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I an currently in an undisclosed country
In my late 20s but look older than my age
I an in same program with this naija babe so we happened to have gone to same university back in Nigeria, realized after we did general introduction in class(graduated 3 years before i did l) she then got my number from another female friend of mine who is married and we started talking. Most times she keeps asking of me in class and everywhere people thought we were dating, next she wants us yo live together(which i declined) she starts talking of marriage how her mum wants her to get married as soon as possible(she's 5+ older than I am) a acting all boss, calling at midnights (no lies this babe set die and shez good(cant conclude shaa known her for few months but i no want relationship i wan focus)), I told her our relationship shouldn't pass friendship as classmates
Next Blocked her, she goes telling all my friends and my phone started beeping asking me why i did
All i could say was I need to focus.
Now she has stopped all the midnight calls, texting and too much gum body for school which i like(i just want it to be normal whatsup and good morning)

You see those bossy women, Chaiii!

Bro why is she that desperate

better be careful with Niaja women outside Nigeria, the way she might treat you after you guys finally marry might be totally different

I have had an encounter with a bossy babe like that, I lost all attraction towards her whenever she does anything masculine towards me

the babe is probably pressure due to her age just take your time if you love her and feel like its genuine why not tie the knot before you would loose her

kelvindubem:
Bro why is she that desperate

I feel its because sbe wa ts to get married, she once told me she wants to have kids as soon as possible

Danimasaun:
better be careful with Niaja women outside Nigeria, the way she might treat you after you guys finally marry might be totally different

I have no plans of getting married to her.

Asavivian:
the babe is probably pressure due to her age just take your time if you love her and feel like its genuine why not tie the knot before you would loose her

Yea her mum is pressuring her to get a husband

Adamjc:
I have had an encounter with a bossy babe like that, I lost all attraction towards her whenever she does anything masculine towards me

She wants control which i can't yield, lately she is coming around again, wants us to go on a date(the day i told her we can't get married she just left me and walked out without a word)