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KORLAR:
Be supporting nonsense.
Why didn’t the girl leave instead of being disloyal while in a relationship?

She wanted to eat her cake and have it.

If not, she’d have broken up before starting something with another guy. But no, she decided to emotionally abuse the guy; such that if the guy she was gunning for doesnt fall for her, she’d come back like nothing happened.

She deserves it, she should learn for the future.

Read the statement again when she wanted to leave, the guy will beg and beg till she change her mind...

Reminderz:
only feminine men do this... strong men with options would have left her even before her leaving, they would have left her for the streets where she came..

simps and weak men lack game.. this is why they will continue being pawns in a woman's game.. you're fvcking weak man! instead of you to create value and options for yourself, you're wasting your time doing this... I'm sure for you to do this way, you would have simped hard while in the relationship with her for her to finally decide to leave you, learn game you say no, take redpill you say no, you con dey do like pvssy... tueh! is it now you're supposed to realise that women don't care about your fvcking feelings? so disgusting...

how some of you address women with this statements makes me laugh. I guess you're from the Mars or Neptune

idahme:
He should forgive? Did anyone offend him since you see men are scum? Who is that person who offended him to necessitate forgiveness? Una no go Eva get sense even if u don turn old mama ns same level of critical thinking skills u get from ur teen to now. The one who offended does not deserve to be mentioned? In ur dreams u only hear men be careful before u enter express road ooo.

nothing to forgive the girl was only begging him because he was about to do something stupid.... sometimes people reasoning lower than cow own.. were they married? Ask yourself why was the guy always begging the girl each time she wants to end the relationship? Meaning the guy maybe gaining a lot from their relationship which I know he can tell us here...

D girl go still pretend like say she's in love with u again few weeks from now and your type I no will accept her back. But her coming back is to flog the hell out of you...

1000Capacity:
The price of disloyalty is even heavier than what the op paid her back with...

You probably don't understand how heartbreaking it feels when a lover plays you

Nothing like heartbreak 💔 man, Na sperm wey dey man body dey do am, while women na na dem vigina walls dem worry Dem.....no love lost no love found.....born alone alone die......life goes on!

Young boy face your studies

Peppysco:
The OP is just too petty. Walking away without say a thing would have been the best.

This is easier said than done.

If you know what women do to men, you will calm down.

Its only when your heart is not involved you will skip away easily without even looking back. You no go think am sef. It will just be natural.

Once your heart is involved, the need for revenge will be primitive.

Hope She is not Octavia Chisom Dike? Obi akpo girl

1000Capacity:
The price of disloyalty is even heavier than what the op paid her back with...

You probably don't understand how heartbreaking it feels when a lover plays you

Its easy for young and inexperienced men to say no revenge must be exacted.

Revenge is the only thing that can make a broken heart rest.

I have no belief in irresponsible forgivness. Because it breeds entitled people.

bigwig071:
nothing to forgive the girl was only begging him because he was about to do something stupid.... sometimes people reasoning lower than cow own.. were they married? Ask yourself why was the guy always begging the girl each time she wants to end the relationship? Meaning the guy maybe gaining a lot from their relationship which I know he can tell us here...

I no get strength, u win.

1. A pained/broken heart gets rest at REVENGE.
2. As a G, always be the lead and control.
3. Op what you acted is offside but i understand.
4. No to simping and suckling.
5. Learn to play CHESS.
6. Have about 60+ Love but only show <30 to stay safe and strong.
7. Dont be a tool or if you want to serve a tool dont lose much.
...

Coming from a person who has been through the things you described, what you did is childish.

If a lady doesn't like you because she thinks she has found a better man, allow her be. Yea it's painful; especially when you've spent years with the lady, made sacrifices for the relationship, gotten to accept her flaws and you see a real future with her.

You need to mature to a level where you can love a person while understanding that it's okay for her to leave anytime she wants to, and you'd be fine.

You actually gift yourself a superpower if you can manage to get over a lady whom you love, but who wants out because she loves you no more.

There are different personalities when it comes to relationship and life issues.
We have the Active, Passive and Reactive.

Active are those who are one step ahead of their partners so nothing surprises them because they are fully prepared fr all possible scenarios, you will never catch them unawares cos they’ve hacked your chats on all platforms.

Passive are those who are unmoved by anything that happens….if you break up with them they just move on with their life, no fuss no hatred no happiness. They are usually cold and show zero emotions.

Reactive are those who like to keep scores and they are often very spiteful revenge freaks.
The most noticeable thing about them is that they have only one way of dealing with pain and that is to give some of that pain back to the sender.

