| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Jocdon(m): 12:55pm On May 02 |
DonroxyII:
If I were to be You, I will also Bown Him as if Nothing Has Happened Between Us Until He Opened his Mouth to Greet Me & I will also answer like Nothing has happened ....
He will never see that kain emergency money collect from me again.
Laslas, Something worth 5k must damaged in his life from there further damages go dey hustle am ... To Pay House rent go come difficult for him self na so things go dey turnioniown ...  ...
Na so he buy market as he go dey beg me for house rent, food & Nepa money ... E enter am  how you wan take do m? I go need make we talk. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by toprealman: 12:56pm On May 02 |
Gbadugbakun:
In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night.
He sent me a WhatsApp message around 11 after he was contacted by the guy that does the recharge reminding him that he's the only person that have not pay. He told me that I should pay for him that he didn't deposit the sales he made into his account that when he comes the following morning he would give me cash.
I transferred the 5k to the guy and we recharged. Do you know that when this man come back the next morning he did as if nothing happens between us, the whole of Tuesday he didn't even tell me anything. Today is Wednesday I was outside when he come he just pass me and enter his house. am just holding myself because if I enter his house I will damage something. why is Nigerians like this. why do we like to cheat people at any given chance. Does he know if the 5k is my last card. I don’t know what it is with 5K. It just never get paid back. Not once not twice. One even asked for an upgraded 5K despite not paying what is owed. Unfortunately, I don’t ask for refund, matter of policy. If you borrow and can’t pay back…that’s cool. Just don’t come back. 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by lekonso: 12:58pm On May 02 |
Gbadugbakun:
Thanks everyone for you contributions.
Me and 2 other tenants went to his room to confront him. He gave me 2k and said he doesn't have money that he would give me the remaining 3k by Friday. They told me to take the 2k first and wait till Friday.
My anger is that why did he lie to me that he would give me back the money when he knows he didn't have it. He is married with 2 small children yet he goes to ashewo joint to drink and chase women. I would wait till Friday na it's just next tomorrow. Aaah! You borrow an irresponsible man money, you have learnt your lesson. Nobody will teach you what to do next time 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by CluelessMODS: 12:59pm On May 02 |
Zonefree:
Try to give people benefit of doubt before taking any decision.
You helped on Monday and today is Wednesday, you need to relax first. He's your neighbour. Going to his house to knock when you can just send him a subtle message on WhatsApp is you being forward.
Calm down for a while, you'll get your money. Did you read where the guy said he will give him back the money the following day? You are here counting days for him on top of his money. Do you you know what is called trust? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by kesmiraAutos: 1:01pm On May 02 |
Gbadugbakun:
In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night.
He sent me a WhatsApp message around 11 after he was contacted by the guy that does the recharge reminding him that he's the only person that have not pay. He told me that I should pay for him that he didn't deposit the sales he made into his account that when he comes the following morning he would give me cash.
I transferred the 5k to the guy and we recharged. Do you know that when this man come back the next morning he did as if nothing happens between us, the whole of Tuesday he didn't even tell me anything. Today is Wednesday I was outside when he come he just pass me and enter his house. am just holding myself because if I enter his house I will damage something. why is Nigerians like this. why do we like to cheat people at any given chance. Does he know if the 5k is my last card. Based on what you've said, it seems you didn't send him a gentle reminder. Please take the necessary action before making a decision, sir. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by lekonso: 1:03pm On May 02 |
toprealman:
I don’t know what it is with 5K. It just never get paid back. Not once not twice. One even asked for an upgraded 5K despite not paying what is owed. Unfortunately, I don’t ask for refund, matter of policy. If you borrow and can’t pay back…that’s cool. Just don’t come back. Just my attitude too. I don't borrow money i can't give you as dash. If i borrow you money and you don't pay back, i won't ask you, but i can never borrow you money again, even if you are dieing, that is not my business. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by HOSTCOM(m): 1:05pm On May 02 |
U dey lend people money for this period ba? The rule is anything ure not ready to let go, don't lend out. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by fawaz050(m): 1:09pm On May 02 |
1 Like |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by idanone(m): 1:11pm On May 02 |
illicit:
There's something called 'Gentle Reminder' |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Lomprico2: 1:15pm On May 02 |
Gbadugbakun:
Thanks everyone for you contributions.
