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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by deejay102: 1:34pm On May 08
xzeal10:
I did biometrics August 4th 2023 for canada visitors visa. No decision made yet till now. Please is there anyone with similar experience ( Those who did biometrics August last year) Did anyone get a decision yet?

Thank you all

November and I believe it is overdue. August is wayyy overdue. If you as applied yourself, write them an email with URGENT in your subject. They should get back to you soon hopefully

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by oluayebenz: 1:52pm On May 08
deejay102:
@kuniennam, you wear the shoe and know where it bites. If any of the concerns ‘men’ have mentioned here is remotely true, you know what to do and if you choose to take advise of the 1% success cases in this kind of situation hoping yours is included in it , goodluck to you. Don’t learn from experience, you may not come out of it in one piece. When chips are down and you are crying in your closet, motivational speakers will be in their ‘happy’ homes or cashing out their CCB/Spousal support/ Child support etc.

Enough said! Good luck my brother!

😂😂😂
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Latosky: 2:37pm On May 08
I tire o

deejay102:



grin grin After proving you wrong/right nko? What will now happen??
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Olaniyi2955: 4:17pm On May 08
Hello guru in the house I and my family of three did did our biometric dec 12 and decision came May 2 we were all refused with Pof Of 60M
It was stated that
am not satisfied that you will leave Canada at the end of your stay as required by
paragraph 179(b) of the IRPR (https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/regulations/SOR-2002-227/
section-179.html). I am refusing your application because you have not established that you will
leave Canada, based on the following factors:
• Your assets and financial situation are insufficient to support the stated purpose of travel
for yourself (and any accompanying family member(s), if applicable).
• The purpose of your visit to Canada is not consistent with a temporary stay given the details you have provided in your application.

I run the application through the help of someone close to me and he told me that we can appeal and raise the pof with some landed documents
Pls how true is that and if possible how soon will they respond to that? Where can I get the form to fill for that
Or pls advise on documents to send to them for me and my wife cos my son is just 12years
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by benjijosh(m): 5:30pm On May 08
deejay102:


You asked for Elder's advise bah? You get mind to take am?? grin

First, pressuring you for application is a RED FLAG! All I see is an overzealous woman who is eager to attain 'power'. If you can, DO NOT DO COURT MARRIAGE. Infact, no marry this one at all. You will be signing your own ruin.

Now, in the event that you gullibly agree to marry this person and go to court, you can apply for spousal sponsorship. I can effectively tell you that you DO NOT NEED a POF for that. Neither does she. All you need is a Full time Job!

Tourist visa is a waste of your time. Chances are high they will refuse it anyway and in the event that it succeeds, your life will be on a setback because she can't work and you will work your ass twice as much to accommodate a liability before you apply for what you should have applied for in the first place.

I advise you ignore her and settle yourself down first before thinking of one woman.

Babes boku as you already know or will soon know. A reasonable 'lifelong partner' will allow you settle down while an 'opportunist' will press you because all they think about is their selfish interest.

No let PR shack you oo! Yes you can work as much as you want but you go see work sef your body go give up due to extreme stress. Whatever you do, do not apply for anybody for the next 2 years! Not that you can't but you will regret losing that personal space/freedom if you do and that includes your parents if you have them.

Your PR is your chance to rethink your decisions.

No talk say person no warn you. Court marriage certificate na your own handcuffs in the west. Na my 2 cents be that!

Goodluck

Well put except calling her gullible. I see nothing wrong in ones partner wanting to be with them at all cost so far nothing illegal is being done. She has been misinformed and all OP needs to do is assure her that he will be back for her.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Nkaluu800(m): 5:48pm On May 08
Please I need clarification.

Someone who submitted application when processing time was 120 days in December 2023.

Is that person bound by the current 165 days processing time in 2024?

Because ordinarily, the 120 days terminated in April 2024.

Thank you.
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by deejay102: 6:00pm On May 08
benjijosh:


Well put except calling her gullible. I see nothing wrong in ones partner wanting to be with them at all cost so far nothing illegal is being done. She has been misinformed and all OP needs to do is assure her that he will be back for her.


