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A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

EVERYONE ON THAT LIST HANDED HER OVER TO THE HUSBAND ON THE WEDDING DAY.......... so it is over. Her choices should be based on HERSELF and HER HUSBAND. Simple.

Visions can always be cancelled.

Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.
Some Women dy marry shéha !.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

stevestifler:
■ A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.
As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?
1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood
Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

She is thinking she needs to take permission from any of these people because?

Questions like this came up immediately the world became a crazy place . The answer to this question was very obvious when the world was still a normal place, it was visible to the blind and audible to the deaf . A "wife" should obey the person that "paid her bride price" , if the pastor paid it, then she can obey her pastor , that is why women should always be careful whom they get married to, if you marry nonsense, you must be willing to obey nonsense instructions

Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

Be like you Dey snore for speeding Honda bike .. of course you’re not married

Make your husband .. even if the useless simpnask you not to go and you .. based on today marriage you leave go..

Na when you go understand that simp .. Na man with prick..

Una go just come online they render una fellow females useless and unmarried with stupid statements ..

You obviously see why you’re single with teenage brain

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Frigga13:
Be like you Dey snore for speeding Honda bike .. of course you’re not married

Make your husband .. even if the useless simpnask you not to go and you .. based on today marriage you leave go..

Na when you go understand that simp .. Na man with prick..

Una go just come online they render una fellow females useless and unmarried with stupid statements ..

You obviously see why you’re single with teenage brain

It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

Before marriage, your father (then mother) comes first!

After marriage your husband come's first then your father (then mother)!

But all in all, it depends!

All those sibs n besties are low on the list!

Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Just remove that pastors that sees blah blah shit

Acidosis:
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

Many are not sensible. I know a man that banned his wife from visiting her family home because he had issue with her brother.

Who else if not her husband

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Herself and then her husband.

They should please listen to Jennyclay, Siofra and Goodlady

for more candid advice they can use Candidlady

Pocohantas and Ereluroz for veteran home advice.

I have said it all.

Me

Her husband if she has any sense in the head

Cc

Parents. Her husband and pastor are not her blood.

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

4, 2, 1,5, 3



4. husband...what God has joined together.... if you married a bad husband that's your fault, for making poor choices, otherwise no one can want the best for you aside of your parents. the reason husband supersedes parents is only because you are on a journey together, you have left your parents and are now joined with your husband as one.
parents,
2. no one can love you like you parents but you have left you parents
1, siblings. nothing like family but not sometimes there is sibling rivalry
5, friends they know you best but sometimes they dont tell you the truth.
3. vision seeing pastors...mostly fraudsters! be very wary of pastors. You can read the Bible yourself.

She should listen to the owner of the house she is living in

Jeon:
Why will a normal man deny a woman to go see her family?.

Nah woman of before go obey, even if there's no valid reason for denying her to see her blood family. But now try it on most women.

Chai madam, read biko!! I hope you no follow put this country for this reverse drive.

Please remove number 3. Those scammers don't have any say in this matter. Meanwhile, an over insecure husband is a problem. Men should learn to have a free mind.

Her husband.

Leave and Cleave.

Know this and know peace

My ex still takes advice from me 😁

pocohantas:
Many are not sensible. I know a man that banned his wife from visiting her family home because he had issue with her brother.

Make the lady pack her load and go anywhere she wants baa?

If you have not seen your family for over 1 year , ininvite them to come see you .

Acidosis:
It's simple. Do not collect bride price from a man you're not ready to submit to.

You can't eat from the devil and escape repercussions. No sensible man would restrain you from meeting your family. If that conversation ever comes up, then his reasons are probably valid.

Because of how much bride price?

After God, it's your husband, remember your pastor is not on the list

None of the above.

She should ask the gateman or driver. If those aren’t available, she should ask the customer service agent of her preferred mobile network.

Kobojunkie:
She is thinking she needs to take permission from any of these people because?

Because she is a woman. She is meant to submit to authorities over her, especially her husband. Any more question?