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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by OKOATA(m): 9:16pm On Apr 20
That your GF wey you carry for head another gee boy dey knack am and for your information the girls right about you. Good guys comes last so rest mr obote. You see pussy run still dey shine teeth. Shame suppose even catch you? All the respect wey you respect am where he land you. Read on red pills dem go dey form rambo. omo ase.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by OKOATA(m): 9:17pm On Apr 20
yomi007k:
Thank God for your soul.


If to say you sleep with am and she later dey claim say u take advantage of her nko. She fit even claim rape.

Baba declare booze on ya head.
Simp talking as usual. Are you in the USA that she will claim rape?

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by yomi007k(m): 9:33pm On Apr 20
Sniper101:
well ofcourse you're a SIMP
And she told you so; in a subtle way.

A guy who isn't a simp wouldn't need to sleep on the floor just to avoid having sex with a Hot lady at night.

What if she was pregnant or had HIV and was looking to put it on someone?

Self/sex control is a blessing.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by jaszplus12(m): 10:06pm On Apr 20
advanceDNA:


Sometimes ...women just want to chop and clean mouth too.......

..but hey!!! U did the right thing...u ddnt miss anything by controlling urself....na just slimy mucus membrane.....probably smell like rotten fish.....

Imagine she came with pregnancy to trap u..

Guy..she go dey alright...make she vex...
You took the words out of my mouth!
Even as a single guy back then, I avoid ladies who suddenly decide to come visit then sleep over for any reason! I give them the bed and sleep far away! At 16 years of age a girl nearly gave me another mans pregnancy... From then, I sabi something!
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by jaszplus12(m): 10:09pm On Apr 20
Sniper101:
well ofcourse you're a SIMP
And she told you so; in a subtle way.

A guy who isn't a simp wouldn't need to sleep on the floor just to avoid having sex with a Hot lady at night.
When the negative issues begin will you stand by him? Even if you do you can never know the pain as much as he would!
You can let it happen to you who's not a simp!

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 10:11pm On Apr 20
yomi007k:


What if she was pregnant or had HIV and was looking to put it on someone?

Self/sex control is a blessing.
Don't mind the guinea fowl let him be insulting his father, he thinks everyone is a dog who'd fvck any hole, I've made my peace, I'd rather sleep in a cell than sleep on same bed with a girl I'm not romantically involved with, I no fit enter wahala because of toto and 15mins pleasure, I have a very bright future and if protecting it means I'm a simp, so be it.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 10:12pm On Apr 20
Sniper101:
well ofcourse you're a SIMP
And she told you so; in a subtle way.

A guy who isn't a simp wouldn't need to sleep on the floor just to avoid having sex with a Hot lady at night.
Lol talking through your arse must be a great achievement where you're from, cuz the groundnut you call sense isn't capable of coming up with anything comprehensible so it's definitely the arse talking.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by yomi007k(m): 10:12pm On Apr 20
OKOATA:
Simp talking as usual. Are you in the USA that she will claim rape?

I pray you will be healed soon.

I pity your family.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 10:13pm On Apr 20
OKOATA:
That your GF wey you carry for head another gee boy dey knack am and for your information the girls right about you. Good guys comes last so rest mr obote. You see pussy run still dey shine teeth. Shame suppose even catch you? All the respect wey you respect am where he land you. Read on red pills dem go dey for rambo. omo ase.
And you that isn't obote what have you achieved, see how miserable you sound, you don chop today? Ragtag nincompoop trying to have an opinion, please dissolve abeg, I don't have time to spend on simple people.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 10:22pm On Apr 20
OKOATA:
Simp talking as usual. Are you in the USA that she will claim rape?
And it can only happen in the USA? God why is there so many dumb people these days? I mean they were dumb people since the beginning of time but the numbers these days is alarming and choking, where did you even come from? Dundee republic?