I didn’t call her gullible.
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by affoncad: 6:11pm On May 08
Olaniyi2955:
Hello guru in the house I and my family of three did did our biometric dec 12 and decision came May 2 we were all refused with Pof Of 60M
It was stated that
am not satisfied that you will leave Canada at the end of your stay as required by
paragraph 179(b) of the IRPR (https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/regulations/SOR-2002-227/
section-179.html). I am refusing your application because you have not established that you will
leave Canada, based on the following factors:
• Your assets and financial situation are insufficient to support the stated purpose of travel
for yourself (and any accompanying family member(s), if applicable).
• The purpose of your visit to Canada is not consistent with a temporary stay given the details you have provided in your application.

I run the application through the help of someone close to me and he told me that we can appeal and raise the pof with some landed documents
Pls how true is that and if possible how soon will they respond to that? Where can I get the form to fill for that
Or pls advise on documents to send to them for me and my wife cos my son is just 12years

Hello, please request the GCMS note, and do not depend on this genetic refuser note. You can only challenge a Canada visa at the federal court in canada , and there's no appeal. It's a long process that could take between 6 months to 2 years and not cheap . However, you can ask for reconsideration, and that could be renewed by the visa officer, but in most cases, the decision remains unchanged but you can try and last option is to reapply!

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by AWonder: 7:07pm On May 08
Quick one,
can someone who got a work visa travel while pregnant? Like she got pregnant before the work visa was approved. Does she have to declare herself pregnant at POE when the pregnancy isn't obvious. The job she is going to do, will she be allowed to work or sent back?.
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by affoncad: 7:55pm On May 08
AWonder:
Quick one,
can someone who got a work visa travel while pregnant? Like she got pregnant before the work visa was approved. Does she have to declare herself pregnant at POE when the pregnancy isn't obvious. The job she is going to do, will she be allowed to work or sent back?.

Nothing called declaration of pregnancy at POE.Answer only question you are asked by the boarder officer.. The answer to whether she can do the work will depend on the stage of the pregnancy, the nature of the work and the employer because it's not stated by you!

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Ephenzy: 8:39pm On May 08
Kuniennam:
Please experienced elders come and offer your 2cent for this situation.

I recently landed in Canada as a PR and still hoping for a job.

Before I landed, I engaged my girlfriend and we did introduction. Marriage was postponed till later to ensure that my marital status didn't change since I already had Copr and visa and didn't think having my application reopened before landing was the best option at that stage.

In the last one week, she has been on my neck to start processing our reunion. I explained to her that while we want this reunion now, we can't do anything till situation normalizes. She is suggesting that she applies for a tourist visa. I told her that while tourist visa is good it may not be the best option for our current situation. Here is the situation, we don't have the accumulated finances or income flow or assets to support a tourist visa application at the moment.

I suggested, that she calms down till income starts coming, so that we can arrange my trip to Nigeria for our marriage. Afterwards we can leverage one policy that IRCC rolled in around May 2023 and submit a PR application then with the AOR apply for spousal visit Visa and SOWP all at once. She considers my suggestion deceptive that I don't want her to join me, hence I am not approving of her tourist visa plan.

From her stance and what she heard from one of her colleagues she thinks the financial situation which affects the potential POF she may need to apply for her tourist visa can be arranged by agents. All my efforts to make her understand that she doesn't have a solid case with the tourist visa plan and that I don't trust Nigeria agents and can't allow her jeopardize our future reunion with unreliable documents showing numbers.

According to what she heard from a colleague too she suggested to go ahead and acquire our certificate but I told her that it will be marriage by proxy. Especially if I don't leave Canada at the time, it will be issued and Canada doesn't recognise proxy marriages. Hence, if we apply anything with that certificate it may backfire.

The constant pressure to do something about our reunion is not helping issues at all. Please if you have any suggestion that may help us, we are willing to listen.




