looking forward to when you get your research done

Maxxim:


Most educated parents has this sense of believe that their daughters are entitled to marry someone with higher level of education, even without no job o they believe miracles will happen somedays. Compared to someone with lower educational background and a trade skill already making a life for emself they'll choose the former.
If they ended up choosing you as a skilled labor/ trades man then you've agreed to step up your education qualifications.

To be fair to those parents, it is women's nature. Just as I explained in the link I mentioned, women are hypergamous (a global phenomenon), and as their education and earning capabilities soar, so do their aspirations. Even for men, it is the same. Beauty isn't just a factor these days, but a woman's educational qualifications and earning capability (even though most men aren't necessarily interested in a woman's money). So, times have changed, but women have maintained their hypergamy steadfastly. The issue for women and policymakers (as referenced in that link) is that there are fewer men who have the profile that these women desire. This is why even though there are more men than women anywhere in the world, there are more marriageable women than marriageable men.

Hmmn the write up is so insightful, I wonder how the world will look like few years to come when this ideology finally gets accepted amongst most countries.

Only Islamic countries would be able to withstand it. The women empowerment movement has sailed and the world isn't returning to the '60s. Women sef no go gree. But what I presage is an abundance of single women in advanced ages, men deliberately being single, a significant proportion of the population having children outside marriage, a rise in divorce cases, alternative marriage arrangements etc. The West (North America & Europe) are already there. Na for parts of Asia, Africa and other parts of the world to catch up. It is inevitable.

Some houses have became divided and both couples divorced but those avoiding social backlash ended up living in same house as strangers.
In some cases the husband ends up submitting to the wife cos she's earning more.
Other times it becomes some kind of competition whereby the the wife secures properties without the husband knowledge.

This are my observation around most places in lagos which is just one part in the southwest, in context when i mention the southwest.

No wonder. Lagos is an anomaly (not a bad meaning) in this analysis as it is cosmopolitan. So, Yoruba women there will adopt values different from their kith elsewhere in the region. It is the same with Igbo women. Those based in Lagos and Abuja differ from those in the East. People in cosmopolitan areas tend to be more opinionated (largely because of the financial power) and liberal. Sometimes, they tend to be aggressive because of the fierce competition for scarce resources. A way to check for this is to compare educated women working in civil service in, say, Ekiti vs those in Lagos. There would be differences. Islam on its own already tames feminism, so we focus on Yoruba Christians.

Looking forward to when you get your research done

Thanks. I would advertise it on Nairaland. It is my form of philanthropy because there are many unanswered questions we have as a country and people. Too many I no fit lie give you, dem tell me say and trust me bro sources of information. By answering these questions logically, we know where we are coming from, where we are and where we are going.

Gerrard59:


To be fair to those parents, it is women's nature. Just as I explained in the link I mentioned, women are hypergamous (a global phenomenon), and as their education and earning capabilities soar, so do their aspirations. Even for men, it is the same. Beauty isn't just a factor these days, but a woman's educational qualifications and earning capability (even though most men aren't necessarily interested in a woman's money). So, times have changed, but women have maintained their hypergamy steadfastly. The issue for women and policymakers (as referenced in that link) is that there are fewer men who have the profile that these women desire. This is why even though there are more men than women anywhere in the world, there are more marriageable women than marriageable men.



Only Islamic countries would be able to withstand it. The women empowerment movement has sailed and the world isn't returning to the '60s. Women sef no go gree. But what I presage is an abundance of single women in advanced ages, men deliberately being single, a significant proportion of the population having children outside marriage, a rise in divorce cases, alternative marriage arrangements etc. The West (North America & Europe) are already there. Na for parts of Asia, Africa and other parts of the world to catch up. It is inevitable.



No wonder. Lagos is an anomaly (not a bad meaning) in this analysis as it is cosmopolitan. So, Yoruba women there will adopt values different from their kith elsewhere in the region. It is the same with Igbo women. Those based in Lagos and Abuja differ from those in the East. People in cosmopolitan areas tend to be more opinionated (largely because of the financial power) and liberal. Sometimes, they tend to be aggressive because of the fierce competition for scarce resources. A way to check for this is to compare educated women working in civil service in, say, Ekiti vs those in Lagos. There would be differences. Islam on its own already tames feminism, so we focus on Yoruba Christians.



Thanks. I would advertise it on Nairaland. It is my form of philanthropy because there are many unanswered questions we have as a country and people. Too many I no fit lie give you, dem tell me say and trust me bro sources of information. By answering these questions logically, we know where we are coming from, where we are and where we are going.

Facts, can't agree less!

Thislifee:
Tell her that if I was the guy I would pour her acid, I nearly poured a girl acid in my lodge then at 500 level for slapping me on the heat of a discussion. I bought the acid a lotnd was ready to pour her that at night but suddenly she came around 4pm or so to apologize to me then for insulting me last few months because I kept malice with her. The apology just weaked me because I took my hard earned money to buy this acid and I wanted to do it in a way that nobody would notice. We medical students are the deadliest if we want to deal with someone, I wanted to earlier give her overdose injections or medicine but since we were keeping malice then it wasn't possible. She apologized that evening. I forgave her and poured the acid away later she started giving me sex on a steady. After my graduation and becoming a medical doctor, she already got married, if not I wanted to marry her. See how I fell in love with her, the person I once hated. People should learn to control their anger.

Acid and anger management. That's deep, really deep.

Konquest:

Acid and anger management. That's deep, really deep.

Honestly, I am really working hard on how to control my anger.

Thislifee:
Honestly, I am really working hard on how to control my anger.

As a medical doc, that should be easy for you because of your exposure to aspects of human psychology.

You can get a good book on Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. That's one of the many books I have in my home library.

Emotional Intelligence would enable a person to emphathize with people, deal with anger situations, and understand why people react in certain ways due to external stimuli or influences. In the meantime, you can check online at PDFDRIVE for a free PDF copy of the book to read on your mobile device before buying the hardcopy version online or from a bookstore. Just type in the book title in the PDFDRIVE Website's search bar.

All the best.

Konquest:

As a medical doc, that should be easy for you because of your exposure to aspects of human psychology.

You can get a good book on Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. That's one of the many books I have in my home library.

Emotional Intelligence would enable a person to emphathize with people, deal with anger situations, and understand why people react in certain ways due to external stimuli or influences. In the meantime, you can check online at PDFDRIVE for a free PDF copy of the book to read on your mobile device before buying the hardcopy version online or from a bookstore. Just type in the book title in the PDFDRIVE Website's search bar.

All the best.

Honestly the other day at work, I had a nagging patient and I angrily told her to go home and nag her husband not me! It was my colleague that signalled me to calm down. I would read this book if it would help me to work on my violent anger issues.

Thislifee:
Honestly the other day at work, I had a nagging patient and I angrily told her to go home and nag her husband not me! It was my colleague that signalled me to calm down. I would read this book if it would help me to work on my violent anger issues.

@The bolded.

Lol... That cracked me up. It's indeed good to work on one's emotional triggers so as to be in harmony with others and NOT lose one's medical practice license. I used to have some anger issues back in the days as well that were triggered by some subconscious triggers, and got impatient with folks who did not keep to time and more. Time management can also help one to prioritize the daily to-do activities and help to reduce tensions which can trigger anger.

Just to add to my last post, you can also search for Emotional Intelligence presentations on YouTube. Some folks find it easier to assimilate audio visual presentations on DVDs or YouTube.

tiswell:
another unfortunate single moma product spotted.

Bastard fool, your mama dey here dey collect prick