Me and 2 other tenants went to his room to confront him. He gave me 2k and said he doesn't have money that he would give me the remaining 3k by Friday. They told me to take the 2k first and wait till Friday.
My anger is that why did he lie to me that he would give me back the money when he knows he didn't have it. He is married with 2 small children yet he goes to ashewo joint to drink and chase women. I would wait till Friday na it's just next tomorrow. No forget to give us update o! I like amebo like this one. |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Juniorangel(m): 1:16pm On May 02 |
If I know you are not capable enough to pay me back even if it's #1k, am not giving you shishi even if the heaven comes down. Before you lend money to someone make sure that person is 10 times richer than you, if not, don't do it. 8 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by ForValour: 1:17pm On May 02 |
SenecaTheYonger:
Guy remind him first. Also if 5k is your last card, never give it out ohh. Correct |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Reality3080: 1:18pm On May 02 |
Gbadugbakun:
In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night.
He sent me a WhatsApp message around 11 after he was contacted by the guy that does the recharge reminding him that he's the only person that have not pay. He told me that I should pay for him that he didn't deposit the sales he made into his account that when he comes the following morning he would give me cash.
I transferred the 5k to the guy and we recharged. Do you know that when this man come back the next morning he did as if nothing happens between us, the whole of Tuesday he didn't even tell me anything. Today is Wednesday I was outside when he come he just pass me and enter his house. am just holding myself because if I enter his house I will damage something. why is Nigerians like this. why do we like to cheat people at any given chance. Does he know if the 5k is my last card. y damage something when u can humbly ask him? I haven’t seen it in the write up that u reminded him of d money now |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by highness25(m): 1:18pm On May 02 |
Zonefree:
Try to give people benefit of doubt before taking any decision.
You helped on Monday and today is Wednesday, you need to relax first. He's your neighbour. Going to his house to knock when you can just send him a subtle message on WhatsApp is you being forward.
Calm down for a while, you'll get your money. Agreement is agreement, it doesn't matter whether writing or unwritten. People should learn to keep to their words. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Lomprico2: 1:19pm On May 02 |
donproject2:
Remember he promised next morning, a real man will find all means to pay him that next morning he promised. See how you are taking sides, this explains more about you. Even if he could not meet up, courtesy demands he meets the guy to explain things to him. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by drmikeadams(m): 1:21pm On May 02 |
Lomprico2:
Even if he could not meet up, courtesy demands he meets the guy to explain things to him.
Very simple 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Lomprico2: 1:21pm On May 02 |
GloriousGbola:
You should have involved everyone rather than taking the matter on yourself. If he is owing four people he will be under more pressure to pay than one person.
The next thing he will be saying he is not at home so why is he paying the bill? He has a wife n 2 kids. Na all of dem dey go work? |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Lemos14: 1:22pm On May 02 |
hstar:
How you take know this?
When you have neighbors, will it be hard to know some of their habits? There are some neighbors am sure you know their habits even against your own will. 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by donproject2(m): 1:23pm On May 02 |
Lomprico2:
Even if he could not meet up, courtesy demands he meets the guy to explain things to him.
Exactly... |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by donproject2(m): 1:23pm On May 02 |
hstar:
U just dey fire everybody, left and right
Though in a positive way Don't mind me. |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by jaszplus12(m): 1:23pm On May 02 |
Gbadugbakun:
I just went to knock at his door. He just shouted who is that. When I told him I'm the one he told me he doesn't have money that he would give me when he has. He didn't even come out to see me. He's still inside the house and he's door is locked
Am just holding myself honestly, because if I do what is in my mind people will say is because of 5k. Bro, calm down. Next time money is being contributed, just let the collector meet him, collect the money and give you...then the collector goes back to him and say he should pay for the new month else his wires will be disconnected from from the supply...easy... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Timoleon(m): 1:25pm On May 02 |
Light78:
Some people are abnormal nowadays.
