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I recently picked my wife's phone to make a call, because had a low battery. She comfortably handed me the phone. Upon receiving the phone I saw an unread message from what I later found out was a guy since My wife had saved his name with a lady's name.

I wasn't going to open it but because of the nature of the message, I was forced to read the entire conversation. The unread message on her screen was "I will do anything for you sweetie".
I know a woman can send that message but my instincts were telling me to confirm the gender from their chat.

They had a long history chat. And calls. I discovered something that shocked me.
It was from their interactions last year when my daughter was born.

When my wife was in the labor ward, I was leading a presentation for our company.
In fact, when my wife forwarded the picture of my daughter to me on WhatsApp, was about to give a speech at the meeting. I was so excited, i had to announce to everyone l had a daughter. I used FORWARDED because she originally had uploaded the picture to this man and captioned it, "Our baby girl"

I took my phone to scroll to see the time she forwarded and found out My daughter’s name that we now call her was suggested in their chat by this man.

I feel so embarrassed, ashamed and betrayed.
I don’t know what to do next.

Brother, there's so much more than meets the eye.Why should an ex of your wife suggest a name for your daughter?
Something is smelling foul.
Not even your brothers, sisters, father, mother or cousins suggested a name,but your wife's ex did.
Go for a DNA test as quickly as possible, without hesitation to be a hundred percent sure that your daughter is biologically yours.
Paternity fraud is REAL!

If that your so Called daughter Is Your only Child Then you Are Childless

Wahalooooor!!!

First confirm if she's truly your biological child before you even start anything. That tag *our child* hmmm

From some of your threads you're not yet married. Just be tagging your threads as 'Fiction' at the beginning.

kelvin1191:
If that your so Called daughter Is Your only Child Then you Are Childless

Too harsh.

I love this skit, it will go viral.


Meanwhile, tell Obidients to stop causing fuel scarcity just to discredit Tinubu. Obidients are the cause of the current fuel scarcity, they will buy fuel from filling station and pour it away and go back to filling station to buy more to pour away.


How can IPOB/Obidients hate Nigeria so much and still want Obi to become President?



Peter Obi will never be President, he is Gbajue, he failed to develop Anambra state

no worry thats life, it favour some and neglect some

franchasofficia:
I love this skit, it will go viral.


Meanwhile, tell Obidients to stop causing fuel scarcity just to discredit Tinubu. Obidients are the cause of the current fuel scarcity, they will buy fuel from filling station and pour it away and go back to filling station to buy more to pour away.


How can IPOB/Obidients hate Nigeria so much and still want Obi to become President?

This one is a brainwashed zombie already. May God heal him amen

[color=#1986BC] You married an alpha widow...Sorry.[/color]

Una no dey ture to dey recycle fake stories?

Tell us your daughter's name first and foremost.

Why on earth will you allow your wife to name your child? Personally I don't do that cos I know some of them can use their Ex name to name the innocent child.

This I know even before I became a father.

The caption would have been “My wife’s daughter’s name was suggested by her boyfriend “ guy as it stands you don’t have a wife, come talk of daughter. Use brain.

If you don't marry a virgin, forget it.. chances are high that one of her ex boyfriends or numerous male friends will impregnate her. This OP's case is a typical example.
That she saved a guy's name as female to conceal his identity shows she has no regard for the husband, the ex suggesting name of their daughter shows the ex might have fathered the girl.

When I see some guys feeling too confident of their wives, I just laugh and go my way.

Obiedun:
Too harsh.

Should we tell him that he Is Bankrolling a Jobless guy who in Trun Uses the Proceed To bankroll other Whores

The moment I saw the meme picture u attached to ur story, I already knew it is fake and u must be one of those jobless boys/men we have in this forum

kelvin1191:
Should we tell him that he Is Bankrolling a Jobless guy who in Trun Uses the Proceed To bankroll other Whores

The man no get wife self.

Tales by moonlight

This is serious

If it bothers you so much, change the name. It's not too late. In Africa, many family members give banes but not all ofbthem are govt names

That's because the child isn't yours. Better do a DNA. If she turns out to be yours change her name. She's still a baby so it won't have complex consequences

This reeks of lies. But Wetin una de gain to Dey continue fuel the gender war already in the country. Worse is that some morons will read this and will be quick to believe it. As a Man, until u absorb that feminine energy u are just wasting ur time. So best stay away from posts that corrupt ur mind about women, Abi una no get sisters? Na so them de behave? U get mama to na. Haba Seun needs to do something about this misogynistic agenda on nairaland.

If you had followed good counsel and married a virgin, another man wouldn’t have named their daughter in your house and you wouldn’t have opened this thread! Thus, to all single men out there: “marry a virgin today!!!😊

fyzaila:
First confirm if she's truly your biological child before you even start anything. That tag *our child* hmmm

when you read cant you comprehend? Didnt you see where op said she originally uploaded the photo to her ex with the caption "Our baby girl" before forwarding it to the idiot that pay the bills for her promiscuity in full time .

DNA/Biology for what? Common sense would tell you the op has been played for a fool if this is true

This guy na big ass liar. I done read this same story b4 for NL

No need to go for DNA.. it's a total waste of time and money. It's so glaring, that girl isnt yours. You're the side husband. The main husband is the one u referred to as EX. if were u, that marriage is over! She should go to him. Sorry man, you've got to look for a way to start all over again. That woman isn't yours.

Truly I say to you, yes you that are reading this. I'm sick and tired of simps and their tales.