Have being dating this lady for almost a year she mostly visits me on weekends and if she having off at work she will come to my place and stay till her resumssion day ..
Sincerely, am not that spending type I don't think have given her money 4k before but I will make sure I will provide what ever she wants to eat anytime she visits me ,food and I is like 2 and 3 that is why I don't lack food stuff in my house ..
This lady in question is like living in free world because people do bankrolling her even the least as data still getting as gift,she is having Two different bank accounts the amount I saw there last two months ago was fucking Whooping. She so stingy to an extent she doesn't buy food stuff and keep in her house anytime I visit her she will be complaining she doesn't have food this makes me perplexed why she saving money but Eat like an ant
My concern is anytime I stylishly ask this lady to borrow me some amount of money she will be telling me she is broke .I don't really know her plans am confused having a lady who is not supportive....

"Your money belongs to us,but my money belongs to me"----Sorry op,that's the kind of banny you're dating.........

But lemme tell you something for free op,the earlier you remove your mind and eyes from your woman's account/money,the better for you and your relationship,cuz any woman wey don get that kind mentality,e dey hard for her to amend or change..

But you op,you must be a coded wicked man . You said you don't spend on her but want her to borrow you her money 😊. The same money wey she achieve from other gentle men like you wey dey spend on her......

If your priorities are not met in the relationship, try another person. It is simple.

But you yourself said you don't spend on her. Spend on her before expecting her to spend on you.

winner37:

.I don't really know her plans am confused having a lady who is not supportive....

Women are codedly redpill....they are careful spending their money on someone that may jilt them tomorrow....

Besides...u said u no dey spend for am.....she nor dey stress u with billings......so na 50/50.
Una fit each other..why u come dey vex...??

U want make she support u with her money.. but u nor support her.... Nor be juju be that

immortalcrown:
If your priorities are not met in the relationship, try another person. It is simple.

But you yourself said you don't spend on her. Spend on her before expecting her to spend on you.

So the 2 to 3 square meal she eats at his home wasn't bought with money?

Someone that is saving her money to enrich herself in future with a "self-made" tag.
Keep feeding her bro, tomorrow she call you a broke àss and ditch you for her new prey.

PerfectStranger:

So the 2 to 3 square meal she eats at his home wasn't bought with money?

Someone that is saving her money to enrich herself in future with a "self-made" tag.
Keep feeding her bro, tomorrow she call you a broke àss and ditch you for her new prey.

So, he is not getting anything in return for the food?

Bros u are dating street property and public toilet, hoo loow-show, u are dating someone but she's collecting money from different people.
Lol, it is good, please don't be serious with her and don't wife her oh just be forking her and don't spend much too.

You aren't giving her money...


She doesn't make demands or requests from you. So what are you bothered about?

No dey put eye for woman money o. No matter what.

Saving money is not a bad thing.

My only concern is why she is being stingy to herself - but maybe she has a plan of saving to start a business or some investment. You should know her plans naa.

For someone dating a woman for almost a year you seem to know less about her future plans.

Relationship is not just about going to the partner's house for weekend sex!

Ok just saw the part you said they are people bankrolling her. YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN !

winner37:
Sincerely, am not that spending type I don't think have given her money 4k before but I will make sure I will provide what ever she wants to eat anytime she visits me ,food and I is like 2 and 3 that is why I don't lack food stuff in my house ..

You've been dating someone for almost a year and you've never given her money or up to 4k before, yet you're judging her for being stingy. I don't see how you're in any position to talk when you're no different.

I even like the way you're studying her. Please take note of her attitude... When you eventually get married, that woman can secretly build a house and put you there as a tenant and you will be paying rent without knowing she's the owner. Run

Let me get this straight... U want to collect but u no dey give. Even juju sef go fail for that one. No be only borrow u money. U are a thief guy.

immortalcrown:
So, he is not getting anything in return for the food?

Oh you mean sexx? No be two people dey enjoy sexx?

winner37:

Have being dating this lady for almost a year she mostly visits me on weekends and if she having off at work she will come to my place and stay till her resumssion day ..
Sincerely, am not that spending type I don't think have given her money 4k before but I will make sure I will provide what ever she wants to eat anytime she visits me ,food and I is like 2 and 3 that is why I don't lack food stuff in my house ..
This lady in question is like living in free world because people do bankrolling her even the least as data still getting as gift,she is having Two different bank accounts the amount I saw there last two months ago was fucking Whooping. She so stingy to an extent she doesn't buy food stuff and keep in her house anytime I visit her she will be complaining she doesn't have food this makes me perplexed why she saving money but Eat like an ant
My concern is anytime I stylishly ask this lady to borrow me some amount of money she will be telling me she is broke .I don't really know her plans am confused having a lady who is not supportive....

How much did you see in her saving account?

PerfectStranger:

Oh you mean sexx? No be two people dey enjoy sexx?

Na you sabi why you dey mention sex.