The worst thing you can do to yourself is bring sensitive matters like this to the public for opinions, you will make yourself a dumping ground for different opinions which will leave you even more confused and in serious doubts all because of a lady who may be genuinely in love with you but only afraid of what distance would do to you both. The worse thing you can do to a woman is openly engage her and make her lord of the rings... yes you are going to find a better life for you both but let me tell you what is going on in her head:
..what if he finds someone better than me and decides that I’m a burden, what if he forgets me because of the good life he will start to experience there??
My brother these are valid fears borne out of maybe experience and also bad advice from friends and family...
The only thing you should do is first of all STOP asking for people’s opinion on the issue, take charge of your affairs... assure your woman, she is not a red flag please, she is the woman you saw and decided to spend the rest of your life with, leave all the people here, they are looking for visa, call your woman and tell her why you choose her asides all the women in this world and assure her not just with words, but efforts, you can start by telling her to pick a wedding date, color, venue, etc while you both pray about it (sorry to be religious, but pray). No woman is a red flag, no man is a red flag, we just have our genuine fears and those fears if not handled properly may lead to desperate decisions. Handle your affairs privately. If she’s not the one for you, only you can know that, not us!
P.s please tell her not to do visitor visa, instead use that money and go shopping and buy something nice for herself, eat, sleep and relax.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by larrypha(f): 8:57pm On May 08
My sister submitted 2 days before you and biometrics April 22nd, with valid US VV, we still havent heard from ircc cry
monibay24:


Timeline:
Application submission - April. 19th
Biometric - April. 24th
PPR - May 7th
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by jasperonyx: 9:15pm On May 08
Guys, come on, see how you all are crawling out, discouraging this young guy, planting a seed of doubt in his heart, relationship that neither of you are in.


Most of your carry your hate and bitterness to others.

Red flag ko.

Go on and marry the west naa.

For the person that said many Nigerian girls will start begging to be laid 🤣, come on naa, you wish, in your wildest dreams.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by jasperonyx: 9:19pm On May 08
Kuniennam:
Please experienced elders come and offer your 2cent for this situation.

I recently landed in Canada as a PR and still hoping for a job.

Before I landed, I engaged my girlfriend and we did introduction. Marriage was postponed till later to ensure that my marital status didn't change since I already had Copr and visa and didn't think having my application reopened before landing was the best option at that stage.

In the last one week, she has been on my neck to start processing our reunion. I explained to her that while we want this reunion now, we can't do anything till situation normalizes. She is suggesting that she applies for a tourist visa. I told her that while tourist visa is good it may not be the best option for our current situation. Here is the situation, we don't have the accumulated finances or income flow or assets to support a tourist visa application at the moment.

I suggested, that she calms down till income starts coming, so that we can arrange my trip to Nigeria for our marriage. Afterwards we can leverage one policy that IRCC rolled in around May 2023 and submit a PR application then with the AOR apply for spousal visit Visa and SOWP all at once. She considers my suggestion deceptive that I don't want her to join me, hence I am not approving of her tourist visa plan.

From her stance and what she heard from one of her colleagues she thinks the financial situation which affects the potential POF she may need to apply for her tourist visa can be arranged by agents. All my efforts to make her understand that she doesn't have a solid case with the tourist visa plan and that I don't trust Nigeria agents and can't allow her jeopardize our future reunion with unreliable documents showing numbers.

According to what she heard from a colleague too she suggested to go ahead and acquire our certificate but I told her that it will be marriage by proxy. Especially if I don't leave Canada at the time, it will be issued and Canada doesn't recognise proxy marriages. Hence, if we apply anything with that certificate it may backfire.

The constant pressure to do something about our reunion is not helping issues at all. Please if you have any suggestion that may help us, we are willing to listen.


Better don't Let some of these bitter guys ruin your relationship, except you have previous reasons for doubting her, this is not enough for what a lot of them are spewing here.


Take charge of your relationship, give her the assurance she needs, except you don't trust her, like I said earlier.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by jasperonyx: 9:26pm On May 08
He wrote his girlfriend oo, they have even done introduction, but you that can't keep a relationship because of your pride is asking him to dump his woman because you don't like Nigeria girls🤣🤣🤣🤣, guyssss🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by deejay102: 10:20pm On May 08
We know una type🤣🤣🤣.

The OP has been advised in both ways! Let him decide.