Op is a textbook example of a reactive personality.

You did your best but no loose guard ooo. Women will come for you like fulani herdsmen when you least expect.

DeepSight:
Its easy for young and inexperienced men to say no revenge must be exacted.

Revenge is the only thing that can make a broken heart rest.

I have no belief in irresponsible forgivness. Because it breeds entitled people.

Revenge is the sweetest thing after fried rice. That's why I love Moses. He said an eye for 2 eyes

Watch

1000Capacity:
Revenge is the sweetest thing after fried rice. That's why I love Moses. He said an eye for 2 eyes

Watch

I tell you. Especially when its served deadly cold after 20 years.

When a baby dates a baby, shits like this happen

Kindnessprocity:


You can call me wicked, I don't care, this lady messed up my mental health badly while still gaslighting me,I was trauma-bond . At a point she start making it obvious she's out of the relationship, I literally want to die and she cares less, then I noticed its because of a guy she's tagging her friend she's giving those mad silly attitudes, she starts shouting at me things she doesn't do before, ghosting my status, I even begged and begged this lady is manipulating me.

Then I did the unthinkable I digged out the guy's number, through some connections, I told him how the girl came to spend days with me after she left his place,she's my girlfriend Bla bla bla.

Before I did all these I told her, she begged me heaven and earth but I didn't bulge, I just saved the guy from falling in love with a narcissist and hookup babe.

I was surprised she's asking for mercy when she doesn't have any to give. NONSENSE GIRL.

This girl has master the act of seducing men, through love bombing to make you become so attached to her, luckily for the guy he told me he's starting to like her and see her differently, but I told him with concrete evidence she's just painting a false pic of herself...

I'm satisfied 😌

Can't post all chats but the chats was very long.

Did I do wrong?

She wicked me,I just do my own back...and they guy even loved the chat he had with me.

How old are you?

DeepSight:
This is easier said than done.

If you know what women do to men, you will calm down.

Its only when your heart is not involved you will skip away easily without even looking back. You no go think am sef. It will just be natural.

Once your heart is involved, the need for revenge will be primitive.

Truly, it is easier said than done. While some men find it easy to do, other may struggle with it. But I'll advise you that 'in all of your dealings with women, your mental health should be the most important'.
A hangry and hateful woman will spare nothing to destroy a man, remember, they act on emotions rather than logic. Once again, if you're ever faced with such situation of, my brother, kindly walk away. Walking away doesn't make you weak or foolish, you should know that.

Pour girl
No airtime
But u sef try oh...dig number out
Omorrr...I don't have time
If she wants out mk she dei go...I'll be down for a while but I promise to be beta
This reminds me of Victoria
She abandoned me four years leta she called me telling me she saw my love text msg
DUMB BI+CHES
HAHAHA

bigwig071:
Read the statement again when she wanted to leave, the guy will beg and beg till she change her mind...

I did.
It didn’t say he begged because she wanted to leave, he begged because she was misbehaving.

She could have simply left instead of doing her shenanigans.

By the way, I apologise for saying you support nonsense.

I still think she doesn’t deserve your support though.

Rizzputin:
You are both wrong and right at the same time. Let me tell you why.

You are right for allowing things to end. But you are soo wrong for a host of other reasons.

First, this kind of girl is what I call Drama Divas. These kind of girls will be the sweetest and worst kind in a relationship


I was going to write a thread on them and the best ways to handle them. But I couldn't due to time. Maybe if I did, and you read it... would have saved you from making costly mistakes


Let me guess...

At the start, this girl was so sweet to you. She was loving, respectful, submissive. She confessed her feelings to you. Told you how much she loved you. Showed you care and affection.

She said you were the best thing that ever happened to her. She complimented you a lot on your good qualities. She'd call to check up on you and wanted to spend time with you.

Then all of a sudden she changed...

Her love bombing dropped out of nowhere. She promised to change but never really did.

And because this was your first time with this kind of girls.. you were caught off guard. Then, you made the biggest mistake of all: You begged

You see, these Drama Divas are in a special category of 3 kinds of girls. The other two are: Daddy issue girls and girls with a history of toxic bfs or relationships

The worst thing you can do with these girls is to make them feel they "have" you or beg them to stay with you


Why?

Because all their lives they're the ones begging. Begging for their dad to come back. Begging not to be abandoned.

So when as a man you do the Begging She starts doubting her love for you. Because that's not what she's really used to.

The thing is this girl isn't a wicked person or a nonsense girl. She's damaged. Life doesn't come with a manual on how to handle relationships

She's only reacting based on how life and people she cared about treating her.