TheWinterBird:

You've been dating someone for almost a year and you've never given her money or up to 4k before, yet you're judging her for being stingy. I don't see how you're in any position to talk when you're no different.

This lady has lesser responsibilities than I do and her salary is above mine ...
Now she busy ordering clothes online.

UnbeatableKing:
How much did you see in her saving account?

That one no concern you oooo...

winner37:


This lady has lesser responsibilities than I do and her salary is above mine ...
Now she busy ordering clothes online.

Matthew 7: 3-5

3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?

4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?

5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.

You are just an immature, insecured young man

winner37:

Have being dating this lady for almost a year she mostly visits me on weekends and if she having off at work she will come to my place and stay till her resumssion day ..
Sincerely, am not that spending type I don't think have given her money 4k before but I will make sure I will provide what ever she wants to eat anytime she visits me ,food and I is like 2 and 3 that is why I don't lack food stuff in my house ..
This lady in question is like living in free world because people do bankrolling her even the least as data still getting as gift,she is having Two different bank accounts the amount I saw there last two months ago was fucking Whooping. She so stingy to an extent she doesn't buy food stuff and keep in her house anytime I visit her she will be complaining she doesn't have food this makes me perplexed why she saving money but Eat like an ant
My concern is anytime I stylishly ask this lady to borrow me some amount of money she will be telling me she is broke .I don't really know her plans am confused having a lady who is not supportive....

She comes to your house and she can't sometimes get groceries on her own while coming in. She can't get you an indoor slide or a common toothpaste, even a day old soup she prepared before weekend.

Brother, I'm telling you from experience. I've seen where several women are vulnerable. I tell you brother, the most stingy woman on earth will find a way to spend on you that moment that she's really into you.

Bro. You do not tick her fancy box.

It will shock you the way she'll become a spender for another guy that ticks her fantasy. Women are all the same.

No woman is stingy. You are not just the guy that messes up with her head.

Leech

You don't give her money but you expect her to spend her own money.

As a man, you need to be worried about your own funds and not worry about how much the other person is making or made. It will not add anything to your own

She's another man meat, it's just time bruh.

1. You are not trying for her. How can you be dating a girl for months and you don't give her money. If you don't have, she can understand.

2. It is very wrong for a man to ask a girl he doesn't give money to lend/ give him money. girls naturally dislike it when a guy ask them for money.

3. If things continues like this, this girl will leave you.

4. (With respect to what you said about her) This your babe dey likely do things to get money

FRANCISTOWN:

She comes to your house and she can't sometimes get groceries on her own while coming in. She can't get you an indoor slide or a common toothpaste, even a day old soup she prepared before weekend.

Brother, I'm telling you from experience. I've seen where several women are vulnerable. I tell you brother, the most stingy woman on earth will find a way to spend on you that moment that she's really into you.

Bro. You do not tick her fancy box.

It will shock you the way she'll become a spender for another guy that ticks her fantasy. Women are all the same.

No woman is stingy. You are not just the guy that messes up with her head.

Am aware that she has another guy but is only that guy that Bankrolling her anytime she complains to that guy ..
All what I know she is doing with her money is she is fun of ordering clothes online,
The last one she ordered I was the one who droved her for pickup..

TheWinterBird:

Matthew 7: 3-5

3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?

4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?

5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.

Rubbish 🗑️

winner37:



Am aware that she has another guy but is only that guy that Bankrolling her anytime she complains to that guy ..
All what I know she is doing with her money is she is fun of ordering clothes online,
The last one she ordered I was the one who droved her for pickup..

It will hurt your feelings but imma tell you the truth. The fact that a lady who says she's into you has another guy bankrolling her until you are aware of it means she could possibly have more than just the other guy bankrolling her.

There is no father christmas anywhere, those guys who are bankrolling her are either sleeping with her or will soon sleep with her.

Both you and other guys them who are bankrolling her do not catch her fancy. Ya both are not what she's looking for.

This is the kind of lady that will turn to her ex for assistance when you guys hit a rack in your marriage.

You are in love with this girl. That is what is messing your head up. The girl is capable of paternity fraud. Them no dey tell person.

Get her pregnant and make her a baby mama.

FRANCISTOWN:


It will hurt your feelings but imma tell you the truth. The fact that a lady who says she's into you has another guy bankrolling her until you are aware of it means she could possibly have more than just the other guy bankrolling her.

There is no father christmas anywhere, those guys who are bankrolling her are either sleeping with her or will soon sleep with her.

Both you and other guys them who are bankrolling her do not catch her fancy. Ya both are not what she's looking for.

This is the kind of lady that will turn to her ex for assistance when you guys hit a rack in your marriage.

You are in love with this girl. That is what is messing your head up. The girl is capable of paternity fraud. Them no dey tell person.

Get her pregnant and make her a baby mama.

That fact is the guy who is bankrolling her is in the village (South-South states ) we just met ourselves Here in( South-East states)
I don't even dream of having her as a baby mama neither wife .she is thinking that she is fooling me but am the one fooling her .
Am thinking of calling off the relationship .