Xosh:
Damn this thread is lit.

it is ? That’s good 😄

sukkot:
lmao Ishi yes abberations 😆 . In medical texts it’s 27.3

Don't call a woman's normal cycle an 'aberration'. It is quite demeaning

Ishilove:

Don't call a woman's normal cycle an 'aberration'. It is quite demeaning

not the cycle itself. The cycle is perfectly normal

Klass99:


Why does that surprise you? You assumed such intelligence could only be from a bro, right? Your yeye dey boom sha

😄absolutely has nothing to do with intelligence. The name just sounds masculine. Like feminine names like Pocahontas mariahangel klass99 ishilove etc etc. those sound feminine right ? Mindlog sounds like something a guy would come up with

Klass99:


Yes I did, but don't mind that poster joor. I don't understand why people get shocked about this. I typed the posts in the first place, am I not allowed to wipe, delete or pull them down?

Once a thread is old, a conversation is over for me, or the folks I engage with have seen and read my comment, I clean house.

oh ok lol it’s good practice especially if you think your views compromise what your perception of what you want people to have of you. I am thinking about deleting the portion where I was talking about big dicks only because I don’t want people to think I am some weird pervert. But in reality that conversation is inspired by an astrological body currently in the zodiac house of Pisces called PRIAPUS. It is depicted as a man with a huge erect phallus. It’s a Greek god. Not sure why it’s present in the zodiac but there you have it. Someone had talked with me earlier about it

crackhaus:

Every time I read something like this, I automatically assume something must be wrong with either one of them, and I just don't mean medically.

Cos all things being equal (healthy & fertile), there's no way the woman in this scenario won't get pregnant at least once. Then what happens?

She gets rid of it? Okay

Which then circles back to what Jman06 asked, what is the point?
Why marry at all?

If companionship is the goal, then get it outside the institution of marriage...this is the better arrangement.

And YES, one of the main purposes of marriage is procreation. No amount of jibber-jabber or gobbledygook will change that.

Crackhaus this is 2024 abeg rest from this your pretentious, sanctimonious, bullshit and be real.

I vividly recall that you engaged me in the past about this issue of not wanting kids and being childfree, with one of your alternate monikers which I can't accurately remember, but Uyai publicly pointed out that you were the owner of that moniker and you didn't deny it.

You asked questions and even insinuated some kind of childhood trauma or medical disability on my part which led to such a life choice. All of which I answered no to, maintaining that a lack of desire and zero interest in being a mother/parent, were my motivating factors.

You conceded at some point and said you couldn't understand it. Whether you recall that conversation or not, I do, as if it was yesterday. Yet, here you are again casting aspersions on folks like me who don't want children. Insinuating again that it may be some sort of medical or health challenge, or in your words, you automatically assume something is wrong with such people.

Why is it so hard for folks like you to accept that people are wired differently and we all want different things in this life? There are essentially three purposes of marriage;

1. Companionship
2. Sex and then.....
3. Procreation/children.

A person can want marriage for three of those reasons above, just two or only one of them. You asked, why marry at all if you don't want children? I want marriage for the sex and companionship only, sex and companionship on a platform heaven will approve of and I won't be fornicating or sinning.

The live-in lovers lifestyle you suggested is not the better option or the way everyone wants to roll, for the sake of companionship. You are a believer, aren't you? I expect you to know better.

Additionally.......marriage and children are life choices, not mandatory goals or achievements we all have to meet, in order to unlock happiness or the adult phase of our lives. There is no rule or law that says you must marry for children!

I know married couples who are childfree as a matter of choice, there is nothing medically or spiritually wrong with them. Abeg rest! What was the point of engaging and drilling me with questions back then, only to return now, with the same assumptions and insinuations as before?

You don't need to understand "childfree by choice" folks, but respect that as humans we have free will and the power of choice given to us by the creator himself. And some of us are exercising both free will and power choice, by intentionally and deliberately, choosing to not have children. Our choice does not harm or affect others. We must not want the same things you do.

sukkot:
hmmm yeah to each his own. At the end of the day though spirituality over physicality. Find someone you are spiritually compatible with. Not religion oooo. Just someone you vibe with on a higher level. Someone with intelligence who knows we are more than our flesh. But that’s just a side bar cuz we like what we like

Cool, I totally get you & I will not say you're wrong at all.