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by OKOATA(m): 11:35pm On Apr 20
natedensel:
And it can only happen in the USA? God why is there so many dumb people these days? I mean they were dumb people since the beginning of time but the numbers these days is alarming and choking, where did you even come from? Dundee republic?
You are the dundee bro, do you need to rape a girl before she accuses you or did you forget Neymar saga? Keep simping mr I'm a gentle man.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by OKOATA(m): 11:36pm On Apr 20
natedensel:
And you that isn't obote what have you achieved, see how miserable you sound, you don chop today? Ragtag nincompoop trying to have an opinion, please dissolve abeg, I don't have time to spend on simple people.
Lol he pain am grin
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by TheFreshVanilla: 11:48pm On Apr 20
Fabricated old story.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by jaywon442: 6:45am On Apr 21
OKOATA:
That your GF wey you carry for head another gee boy dey knack am and for your information the girls right about you. Good guys comes last so rest mr obote. You see pussy run still dey shine teeth. Shame suppose even catch you? All the respect wey you respect am where he land you. Read on red pills dem go dey form rambo. omo ase.

It's people like you that spoil the face of rp. How does RP translate to having sex up and down and making your self cheap in the name of having sex. RP is awareness at all levels albeit amoral, it never translates to hoeing around. He's in the top 5% of man if he can be consistent with this energy. The greatest card a woman can pull is the sexual card and he has proved himself by overcoming that and also proving the girl is a hoe based on the utterances of the said girl after the unfortunate ordeal.

The only mistake he made is rating a girl which I believe he can easily improve on. Believe it or not 95% of these women are hoes, 100% by nature. She proved it, AWALT should always be your mantra.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by jaywon442: 6:54am On Apr 21
natedensel:
And it can only happen in the USA? God why is there so many dumb people these days? I mean they were dumb people since the beginning of time but the numbers these days is alarming and choking, where did you even come from? Dundee republic?

I think he's right about that. If you claim rape here people will not take you serious even the police. The only way they can take you serious is if the said allegation happened in the girls house if not it's a waste of saliva.

Another look is the laws here are not overly supportive of such accusations by the female folks. And he's not even extremely rich for such accusations to taint is image

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by luminouz(m): 6:56am On Apr 21
natedensel:
I lost someone recently and this girl who was an old flame came for the burial, she decided to stay till the next day, she stayed at my place overnight, we stayed up all night talking, catching up and just snuggling on the couch, she's someone I'm very attracted to sexually and physically, there was a time I thought I'd end up with her but it didn't work and we both started dating other people, so I friendzone her like I trust myself that nothing can happen between us even if she's naked, and that's why I didn't tell my girlfriend my old flame was passing the night.

When it's time to sleep she got into her lingerie and hopped on my bed, I got my duvet and spread it on the ground, trust me I'm not simping, she's someone I don't see as a sex object, I respect her and I wouldn't demoralize her for any reason even if she's a stripper, I spread my duvet to sleep on the ground and she had this look of surprise and disappoinment, I didn't care though, she then told me to come to the bed that it's big for three people, I told her goodnight, but she wouldn't sleep, she kept talking to me, asking me questions about my girl, our sex life etc, I told her everything cuz we were that close.

Eventually we all slept and the next morning she started giving me attitude, I won't go into that because it's a long story, I got fed up and asked her what's up, then she told me I am a good guy, and she hate that about me, I was like is that a bad thing? She said most guys would not let her sleep alone last night, that I should have had sex with her, that all the clues were there and I was just not getting it, that she wouldn't be contacting me anymore.

I couldn't say anything because the thought of just having her crossed my mind so many times, what stopped me is the respect I have for her, she's not a cheap slut I can just have sex with but she didn't appreciate my respect, second reason is, I also hold myself in high esteem, playing hard to get is a game two can play afterall we both moved on, third I have a girlfriend for Pete sake, lastly, she fit later say I pressured her into having sex and I have seen what ruin that can do to a man's life, was I wrong to exercise restraint and self control? Now she's hating me so much.

Ode said she is not a cheap slut!!!i

Dem dey write am for girls forehead abi?

What else is she if she is no cheap slut with everything she did?

Oga, she is a cheap slut...
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 9:29am On Apr 21
jaywon442:


I think he's right about that. If you claim rape here people will not take you serious even the police. The only way they can take you serious is if the said allegation happened in the girls house if not it's a waste of saliva.

