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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by sharpwriter(m): 5:54pm On May 09
Macdeey:
I swear many of my business Naija people suffered from the Togolese girls Nyash !!!
Some of dem No recover for Business till now ! And Once they know that you get good business hmmmmmm My brother forget about 😕😕
And no matter how good you treat dem ! They always keep their Togolese Boyfriends ( Side-Boy ) we dey Nack dem
Ekwu emeeeeee 🗣️🗣️🗣️👀👀👀👁️🙆‍♂️
May God save we mahn pikin.

Good summary, na wetin I want know be dix.. Thanks.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by GUNITGuy: 5:56pm On May 09
Nigerian especially women thinks abroad is pro women so they can do anything calls the Police on you for a rape charge without evidence if relationship go sour .....Jealousy , if i cant get it no one else syndrome

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by 007Marvel(m): 6:00pm On May 09
Biggie225:
If I travel abroad, I will never interact with black men again, especially Nigerians.

I keep my distance from anything black, those people are filled with hate and malice, very irrational set of people

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Izuchukwu70: 6:02pm On May 09
Biggie225:
If I travel abroad, I will never interact with black men again, especially Nigerians.

Keep kwayet. Oyinbo people will deal with you.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Goodman247: 6:06pm On May 09
Every country has nice people and also toxic people, it is still your people that will assist you when you just land, just associate with the right ones

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Emmanuel30a: 6:12pm On May 09
Unclebayo:
Chairman abeg wetin you talk?
I beg ask tiktok or ask from tiktok, right now I can't talk and you would think that I am on tiktok...
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by sacajawea: 6:16pm On May 09
grommet:
I have tend to notice that the nigerian community “abroad” is toxic. People are just filled with too much gossip, people also try to one up you, you wonder if they are your friends. Some come to your personal life and after its a mess as they come with a wave of drama to it.

Sometimes its annoying being in those spaces because its all about ‘this guy’s wife sleeping with different men who are sleeping with different girls and so on and so forth. It’s kind of annoying

Has anyone noticed this?
Which Countries?
All of them abroad, or some particular countries more especially? Mention them
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by faceland: 6:25pm On May 09
How can a stranger come into your personal life just because you share thesame nationality?

You provided them with too much info.
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by ycat: 6:30pm On May 09
I believe it’s true, though I don’t hang around people who talk about other people because I know they will talk about me too. I believe you though because one day I walked with my sister to an African store where the first thing we heard was “one man sleeping with another man’s wife” they didn’t know that we understand the language. They were speechless when my sister asked for the price of yam in their language.

Talking about people who haven’t done anything to you is insecurity. They use topics about others to cover up the plenty subjects on their own lives, they need to put other people down to feel better about who they are.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Bekind123: 6:36pm On May 09
2aces:
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.
He is talking about Nigeria men who go gossiping people's wife just like you do here on nairaland. All you guys talk about here is Nigeria women.
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by IbeOkehie: 6:43pm On May 09
Bullfallo:
Loud noise and they raise voice when talking.

A white man can be arguing in the next apartment and you want hear much. But when Nigerians are arguing the whole building will hear noise.

This is a big issue. I'm guilty of unnecessary loudness.

Like I said on another thread, all Nigerians everywhere are the same.

Good Luck to Nigerians.
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by brownbib(m): 6:46pm On May 09
Lol grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Real2088: 6:52pm On May 09
2aces:
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.
Be specific with your sisters,I know one good one among them though grin
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Real2088: 6:56pm On May 09
Macdeey:
cool Stop 🛑🛑🛑 disturbing us and................

Meanwhile ......

When I was in Togo 90 % of the girls I Nacked na my Nigerian sisters . Because Nacking Togolese girls get some spiritual wahala I swear.

Here in Ghana I still dey Nack my Nigerian girls and some few Ghanaian girls. 😁😁😁

Na here we go still dey when you come back come ask us about cream or antibiotics,we dey Here, Kudos All hail Terminator grin

For Abidjan na 50 / 50 . But i like the Naija born Abidjan girls pass 😁😁😁

For Niger Republic Na the White Buzu girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
Burkina Faso girls dey very expensive ! Na my Naija Ashaawooo girls I dey Nack 😁😁😁
For Senegal ! Just dey Nack Naija Ashaawooo too 😁😁😁😁😁😁
But in all Just dey Avoid Togolese girls , Dem get Spiritual Demons for dem Nyash 😡😡😡
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by icedbreez(m): 7:26pm On May 09
Bullfallo:
Loud noise and they raise voice when talking.