But personally, all of this in my experience have proven to be inconsequential whether that union will work or not. What has worked so far are two people who respect each other, are willing to improve and apologise for wrong doings and Fvcking settle.

sukkot:
oh ok lol it’s good practice especially if you think your views compromise what your perception of what you want people to have of you. I am thinking about deleting the portion where I was talking about big dicks only because I don’t want people to think I am some weird pervert. But in reality that conversation is inspired by an astrological body currently in the zodiac house of Pisces called PRIAPUS. It is depicted as a man with a huge erect phallus. It’s a Greek god. Not sure why it’s present in the zodiac but there you have it. Someone had
talked with me earlier about it

At the bolded, I delete because people who know me in real life can read some of my posts and figure out this is Klass99, if they are really paying attention.

I also delete because there are a number of vicious trolls on these streets who weave a believable web of lies from your posts, aimed at publicly insulting and humiliating you.

You see this topic and issue of being childfree bah? I have been vocal about it here and people who are familiar with my posts, know I am not interested in having kids of my own. Two guys on this platform twisted the narrative several times, claiming that through abortions I damaged my womb and I can't have children.

One claimed that he knew me with my old moniker from years back when I was aborting babies and being advised against by other forum users. Each time he was asked to name my old moniker and I would do the same to verify his claims, he would hem and haw, then claim that I deactivated it.

The other guy is a self confessed baby daddy of three, from three different women. He also began a smear campaign of his own along the same narrative of abortions and damaged womb, after I ignored his DM and public request for us to talk off the forum. I ignored his request because my first encounter with him ever, he insulted me and another female user, without cause, provocation or justification.

At the time he was making requests to chat privately, I didn't even know he was a baby daddy of 3, that came out much later, but you see, it was his rude and disrespectful attitude, that put me off enough to decide that I didn't want to deal or engage with him beyond NL.

When the guy started coming after me, then revealed that he had 3 kids from 3 different women, I thought to myself, that who people are online is a strong indicator of what they are really like in real life.

Klass99:


Yeah right! You think these monikers are feminine sounding only because we represent as females with the (f) indicator beside our usernames. Does Kobo.junkie sound feminine or masculine?

Even though some bits of trail have been left behind, It's difficult to draw a verdict on kobo's gender. They do a good job of masking that. However, some topics stir them up more than others. That makes me believe they lean more towards the Venus side than towards Mars or the Sun.



And, yep..your boy is a chronic pervert... but in a good way.

Klass99:


Tosin the day I saw this post I wasn't in the mood to type and engage back because of physical exhaustion but today I am.

If you have a big diick please take all the pride in your tool as you want there's no shame in that. But understand that for marjority of women penetrative sex with your big diick will not get us to cum.

There's simply no contact or pressure on the clitoris when you are inside us and the clitoris is how you get most women to cum. Some of us pretend we've climaxed from penetrative sex just so we can get you guys to hurry up and cum, stop straffing and bruising us in the process. All because you want to prove that your big diicks can make us climax. In a bid to not bruise your egos we pretend that we've cum.


I don't know what the generalisation was in that particular post BUT I never denied that big diicks are a pleasure to look at, hold or play with. They're are a pleasure but they simply do not provide enough pleasure to get us to climax. The best sex I've ever had was with a man who had a small to medium sized diick. I still think of him fondly NOT because of the size of his diick but how much pleasure he gave me, in and out of bed.

Sukkot you will need to pull down this thread at some point.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 phewwwwww you going in Klass 👀

Klass99:


Yeah right! You think these monikers are feminine sounding only because we represent as females with the (f) indicator beside our usernames. Does Kobo.junkie sound feminine or masculine?

kobojunkie sounds like the name of a hermaphrodite 😆

Klass99:
@ Sukkot, don't delete the portion about big diicks, that was an adult and authentic conversation.

I think as men and women we need to be more open about these things, sort of like a sex education, where we are educating ourselves, on what works or doesn't work for each gender, instead of working with the assumptions in our heads.