Another look is the laws here are not overly supportive of such accusations by the female folks. And he's not even extremely rich for such accusations to taint is image
But it could happen right? Especially if she claims she's the victim.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by shaybebaby(f): 10:28am On Apr 21
natedensel:
I lost someone recently and this girl who was an old flame came for the burial, she decided to stay till the next day, she stayed at my place overnight, we stayed up all night talking, catching up and just snuggling on the couch, she's someone I'm very attracted to sexually and physically, there was a time I thought I'd end up with her but it didn't work and we both started dating other people, so I friendzone her like I trust myself that nothing can happen between us even if she's naked, and that's why I didn't tell my girlfriend my old flame was passing the night.

When it's time to sleep she got into her lingerie and hopped on my bed, I got my duvet and spread it on the ground, trust me I'm not simping, she's someone I don't see as a sex object, I respect her and I wouldn't demoralize her for any reason even if she's a stripper, I spread my duvet to sleep on the ground and she had this look of surprise and disappoinment, I didn't care though, she then told me to come to the bed that it's big for three people, I told her goodnight, but she wouldn't sleep, she kept talking to me, asking me questions about my girl, our sex life etc, I told her everything cuz we were that close.

Eventually we all slept and the next morning she started giving me attitude, I won't go into that because it's a long story, I got fed up and asked her what's up, then she told me I am a good guy, and she hate that about me, I was like is that a bad thing? She said most guys would not let her sleep alone last night, that I should have had sex with her, that all the clues were there and I was just not getting it, that she wouldn't be contacting me anymore.

I couldn't say anything because the thought of just having her crossed my mind so many times, what stopped me is the respect I have for her, she's not a cheap slut I can just have sex with but she didn't appreciate my respect, second reason is, I also hold myself in high esteem, playing hard to get is a game two can play afterall we both moved on, third I have a girlfriend for Pete sake, lastly, she fit later say I pressured her into having sex and I have seen what ruin that can do to a man's life, was I wrong to exercise restraint and self control? Now she's hating me so much.
Nope, you did the right thing.
She has issues that has nothing to do with you as she obviously does not see her own worth beyond her perceived sex appeal

That's on her, not you.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by OKOATA(m): 1:45pm On Apr 21
jaywon442:


It's people like you that spoil the face of rp. How does RP translate to having sex up and down and making your self cheap in the name of having sex. RP is awareness at all levels albeit amoral, it never translates to hoeing around. He's in the top 5% of man if he can be consistent with this energy. The greatest card a woman can pull is the sexual card and he has proved himself by overcoming that and also proving the girl is a hoe based on the utterances of the said girl after the unfortunate ordeal.

The only mistake he made is rating a girl which I believe he can easily improve on. Believe it or not 95% of these women are hoes, 100% by nature. She proved it, AWALT should always be your mantra.
Bro he knew he wasn't going to sleep with the girl but he allowed her to come spend the night at his house? He's talking about a GF so if the so called GF comes over and see her do you know what would happen even if they didn't have sex? It's like his own GF going to sleep at another guys house and you check her phone to find out then she says she didn't have sex with the guy would he believe her? So what point is he proofing exactly for her coming to sleep at his place and doing nothing? Forming what exactly? He should have just told the girl he's not around or my GF is with me as an excuse so why invite her.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by DonroxyII: 2:23pm On Apr 21
starpower:

Discipline is what many seek can't have. You self respect is more and you become more valuable
That Dude was a Devil ... When You Knew You wouldn't do Jack .. You Shouldn't have let her so On like that Only to left Her in Intense Heat ....

If she break something On His Head Now .. People will say Women are Evil .... Don't Bring Wetin U no go Chop Closer to Ya Nostril cheesy...

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by Sniper101(m): 3:04pm On Apr 21
yomi007k:


What if she was pregnant or had HIV and was looking to put it on someone?

Self/sex control is a blessing.

Who said anything about him having sex with her 🤷
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by Sniper101(m): 3:07pm On Apr 21
natedensel:
Lol talking through your arse must be a great achievement where you're from, cuz the groundnut you call sense isn't capable of coming up with anything comprehensible so it's definitely the arse talking.