Fyi even though I don’t know any of the other commenters who sighted red flags, I’m pretty sure none of them is in Nigeria and experience is golden but not absolute . I’m not looking for visa either 🙄. Just de 🧢.

From the tone of his write up you can deduce the lady has influence on him. He was very rational to have explained to her to see reasons but no oo she de pressure and someone is saying buy food for her and take her shopping 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

As per begging to be laid! That is real and reason is not far fetched. Men avoid ladies that smell trouble of which our women are (not all).

I wish the OP luck in whetever decision he takes!

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by oluayebenz: 10:35pm On May 08
deejay102:
We know una type🤣🤣🤣.

The OP has been advised in both ways! Let him decide.

Fyi even though I don’t know any of the other commenters who sighted red flags, I’m pretty sure none of them is in Nigeria and experience is golden but not absolute . I’m not looking for visa either 🙄. Just de 🧢.

From the tone of his write up you can deduce the lady has influence on him. He was very rational to have explained to her to see reasons but no oo she de pressure and someone is saying buy food for her and take her shopping 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

As per begging to be laid! That is real and reason is not far fetched. Men avoid ladies that smell trouble of which our women are (not all).

I wish the OP luck in whetever decision he takes!



😁😁😂😂🤣🤣
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Ephenzy: 12:18am On May 09
deejay102:
We know una type🤣🤣🤣.

The OP has been advised in both ways! Let him decide.

Fyi even though I don’t know any of the other commenters who sighted red flags, I’m pretty sure none of them is in Nigeria and experience is golden but not absolute . I’m not looking for visa either 🙄. Just de 🧢.

*From the tone of his write up you can deduce the lady has influence on him. He was very rational to have explained to her to see reasons but no oo she de pressure and someone is saying buy food for her and take her shopping 🤣🤣🤣🤣.*

As per begging to be laid! That is real and reason is not far fetched. Men avoid ladies that smell trouble of which our women are (not all).

I wish the OP luck in whetever decision he takes!




How do you know she has influence on him?
Are you in their relationship?
Have you heard her own side?
What if this Bros is actually the one with the influence? Because why would I even agree to be engaged to a guy who is not ready to take me to the altar because he doesn’t to change his marital status yet instead he would rather leave me here to wait with just words and promises? That takes a lot of influence on me? So I’ll keep pressuring him to do the right thing. If you do not want to be pressured do not put yourself in that situation to be pressured. This is different if he was relocating from Abuja to Lagos...what are you saying she dey pressure Haba!
There are things you are yet to understand about life, and from the way you sound, it’s like women can easily influence you that is why you were so quick to detect that the lady was influencing him rather than she was just being worried!
And yes, I wish I knew who the lady was, I’d tell her to take herself out, go shopping, eat, if possible book a spa day and relax... because this one her man is already seeking advice from total strangers like you, the matter has change hands.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by deejay102: 12:30am On May 09
Ephenzy:




How do you know she has influence on him?
Are you in their relationship?
Have you heard her own side?
What if this Bros is actually the one with the influence? Because why would I even agree to be engaged to a guy who is not ready to take me to the altar because he doesn’t to change his marital status yet instead he would rather leave me here to wait with just words and promises? That takes a lot of influence on me? So I’ll keep pressuring him to do the right thing. If you do not want to be pressured do not put yourself in that situation to be pressured. This is different if he was relocating from Abuja to Lagos...what are you saying she dey pressure Haba!
There are things you are yet to understand about life, and from the way you sound, it’s like women can easily influence you that is why you were so quick to detect that the lady was influencing him rather than she was just being worried!
And yes, I wish I knew who the lady was, I’d tell her to take herself out, go shopping, eat, if possible book a spa day and relax... because this one her man is already seeking advice from total strangers like you, the matter has change hands.