I deleted my own posts on the big diick conversation because;

1. I've fallen into the habit of deleting posts as explained above.

2. I didn't want that detracting from or derailing the thread's main topic, you see as k.kins was quick to quote that portion of my post, proceeding to talk about the images it gave him.

I don't know what it is with you men and sex , but I wasn't thinking you or k.kins are perverts, far from it. Do you have to bring this your astrology mumbo jumbo into the conversation? Abeg leave the zodiac signs and greek gods with big phallus alone, let's talk reality.

hehe aitttttt I would live it alone and astrology is not Mumbo jumbo cuz even you admitted I was spot on in decoding you but yeah I do agree we need these open and healthy conversations as opposed to dancing around them and operating on guess work. Like what do women really want ? What turns them on ? Carnally speaking of course, would it not be perfect to have 10 men and 10 women get naked and then they say ok go and choose what you like . This way you are getting what you like upfront . Would that not be ideal ? Carnally speaking of course. No element of surprise

tosinhtml:


Cool, I totally get you & I will not say you're wrong at all.

But personally, all of this in my experience have proven to be inconsequential whether that union will work or not. What has worked so far are two people who respect each other, are willing to improve and apologise for wrong doings and Fvcking settle.

I totally agree, be ductile and malleable, check your ego at the door and respect yourself and your partner. That’s the perfect solution . You can only get so far with love and attraction.

Klass99:


At the bolded, I delete because people who know me in real life can read some of my posts and figure out this is Klass99, if they are really paying attention.

I also delete because there are a number of vicious trolls on these streets who weave a believable web of lies from your posts, aimed at publicly insulting and humiliating you.

You see this topic and issue of being childfree bah? I have been vocal about it here and people who are familiar with my posts, know I am not interested in having kids of my own. Two guys on this platform twisted the narrative several times, claiming that through abortions I damaged my womb and I can't have children.

One claimed that he knew me with my old moniker from years back when I was aborting babies and being advised against by other forum users. Each time he was asked to name my old moniker and I would do the same to verify his claims, he would hem and haw, then claim that I deactivated it.

The other guy is a self confessed baby daddy of three, from three different women. He also began a smear campaign of his own along the same narrative of abortions and damaged womb, after I ignored his DM and public request for us to talk off the forum. I ignored his request because my first encounter with him ever, he insulted me and another female user, without cause, provocation or justification.

At the time he was making requests to chat privately, I didn't even know he was a baby daddy of 3, that came out much later, but you see, it was his rude and disrespectful attitude, that put me off enough to decide that I didn't want to deal or engage with him beyond NL.

When the guy started coming after me, then revealed that he had 3 kids from 3 different women, I thought to myself, that who people are online is a strong indicator of what they are really like in real life.

hmm these streets be mean as hell lol. Lots of weirdos and angry people but it is what it is. It’s a virtual world we all exist in now . This is the playground. The new playground. You see everybody walking around in three dimensional life all glued to some screen . It’s the new world. Take the good with the bad and ignore if you have to. Yeah truthfully you have to be extremely brave to be birthing a child today especially in Nigeria. World is too toxic and brutal

kkins25:


Even though some bits of trail have been left behind, It's difficult to draw a verdict on kobo's gender. They do a good job of masking that. However, some topics stir them up more than others. That makes me believe they lean more towards the Venus side than towards Mars or the Sun.



And, yep..your boy is a chronic pervert... but in a good way.

lmaooo bro

Klass99:




Kobo.junkie is a woman. She said so herself in one post and talked about a book she authored on mental health.

@ Sukkot, doesn't her moniker sound like something a man will come up with?

ok it's good to know she is a woman. I need to be more gentle with her. I though it was some crazy dude living in Chicago lmaooooo

Klass99:


Lol🤣. What made you think she was or is crazy?

lol lots of repetitive questions

Klass99:




K.J is a woman. She said so herself in one post and talked about a book she authored on mental health.

interesting.

Klass99:


Crackhaus this is 2024 abeg rest from this your pretentious, sanctimonious, bullshit and be real.

I vividly recall that you engaged me in the past about this issue of not wanting kids and being childfree, with one of your alternate monikers which I can't accurately remember, but Uyai publicly pointed out that you were the owner of that moniker and you didn't deny it.