You're a complete dunce.
This shitty reply of yours just gave you away.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 3:38pm On Apr 21
OKOATA:
Bro he knew he wasn't going to sleep with the girl but he allowed her to come spend the night at his house? He's talking about a GF so if the so called GF comes over and see her do you know what would happen even if they didn't have sex? It's like his own GF going to sleep at another guys house and you check her phone to find out then she says she didn't have sex with the guy would he believe her? So what point is he proofing exactly for her coming to sleep at his place and doing nothing? Forming what exactly? He should have just told the girl he's not around or my GF is with me as an excuse so why invite her. And abeg what's RP.
Did you even read? She came for a burial, we had history, where else was she supposed to stay? Should I have asked her to sleep outside when she told me she'd be staying through the night? Why am I even explaining to you.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by DonroxyII: 6:25pm On Apr 21
shaybebaby:

Nope, you did the right thing.
She has issues that has nothing to do with you as she obviously does not see her own worth beyond her perceived sex appeal

That's on her, not you.
Abegi, Women Are Enemies of Women ...

She wants Sex Doesn't Mean she is Worthless ... We are all Human Being ... She is Woman With Needs .. she was led On & She expressed Her Humanhood Doesn't Limits Her Reasonableness In Whatever Guises .... She sha didn't raped Him But Only Made her Mindsets Known ..

. She was Stood Up Which is very Bad for Her Psychology & Good Night Rest Which she would have been envisaging ... She would never forgive nor forget the nasty experiences

At Some Point We Have needs Only to Be Fulfilled By Someone That's Closer to You.... It Happens to Men, Boys, Girls, Women ... It's Just Nature's Call ... It can Happen to Anyone ......

Una go Carry Mouth dey Judge People Up & Down Until e Happen to You ....

The Op shouldn't have lead her On when he knew he wouldn't finished what he started...

If it were to be some crazy bipolar girls, She would just planked him on the head With a 2 by 2 & All the nonsense in his heads would split on the floor ...

Weyrey People tongue

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 7:18pm On Apr 21
DonroxyII:
Abegi, Women Are Enemies of Women ...

She wants Sex Doesn't Mean she is Worthless ... We are all Human Being ... She is Woman With Needs .. she was led On & She expressed Her Humanhood Doesn't Limits Her Reasonableness In Whatever Guises .... She sha didn't raped Him But Only Made her Mindsets Known ..

. She was Stood Up Which is very Bad for Her Psychology & Good Night Rest Which she would have been envisaging ... She would never forgive nor forget the nasty experiences

At Some Point We Have needs Only to Be Fulfilled By Someone That's Closer to You.... It Happens to Men, Boys, Girls, Women ... It's Just Nature's Call ... It can Happen to Anyone ......

Una go Carry Mouth dey Judge People Up & Down Until e Happen to You ....

The Op shouldn't have lead her On when he knew he wouldn't finished what he started...

If it were to be some crazy bipolar girls, She would just planked him on the head With a 2 by 2 & All the nonsense in his heads would split on the floor ...

Weyrey People tongue
I'm so confused right now, how did I lead her on? Please explain.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by OKOATA(m): 8:04pm On Apr 21
natedensel:
Did you even read? She came for a burial, we had history, where else was she supposed to stay? Should I have asked her to sleep outside when she told me she'd be staying through the night? Why am I even explaining to you.
Alaye, do you know what you are saying, someone came for a burial and you believe she doesn't have money for a hotel room or atleast know someone else around her? Just accept say you don F.up and lesson learnt.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 8:34pm On Apr 21
OKOATA:
Alaye, do you know what you are saying, someone came for a burial and you believe she doesn't have money for a hotel room or atleast know someone else around her? Just accept say you don F.up and lesson learnt.
The burial she came for was for someone I lost, it's not her relative or mum, so why would she come loaded with hotel money, are you slow or something? She came out of respect for me and the fact that the person who died is also dear to her, so I should turn her away when she came to pay her respect? See who is calling who alaye, with this peanut you call brain that can't comprehend the simplest thing, shift abeg.

