₦airaland Forum

sparko1:
Just because a gay man slept with a woman because the environment doesn't permit it.

sparko1:
Do you know how many Nigerian men/guy have anal sex with their wife and girlfriend?

sparko1:
The idea of choice is not clear to you, the thing you call lust is inbuilt, you don't choose to feel that way.

sparko1:
A choice implies I made a decision to feel that way.

bandseeker:
Nigeria is a very conservative country which is heavily steeped in religion. This is why our society is intensely homophobic.

Most of the hatred stems from the ignorance and hatred which is propagated by religious leaders all over the country.

Homophobic rhetoric is drilled into the minds of young children right from the moment they can speak and understand words.

I've observed this first hand. I live in a typical 'face me, I slap you' neighborhood. My neighbours collectively happen to have a lot of children, all of them ranging from ages 6 to 13.

They all come out in the late afternoon everyday to play after school.

There's this kid that particularly piqued my interest (Let's call him Miracle)
Miracle is the kind of child you would call "different" He is rather effeminate in nature, but he is very intelligent and speaks with an air of quiet authority.

A lot of his mates constantly make fun of the boy because he's "girly"
At first, it was just light teasing, but over time, it has escalated into much more aggressive and straight up bullying. They constantly call him names like "woman wrapper" and "homo"

I can't help but feel sad for the kid. To make matters worse, his father is a violent jerk who constantly beats him up, perhaps to "straighten" his son. The kid is always downcast and appears much more quiet than usual. The sparkle in his eyes is fading.

All of this shit will accumulate and will intensely screw the kid up by the time he's a young adult. I don't want to intervene before my neighbours take it the wrong way.

The Nigerian society has failed Miracle. Instead of teaching our children to love and respect others who are "different" from us, we continue to sew the seeds of violence in their young hearts, and we keep the cycle of hatred going.

Nigerians generally fear what they do not understand. We should learn to live and let live.

Let us break the cycle.

MrCork:
Wot knowledge? Nobody giv fuk about gay people so who want knowledge about fagggggot s? Brother this gay fagggggot are weak people who want to be women by force. Women exist & we love women. We dont want fagggggot dressing or talking like women. Gay people hav h.i.v aid sir!!(no oofencse)

bandseeker:
Nigeria is a very conservative country which is heavily steeped in religion. This is why our society is intensely homophobic.

Most of the hatred stems from the ignorance and hatred which is propagated by religious leaders all over the country.

Homophobic rhetoric is drilled into the minds of young children right from the moment they can speak and understand words.

I've observed this first hand. I live in a typical 'face me, I slap you' neighborhood. My neighbours collectively happen to have a lot of children, all of them ranging from ages 6 to 13.

They all come out in the late afternoon everyday to play after school.

There's this kid that particularly piqued my interest (Let's call him Miracle)
Miracle is the kind of child you would call "different" He is rather effeminate in nature, but he is very intelligent and speaks with an air of quiet authority.

A lot of his mates constantly make fun of the boy because he's "girly"
At first, it was just light teasing, but over time, it has escalated into much more aggressive and straight up bullying. They constantly call him names like "woman wrapper" and "homo"

I can't help but feel sad for the kid. To make matters worse, his father is a violent jerk who constantly beats him up, perhaps to "straighten" his son. The kid is always downcast and appears much more quiet than usual. The sparkle in his eyes is fading.

All of this shit will accumulate and will intensely screw the kid up by the time he's a young adult. I don't want to intervene before my neighbours take it the wrong way.

The Nigerian society has failed Miracle. Instead of teaching our children to love and respect others who are "different" from us, we continue to sew the seeds of violence in their young hearts, and we keep the cycle of hatred going.

Nigerians generally fear what they do not understand. We should learn to live and let live.

Let us break the cycle.

bandseeker:
Nigeria is a very conservative country which is heavily steeped in religion. This is why our society is intensely homophobic.

Most of the hatred stems from the ignorance and hatred which is propagated by religious leaders all over the country.

Homophobic rhetoric is drilled into the minds of young children right from the moment they can speak and understand words.