You asked questions and even insinuated some kind of childhood trauma or medical disability on my part which led to such a life choice. All of which I answered no to, maintaining that a lack of desire and zero interest in being a mother/parent, were my motivating factors.

You conceded at some point and said you couldn't understand it. Whether you recall that conversation or not, I do, as if it was yesterday. Yet, here you are again casting aspersions on folks like me who don't want children. Insinuating again that it may be some sort of medical or health challenge, or in your words, you automatically assume something is wrong with such people.

Why is it so hard for folks like you to accept that people are wired differently and we all want different things in this life? There are essentially three purposes of marriage;

1. Companionship
2. Sex and then.....
3. Procreation/children.

A person can want marriage for three of those reasons above, just two or only one of them. You asked, why marry at all if you don't want children? I want marriage for the sex and companionship only, sex and companionship on a platform heaven will approve of and I won't be fornicating or sinning.

The live-in lovers lifestyle you suggested is not the better option or the way everyone wants to roll, for the sake of companionship. You are a believer, aren't you? I expect you to know better.

Additionally.......marriage and children are life choices, not mandatory goals or achievements we all have to meet, in order to unlock happiness or the adult phase of our lives. There is no rule or law that says you must marry for children!

I know married couples who are childfree as a matter of choice, there is nothing medically or spiritually wrong with them. Abeg rest! What was the point of engaging and drilling me with questions back then, only to return now, with the same assumptions and insinuations as before?

You don't need to understand "childfree by choice" folks, but respect that as humans we have free will and the power of choice given to us by the creator himself. And some of us are exercising both free will and power choice, by intentionally and deliberately, choosing to not have children. Our choice does not harm or affect others. We must not want the same things you do.

Klass Klass Klass...

It was quite unnecessary having to go on and explain this much to someone you think is being pretentious and sanctimonious, don't you think?

Klass99:


At the bolded, I delete because people who know me in real life can read some of my posts and figure out this is Klass99, if they are really paying attention.

I also delete because there are a number of vicious trolls on these streets who weave a believable web of lies from your posts, aimed at publicly insulting and humiliating you.

You see this topic and issue of being childfree bah? I have been vocal about it here and people who are familiar with my posts, know I am not interested in having kids of my own. Two guys on this platform twisted the narrative several times, claiming that through abortions I damaged my womb and I can't have children.

One claimed that he knew me with my old moniker from years back when I was aborting babies and being advised against by other forum users. Each time he was asked to name my old moniker and I would do the same to verify his claims, he would hem and haw, then claim that I deactivated it.

The other guy is a self confessed baby daddy of three, from three different women. He also began a smear campaign of his own along the same narrative of abortions and damaged womb, after I ignored his DM and public request for us to talk off the forum. I ignored his request because my first encounter with him ever, he insulted me and another female user, without cause, provocation or justification.

At the time he was making requests to chat privately, I didn't even know he was a baby daddy of 3, that came out much later, but you see, it was his rude and disrespectful attitude, that put me off enough to decide that I didn't want to deal or engage with him beyond NL.

When the guy started coming after me, then revealed that he had 3 kids from 3 different women, I thought to myself, that who people are online is a strong indicator of what they are really like in real life.

Klass99, I originally saw and read this thread post weeks back and wanted to say here that... "I NOW have a better understanding of your reasons for deleting."

I originally suspected you were under some kind of spell as a result of being hexed, or a prophetess induced you to do these deletings. I just couldn't wrap my head around why you would write with deep insights here on NL and then BOOM... delete. It just didn't make sense to me.


I mentioned you on the 'Sade Ladipo thread on the front page today 'cos I remembered reading this post of yours here weeks back.

My quick takes on this issue of a woman not wanting to have a biological child is that a woman perfectly has a right of choice to not want one. Let me add more meat to this: YOU see, most men are wired to want to have a child from a woman they love as it triggers a stronger bonding. Even if a man is in his 50s, 60s, or early 70s... (at least most men), he would still want to at least a child or two from his spouse if she's still within the child bearing age.