She isn't consciously trying affect your mental health. It's her subconscious taking over based on what she's experienced

If you dig through her past... you'll notice a history of abandonment. This has made her the way she is.

You should have just let her go. And advise her to seek therapy (do NOT save her yourself)

You're not the only guy neither is that guy. There are others. So it's pointless chatting up other guys

Keep an eye out for my thread on this. Because these group of girls are very common among these gen z girls

I've personally encountered more than 10 of them.

They will make you feel so special. Hype up your ego... then along the line they start throwing drama, tests and challenges to drain you.

You'll be great if she never feels you're completely hers. And if you can control your emotions and not overreact

The general goal tho, is to never date them. Rather, keep them as friends with benefits or fùck buddies till they move on to marriage

You've earned my 5 star respect reserves only for my kinds.

I don't know what's happening to my gender: they're losing the masculine codes and it's crazy

jeromestarks:
You didn't finish the work. Or, wait, you didn't do it well.
You would have told the guy WHAT she is and asked the guy to pretend as if he knew nothing. Then, the two of you will keep fvcking her and using her.
You will collaborate with the guy to use her until she comes useless then both of you will leave her.
You could even tell him to get her pregnant then reject it on bases that she was fvcking you.
Or after impregnating her, he, guy, will just reveal his true girlfriend to her and ask her to return to you.

Daaaammmmnnnnn!!


In igala's voice, you wucked

Rizzputin:
You are both wrong and right at the same time. Let me tell you why.

You are right for allowing things to end. But you are soo wrong for a host of other reasons.

First, this kind of girl is what I call Drama Divas. These kind of girls will be the sweetest and worst kind in a relationship


I was going to write a thread on them and the best ways to handle them. But I couldn't due to time. Maybe if I did, and you read it... would have saved you from making costly mistakes


Let me guess...

At the start, this girl was so sweet to you. She was loving, respectful, submissive. She confessed her feelings to you. Told you how much she loved you. Showed you care and affection.

She said you were the best thing that ever happened to her. She complimented you a lot on your good qualities. She'd call to check up on you and wanted to spend time with you.

Then all of a sudden she changed...

Her love bombing dropped out of nowhere. She promised to change but never really did.

And because this was your first time with this kind of girls.. you were caught off guard. Then, you made the biggest mistake of all: You begged

You see, these Drama Divas are in a special category of 3 kinds of girls. The other two are: Daddy issue girls and girls with a history of toxic bfs or relationships

The worst thing you can do with these girls is to make them feel they "have" you or beg them to stay with you


Why?

Because all their lives they're the ones begging. Begging for their dad to come back. Begging not to be abandoned.

So when as a man you do the Begging She starts doubting her love for you. Because that's not what she's really used to.

The thing is this girl isn't a wicked person or a nonsense girl. She's damaged. Life doesn't come with a manual on how to handle relationships

She's only reacting based on how life and people she cared about treating her.

She isn't consciously trying affect your mental health. It's her subconscious taking over based on what she's experienced

If you dig through her past... you'll notice a history of abandonment. This has made her the way she is.

You should have just let her go. And advise her to seek therapy (do NOT save her yourself)

You're not the only guy neither is that guy. There are others. So it's pointless chatting up other guys

Keep an eye out for my thread on this. Because these group of girls are very common among these gen z girls

I've personally encountered more than 10 of them.

They will make you feel so special. Hype up your ego... then along the line they start throwing drama, tests and challenges to drain you.

You'll be great if she never feels you're completely hers. And if you can control your emotions and not overreact

The general goal tho, is to never date them. Rather, keep them as friends with benefits or fùck buddies till they move on to marriage

I will like to read your thrend about this post whenever you make it, I once had a relationship with a girl that was exactly like this, I was naive then shaa..

Funny thing is I still remember her, but we haven't talked for two years now

Pharaoh4rin:
Daaaammmmnnnnn!!


In igala's voice, you wucked

No, that is not wicked enough. He should go ahead and make sure she loses her job (and anything else she has in life).

Because surely he would have lost his too.

An eye for an eye.

Pharaoh4rin:
You've earned my 5 star respect reserves only for my kinds.

I don't know what's happening to my gender: they're losing the masculine codes and it's crazy

It is better for a man to live alone in the corner of a rooftop than with a quarrelsome woman. I tell you this from the bottom of my heart.

Op, if doing what you did made you happy, then good for you! Don't mind all those "matured oldies" up there trying to make you feel bad about your action.

Relationship with a typical Nigerian lady is best done on an eye-for-an eye basis. If ladies can have the heart to shatter a loving guy's heart on flimsy reasons then guys should also not hesitate to pay them back in their own coins!