I've observed this first hand. I live in a typical 'face me, I slap you' neighborhood. My neighbours collectively happen to have a lot of children, all of them ranging from ages 6 to 13.

They all come out in the late afternoon everyday to play after school.

There's this kid that particularly piqued my interest (Let's call him Miracle)
Miracle is the kind of child you would call "different" He is rather effeminate in nature, but he is very intelligent and speaks with an air of quiet authority.

A lot of his mates constantly make fun of the boy because he's "girly"
At first, it was just light teasing, but over time, it has escalated into much more aggressive and straight up bullying. They constantly call him names like "woman wrapper" and "homo"

I can't help but feel sad for the kid. To make matters worse, his father is a violent jerk who constantly beats him up, perhaps to "straighten" his son. The kid is always downcast and appears much more quiet than usual. The sparkle in his eyes is fading.

All of this shit will accumulate and will intensely screw the kid up by the time he's a young adult. I don't want to intervene before my neighbours take it the wrong way.

The Nigerian society has failed Miracle. Instead of teaching our children to love and respect others who are "different" from us, we continue to sew the seeds of violence in their young hearts, and we keep the cycle of hatred going.

Nigerians generally fear what they do not understand. We should learn to live and let live.

Let us break the cycle.

Zairee:
You should have saved that kid
He will remember you as a young adult and it will give him hope

Zairee:
You should have saved that kid
He will remember you as a young adult and it will give him hope

So u encoraggggin people to save gay men ....are u ok in the head sir. WTF WIT U LGTGB FAGGGOT PEOPLE PLS?...cant u find olosho.
WHY ARE U GAY SIR??(((no oofencsece)))

GreatAchiever1:
The phrase "let's learn to live and let live" is a justification for descending into morally bankrupt degeneracy. Even though a male's effeminate behaviour may provide evidence that it is inherited, it still shows that the child needs treatment/counselling/therapy to overcome this. What would you say to someone who is a kleptomaniac, knowing full well that stealing is bad even if it may be out of their control? Would you agree to "live and let live" if they were born with a different personality? Any vice that undermines our human moral values should not be justified.

Zairee:
You should have saved that kid
He will remember you as a young adult and it will give him hope

JessicaRabbit:
Wonderful piece there. The truth is, hate often stems from folks being scaredy-cats of anything outside their beige-walled world. Homosexuality disrupts their neatly colour-coded understanding of gender and sexuality. It forces them to confront the uncomfortable reality that the world isn't black and white. Easier for them to throw a tantrum, than be tolerant and learn something new.

Samfloxin:
Homosexuals and lesbians are possessed by unclean spirits and they need deliverance to be free.

MrCork:


So u encoraggggin people to save gay men ....are u ok in the head sir. WTF WIT U LGTGB FAGGGOT PEOPLE PLS?...cant u find olosho.
WHY ARE U GAY SIR??(((no oofencsece)))

bandseeker:
Kleptomania is an impulse control disorder, not a sexual identity.


Kleptomania can be treated by counselling and therapy. Homosexuality cannot.

You simply cannot "pray the gay away" or drag your son to a church for deliverance because he happens to prefer dolls to trucks and race cars.

Conversion therapy has been found to have very damaging effects on gay individuals. The effects can last a lifetime.

The stigma and shame might never go away because you, as a parent were forcefully insistent that something was "wrong" with your child.

Your child is a human being. Your child has emotions and your child has feelings.

Your child is not simply an extension of your own body and mind. You can train a pet to behave properly but you cannot forcefully instill your own values and ideals in another human being.

I know parents have expectations for their children, but sometimes, things won't go as planned; and that is completely okay.

It's high time we started listening to our children and treating them as one of our own.

Vlyrics:
LoL... Gay sex is fu..cking fun. If di. Cck never enter you, you don't know what you are missing. Or when you mess your boss and he is mo.aning and begging you to stop, such power!

