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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by MrOreo(m): 1:21pm On Jun 07, 2024
[quote author=Ochyes post=130342618][/quote]Deep!
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 1:22pm On Jun 07, 2024
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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Salvador1: 1:23pm On Jun 07, 2024
Kingrshd3:
Number 4 is comparative .

Some jobs pay to acquire your dreams .

Think of public servants like Tinubu sanwolu uzodimma etc they are salary earners but earn more rich in all ramifications
na lie... they don't earn they thief by force and run away with it.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by femi4: 1:26pm On Jun 07, 2024
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.
Why tagged it to 35

Wisdom and Maturity is not synonymous with age
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Henrick007: 1:27pm On Jun 07, 2024
LordIsaac:
This post is worth a “bookmark.”
done that bro
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by dfrost: 1:27pm On Jun 07, 2024
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said. Silence is better than unnecessary drama.
2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.
3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.
4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.
5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.
6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.
7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.
8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;
9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.
10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.
11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.
12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.
Ochyes everything you said is pure fact. I need only one book in life, the Holy Book to teach me what I need to know. All other books draw inspiration from it. Is it from finance, family, relationship with others, building oneself, consistency or what sef? Everything is there...

One of the most important is family - it teaches to be responsible for others and to others.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by PieceOfPeace: 1:28pm On Jun 07, 2024
THIS IS THE BEST THING I'VE READ ON NAIRALAND THIS YEAR!
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by ecomalchemistt(m): 1:30pm On Jun 07, 2024
Facts only !!
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by OgogoroDegree: 1:30pm On Jun 07, 2024
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Hustle2flex(m): 1:30pm On Jun 07, 2024
Always write copied when you are not the original writer.
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Oshin56(m): 1:37pm On Jun 07, 2024
Deogratiasfx:
Obviously a kid. When u grow up, I mean in ur head o, not physically necessarily, u will understand.
especially from father side, that's when you will realize no family own you anything...
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Deogratiasfx: 1:39pm On Jun 07, 2024
kokoA:
Do not use your situation to generalize, If you're really matured as you said. I am happily married three years and counting if you may know, I have four brothers of which two are happily to and by God's grace our parents are still alive. These people are the most important people in my life and you'd hardly notice we are all not from thesame parents (my siblings and our wives) and our kids. That's how our parents raised us, so sometimes these so called rules don't apply to all.
Married with kids but a kid in ur head. Read my comments very well. Don't worry, when u grow up, u will understand what the writer is saying.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Akalia(m): 1:44pm On Jun 07, 2024
Deogratiasfx:
Married with kids but a kid in ur head. Read my comments very well. Don't worry, when u grow up, u will understand what the writer is saying.
Stop antagonizing that fellow. However, the both of you are right about your submissions contextually.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by faceland: 1:45pm On Jun 07, 2024
Number 5.

By 35 you must know who you are and not easily conform to things against your purpose.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by CondemnBattery(f): 1:45pm On Jun 07, 2024
Very Apt and spot on
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by ADecadeAddict: 1:47pm On Jun 07, 2024
Just go broke once, all these things are meaningless.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by kokoA(m): 1:50pm On Jun 07, 2024
Deogratiasfx:
Married with kids but a kid in ur head. Read my comments very well. Don't worry, when u grow up, u will understand what the writer is saying.
Oga, the way you're quick to throw insults online at people who you don't know shows how immature you are.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Niok: 1:55pm On Jun 07, 2024
9&10 most especially
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Sirchiboy:
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Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Deogratiasfx: 2:10pm On Jun 07, 2024
kokoA:
Oga, the way you're quick to throw insults online at people who you don't know shows how immature you are.
So ur comments on the OP was a commendation right? The message was clear enough but u want to complicate it. Did the OP say all families are not important? He simply said the one u create is more important.
Simply put:
You as the husband/dad, ur kids and wife is family. Ur parents and siblings is family. Both are important but the former is more important to u than the later.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by princeemmma(m): 2:10pm On Jun 07, 2024
i love this
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by officialfestus(m): 2:14pm On Jun 07, 2024
💯
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Okechinwadike: 2:16pm On Jun 07, 2024
everything you said there is absolutely true mainly number 1, i am typical example of number 1
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Capernum: 2:18pm On Jun 07, 2024
At 35, understand that no one owes you in life. You can't blame anyone for your failure in any field of life.

