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Praktikals1000:
Before male children know the truth about this question, they must have had children who also think that their mum is the one making all the sacrifice

Jewskillmohamed:
For me I will say it's the mother and here are my debate list below you can counter it with your own list if you feel mine is s wrong .


Pregnancy and Childbirth: Mothers undergo the physical challenges of pregnancy, labor, and delivery, which can be intense and demanding.


Breastfeeding: Mothers who breastfeed often have to manage feeding schedules, potential difficulties like mastitis, and the time-consuming nature of breastfeeding sessions.


Primary Caregiving Role: Mothers are often seen as the primary caregivers, responsible for nurturing, comforting, and meeting the emotional needs of children.


Multi-tasking: Mothers frequently juggle multiple tasks simultaneously, such as household chores, childcare, and work responsibilities.


Emotional Labor: Mothers may bear a significant amount of emotional labor, including managing family relationships, mediating conflicts, and providing emotional support.


Societal Expectations: Society often places higher expectations and pressures on mothers to excel in both professional and domestic roles including moral roles for example don't smoke or go to the bar you are a woman.


Mental Load: Mothers often carry the mental load of planning and organizing family activities, appointments, and household logistics.


Sleep Deprivation: Especially in the early stages of parenting, mothers may experience more interrupted sleep due to nighttime feedings and childcare responsibilities.
Career Sacrifices: Many mothers face challenges in balancing career advancement with family responsibilities, leading to potential career sacrifices.


Stereotypes and Bias: Stereotypes and biases can lead to mothers being undervalued or taken for granted in their contributions to the family.

It's important to note that these points are based on societal perceptions and norms, and individual experiences may vary widely. Both mothers and fathers play crucial roles in their families, and their contributions should be acknowledged and appreciated equally.

ideatoprince18:
If only children knows what a real Father goes through to make things around the home work fine.... They will sing beautiful songs for their Dad.

The reason why people do sing songs of appreciation for their mum is mostly cos of the struggles that women go through are mainly physical and it's all seen in the eye. Women are creatures of emotion so it's easy for people to see their struggle through emotional side.

When we were little, whenever my Dad comes home from shop, sometimes he will be angry,sometimes he will be sad. In all the time, he always made sure we never lacked . When I came of age and started following him to shop, I found out that from morning till night he wont eat a thing. I thought he was fasting then. I never knew that he was starving so that we will eat. He was starving so as to be able to meet up family needs. Sometimes when we ask him for money or stuffs he will tell us off. We will become angry and meet our mum who will give us the money. I never understood all this until I grew up. Now I'm a man and I'm facing issues and see reasons why my Dad behaves the way he do then.

If u think a woman struggles more than a man, try ask a widow what she goes through then u will understand.

Do u know what it is to take care of yourself talkless of adding two, three, four people to yourself and be the sole provider of them all. Many will say women will do it. And I will tell u that 98% of women cant take care of a family without complaining when the Father is around doing nothing.

Sportspredicto:
I have the worst parent which life would ever give someone! A stingy, cunny, saucy and arrogant father, a father that don't want his child to be more than him so deliberately stingy! Very clannish and trying to please his siblings exactly the way I heard that it was his eldest sister that link the devil that gave birth to me to him! He didn't even probated her character but agreed because he is always trying to please them! The woman that gave to me is the worst, I would never call her mother, a devil incarnate that what matters to her is impoverishing us and giving to her family! I prefer the devil more than her! But I grew up pushing life and keep saying that God wasn't fair to me by birth, why didn't I died through miscarriage than to have this worst parent!

ideatoprince18:
God bless u!!!

helinues:
It's unfortunate most of the dads lately are dead beat dads .

The men are no longer responsible like our grandpas used to be

helinues:
It's unfortunate most of the dads lately are dead beat dads .

The men are no longer responsible like our grandpas used to be

Jewskillmohamed:
Money is not everything, have you considered single moms or people who gave birth out of rape without a man figure, how did they do it ?

ngwaIgbo223:
See simps shouting mother up and down.

Sportspredicto:
I have the worst parent which life would ever give someone! A stingy, cunny, saucy and arrogant father, a father that don't want his child to be more than him so deliberately stingy! Very clannish and trying to please his siblings exactly the way I heard that it was his eldest sister that link the devil that gave birth to me to him! He didn't even probated her character but agreed because he is always trying to please them! The woman that gave to me is the worst, I would never call her mother, a devil incarnate that what matters to her is impoverishing us and giving to her family! I prefer the devil more than her! But I grew up pushing life and keep saying that God wasn't fair to me by birth, why didn't I died through miscarriage than to have this worst parent!

Jewskillmohamed:
For me I will say it's the mother and here are my debate list below you can counter it with your own list if you feel mine is s wrong .


Pregnancy and Childbirth: Mothers undergo the physical challenges of pregnancy, labor, and delivery, which can be intense and demanding.


Breastfeeding: Mothers who breastfeed often have to manage feeding schedules, potential difficulties like mastitis, and the time-consuming nature of breastfeeding sessions.


Primary Caregiving Role: Mothers are often seen as the primary caregivers, responsible for nurturing, comforting, and meeting the emotional needs of children.


Multi-tasking: Mothers frequently juggle multiple tasks simultaneously, such as household chores, childcare, and work responsibilities.


Emotional Labor: Mothers may bear a significant amount of emotional labor, including managing family relationships, mediating conflicts, and providing emotional support.


Societal Expectations: Society often places higher expectations and pressures on mothers to excel in both professional and domestic roles including moral roles for example don't smoke or go to the bar you are a woman.


Mental Load: Mothers often carry the mental load of planning and organizing family activities, appointments, and household logistics.


Sleep Deprivation: Especially in the early stages of parenting, mothers may experience more interrupted sleep due to nighttime feedings and childcare responsibilities.
Career Sacrifices: Many mothers face challenges in balancing career advancement with family responsibilities, leading to potential career sacrifices.


Stereotypes and Bias: Stereotypes and biases can lead to mothers being undervalued or taken for granted in their contributions to the family.

It's important to note that these points are based on societal perceptions and norms, and individual experiences may vary widely. Both mothers and fathers play crucial roles in their families, and their contributions should be acknowledged and appreciated equally.

Sportspredicto:
I have the worst parent which life would ever give someone! A stingy, cunny, saucy and arrogant father, a father that don't want his child to be more than him so deliberately stingy! Very clannish and trying to please his siblings exactly the way I heard that it was his eldest sister that link the devil that gave birth to me to him! He didn't even probated her character but agreed because he is always trying to please them! The woman that gave to me is the worst, I would never call her mother, a devil incarnate that what matters to her is impoverishing us and giving to her family! I prefer the devil more than her! But I grew up pushing life and keep saying that God wasn't fair to me by birth, why didn't I died through miscarriage than to have this worst parent!

Tunde835:
You created a thread to discuss who suffers the most in the family. You were supposed to bring points from both sides but you only mentioned for the mother that's not how a debate functions. Last last men have suffered only mothers are celebrated while fathers are called deadbeats.

RickyJesus:
You are an idiot for coming up with this topic and the mod that bring this to the front page is more idiotic than you but both of wuna follow foolish.

Kingbuhari:
Before I use to think my mother do more than my father until I became a father myself...


God bless all the fathers in this nairaland amen