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Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by RickyJesus: 3:05pm On Mar 15 |
Kobicove:Exactly, I have never thought of it that way and they also make it feels intrinsic. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by RickyJesus: 3:08pm On Mar 15 |
thesicilian:I will help my suffering colleagues on the low, and there time when it doesn't even take riches but basic connection. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by thesicilian: 3:29pm On Mar 15 |
RickyJesus:True sha Some Nigerians are very superstitious (sometimes with good reason) so they keep their good news to themselves. |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by thesicilian: 3:30pm On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000:You can never truly trust anyone I can't even trust myself not to behave in certain ways sometimes 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by RickyJesus: 3:31pm On Mar 15 |
thesicilian:With good reasons? Care to mention some. |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by CrossRhodes: 3:46pm On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000:Sorry about that.... My parents have been married since 1982.... They quarrel and settle and still going strong.. I take my inspiration from them.......I have done 2 and half years and will surpass them by God's grace. 12 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Shakirababy(f): 3:51pm On Mar 15 |
thesicilian: I knew something was wrong with you. Thank God you just confirmed that. Don't bother quoting me....psychos everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by BlackyOne: 4:18pm On Mar 15 |
thesicilian: They are fewer truly happy married men, and more happy single men with baby mamas and premium knacks. And if we're being truly logical, modern marriages are of no benefit to a man... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by CockPit: 4:48pm On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000: There have been cheatings in marriages the past 3000 years, so nothing new. David even cheated with Batsheba and even had the husband killed. 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by stasius: 4:49pm On Mar 15 |
So true 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Raylight2(m): 4:49pm On Mar 15 |
Afrobasic:and your father and mother married o 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On Mar 15 |
Dynamicscholar:They found for themselves wives and married said wives meaning they found what you claim are good things— the woman can only be a good thing after you have married her as a wife—, so what in the world do you mean by marrying for the wrong reasons when they found for themselves good things? Make una dey try openmindedly digest the sort of things wey una dey like to believe. How can the wives be the problem if the wives are good things? |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by thesicilian: 4:51pm On Mar 15 |
Afrobasic:Have you told your parents this 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Raylight2(m): 4:52pm On Mar 15 |
Afrobasic:then marry a career, hardworking and money-making lady 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by justmondris: 4:52pm On Mar 15 |
You should use the word some marriages. There are still a lot of faithful married partners in Nigeria. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by meobizy(f): 4:52pm On Mar 15 |
They were made for each other since it’s both parties. I don’t see the problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Hakeem66: 4:53pm On Mar 15 |
Marriage is sweet when you find the right partner. Marry the one you admire her physical attributes and attitude. A woman with good morals will make a better home and make you enjoy marriage. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by CodeTemplar: 4:53pm On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000:end time attitudes. Even when uncommitted, they cheat too. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Kobojunkie: 4:56pm On Mar 15 |
CodeTemplar:LOL.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It is bound to get worse before people finally start settling on what it is they want in marriage and how they will go about ensuring the contract works for both individuals in the marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by GodHimself: 4:58pm On Mar 15 |
Bring back arranged marriages. It works. lordnkem000: 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by 3kay945(m): 4:58pm On Mar 15 |
advanceDNA: Kudos ... |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by being(m): 5:00pm On Mar 15 |
Solution is go and learn from the very elderly ones around u who have a good marriage. Goan learn their discipline, commitment to each other, respect for each other, forbearance for each other & allowance for each other. [quote author=lordnkem000 post=128945371][/quote] |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by killsmith(f): 5:00pm On Mar 15 |
You think your ancestors are fools for marrying strictly virgins? 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by nsesam(m): 5:01pm On Mar 15 |
It is well |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by BarrElChapo(m): 5:01pm On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000: My take is the way you make your bed you lie on it. Forget about others and make yours work ? What principles do you practice that will make you a better father, husband if you were to be married ? There are lots of healthy marriages out there but like someone said above, they’re not publicised cos those in it don’t need to. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by HenryTimes: 5:02pm On Mar 15 |
lordnkem000: The secret is simple; just pretend that your partner is not cheating as far as you no see with your eyes. |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by flexyrule(m): 5:06pm On Mar 15 |
Stupid thread for little boys and girls to ma-stur-bate on. Grow and become a responsible man! |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Kobojunkie: 5:06pm On Mar 15 |
killsmith:They married strictly virgins and ended up having a turn a blind eye to much of what those same virgins did to them. Do you think say those old traditional laws that gave rights to all children born in a particular marriage to the husband of the woman in question came from nothing? Your forefathers tried but their way did not work at all because, in the end, they had to accept even paternity fraud as their lot in marriage. So, unless you are willing to accept paternity fraud too, you better be thinking of a better way. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Kobojunkie: 5:07pm On Mar 15 |
HenryTimes:Denial? Really? |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Afrobasic(m): 5:07pm On Mar 15 |
Raylight2: Those ones with their bad character? No, thanks 👎 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by Nonexisting1: 5:07pm On Mar 15 |
There are very little happy marriages out there, most people are either pretending or managing each other because of selfish reasons. Give most husbands money and fame, they will start fuccking like dogs out there. Give their wives money and freedom, they will start misbehaving. Don't be deceived. 10 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Marriage Is Now Useless, No Discipline by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:08pm On Mar 15 |
too many people are getting married for the wrong reasons... due to social/religious/family/peer pressure, and therefore have no respect for marriage nor their partner. 5 Likes |
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