Strangers often give the best unbiased views though 😏 and I understand your perception as a woman. If the lady was what you painted, the OP won’t need to ask anyone cuz I can perceive he is an objective and clear headed guy. But we all know what can happen with a woman who choses to pressure her man aka nagging. Shebi you be Christian. 😁

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Ephenzy: 1:04am On May 09
deejay102:


Strangers often give the best unbiased views though 😏 and I understand your perception as a woman. If the lady was what you painted, the OP won’t need to ask anyone cuz I can perceive he is an objective and clear headed guy. But we all know what can happen to a woman who choses to pressure her man aka nagging. Shebi you be Christian. 😁


No! The “OP” is asking for advice because he got himself into that situation and he is looking for the best way out. We do not have the best advice for him Sir, truth is, he already knows what to do but needs a second opinion so he doesn’t look like a bad guy, and we are not in the best position to give him that advice, some advice here is too one sided, sexist and harsh! I don’t advise on the matters of the heart, because you will still do what’s on your mind to do. The only advice I gave was that out of desperation to be with him, the lady shouldn’t go for visit visa instead she should put the money into good use, and the only way she can stop pressuring him is if he communicates with actions and efforts effectively to her to calm her heart. She is not pressuring him or nagging him, she just thinks he is making the wrong decisions that will take too long for them to be together, which is why he needs to let her understand the process and benefits... if she persist which is possible, well he knows her better than us!!

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Taal17: 1:54am On May 09
lakeside3020:
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You can only use this for 2 months for driving in Canada, thereafter you send it to Nigeria embassy here in Ottawa with 100cad draft for authentication b4 you can take G1 test grin

Which is why I aaid it's the country that determines how long you can usr aa foreignr drivers license .

Other countries you use the same drivers license for 1 yr , two years whilst in others tpu can't use it unless you the theory test/ road sign test
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by lakeside3020(m): 1:58am On May 09
Olaniyi2955:
Hello guru in the house I and my family of three did did our biometric dec 12 and decision came May 2 we were all refused with Pof Of 60M
It was stated that
am not satisfied that you will leave Canada at the end of your stay as required by
paragraph 179(b) of the IRPR (https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/regulations/SOR-2002-227/
section-179.html). I am refusing your application because you have not established that you will
leave Canada, based on the following factors:
• Your assets and financial situation are insufficient to support the stated purpose of travel
for yourself (and any accompanying family member(s), if applicable).
• The purpose of your visit to Canada is not consistent with a temporary stay given the details you have provided in your application.

I run the application through the help of someone close to me and he told me that we can appeal and raise the pof with some landed documents
Pls how true is that and if possible how soon will they respond to that? Where can I get the form to fill for that
Or pls advise on documents to send to them for me and my wife cos my son is just 12years


4 members of family at a time?,haba ,when e no be UK or shegen,should have been 2 family per applications submitted 10 days apart, the other 2 would have been a very strong family tiles back home.i know someone that applied, only him first he was given,when he want to renew he added 3 members of his family,he was red carded grin, another time again only him,he was approved ,he now do mother and last born and was approved,daughter only and was also approved,this was how all the family member secure their Canada visas

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Taal17: 2:10am On May 09
Kuniennam:
Please experienced elders come and offer your 2cent for this situation.

I recently landed in Canada as a PR and still hoping for a job.

Before I landed, I engaged my girlfriend and we did introduction. Marriage was postponed till later to ensure that my marital status didn't change since I already had Copr and visa and didn't think having my application reopened before landing was the best option at that stage.

In the last one week, she has been on my neck to start processing our reunion. I explained to her that while we want this reunion now, we can't do anything till situation normalizes. She is suggesting that she applies for a tourist visa. I told her that while tourist visa is good it may not be the best option for our current situation. Here is the situation, we don't have the accumulated finances or income flow or assets to support a tourist visa application at the moment.

I suggested, that she calms down till income starts coming, so that we can arrange my trip to Nigeria for our marriage. Afterwards we can leverage one policy that IRCC rolled in around May 2023 and submit a PR application then with the AOR apply for spousal visit Visa and SOWP all at once. She considers my suggestion deceptive that I don't want her to join me, hence I am not approving of her tourist visa plan.

From her stance and what she heard from one of her colleagues she thinks the financial situation which affects the potential POF she may need to apply for her tourist visa can be arranged by agents. All my efforts to make her understand that she doesn't have a solid case with the tourist visa plan and that I don't trust Nigeria agents and can't allow her jeopardize our future reunion with unreliable documents showing numbers.