An eye for an eye makes everyone respect themselves!

KORLAR:
I did.
It didn’t say he begged because she wanted to leave, he begged because she was misbehaving.

She could have simply left instead of doing her shenanigans.

By the way, I apologise for saying you support nonsense.

I still think she doesn’t deserve your support though.

the guy no love the girl... because when you truly love someone you will do everything to protect the person no matter what but the guy enjoyed destroying the girl's image... and also we never know why the girls cheated.... also remember they were not married ooo. That king of a guy the wasted his time to repay his so called girlfriend he claimed he loved I don't think he is hard working... honestly only a broke guys takes revenge on things like that. Reasonable person would just move on and learn from the past. Nobody worth planning evil for. The best is to avoid things that can hurt you.

Peppysco:
The OP is just too petty. Walking away without say a thing would have been the best. Now, you've created a competitive scenario, 1-1 by the score now. When such a girl has the chance to strike back,in whatever form, she's coming for your jugular.

The guy is mumu
The best way to deal with evil is with strong evil.
Me, I will completely ruin her mental health and won't be able to be a successful relationship for years if na me.

Rizzputin:
You are both wrong and right at the same time. Let me tell you why.

You are right for allowing things to end. But you are soo wrong for a host of other reasons.

First, this kind of girl is what I call Drama Divas. These kind of girls will be the sweetest and worst kind in a relationship


I was going to write a thread on them and the best ways to handle them. But I couldn't due to time. Maybe if I did, and you read it... would have saved you from making costly mistakes


Let me guess...

At the start, this girl was so sweet to you. She was loving, respectful, submissive. She confessed her feelings to you. Told you how much she loved you. Showed you care and affection.

She said you were the best thing that ever happened to her. She complimented you a lot on your good qualities. She'd call to check up on you and wanted to spend time with you.

Then all of a sudden she changed...

Her love bombing dropped out of nowhere. She promised to change but never really did.

And because this was your first time with this kind of girls.. you were caught off guard. Then, you made the biggest mistake of all: You begged

You see, these Drama Divas are in a special category of 3 kinds of girls. The other two are: Daddy issue girls and girls with a history of toxic bfs or relationships

The worst thing you can do with these girls is to make them feel they "have" you or beg them to stay with you


Why?

Because all their lives they're the ones begging. Begging for their dad to come back. Begging not to be abandoned.

So when as a man you do the Begging She starts doubting her love for you. Because that's not what she's really used to.

The thing is this girl isn't a wicked person or a nonsense girl. She's damaged. Life doesn't come with a manual on how to handle relationships

She's only reacting based on how life and people she cared about treating her.

She isn't consciously trying affect your mental health. It's her subconscious taking over based on what she's experienced

If you dig through her past... you'll notice a history of abandonment. This has made her the way she is.

You should have just let her go. And advise her to seek therapy (do NOT save her yourself)

You're not the only guy neither is that guy. There are others. So it's pointless chatting up other guys

Keep an eye out for my thread on this. Because these group of girls are very common among these gen z girls

I've personally encountered more than 10 of them.

They will make you feel so special. Hype up your ego... then along the line they start throwing drama, tests and challenges to drain you.

You'll be great if she never feels you're completely hers. And if you can control your emotions and not overreact

The general goal tho, is to never date them. Rather, keep them as friends with benefits or fùck buddies till they move on to marriage

they will come back if you ignore them I have encountered girls like them before ,they will fall back when they run out of supply but if you accept them back they will finish your life kpatakpata

jeromestarks:
You didn't finish the work. Or, wait, you didn't do it well.
You would have told the guy WHAT she is and asked the guy to pretend as if he knew nothing. Then, the two of you will keep fvcking her and using her.
You will collaborate with the guy to use her until she comes useless then both of you will leave her.
You could even tell him to get her pregnant then reject it on bases that she was fvcking you.
Or after impregnating her, he, guy, will just reveal his true girlfriend to her and ask her to return to you.

Wow so her entire life is worth his broken heart. You don't consider that she has people a family a mother and father who took pains to raise her and you feel a baby's life is nothing compared to your precious broken heart that you would totally ruin that child's life just to scorn a woman.

Some people are truly narcissistic, everything goes, even human life, because they were hurt. Destroying a person's entire life because of heartbreak is definitely narcissistic.

So after everything you'll go back to your life ba? After using one disappointment in your life to totally ruin another person's, then you'll go back to your serene life, with your own family whom can enjoy the fruits of their labor? This your thinking is very selfish and odd.