I was on my own, then I got a call from my friend that he's at an event center. I should come so we go flex. I reminded him that I don't drink alcohol. I can only take bottle water or malt drink. He said I should come that he's feeling bored.
Before I left, I took 1k with me in case something goes out of the ordinary, I will pay for my drink and off I go. But I like paying for what I order.
Immediately I reached the place, I saw him with three more guys. They have started drink and on their second bottles. I grabbed a chair, but as I was about to have a seat, he told me to bring 2k so he can add his and pay for drinks.
I immediately left without uttering a world.
I was like, don't people think? The mad man no even allow you siddon before he begin ask you to pay for drink wey you no drink 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by HughWilliams: 1:26pm On May 02 |
Gbadugbakun:
In my compound, we are 5 sharing the prepaid meter. We uses to contribute 5k per person to recharged it when it finishes. So since last week we have been contributing because the units were low and the meter was making noise. By Monday this week it went off around 10 pm. And only one man hasn't paid yet. And he wasn't around that night. Bros, post me your account details and I will pay you the balance of 3k. Just ignore that neighbour and don’t ask him again. Just be careful next time and try to keep as much of your money to yourself . 6 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Zidoh(m): 1:27pm On May 02 |
Asquare84:
that is why it is encourage for everybody should be on their lane in a rented apartment, what should join you with neighbor's should be greetings, that is how my neighbor that feel to big to greet just went to our compound WhatsApp group to get my number and called me to lend him 16,000 naira, to cut the story short i sha sent him 9000 till date this man did not give me back the money, na so i quickly went to the WhatsApp group and remove myself.
another of my neighbor, a married woman came to meet me and was begging me that the younger brother was in coma in the village and they need 80,000 thousand for oxygen, and now she has 60,000, on hearing this sad story i quickly gave this woman 20,000 to complete the money, to my surprise later, my wife told me that all the story she told me were all lies that she borrowed money from Lapo and they are threatening to come and pack her load so she have to cook this story to come and collect money from me.
it not worth to help the poor. The thing always give out what you can let go and forget it . Don't think you borrow them money . I don't borrow money and I wouldn't borrow you I will only give you whatever I can let go and forget about it. Some people are naturally w*cked. |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Blackman101: 1:28pm On May 02 |
If you can let him be for now, what come around goes around.
After all you are all leaving in the same compound 1 Like |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Impliment: 1:29pm On May 02 |
Jflex07:
Why not first remind him politely and see his reaction. His reaction should dictate for you,your next line of action. God bless you my dear. That is exactly what he is supposed to do before now. |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by id4sho(m): 1:35pm On May 02 |
Kooldon:
That is why we pretend at times that we don't have money when such request arises to avoid stories.
If and only if, it wasn't your last card, tell others about the situation that you have paid for next sub in advance, meaning he has to pay 10k for sub.
Let him just default watch as others wil tear him apart for you.
Wisdom Pro Max Women and money , sense no go kill you . Conclusion, gbamm 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by AutoConsult: 1:35pm On May 02 |
Zonefree:
Try to give people benefit of doubt before taking any decision.
You helped on Monday and today is Wednesday, you need to relax first. He's your neighbour. Going to his house to knock when you can just send him a subtle message on WhatsApp is you being forward.
Calm down for a while, you'll get your money. Na person like you go do dah kain thing. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by Jefferyhi86(m): 1:36pm On May 02 |
No needd for much talk wen e turn reach e go pay double. U just help him by paying ahead 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by GloriousGbola: 1:37pm On May 02 |
Lomprico2:
He has a wife n 2 kids. Na all of dem dey go work? sharing nepa bills is one of the most contentious situations you will encounter as a facilities manager it is better everyone has their own meter 6 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by mastermind1759(m): 1:37pm On May 02 |
He used u ..he doesn't have d money in d first place ...but he needs d light heat too much....no gree for anybody oo....which kind yeye sense b dt 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do People Behave Very Wicked Like This by ChybuzzDD(m): 1:46pm On May 02 |
DonroxyII:
Bown the Money Bro! Which kind grammar you dey write self  3 Likes |