Again, genetically, guys are better looking than ladies. They are taller, broad shoulders, deep baritone voice, chest, thigh, etc. I no know waiting una dey see for girls. I fu.cked a girl once and I didn't like it, I couldn't go all in, or use the energy I wanted to. She was just saying I'm fuc. king as if I'm raping her, but with a guy I can bang with much more energy.

Finally, bussy is better than pu.ssy. With these few points of mine, I conclude that do you, let me do me.

Zairee:
He never said the child was gay
He talked about a personality that was deemed weak because the boy didn't have a hard exterior

MrCork:
Sparko1 is gay. He tryin to change that little boy to gay sir....we dont truss this people sir.they all the same faggggot!!!(((no oofencsece)))

ThothHermes:
Homosexuality serves no purpose. It's perverse. There's no gay gene.
Nature is purposeful. What evolutionary advantages does being gay confer on the human species?
People have the right to pursue their fantasies of perversion, but we must call it what it is -- perversion. Don't make it sound like those who disagree are backward or primitive.

BondRiv:
It is a CHOICE. No one is born gay. The deviance is chosen.

arinzos:
It is not genetic.
All we have are some male/female exhibiting feminine/masculine traits which doesn't mean they are gay or whatever.

ALL gays are either by choice or influenced by the environment.

Jackanda1:
There are so many things in this world that people do. They don't understand they're been influenced by demons.

I was athiest when i realized this. When i did, they started attacking me.

advanceDNA:
Everything is choice...nothing is genetic about it....sexual attraction is environmentally/lust driven

..hope u realize there are people that fvck both men and women..what genetics is that.??.

... There are people who are sexually attracted to children, animals, non living things, etc..what genetics is this??

..there is nothing genetic about it....what we have are just pple who have a broad spectrum of sexual desires and choose to pursue all these multiple desires they are feeling..

Show me a gay man...and I will show u his female exes and even the women he's still sleeping with... Same for lesbians ....

NSK4U:
I'm not talking religion buh I know for fact that if sperm + sperm couldn't form an offspring/man and neither egg + egg can, the idea of the offspring growing the genes of attraction for same sex must have stemmed up from his environment and not genealogy. If you have grown up to liking your same sex, you'd agree that either peers or pornography influenced you and not any natural/inborn feelings

Gromilla010:
your unhealthy obsession about gays will lead you to your doom

advanceDNA:
Lol..u were an atheist when u realized ....??

As in ...as an atheist, are u not supposed to not believe in stuff like demons and God

GreatAchiever1:
Kleptomaniac may also be inherited, so its not just a mental disorder, and even if it were it still can be corrected just like sexual identity. Don't just separate effeminacy and other sexual identity nonsense from being a vice as the rest so as to promote/encourage it; the problem to not finding solution to a problem is if you identify that problem as not being a problem but something one should embrace and let go.

You cannot "pray the gay away" or seek deliverance but here's what one can do; Simply repent and believe the Gospel of Jesus; after all as scripture say: Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will keep My judgments and do them.
Yes, there are reports and testimonies of people having a change in their sexual orientation.

Since when should we start listening to our children in matters of sexual identity, this is all shades of weird, who even came up with that concept. There's only two genders, male and female; a man shouldn't act as a woman and vice versa. At least the child is still young so looking for the right solution at this stage is better before it gets worse, as this is a problem.
Helping a child to overcome a problem such as this and more is treating your child as your own in love and should be advocated; because doing otherwise makes you a bad parent.

Jackanda1:
I had some physical difficulties that made me to start doing alot of research into the spiritual. E.g I started reading books and asking the 'what if questions'. One day out of desperation and curiosity, i asked a pastor to pray for me. I then realized i had several demons who started manifesting, appearing, tormenting and speaking to me. So many things i can't talk about.

There are so many people who are held captives by demons. Only by faith in Jesus name can one be set free.


The atheism nonsense is a demonic mental manipulation itself. I'm happy to be free.

Gromilla010:
you have a very myopic sense of reasoning

bandseeker:
Not everyone is a Christian. And not everyone should be made to model their lives after the Bible/Quran.

Gromilla010:
read your write-up and tell me whether you made sense??