According to what she heard from a colleague too she suggested to go ahead and acquire our certificate but I told her that it will be marriage by proxy. Especially if I don't leave Canada at the time, it will be issued and Canada doesn't recognise proxy marriages. Hence, if we apply anything with that certificate it may backfire.

The constant pressure to do something about our reunion is not helping issues at all. Please if you have any suggestion that may help us, we are willing to listen.


Ask her what she's afraid of. It's fear that driving her . .

So address each fear with a realistic timeline that she can hold on too.

If the relationship is one you believe would be a good foundation for a marriage then work with her.
If its finances ypu want to build then both of you set time-line for building the POF you need to file for her.
I'd you say okay both of us save for 6 abi 9 months then start the process. Both of you raise money in that period dor the same goal. Work as a team. You save in CAD she raise in naira and you can keep each accountable till that time.

As you're applying for jobs involve her, male she sef no as e be. Better learn teamwork at a distance because you will need it.
Take leadership

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by ChybuzzDD(m): 4:40am On May 09
Ephenzy:



No! The “OP” is asking for advice because he got himself into that situation and he is looking for the best way out. We do not have the best advice for him Sir, truth is, he already knows what to do but needs a second opinion so he doesn’t look like a bad guy, and we are not in the best position to give him that advice, some advice here is too one sided, sexist and harsh! I don’t advise on the matters of the heart, because you will still do what’s on your mind to do. The only advice I gave was that out of desperation to be with him, the lady shouldn’t go for visit visa instead she should put the money into good use, and the only way she can stop pressuring him is if he communicates with actions and efforts effectively to her to calm her heart. She is not pressuring him or nagging him, she just thinks he is making the wrong decisions that will take too long for them to be together, which is why he needs to let her understand the process and benefits... if she persist which is possible, well he knows her better than us!!

Rest, please.
We all know what Nigerian women can do abroad and it's not out of place for the guys to try to save their fellow man, having spotted a red flag from afar.
I only hope the guy won't be deceived by your feminine sentiments.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by deejay102: 5:39am On May 09
Ephenzy:



No! The “OP” is asking for advice because he got himself into that situation and he is looking for the best way out. We do not have the best advice for him Sir, truth is, he already knows what to do but needs a second opinion so he doesn’t look like a bad guy, and we are not in the best position to give him that advice, some advice here is too one sided, sexist and harsh! I don’t advise on the matters of the heart, because you will still do what’s on your mind to do. The only advice I gave was that out of desperation to be with him, the lady shouldn’t go for visit visa instead she should put the money into good use, and the only way she can stop pressuring him is if he communicates with actions and efforts effectively to her to calm her heart. She is not pressuring him or nagging him, she just thinks he is making the wrong decisions that will take too long for them to be together, which is why he needs to let her understand the process and benefits... if she persist which is possible, well he knows her better than us!!


I want to stop commenting on this issue and let it rest but one last claro abeg!

This post right here is a sorry @ss feminist victimization tactic women use to enslave men.

Why does it always have to fall on the man to appeal to the womans heart? The woman no sabi appeal otherwise?

He did not get himself in any situation. If it was the lady with the PR this wont be your stance.


So she should put the VV money to good use which is shopping and relaxation abi? Omo!

So the explanation he gave was not communication abi? You all read books and try to live it. Why isn’t it the other way round? Why is she not communicating rather than pressuring?

How is he making bad decisions for Gods sake? Man got PR to better his life and theirs and you call that a bad decision because he is asking for patience and reasoning? Kai!

Mr OP, read between the lines. Women play victim expecting men to be at their feet all the time. Read this particular post with your brain and see how much attacks was channeled towards you when YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG! This is what relationships have turned into. While they have no power, they form victim, when there is power, they still form victim and blame men! Leave men alone.

If you don’t see anything wrong in your marriage in Nigeria, how does it suddenly become an issue abroad?? Make it make sense! Afterall you can walk away from a marriage in Nigeria too but because there a high chance of losing out most women don’t.