A white man can be arguing in the next apartment and you won’t hear much. But when Nigerians are arguing the J building will hear noise.

Africans, especially west Africans are generally very aggressive people when u find them abroad, always shouting and in heated arguments.

East/South Africans not so much.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Winnin009: 7:29pm On May 09
CartelKenneth:
Useless people
Are we really sure that it’s God who created Africans?

Nope. We evolved from apes and God created whites.

Too many things point in direction of my argument.

Cleanliness is next to Godliness they say. If God was to come down today, He definitely won’t come to Africa.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by etrange: 7:34pm On May 09
Biggie225:
If I travel abroad, I will never interact with black men again, especially Nigerians.

Wait till you travel and see how dynamics of race out there. Then you'll rethink this comment.
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by peterboro: 7:39pm On May 09
When you deal with other Africa Nationals, then you will realized that Nigerian is the most trickish nature of species in whole world.

Nigeria is really like a cursed in their irritating crafty behaviours everywhere.

I DON'T DO ANY SERIOUS DEALINGS WITH NIGERIANS HERE IN EUROPE.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by madjune(m): 8:04pm On May 09
If you want to stay sane abroad, do your best and keep more to yourself.

Regardless of nationality etc, if you want to mingle; chose your friends wisely and of course, chose like.minded individuals like yourself.

If you're a noisy person, go to nightclubs or the stadium; you will find your people there.

If you're a nerd, go to the library more or IT clubs.

One of the worst expectations you'd have is to expect peace and serenity in the company of 70% Nigerians abroad.
Drama. Major drama comes with the package.

Nigerians can't help you much with information needed for your growth or help you when you're down or help you keep some sh.t off in advance etc

But...if you want to bury someone? You can count on their assistance.
I don't know what it is but, from experience; they like burying people than resurrecting them.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by gemini35(m): 8:06pm On May 09
[quote author=Praying4Nigeria post=129869011] Yes! But it is not really their fault at all. My over 12 Years of Deep Research on why Nigeria and Nigerians are how they are unearthed one major Terrible Truth: Negative Social Engineering was mentally Applies on Nigerians, even when the Colonial Masters pretended that they left physically. Our current Government must be very intentional about Re-Oritantion Programs and Positive Social Engineering to Restore Nigerians Unitedly Glorious Mentality. OBJ knew this and tried a little to Reverse the Nigeria-to-Niegrian backbiting stupid mentality.

Most Financial Analysts have said this again and again and again both online and offline. The Financial Strength and Backbone of this Nation after Petroleum is Agriculture.
All that the current Government needs to do to make Nigeria Prosperous is to implement what Awolowo did in Partnership with Citizens under him to Generate massive Wealth which was then used to Transform Western Region of Nigeria back then to become the first ever African Sub-Nation to Develop Modern World-class Social Amenities, Manufacturing Industries and Tech Infrastructures.

[b]Even without selling Petroleum at all, how did he generate such massive Money that made the Sub-Country so Prosperous back then? He massively enticed Youths into Farming with guarantee that his Government buys their Harvests and Exports it. Most Youths will Farm if they
Brotherly one carton of Hennessy for you if government can get motivate the youth with finance is achievable,we need the right leaders to achieve this.

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by PHAYOL81: 8:16pm On May 09
Just be careful with whom you put too close to yourself and be very discreet with information about your strides and family. It's normal but you just have to carefully engage them. They're essential frenemes, you might need them or someone there someday.
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Kingjbase: 8:25pm On May 09
Emmanuel30a:
Me that I have noticed how people in iragbiji...&ogbomosho are toxic, I would continues to makes them sick-even if dia name is isaac...They don't gives me "sic"&can't makes me "sick"...I would rathers makes them sick in ogbomosho&iragbiji... In ogbomosho&iragbiji, e get anywhere where dem no dey Bleep or suck dick...?I would make dem sick&it would clicks...I don sent stick 2 go 2 right click, I said 2 stick;go...&kick them at right click...Let them fall sick...All those chics&side chics or like side chics...Dey are barbaric...U beta don't clicks let alone clicks on my clicks or on my right clicks, if u don't wants 2 sick/fall sicks...U are using my cheeks&u are not my chics or side chics, so its my time/high time I makes u sick as u clicks or if u clicks...Since u don't take ur time, I won't waste MY TIME;afterall u don't gives me "sic" let alone...
Stop smoking that thing you are smoking

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Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Ouchbabe(f): 8:26pm On May 09
You are generalizing. FYI I'm a lady, I'm on Nairaland but I'm definitely not toxic
beryledibor:
Even in nairaland they are toxic
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by 7upnigeria: 8:40pm On May 09
2aces:
Carry a Nigeria woman travel abroad is like bathing with petrol and walking into fire.