Expecting that people will help you just because you're related to them is not only silly but lethal.

Understand that at 35 years, you have spent almost half of your ACTIVE life span. Do you need to run, double up, or keep postponing achievements? Selah.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Love800(m): 2:19pm On Jun 07, 2024
That guy you quoted is absolutely right.

If the man was not determined and hustle with more efforts, that big client wont notice him.

In life nobody helps you directly. Its rare.
Directly means someone just vanishing and give you funds or empowerment.
We are mostly helped indirectly, like the youngman putting himself out for the client to take note of him.
STEWpid:
Chai..


What you narrated is absolute uselessness.



That's not what I'm talking about.




I have witnessed a guy with wife and two kids struggling but determined in his place of work as an employee in a construction company.

One big client saw him and his efforts and decided to take him as a partner because of his experience. The guy basically run the new company and the big client is just based on return. The client took a loan of N500m to push the business - it wasn't up to 6 months that the money was regained and returned.

The guy right now is a mad multimillionaire and the client too is richer and never regretted his investment on the young man.



Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Pennilessword1: 2:26pm On Jun 07, 2024
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.
How many of these advice have you implemented in your life if you don't mind me asking and how well have they worked for you?
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Babastrong(m): 2:32pm On Jun 07, 2024
[quote author=chatinent post=130343661]Updated number 8: It is better to keep no friends.[ then you will have no POWER. a man of power must have friends and knows how to use them for his goal.]
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by nathpope(m): 2:34pm On Jun 07, 2024
Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.
100%
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Babastrong(m): 2:37pm On Jun 07, 2024
[quote author=otipoju post=130345220]That's the way things ought to be. Some people are addicted to handouts.

As we speak an old school mate sent me a voice note demanding my number and that I have to have mercy on him as other school mates from way back were having mercy on him.

Another is expecting me to pay his visa application fee...because he is my friend. This is someone who plays at gigs and makes money every weekend. So i will send invitation then dill the application online for him online myself.

Well I am a changed man now and learning to just say mo or ignore unreasonable requests. .

[ why are you blowing unecessary trumpet while someone is still correct you of poo you're vomiting.]
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Sirseedorf(m): 2:38pm On Jun 07, 2024
Wow i love this post...
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by THMT: 2:44pm On Jun 07, 2024
God bless you, you're a very wise woman. I remember when my brothers abandoned me to my fate and didn't give me a car because I was honest enough to tell one of my brother I can't do Uber with a Car he wanted to give me. Truth is don't feel ok driving with strangers and I had insomnia besides I should decide what to do with the Car because I'm not borrowing it. I stood my ground despite how bad I needed a Car, my bro said I have pride because I refused to sell chargers or do uber.

After some years I got a good SUV and still live a fulfilled life then hey realised it's very wrong to impose personal desires on people.

We should help people build their dreams and suggest, but not to impose our desires on them then ignore them if they do not agree before we become a negative destiny changer.


OneCandleAway:
What if his brain cannot carry IT or digital skills. Why not support him in another area, maybe trade skill, or handwork. You don't force your desire on someone.

You can aswell get the car on hire purchase arrangement (indirectly though someone else but you'll be involved) for him and warn him to take the offer serious.
Re: If You Are 35years You Should Have Realize These by Babastrong(m): 2:44pm On Jun 07, 2024
[quote author=SpecialAdviser post=130346998]You forgot to add this
"[b]By now you should know that APC will never improve Nigeria"[YES as well as LP, PDP, APGA etc. nigeria needs new set of youths with different mentality. not those fighting for peter obi, tinubu, atiku and co. ]
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