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How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by JaySmart4422: 9:31pm On May 22
I have this neighbour who rented a room and parlour self con
But the kitchen in their flat is very big as a family of 5 with plenty friends

They converted the kitchen to a Room and starting bringing their plate to the back of my bedroom window to wash

If you hear the noise of plates n pot u will pity me I can't sleep cos of constant noise n fight very loud, the whole noise feels as if it's happening in my flat.


Sometimes this plates and pots smells like a dead rat and I will be force to close my window.

I have begged this family severally to to wash their plates inside their flat but I will never listen rather they will be throwing tantrums.

Recently they made it a permanent place of washing plates n pots

So I had to involve the landlord and he asked them to stop

Since they the entire family have been in their flat insulting me calling me names.

Am becoming very uncomfortable

Right now I don't know what action to take cos I don't want to respond to any of this insult

How do I put an end to this .

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by shortgun(m): 9:35pm On May 22
Move to another house,it's obvious these people are stronger than you

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by doggedfighter(f): 9:40pm On May 22
Has the plate washing stopped ?

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by Hezzyluv: 9:41pm On May 22
shortgun:
Move to another house,it's obvious these people are stronger than you

You sounded like a man of peace, but your moniker says otherwise.

Op, if u can afford it, do what this man adviced.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by JaySmart4422: 9:41pm On May 22
doggedfighter:
Has the plate washing stopped ?
Yes it has

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by Toosure70: 9:42pm On May 22
They are not happy to rent small apartment, so bear with them. Not by your might or power to leave in a comfortable apartment, try to see them as your own blood and show love. No condition is permanent o baba olowo.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by SmileDance(f): 9:47pm On May 22
JaySmart4422:
I have this neighbour who rented a room and parlour self con
But the kitchen in their flat is very big as a family of 5 with plenty friends

They converted the kitchen to a Room and starting bringing their plate to the back of my bedroom window to wash

If you hear the noise of plates n pot u will pity me I can't sleep cos of constant noise n fight very loud, the
Whole noise feels as if it's happening in my flat.


Sometimes this plates and pots smells like a dead rat and I will be force to close my window.

I have begged this family severally to to wash their plates inside their flat but I will never listen rather they will be throwing tantrums.

Recently they made it a permanent place of washing plates n pots

So I had to involve the landlord and he asked them to stop

Since they the entire family have been in their flat insulting me calling me names.

Am becoming very uncomfortable

Right now I don't know what action to take cos I don't want to respond to any of this insult

How do I put an end to this .



Inform the landlord

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by doggedfighter(f): 9:55pm On May 22
Toosure70:
They are not happy to rent small apartment, so bear with them. Not by your might or power to leave in a comfortable apartment, try to see them as your own blood and show love. No condition is permanent o baba olowo.

Seems like you are the neighbour from what you have written here.

How's Op the cause of their condition. Is Asking for quietness and peace in one's space too much?

You went as far as taunting him with Baba olowo.

Your kind will do what these neighbours are doing since you see nothing wrong with their behaviour.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by ojun50(m): 10:07pm On May 22
Avoid them at all cost.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by haphizz57(m): 10:07pm On May 22
Senior man pls don't take any action. Incase dey start making use of dat place bck, dnt say anything nor stop dem. Be preparing to leave dat compound & find another house. Dey are nt comfortable living in a small house. Dey dnt av option dan to manage dat small one like dat. Try by all means to tolorate dem like dat or u leave the house.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by Pussyisgud: 10:09pm On May 22
Op learn to tolerate and live with people, stop forming Porsche and woke and all that shit you are living among people so tolerate, no man is an island

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by KillahPriest: 10:26pm On May 22
You people saying tolerate as if they're all not paying the same rent. How can you leave your kitchen to come and make nuisance at my window with smells and everything ? I'm sure you guys saying tolerate are naturally very dirty and inconsiderate people. Then you say op should try and pack out so what if it's not in his budget yet knowing how expensive moving to a new place is ? Una wicked o. Op, you don't owe anybody even good morning sef, you've paid your house rent and your comfort is paramount since the landlord provided same facilities for everybody. You took the right step by reporting to the landlord but since the case is relatively settled, why bring it to Nairaland or don't you have friends to gist with ?

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by doggedfighter(f): 10:28pm On May 22
JaySmart4422:

Yes it has
Then keep calm but if they keep constituting nuisance , let the landlord know.


Personally I feel that living with this kind of people will stress you out .

A family that can proudly and unitedly make trouble without even one cautioning the other is....

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by Tokskob2008: 10:31pm On May 22
Toosure70:
They are not happy to rent small apartment, so bear with them. Not by your might or power to leave in a comfortable apartment, try to see them as your own blood and show love. No condition is permanent o baba olowo.
In all we do in this life, let's try and be considerate of the next fellow.

The family ought to know what they were doing will definitely be affecting their neighbour even if he didn't voice out and the fact that he did and they took offense with it shows how stupid they are.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by yomi007k(m): 12:37am On May 23
Toosure70:
They are not happy to rent small apartment, so bear with them. Not by your might or power to leave in a comfortable apartment, try to see them as your own blood and show love. No condition is permanent o baba olowo.

You are talking trash.

No one has the right to use their condition to make others uncomfortable.

When the man dey reproduce 5 times shey Op dey there?

And guess what, some conditions are permanent.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by lululovesblue(f): 3:46am On May 23
But what's the limit na? They all paid the same rent,why should he suffer inconveniences? It's not like their house didn't come with a kitchen. Dealing with the smell day in and day out and the noise is obviously frustrating. Why can't they tolerate and find somewhere else to wash their plates, instead of insulting? There's no reason you should move into a new place and become a nuisance, you get? He seems like a calm and reasonable person. He took the time to meet them personally to beg them, before resorting to telling the landlord. Nobody should be oppressing you in a place you've paid rent in.
Pussyisgud:
Op learn to tolerate and live with people, stop forming Porsche and woke and all that shit you are living among people so tolerate, no man is an island

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by helinues: 5:48am On May 23
Is that the only house in that neighborhood?

People should learn how to be accomodative .

Family of 5 in a small room, they would have gone for more bigger space if they had the opportunity

Modified: Chai, so many monikers go don rest in pieces on this thread oo.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Neighbor by Bamss1: 5:52am On May 23
SmileDance:

Inform the landlord
Chai!! You didn't read at all, you just came and typed ā€¯inform tjhe landlord"

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