Abroad is their revenge on Men! Be wise!

Must mention there are Women that still respect their men regardless of location but that number is sadly reduced to minimum.

As this topic will never end since it is a fight for domination masked in “equality” , I’ll cease to comment any further. There is enough information for the OP.

Back to IRCC waiting game 😔

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Ephenzy: 6:25am On May 09
ChybuzzDD:


Rest, please.
We all know what Nigerian women can do abroad and it's not out of place for the guys to try to save their fellow man, having spotted a red flag from afar.
I only hope the guy won't be deceived by your feminine sentiments.




Do not ever quote me again if I did not have any direct conversation with you, make your suggestions and move on and don’t come here with your disrespect! Which is “rest please”? You were not brought up well?
Make your suggestions and move on, I clearly said the man should not have brought his personal problems here so that we will not give him advice with sentiments and you are directing your words at me, you don’t know the person that has the issue?
Please be guided!

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by emmaodet: 8:33am On May 09
ChybuzzDD:


Rest, please.
We all know what Nigerian women can do abroad and it's not out of place for the guys to try to save their fellow man, having spotted a red flag from afar.
I only hope the guy won't be deceived by your feminine sentiments.

Exactly bro.
If the lady is the one who first traveled abroad, mot people would have told the op to just forget about the relationship and count his loss.
They will tell him the lady has upgraded and he should look for his mate.
Now it is a lady on the lower side, all of a sudden we are all talking about Love or not allowing external bodies to influence his decision making.
I remember a quote on this forum - if a boy and his girlfriend are hustling to make it and the man breaks even first, the society will gaslight him to lift up the lady all in the name of she was there with him all along and faithful,loyal etc but if the lady scales first, she will start feeling he is not good enough for her.
At a point, she will tell him to double his hustle else he may likely kiss the relationship a goodbye.
Many men have proved their love by coming back to Nigeria every December to pick their local girlfriends abroad despite the odd against the men.
They dust these ladies up and bring them out of dust but we have hundreds of thousands of Nigerian ladies in UK, US, Canada ete that would rather die single than coming back to Nigeria to pick a man and reduce the poverty ate here.
If you ask them why they are not reciprocating? They will start giving you all the excuses.
These excuses are also risks men coming to Nigeria are exposed to but they have been blinded by Love .
Ohh, the man will start cheating when he comes abroad and start making money.
He will start bossing them around.
He will start doing this, he will start doing that.
The list is endless yet all these risks are what men are exposed to picking up a lady but the average lady is not too stupid not to see all these risks while in Love.
Is it not funny?

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by oluayebenz: 8:50am On May 09
I have said it before and will say it again...

If OP is not very careful with this thing they called Love,,,,,,, He will definitely learn the very hard way.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by lollyloly(f): 10:32am On May 09
Good morning all. I've uploaded all my documents, please how do I pay for visa and biometrics? And can I use my naira debit card to pay?
Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by Clapaudan: 10:53am On May 09
Good morning all!

Please, I believed from what we've all advice the OP on the issue of the wife/to-be. The guy should be ok to decide on what to do.

Let's give chance to those that want to share their timeline with us.


November,December,January applicants let it start rolling in.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by williamszooh: 11:04am On May 09
@clapaudan,l support your suggestion, you are very correct, please anyone with the latest timeline should please share it with others in order to keep the awaiting applicant hope alive
Clapaudan:
Good morning all!

Please, I believed from what we've all advice the OP on the issue of the wife/to-be. The guy should be ok to decide on what to do.

Let's give chance to those that want to share their timeline with us.


November,December,January applicants let it start rolling in.

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Re: Canada Visit/tourist Visa Discussion. by uchennay: 11:57am On May 09
williamszooh:
@clapaudan,l support your suggestion, you are very correct, please anyone with the latest timeline should please share it with others in order to keep the awaiting applicant hope alive

Sometime l ask myself when will things ever change that NIGERIANS hope will not depend on a tourist visa as a passport to escape his own motherland and be illegal OR faking asylum in a white man land living a life of constant struggle and fear of deportation!..will this trend even change?

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