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Sapasenator:
for the most part is, most ladies will not assist anyone not remotely related. This is from my personal experience and interactions and may be proven wrong and I will appologize..

essentialone:
And what about "assisting a grown ass lady with public (sic, pubic) hair that isn't your family"? Have you ever done that?

Why the emphasis on the pubic hair?

Me, I am a sucker for a nicely trimmed pubic hair on a lady and especially
the Brazilian variety, I am definitely helping that lady even before help is needed.

cococandy:
You’re wrong

I am open to the possibility I may be wrong and the reason I alluded to most ladies, it may be the one's I came across or observed.

Sapasenator:
I am open to the possibility I may be wrong, that is why I did mention most ladies, it may be one's I have come across or observed.

👌🏾

1Sharon:
Do you know what a goddaughter is ? Or you can't read?

There are 3 ways one can be inferred to be a god daughter to another:
By Baptismal adopted relationship, for those who believe in that.
By school adopted relationship, and by
By political adopted relationship.

The emphasis on the word "adopted".
Meaning you have familiated that person who naturally is not of your biological family, but who you now have a family type of relationship with, based on your own chosen adoption.

In extension, your goddaughter is still your own family.

Now back to the question before you derailed it:

What about "financially assisting a grown ass lady with public (sic, pubic) hair that isn't your family"?
Have you ever done that?

essentialone:
There are 3 ways one can be inferred to be a god daughter to another:
By Baptismal adopted relationship, for those who believe in that.
By school adopted relationship, and by
By political adopted relationship.

The emphasis on the word "adopted".
you have familiated that person who naturally is not of your biological family, but who you now have a family type of relationship with, based on your own chosen adoption.

In extension, your goddaughter is still your own family.

Now back to the question before you derailed it:

What about "financially assisting a grown ass lady with public (sic, pubic) hair that isn't your family"?
Have you ever done that?

Alaye, where are these definitions in the dictionary? Are you making up your personal definitions just to score a point?

It's interesting how you've labelled a god daughter as family for this argument 😂 But Nigerians don't even respect officially adopted kids as family members. Some of you don't even accept your wives as family.

But god daughters all of a sudden are now family members because you're desperate to score a point.

I see you 😂

1Sharon:
Alaye, where are these definitions in the dictionary? Are you making up your personal definitions just to score a point?

It's interesting how you've labelled a god daughter as family for this argument 😂 But Nigerians don't even respect officially adopted kids as family members. Some of you don't even accept your wives as family.

But god daughters all of a sudden are now family members because you're desperate to score a point.

I see you 😂

Ogbeni, it what it is. People wey write dictionary, fall from skies?

Women help with no strings attached unlike men.

Villa12:
Women help with no strings attached unlike men.

When men financially help men in need, what are the strings attached?

essentialone:
Ogbeni, it what it is. People wey write dictionary, fall from skies?

No it's not what it is. You don't get to change the definition of words to suit your point.

essentialone:
When men financially help men in need, what are the strings attached?

men hardly help men except such a man that needed help is a celebrity, someone with public figure or someone that'd give them publicity.

Villa12:
men hardly help men except such a man that needed help is a celebrity, someone with public figure or someone that'd give them publicity.

I believe you are not being serious with this comment.

folake4u:
You nor quick talk am na.😂😂

I don't even understand the purpose of his thread. This is how they pit women against each other on Nairaland.

Exactly. Champions at triangulating. Narcissistic something’s.

essentialone:
I believe you are not being serious with this comment.

He told you the pure, unadulterated truth.

Phut:
Exactly. Champions at triangulating. Narcissistic something’s.

I know right!!

Phut:
He told you the pure, unadulterated truth.

Everything about his or her comment there was a joke.
Personally, I have assisted several guys and men financially. I needed and still need nothing from them. Not publicity. And they are also neither celebrities or public figures. If a man is stingy, then he is no man, but a lady.

Then to ladies too, I have assisted several financially. And needed nothing in return from the person. But sometimes I get forced to ask them: But why don't you approach your fellow ladies for financial assistance?

Their answer always remain the same: Women don't give money to their fellow women ooo.

That surprised me and prompted this particular thread. Why?

A woman who will not contribute to her own wedding will find it difficult to contribute to the household. You as man will in turn not live up to 60 years.