=>https://www.businessinsider.com/celebrities-dads-first-time-over-age-50

So, that's something you or any other woman has to factor into consideration when intending to get married. I understand that we live in a CONFLICTING world and some folks don't want any additional stress levels, but then that is the way the planet has been configured for thousands of years of human existence. So, we have to deal with the challenges and issues as they evolve 'cos they actually lead to personal growth.

If you and I were to get married to each other for instance, I would want to have children (with any woman of childbearing age in her early 40s) while still in my 50s right up to my early 60s though. Money and emotional intelligence will NOT be a problem with regards to taking care of them till early adulthood.


=>https://www.parents.com/parenting/celebrity-parents/celebrity-dads-who-had-children-after-50/

Konquest:

Klass99, I originally saw this thread post weeks back and wanted to say here that... "I NOW have a better understanding of your reasons for deleting."

I originally suspected you were under some kind of spell as a result of being hexed, or a prophetess induced you to do these deletings. I just couldn't wrap my head around why you would write with deep insights here on NL and then BOOM... delete. It just didn't make sense to me.

Hah egbami o! You people have made a mountain out of a mole hill from my deletion of posts, just lookatchu and what you are saying.

What I do here is not different from what I do in real life. I don't keep messages or emails once read, except important ones with useful information I may need to refer to in future.

I like clean slates, fresh starts and just decluttering. There's an inner joy and peace I feel from cleaning out my inboxes, decluttering spaces and pulling down posts. I think only neat people can relate to this. It's like get rid of the junk in your trunk and make space for new things.

Additionally, have you seen the front page thread about Shade Ladipo who says she doesn't want kids? Are you seeing the level of bile, nonsense and stupidity being displayed by users/commenters? I can totally relate and perfectly understand her, but idiots are spinning a tale about abortions, damaged womb and more, without knowing her, like my trolls did.

Klass99:


Hah egbami o! You people have made a mountain out of a mole hill from my deletion of posts, just lookatchu and what you are saying.

What I do here is not different from what I do in real life. I don't keep messages or emails once read, except important ones with useful information I may need to refer to in future.

I like clean slates, fresh starts and just decluttering. There's an inner joy and peace I feel from cleaning out my inboxes, decluttering spaces and pulling down posts. I think only neat people can relate to this. It's like get rid of the junk in your trunk and make space for new things.

Additionally, have you seen the front page thread about Shade Ladipo who says she doesn't want kids? Are you seeing the level of bile, nonsense and stupidity being displayed by users/commenters? I can totally relate and perfectly understand her, but idiots are spinning a tale about abortions, damaged womb and more, without knowing her, like my trolls did.

How's it going Klass99? You're back online... I didn't realize you would be back so soon.

Yeah! Simplicity is key... Less is more through the decluttering of all aspects of one's life... especially the bedroom.

Read my first post of today to you on this thread. I actually re-edited it before seeing your reply to me and mentioned you on the Sade Ladipo interview with Freeze on the NL frontpage. I gave some of my personal opinion about a woman's choice of NOT wanting to have kids in the re-edited post on this thread.

Some of the responses on that frontpage thread of today were on the level of insanity and came from the uninitiated who haven't learned to respect other people's perspectives. There are women who truly just don't want pain on the subconscious level OR they didn't bond well with their parents while growing up, so, they too just don't wanna have biological children and it's not that they don't love kids.

It's just a matter of priority.

You talk too much. That’s why you always cleaning up. Keep it short and simple

Klass99:


Hah egbami o! You people have made a mountain out of a mole hill from my deletion of posts, just lookatchu and what you are saying.

What I do here is not different from what I do in real life. I don't keep messages or emails once read, except important ones with useful information I may need to refer to in future.

I like clean slates, fresh starts and just decluttering. There's an inner joy and peace I feel from cleaning out my inboxes, decluttering spaces and pulling down posts. I think only neat people can relate to this. It's like get rid of the junk in your trunk and make space for new things.

Additionally, have you seen the front page thread about Shade Ladipo who says she doesn't want kids? Are you seeing the level of bile, nonsense and stupidity being displayed by users/commenters? I can totally relate and perfectly understand her, but idiots are spinning a tale about abortions, damaged womb and more, without knowing her, like my trolls did.

I'm just crying... 😂😂😂