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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by BeigJawnson(m): 12:48pm On Jun 07, 2024

legendsofthesee:
and when your wife leaves you, and dna says your children isnt yours, you'll cry to your family. Simple man

And again you can say people are having accidents in car crashes that will stop you from not entering any vehicle to reach your far away destination. You only pray for safe journey right? Good... Now you can't say there are many failed marriages, definitely your own marriage will fail. Stop generalising ... Not all marriages having paternal fraud like you think...

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Almightyprosper: 12:48pm On Jun 07, 2024

I'm very sure you're not successful

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Kingrshd3: 12:48pm On Jun 07, 2024

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

Number 4 is comparative .

Some jobs pay to acquire your dreams .

Think of public servants like Tinubu sanwolu uzodimma etc they are salary earners but earn more rich in all ramifications

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by ednut1(m): 12:49pm On Jun 07, 2024

Making sense till i got to number 4. Majority of the people that quit their jobs for business usually fail under 2 years. Your so called dreams most times are useless

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by omozu1(m): 12:51pm On Jun 07, 2024

Nice one
All na true

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by birdman(m): 12:51pm On Jun 07, 2024

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

Wait till you are 55 to find half of the above is wrong grin

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by edlion57(m): 12:51pm On Jun 07, 2024

Truth

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Villa12(m): 12:52pm On Jun 07, 2024

BeigJawnson:
And again you can say people are having accidents in car crashes that will stop you from not entering any vehicle to reach your far away destination. You only pray for safe journey right? Good... Now you can't say there are many failed marriages, definitely your own marriage will fail. Stop generalising ... Not all marriages having paternal fraud like you think...

don't mind those broke alpha male.

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by 79733139(m): 12:52pm On Jun 07, 2024*

100% responsibility doesn't mean doing it alone. Example; if you started a building project, you are 100% responsible for its success or failures, it doesn't mean you wouldn't hire an architect, quantity surveyor, builder etc... it just means you are in charge.

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by temisartana: 12:53pm On Jun 07, 2024

Nice write up.

But not just at 35 years. It cuts across all age.

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by BeigJawnson(m): 12:54pm On Jun 07, 2024

Villa12:
don't mind those broke alpha male.

Smiles... Abi ooo

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by winterfell007(m): 12:55pm On Jun 07, 2024

STEWpid:
Chai..

Even though I understand what you mean by No.10,

...buh, no one has ever done it alone.

Let's ride the storm together

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by finallybusy: 12:55pm On Jun 07, 2024*

14. There is no one way to experience life. As such, I will disregard this thread and learn things on my own.

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by commoditiesnig(m): 12:56pm On Jun 07, 2024

Nice piece.. God bless you!

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by kokoA(m): 12:56pm On Jun 07, 2024

Deogratiasfx:
Obviously a kid. When u grow up, I mean in ur head o, not physically necessarily, u will understand.

Do not use your situation to generalize, If you're really matured as you said. I am happily married three years and counting if you may know, I have four brothers of which two are happily to and by God's grace our parents are still alive. These people are the most important people in my life and you'd hardly notice we are all not from thesame parents (my siblings and our wives) and our kids. That's how our parents raised us, so sometimes these so called rules don't apply to all.

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by phorget(m): 12:57pm On Jun 07, 2024

kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

There is hierarchy in family relationships, your nuclear family is the family you build while your extended family are just your related blood. If you are supposed to pay your children school fees and your distance cousin calls for assistance; would you rather assist your distance cousin at the expense of your children school fees?🤷‍♂️.

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Elnas228: 1:01pm On Jun 07, 2024

Op doing like he is the one that comes with this idea. Fellas it's straight from quora.com sha thanks for sharing it here

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by ibrocool(m): 1:01pm On Jun 07, 2024

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by prosper606(m): 1:01pm On Jun 07, 2024

Very Informative👌👍

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by ericmor: 1:03pm On Jun 07, 2024

STEWpid:
Chai..

What you narrated is absolute uselessness.

That's not what I'm talking about.

I have witnessed a guy with wife and two kids struggling but determined in his place of work as an employee in a construction company.

One big client saw him and his efforts and decided to take him as a partner because of his experience. The guy basically run the new company and the big client is just based on return. The client took a loan of N500m to push the business - it wasn't up to 6 months that the money was regained and returned.

The guy right now is a mad multimillionaire and the client too is richer and never regretted his investment on the young man.

Grace!

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Aluckiest(m): 1:04pm On Jun 07, 2024

Very good advice!

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by ericmor: 1:04pm On Jun 07, 2024

who so ever wrote this is a person of wisdom. 99% on point

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by BlackyOne: 1:06pm On Jun 07, 2024

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

You're right with these submissions

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Psoul(m): 1:06pm On Jun 07, 2024

kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

You are either below 35yrs or you're not married yet.
Once you're married, especially to a good woman (ie, of you're a good man) you'll understand that number 3.
No matter how lovely the family you are coming from is, the family you created will definitely be more important to you.

It's only when you don't have a peaceful home that you'll try to fall back to the family you came from.

You can't love your children more than your sibling nor love your sister more than your wife if she's a good wife.

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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Emeka71(m): 1:07pm On Jun 07, 2024

chatinent:
Updated number 8: It is better to keep no friends.

Great points.

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Bigmanshow: 1:10pm On Jun 07, 2024

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

This is very important

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by rollywise(m): 1:11pm On Jun 07, 2024

kokoA:
I don't agree with number 3. Family is family, there's no difference.

That means you didn't learn the lesson or get the point of that particular number. Skip to the next.

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Joy2dworldxyz: 1:14pm On Jun 07, 2024

STEWpid:
Chai..

Even though I understand what you mean by No.10,

...buh, no one has ever done it alone.

Why are you trying to take us back?

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by MrDIY: 1:14pm On Jun 07, 2024

STEWpid:
Chai..

Even though I understand what you mean by No.10,

...buh, no one has ever done it alone.

10, isn’t saying you can do it alone.
It requires not too deep understanding to understand what it means
You probably don’t really understand it.

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Holluwhakemmy(f): 1:18pm On Jun 07, 2024

No 5 really impressed me

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by digitaccountant: 1:19pm On Jun 07, 2024

Noted

Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Bevista: 1:21pm On Jun 07, 2024

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

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