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MrDoGood:
that's not correct.

you don't need to lie. in fact, most single girls prefer married men

Dey try read....e get why..

The lie is to make her feel important...not to lie that he's not married... The question is why is he lying to the babe that he doesn't like his wife...
Everyone woman wants to feel important than all the other women....even if she knows u are cheating on her or in a polygamous arrangement...

PerfectStranger:
There's a big difference between a man and a simp. She married a simp.

You see, when we go against simps here, y'all ladies think we hate women. Now you see the result,the derogatory word he used on his wife

No be lie bro,am a woman but a real man will always come straight and not talk shit because of pussy

See the man head be like our goalkeeper Nwabali

1Sharon:
When Nigerian men love to talk about "our mothers of old" What they really mean to say is that the woman tolerated the excesses of their fathers and she still stayed 🤣


That's what they want in modern women. They want to do all kinds of fuckery and then come back home knowing the woman will always be there and wait on them.

I am engaging him, to pick his brain from the light of resistance in therapy after adultery.....the resistance to atonement, which is the first stage of Gottman's Trust Revival Method (which many marriage therapists use).

dominique:
I love this piece of advice so much. I'll make sure I'll ensure I frame it and give it to men who find out their wives are cheating or find out they've been raising other mens children. They must hold on to their wives and their homes and ensure there is UNITY LOVE and PEACE

A million kisses for you

zed7:
Most wives destroy their own marriages with their attitude. All this is just for cruise. There are more mature ways of dealing with a cheat.

Like keeping mute and gradually dropping other men's semen for him to breed

Mindlog:
Now, how should "women of new" manage their men who have smartphones and unlimited access to apps and social media platforms which men of old, didn't have?

Sensible women don't bother too much over such nonsense. You either divorce him if you can't deal or you deal. You don't go making a nuisance of yourself in public.

When he becomes old and weak, you leave him and go and stay with the kids. Many men are paying for the sins of their youth at old age.

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jus like the case of a he-goat

Men are becoming weak this days… If you know what some men tru just for peace to reign in their marriage. But I don’t support him bad mouthing about his wife. He should have keep his marriage out of his cheating life style. Men r becoming weak in marriage.

nomorespams:


Women and their high emotional status

Most women need to understand Men are highly sexual beings, it's not their fault they are given almost 30X more testosterone than women,

U just have to be logical above emotional in dealing with men that are consistent cheats

The cake is embarrassing but that won't really stop the man from cheating again..

Use those close to him to talk some sense into deterring him or otherwise take the high road if you can't deal with it

Your are the only rationally thinking person I came across in both the 1st and 2nd thread.
Your statement is scientific and natural...
And truly won't stop the man from seeing same woman except the woman exudes torture.
Remain Blessed.

1Sharon:
And when women complain that most men cheat, you guys swear up and down that it's not true.

I don't know guys who said it wasn't true

That’s why I don’t feel sorry for them when they get what they deserve. Talm bout “none of my 3 kids are mine”. I wish she made it four! 🙄

Most of them are unsympathetic fellows who don’t care how the women they claim to love is faring. You can see and feel it in the way they respond to situations

1Sharon:
When Nigerian men love to talk about "our mothers of old" What they really mean to say is that the woman tolerated the excesses of their fathers and she still stayed 🤣


That's what they want in modern women. They want to do all kinds of fuckery and then come back home knowing the woman will always be there and wait on them.

EreluRoz:
Sometimes it's not even about the cheating that's annoying it's the way they put their wives down and expose her to the sidechick that's heartbreaking. A sensible man will never put his wife down before any other woman but unfortunately we have very few sensible ones left.

I definitely know that I'll cheat in marriage. But my wife and kids will be my priority.

cococandy:
That’s why I don’t feel sorry for them when they get what they deserve. Talm bout “none of my 3 kids are mine”. I wish she made it four! 🙄

Most of them are unsympathetic fellows who don’t care how the women they claim to love is faring. You can see and feel it in the way they respond to situations

Yep. It's hard to sympathise with them and they're really telling on themselves in these comments.

maasoap:
I don't know guys who said it wasn't true

Look out for their comments cus you'll definitely see them.

Random, are you an atheist and did you used to comment on the religious section before?

zed7:
Sensible women don't bother too much over such nonsense. You either divorce him if you can't deal or you deal. You don't go making a nuisance of yourself in public.

When he becomes old and weak, you leave him and go and stay with the kids. Many men are paying for the sins of their youth at old age.

-What is nonsense about infidelity?

Glad you establish that sexual indiscretion outside marriage is a reason for abandonment ,some men experience at old age when they are frail and sickly, no longer attractive to women out there unless he is wealthy enough to attract women who would exchange attention to him for his money. because mama has already signed out!

zed7:
Tell your old whørre to teach you manners. Oh she can't! An old whõrre knows nothing about manners. Whôrres begath Whôrres.

