JaySmart4422:
I have this neighbour who rented a room and parlour self con
But the kitchen in their flat is very big as a family of 5 with plenty friends

They converted the kitchen to a Room and

Since they have complied, ignore their tantrum. If they resume back to bringing plates to your window area, inform the landlord again.
But you need to report them to the police if they're threatening you or showing tendency for violence

Toosure70:
They are not happy to rent small apartment, so bear with them. Not by your might or power to leave in a comfortable apartment, try to see them as your own blood and show love. No condition is permanent o baba olowo.

And endure constant smells of their used plates, right. You're funny. Do you only exist to make others feel special at your own detriment?

haphizz57:
Senior man pls don't take any action. Incase dey start making use of dat place bck, dnt say anything nor stop dem. Be preparing to leave dat compound & find another house. Dey are nt comfortable living in a small house. Dey dnt av option dan to manage dat small one like dat. Try by all means to tolorate dem like dat or u leave the house.

They're invading his space with noise and smell, the next for him is to run? Okay.
Do you know when his rent will expire?
Do you know if he has money to rent another house in this hard economy?
Do you how difficult it is to get a house to rent, the type you like?
Okay, why should he run?

KillahPriest:
You people saying tolerate as if they're all not paying the same rent. How can you leave your kitchen to come and make nuisance at my window with smells and everything ? I'm sure you guys saying tolerate are naturally very dirty and inconsiderate people. Then you say op should try and pack out so what if it's not in his budget yet knowing how expensive moving to a new place is ? Una wicked o. Op, you don't owe anybody even good morning sef, you've paid your house rent and your comfort is paramount since the landlord provided same facilities for everybody. You took the right step by reporting to the landlord but since the case is relatively settled, why bring it to Nairaland or don't you have friends to gist with ?

He said that they're fuming and throwing tantrums. My advice to him is to keep quiet but continue to observe them to see if they will attempt to do more than fuming

Move out if you can
Or else stay and enjoy your rent
But avoid them

helinues:
Is that the only house in that neighborhood?

People should learn how to be accomodative .

Family of 5 in a small room, they would have gone for more bigger space if they had the opportunity

Lol. Make them use smell kill you inside your own house. I don't blame you sha, you be suffer head. Many of us voted for Tinubu just like you too but your suffer head wouldn't let you realise he's doing opposite of what we wanted him to do.

maasoap:


Lol. Make them use smell kill you inside your own house. I don't blame you sha, you be suffer head. Many of us voted for Tinubu just like you too but your suffer head wouldn't let you realise he's doing opposite of what we wanted him to do.

The reality about life is, even ina personal house, one or two issues must dey sha ni, would you abandoned your own house because it gets issue?

JaySmart4422:

Yes it has

What is now your problem since they stopped?

Quit the pettiness and stop being a silly baby.

doggedfighter:
Has the plate washing stopped ?

I like you jare.

If the plate washing has stopped since the Landlord told them to stop it.

Who cares if they insult him or what?

The guy is too emotional and needs to grow some bones. He needs to give it back to that family hot-hot so they know he is not someone that that they can inconvenience and get away with it.

Shoot 'em up

Just pretend they don't exist. Since they don stop the discomforting behaviour...allow them to their emotions madness.

This is one reason to keep neighbour's as neighbour...no unusual attachment.

Throw dead rat at them... urinate and pour it through your widow always.

Shit in a container and put it close to the plate and pot
Nor gree for any bastard. Vawulence every

helinues:
Is that the only house in that neighborhood?

People should learn how to be accomodative .

Family of 5 in a small room, they would have gone for more bigger space if they had the opportunity

Some of you lot are very wicked
See how easy it is to type all of these because you're not the one involved.
Why do you always support evil or near evil things?
I am sure you will be evil as a person.
Those who support evil will have evil always come to them.

Family of 5, nobody is throwing them out of their space. But let them do with the space that they have and not encroach on others

If I become a landlord I can only rent out my 1 bedroom flat to singles then if you want to get married please look for another place...

