advanceDNA:


Lol ....u can't cook stew with sand, stones & water and get fine egusi with stock fish at the end... The problem is garbage in garbage out ...

D people getting married now are d highly corrupt, crazy, generation, i.e millennials & GenZ.....the two generation that the internet & media hijacked their parenting from their real parent.....

Una never see anything....just wait for the offsprings of GenZ to take over the marriage institution.....

thesicilian:

Have you told your parents this

lordnkem000:

Are you sure there are a lot? Because we don't hear their own stories, atleast to reassure people like myself who still find marriage attractive. TikTok, YouTube and co has reduced marriage to shambles. I don't believe it is because we breed weak men these days. We need couples with blissful marriages to speak up

advanceDNA:


Lol ....u can't cook stew with sand, stones & water and get fine egusi with stock fish at the end... The problem is garbage in garbage out ...

D people getting married now are d highly corrupt, crazy, generation, i.e millennials & GenZ.....the two generation that the internet & media hijacked their parenting from their real parent.....

Una never see anything....just wait for the offsprings of GenZ to take over the marriage institution.....

Fearurcreeator:

Am 10 plus years already... Coming back to this world I won't marry ... Am just managing cus of the children ... Nothing else ... I don't see much a man gains from marriage ... Things normally man can't try with me out there madam go do am still dey stand say she right ... I already told her I will soon run away ... She though am joking ...

Kobicove:


I agree with you, most TV shows these days glorify adultery especially those on Telemundo

TimiRume:
For me o, I think one of the reasons is having sex outside of the context of marriage. Once you start having sex before marriage, it relaxes your mental stamina for a longterm union. Sex is a spiritual, mental and physical exercise. Every time you have sex you leave little droplets of yourself here and there. Marriage because of its longevity requires your full mental strength and presence.

Also, I think sex is best when it's done in a confined or limited setting. People who don't engage in premarital sex will have a more fulfilling sex life in marriage. *Those who have no sexual discipline cannot experience sexual fulfiment in marriage* because illicit pleasures birth an unsatisfied appetite.

That's my opinion

lordnkem000:
I have been observing my married friends, colleagues & even neighbors around and I noticed deep down their marriages were all lacking discipline, they cheat on each other, lie, they pretend and most of them are so miserable.

Funny thing is two of my friends are not even up to 3yrs in marriage and they are so tired. Yesterday I met an old classmate of mine and he told me the girl I saw him with wasn't his wife, just for knacks, that he's been married for 1yr and 9months but he's tired of his marriage. It made me scared because here i am thinking of finding a wife and people in it are wanting out.

So I'm asking, what could be the problem with staying married these days?

People who have been married for 10+ years what is your secret? I'm curious to learn a thing or two

thesicilian:

Like everything else, the bad eggs tend to be more visible than the good ones. There's a whole lot of happy, disciplined, committed married couples out there.

Fearurcreeator:

Bros ... Abeg if you are stable financially abeg dey enjoy you life go ... If one woman gets belle for you make she do DNA sure say na you get am... No live with am ooo... Woman wahala plenty ooo

Afrobasic:
I've said this before and I will say it again.

Na MUMU dey marry.

lordnkem000:

I come from a broken home, nothing inspiring about it. So I look to others for inspiration

adolfHitler1934:
I see that you are yet to grow up, when you do, your perspective will change. You will be more mature and reasonable.

Fearurcreeator:

Am 10 plus years already... Coming back to this world I won't marry ... Am just managing cus of the children ... Nothing else ... I don't see much a man gains from marriage ... Things normally man can't try with me out there madam go do am still dey stand say she right ... I already told her I will soon run away ... She though am joking ...

richiemcgold:


Bro, pls make sure you don't marry a lady from another broken home like yours. Make sure you know more about your in-laws-to-be before delving into any marriage with their daughter. A lady from a loving home is more likely to take after her parents, while those from broken homes (especially those that were raised by their mothers) are more likely to experience broken homes too.

abiolamitodun:
■ And u think the lady from a home that's not broken will want to be with a guy from a broken home.... Dey play...

Afrobasic:
I've said this before and I will say it again.

Na MUMU dey marry.

thesicilian:

Have you told your parents this

Afrobasic:


Have you told yours?

letonB:

Must you lie over a delicate matter as this? Humans did not impose marriage on themselves. Marriage was designed by God almighty to create a pathway for proper consummation of sex and procreation. When the tenets of marriage are hallowed, you find a well organized family. Those who chose to disregard God's perspective to marriage find themselves in the confusion you see around (which did not start with what you term "modern humans". Those who claim not to have been created by God but that they came into existence through one "big bang theory" or evolution cock and bull story can never subject themselves to serve and obey the Owner of the universe - the One who was there when we all were not, the One will be here when we all are dead and gone. You could also reconsider your stance and believe in Him to escape the damnation of not doing so. Again, marriage is of God.

Allwell96:
I and my wife are married for 15years now and we are enjoying it everyday. We simply listen and believe the word of God and it's working for us. If u do that and pray together, you'll not regret. That's why you have to take time to get a God fearing lady, you too have to be God fearing, everything will be alright.

TimiRume:
For me o, I think one of the reasons is having sex outside of the context of marriage. Once you start having sex before marriage, it relaxes your mental stamina for a longterm union. Sex is a spiritual, mental and physical exercise. Every time you have sex you leave little droplets of yourself here and there. Marriage because of its longevity requires your full mental strength and presence.

With money come power with power comes women then sex if u don't find them they will find you

Also, I think sex is best when it's done in a confined or limited setting. People who don't engage in premarital sex will have a more fulfilling sex life in marriage. Those who have no sexual discipline cannot experience sexual fulfiment in marriage because illicit pleasures birth an unsatisfied appetite.

That's my opinion

adolfHitler1934:
I see that you are yet to grow up, when you do, your perspective will change. You will be more mature and reasonable.

Kobojunkie:
They found for themselves wives and married said wives meaning they found what you claim are good things— the woman can only be a good thing after you have married her as a wife—, so what in the world do you mean by marrying for the wrong reasons when they found for themselves good things? Make una dey try openmindedly digest the sort of things wey una dey like to believe. How can the wives be the problem if the wives are good things?