A glimpse of your dp shows exactly what you are. A cheap whôre. Opening your stinking armpits for the public. I spit on your head.

I wouldn't even let you lick my armpits. 🤣

Plan for your retirement o. NL no be work. You're not yourself when you're hungry and frustrated. Leave a legacy for your kids. Old fool

Because of what you want to chop. You are calling your wife stupid? That shows how low life the man is

Confused man

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Mindlog:
-What is nonsense about infidelity?

Glad you establish that sexual indiscretion outside marriage is a reason for abandonment ,some men experience at old age when they are frail and sickly, no longer attractive to women out there unless he is wealthy enough to attract women who would exchange attention to him for his money. because mama has already signed out!

I don't know why you're arguing. I never said the man was right. I support abandonment in old age. Go and meet the youngling that took your strength and seek solace in them at old age.

There are many ways for women to keep a man in check. Leave it at that.

Sonnobax15:

So long say she settle down ice the cake well well,no problem..

Na this type of particular cake dey sweet man pass.... Especially if he's eating it,with the side banny beside him,and rubbing his stomach with Vaseline....And calling him sweet sweet names....

What if the wife poisoned the cake then the husband and the side chick eats and they die! . I think after this birthday the man should leave that house or else the wife will make sure she revenged in a very cruel way which might lead to his early grave .

A highly skilled prostitutte, armed with deception and disgrace, crowned with self destruction

Bellotelli:
I definitely know that I'll cheat in marriage. But my wife and kids will be my priority.

Then why marry in the first place?

Why put someone into emotional torture when you ain't ready to commit?

cococandy:
That’s why I don’t feel sorry for them when they get what they deserve. Talm bout “none of my 3 kids are mine”. I wish she made it four! 🙄

Most of them are unsympathetic fellows who don’t care how the women they claim to love is faring. You can see and feel it in the way they respond to situations

It was before that used to be sick to my stomach about this paternity fraud issue. Looking at these jokers called Nigerian men, now I ask myself, do these ones even deserve biological children?

dominique:
It was before that used to be sick to my stomach about this paternity fraud issue. Looking at these jokers called Nigerian men, now I ask myself, do these ones even deserve biological children?

But paternity fraud exist irrespective of goodness of the husband, country, or income level.

It's how you guys paint women as saints for me. People are just bad abeg. We are only sensitive to when a woman is a victim of a man but not when a woman is a victim to another woman.

I remember one man that told a prostitute his wife tomato is not sweet & watery that why he patronise d prostitute,d prostitute one day use it to insult d woman,when she went to warn d prostitute to leave her husband alone.

Why not divorce her and marry your sidechick if she's that good to you instead of disrespecting your wife. Stupid man if this is true.

advanceDNA:
Dey try read....e get why..

The lie is to make her feel important...not to lie that he's not married... The question is why is he lying to the babe that he doesn't like his wife...
Everyone woman wants to feel important than all the other women....even if she knows u are cheating on her or in a polygamous arrangement...

Maybe you don't understand what you wrote. You don't need to lie to make her feel important.

Are you married?

If you're not, wait till you get married and see girls just want to jump on you without you impressing them. Let alone lying to them. You don't even really need to flash the cash. Except you're going after below 25 yrs old. This is not a confirmation that cheating is a norm. I'm just stating facts

The temptation becomes high the moment you get married

MrDoGood:
Maybe you don't understand what you wrote. You don't need to lie to make her feel important.

Are you married?

If you're not, wait till you get married and see girls just want to jump on you without you impressing them. Let alone lying to them. You don't even really need to flash the cash. Except you're going after below 25 yrs old. This is not a confirmation that cheating is a norm. I'm just stating facts

The temptation becomes high the moment you get married

Sigh....

MrDoGood:
Maybe you don't understand what you wrote. You don't need to lie to make her feel important.

Are you married?

If you're not, wait till you get married and see girls just want to jump on you without you impressing them. Let alone lying to them. You don't even really need to flash the cash. Except you're going after below 25 yrs old. This is not a confirmation that cheating is a norm. I'm just stating facts

The temptation becomes high the moment you get married

Oga na u no read ....this is not about lying to getting them.....there's no woman that doesn't want to feel special...weda she knows she's just being used as a side chic or not..

A married man dating a side chic that knows she's a side chic will never tell that side chic his wife at home is finer and sweeter than her...Lai Lai...

........that's what the sweet talking lies are for especially if u are keeping a steady side chic ....even men wey marry 4 wives for house dey use lies for each of them say "na ur own sweet pass" to make her feel special.....

Be like u nor know women.??...u never see two side chic dey fight say na she be main side chic..?? U never see women dey form monogamy inside polygamous home...na game naa.......u nor fit deal with woman without small lies....