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Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by OKOATA(m): 9:44pm On Apr 21
natedensel:
The burial she came for was for someone I lost, it's not her relative or mum, so why would she come loaded with hotel money, are you slow or something? She came out of respect for me and the fact that the person who died is also dear to her, so I should turn her away when she came to pay her respect? See who is calling who alaye, with this peanut you call brain that can't comprehend the simplest thing, shift abeg.
I'm very sure you are a teenager or either in your 20s cos a matured man won't be venting, cursing all of his post. Na you bring your matter con nairaland and as people see am dem go judge am so next time instead of laying curses on your whole generation and acting like a little sissy all over the place you should just learn to move on and stfu.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by hstar: 10:01pm On Apr 21
DonroxyII:
That Dude was a Devil ... When You Knew You wouldn't do Jack .. You Shouldn't have let her so On like that Only to left Her in Intense Heat ....

If she break something On His Head Now .. People will say Women are Evil
.... Don't Bring Wetin U no go Chop Closer to Ya Nostril cheesy...
Hey, another banger

Different different pple on nairaland

Chai, wetin I never hear for nairaland
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by natedensel: 12:22am On Apr 22
OKOATA:
I'm very sure you are a teenager or either in your 20s cos a matured man won't be venting, cursing all of his post. Na you bring your matter con nairaland and as people see am dem go judge am so next time instead of laying curses on your whole generation and acting like a little sissy all over the place you should just learn to move on and stfu.
Look for who would entertain your simpleton tirade, I'm done giving you the attention you crave like coke, now go back under the rock you crawled out of.
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by ObalendeCMS: 12:39am On Apr 22
Op no try at all; it's not about being virtuos or disciplined. You could have just smooched & pet her to sleep. Just like someone mentioned, don't try this with some psycho babes o. I know how vicious & desperate my bipolar x girlfriend acted anytime she's ovulating & wants to get forked, she didn't mind putting my life in danger neither did she see anything wrong in what she did. She's just hornny & desperately needs to get dugged out by her lover!
Re: She's Now Hating Me Because I Respected Her And Didn't Treat Her Like A Slut by FRANCISTOWN: 9:45am On Apr 22
natedensel:
I lost someone recently and this girl who was an old flame came for the burial, she decided to stay till the next day, she stayed at my place overnight, we stayed up all night talking, catching up and just snuggling on the couch, she's someone I'm very attracted to sexually and physically, there was a time I thought I'd end up with her but it didn't work and we both started dating other people, so I friendzone her like I trust myself that nothing can happen between us even if she's naked, and that's why I didn't tell my girlfriend my old flame was passing the night.

When it's time to sleep she got into her lingerie and hopped on my bed, I got my duvet and spread it on the ground, trust me I'm not simping, she's someone I don't see as a sex object, I respect her and I wouldn't demoralize her for any reason even if she's a stripper, I spread my duvet to sleep on the ground and she had this look of surprise and disappoinment, I didn't care though, she then told me to come to the bed that it's big for three people, I told her goodnight, but she wouldn't sleep, she kept talking to me, asking me questions about my girl, our sex life etc, I told her everything cuz we were that close.

Eventually we all slept and the next morning she started giving me attitude, I won't go into that because it's a long story, I got fed up and asked her what's up, then she told me I am a good guy, and she hate that about me, I was like is that a bad thing? She said most guys would not let her sleep alone last night, that I should have had sex with her, that all the clues were there and I was just not getting it, that she wouldn't be contacting me anymore.

I couldn't say anything because the thought of just having her crossed my mind so many times, what stopped me is the respect I have for her, she's not a cheap slut I can just have sex with but she didn't appreciate my respect, second reason is, I also hold myself in high esteem, playing hard to get is a game two can play afterall we both moved on, third I have a girlfriend for Pete sake, lastly, she fit later say I pressured her into having sex and I have seen what ruin that can do to a man's life, was I wrong to exercise restraint and self control? Now she's hating me so much.
It would have been better if the reason you didn't sleep with her was mainly because you value yourself enough not to be a cheap steak.

The value and respect you have for her is coming from a place or nativity

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