How can Family of four be living in one bedroom apartment

JaySmart4422:
I have this neighbour who rented a room and parlour self con
But the kitchen in their flat is very big as a family of 5 with plenty friends

They converted the kitchen to a Room and starting bringing their plate to the back of my bedroom window to wash

If you hear the noise of plates n pot u will pity me I can't sleep cos of constant noise n fight very loud, the whole noise feels as if it's happening in my flat.


Sometimes this plates and pots smells like a dead rat and I will be force to close my window.

I have begged this family severally to to wash their plates inside their flat but I will never listen rather they will be throwing tantrums.

Recently they made it a permanent place of washing plates n pots

So I had to involve the landlord and he asked them to stop

Since they the entire family have been in their flat insulting me calling me names.

Am becoming very uncomfortable

Right now I don't know what action to take cos I don't want to respond to any of this insult

How do I put an end to this .

It's unfortunate that they've been disregarding your requests and even resorting to insults. Here are some steps you might consider taking to resolve the issue:

1. Document the issue: Keep a record of the noise disturbances, interactions with your neighbors, and any communications with your landlord regarding the problem. This documentation may be helpful if the situation escalates and you need to involve authorities or legal assistance.

2. Communicate clearly: If you haven't already, try having a calm and polite conversation with your neighbors about the noise issue and how it's affecting you. Let them know that you've spoken to the landlord and that it's important for you to have peace and quiet in your own home.

3. Enforce boundaries: If your neighbors continue to wash dishes outside your window despite your efforts to resolve the issue peacefully, you may need to assert your rights as a tenant. Remind them of the landlord's instructions and consider informing your landlord if the problem persists.

4. Explore legal options: If all else fails and the noise disturbance continues unabated, you may need to explore legal options available to you as a tenant. This could involve contacting the police or housing authority, to report the noise nuisance and seek their assistance in resolving the issue.

Remember to prioritize your own well-being and safety throughout this process. It's important to address the problem assertively but also to avoid escalating conflicts unnecessarily. Hopefully, with persistence and clear communication, you'll be able to find a resolution that restores peace to your living environment.

I blame the landlord. How can you rent a one bed to a family of 5?

JaySmart4422:

Yes it has

So just ignore them and face your front . You and them no get anything together

JaySmart4422:

Yes it has

So what are you whining about.

shortgun:
Move to another house,it's obvious these people are stronger than you

U get money to give am? una go dey talk like say ur brother na davido

helinues:
Is that the only house in that neighborhood?

People should learn how to be accomodative .

Family of 5 in a small room, they would have gone for more bigger space if they had the opportunity

Trashy.

Na igbo dey plenty for house like that

Play loud music, or use ear buds to listen and a while once they discover you are not disturbed they will stop, if you listen you will be angry and they will know from your behaviour but if you don't you will act naturally and that will disturb them more and force the behaviour to stop.

maxiuc:
If I become a landlord I can only rent out my 1 bedroom flat to singles then if you want to get married please look for another place...

How can Family of four be living in one bedroom apartment

Oboy singles too can be worrisome o
They will be changing girls like wrapper or be having different kinds of strangers visit your them in your house
I have been there
Although there are few exceptions

lululovesblue:
But what's the limit na? They all paid the same rent,why should he suffer inconveniences? It's not like their house didn't come with a kitchen. Dealing with the smell day in and day out and the noise is obviously frustrating. Why can't they tolerate and find somewhere else to wash their plates, instead of insulting? There's no reason you should move into a new place and become a nuisance, you get? He seems like a calm and reasonable person. He took the time to meet them personally to beg them, before resorting to telling the landlord. Nobody should be oppressing you in a place you've paid rent in.

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ceejay80s:

U get money to give am, una go dey talk like say ur brother na davido

Ask am o

JaySmart4422:

How do I put an end to this

you should have started fighting against this from the first moment they tried that rubbish. now it ia going to be harder. can't you call carpenter to build barricade for you?

JaySmart4422:

Yes it has

If the plate washing has stopped all you have to do is ignore them. And act like they don’t exist.

Pack out