Aaaaaaaah, na so? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Carlylepneuma: 8:48pm On May 09
Nwaikpe:
May Israel totally obliterate Hamas and every muslim terrorist in this world. May Christian America rise to realize that their kids in college are being brainwashed to believe the propaganda of wicked Islamist. May they understand that the muslims are not only after Israel but also after Christian America and all Christians as well.

Anyone who is against the people of Saturday, will surely come after the people of Sunday too.


Totally Obliterate Hamas in Gaza and return Gaza to a serene community like that of Christians.


In the name of Allah I pray, Amin.



grin grin grin





NB: Never come here to tell me how Jews hate Christians. I am safer with a wicked Jew than a kind muslim. smiley smiley
ur hate over wt u are ignorant of will consume...
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by 2aces(m): 8:51pm On May 09
id4sho:

They are coming for your head
Truth stings like a bee grin
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Badmashiii: 8:55pm On May 09
Macdeey:
My brother ! Just keep off . Dem get too much wahala ! Long explanation 😧😧😧

Bros abeg no vex,help us share the long story so we can learn.

I dey around "kotokolli" girls and you know sey dem dey enter eye. Dem no too fine for face but dem get big nyash and breast.

Abeg tell us everything so man go dey careful.
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by CJStarz: 9:02pm On May 09
Nwaikpe:
May Israel totally obliterate Hamas and every muslim terrorist in this world. May Christian America rise to realize that their kids in college are being brainwashed to believe the propaganda of wicked Islamist. May they understand that the muslims are not only after Israel but also after Christian America and all Christians as well.

Anyone who is against the people of Saturday, will surely come after the people of Sunday too.


Totally Obliterate Hamas in Gaza and return Gaza to a serene community like that of Christians.


In the name of Allah I pray, Amin.



grin grin grin





NB: Never come here to tell me how Jews hate Christians. I am safer with a wicked Jew than a kind muslim. smiley smiley
U wan sound like Nwamikpe but you really went off point.
As a Christian, which one be in the name of Allah you pray?
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:07pm On May 09
Unclebayo:
you're asking people living in iragbiji and ogbomosho if they've noticed toxic community in UK... Kontinew playing

Hahahah grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:09pm On May 09
Klass99:


I have only heard from a friend and one relative abroad. 90% of my phone conversations with said friend was about the drama of their Nigerian group in their host country.

I heard about people I don't know personally, heard of drama that was none of my business, yada, yada, yada. At first I listened to her because a lot of the group dynamics/issues bothered her, as she was at the centre of some it, but subsequently it became exhausting for me.

I had to ask her one day did you go there for your masters programme or to socialise and fratenise with the Nigerian community over there? Why do you get embroiled in all this drama? Who sent you message to be organizing bridal showers, birthday hangouts, etc? Is that what you left Naija for or a masters degree?

I tend to know so much about peoples personal lives. Information that should be very private. People seem to love to spread too much gossip in those spaces
Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by grommet: 9:10pm On May 09
emkz:
This is too generic.

My reading of it applies to Nigerians and everyone else everywhere.

Most people are looking after their own interests. Once you find out their interests would require too much sacrifice from you, why not stay away?

There are pastors who claim they were called and collect money from struggling Nigerians both in Nigeria and abroad who follow them.

There are some Nigerians who get close and start getting jealous of you: wanting what you have including your network, your money, your wife and even your life. Why do you keep such relationships if something is not wrong with you?

Then there are Nigerians too. Professionals who always show up for one another. They help each other genuinely. When I was abroad many years ago, there was one. A woman. She showed me the way to settle and held my hand to avoid pitfalls. I returned the favour to others.

Pass it on.

Avoid needless competition. It is exhausting. Cooperate to advance each other. That is how the Indians and Chinese get ahead of blacks.

I can’t modify the op but what I was going to say is that there is this deep competition in that community

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