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oz4real83:
The woman will be doing fasting and prayer for the marriage to breakup, unfortunately, na that kind marriage dey last pass🤣. The lawyer already knows the mistakes the divorced wife made and will never repeat them, the man will be more matured and has learnt some lessons from the previous wife, the marriage will only keep on getting stronger to the detriment of the ex-wife🤣

As in eeeeh..

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Betrayal of the hugest level 🤣

ElevationD:
Wetin you no sabi, in the face of deep emotions? You can get married or date, when the lawyer probably has been out there for years praying and begging for a husband? Now she found one, abandoned by a woman who felt that the man had become worthless to her?
You think “I love you”, said from the depth of the heart is akin to joking?
Bros na you this matter pass. You don marry, by the way?
I dey laugh you here.

You got it all wrong.
I am not saying ther lawyer can't marry the client but there's a time frame to do so.
Work rules and ethics nor be wishy-washy emotional sensationalism.

Unless the lawyer intends to loose his license to practice.

ablejesus26:
You got it all wrong.
I am not saying ther lawyer can't marry the client but there's a time frame to do so.
Work rules and ethics nor be wishy-washy emotional sensationalism.

Unless the lawyer intends to loose his license to practice.

Let me ask:
Without publicizing it, who would have found out? How would we have known when the ex wife and the lawyer entered into the relationship?

Think about emotional issues here. Once in love, there’s no stopping!

Very good development. The thing you don't see any value in, another person sees the worth and value thereof. Sorry o

Realities of life... imagine d situation

[quote author=MarketDispatch post=130361897]Why she dey cry...she don already reject the husband...no be so? NASO O!!!

ElevationD:
Let me ask:
Without publicizing it, who would have found out? How would we have known when the ex wife and the lawyer entered into the relationship?

Think about emotional issues here. Once in love, there’s no stopping!

Why are you having a hard time understanding that when rules apply emotional issues bcomes an excuse.

Just imagine a supposed divorce therapist marrying the client 1 month after thrw divorce process. Things are not done that way.

ablejesus26:
Why are you having a hard time understanding that when rules apply emotional issues bcomes an excuse.

Just imagine a supposed divorce therapist marrying the client 1 month after thrw divorce process. Things are not done that way.

I have not had one single difficulty understanding the word “ethics” in the matter discussed. You have consistently hurriedly not looked into my question regarding the emotional feelings of the woman’s ex and her lawyer. You have jumped all my questions.

If the ex and the lawyer concealed it, what could have happened? Having found love between themselves, how will the word “ethics” prevent them from taking their new relationship to whatever level they want? How can the deed be reversed by the now former wife, having possibly discovered her error?

ElevationD:
I have not had one single difficulty understanding the word “ethics” in the matter discussed. You have consistently hurriedly not looked into my question regarding the emotional feelings of the woman’s ex and her lawyer. You have jumped all my questions.

If the ex and the lawyer concealed it, what could have happened? Having found love between themselves, how will the word “ethics” prevent them from taking their new relationship to whatever level they want? How can the deed be reversed by the now former wife, having possibly discovered her error?

I am actually more about the end result of taking such actions as marrying without waiting for the due time.

Most times what We seek to have badly is not ours to get perhaps at that said time, using emotional implays as a point will not stand as excuse when the pendulum for judgement strikes.

Make the Lawyer and him new found love wait for at least 1 year after the divorce process.

This is a staged story nonetheless.

Is that not a professional Offence?

2aces:
One mans vomit is another mans pot of porridge

Must you be so vivid....guy na porridge I wan chop this night nah

ablejesus26:
I am actually more about the end result of taking such actions as marrying without waiting for the due time.

Most times what We seek to have badly is not ours to get perhaps at that said time, using emotional implays as a point will not stand as excuse when the pendulum for judgement strikes.

Make the Lawyer and him new found love wait for at least 1 year after the divorce process.

This is a staged story nonetheless.

Now you gave me a more relaxing response.
Thank you very much and do enjoy the rest of your Sunday evening.

imustsaymymindo:
Exactly. Bigger trouble loading for the man.

Sir pls I need ur help.

I'm a compulsive gambler and I do not know how to stop it permanently despite all the setback it has caused in my life.

eraglory:
Sir pls I need ur help.

I'm a compulsive gambler and I do not know how to stop it permanently despite all the setback it has caused in my life.

Look for a positive habit to gradually replace it with. Then slowly withdraw from gambling.

For instance, if you are fat, start forming habits to make you lose weight. Only gamble maybe a set of games that is worth maybe 1 percent of your income when you have lost 3kg of weight.

Or if you don't have muscle, start forming habits to make you gain muscles. Only gamble maybe a set of games that is worth maybe 1 percent of your income when you have gained 5 grams of muscle.

Or any other thing you want to achieve, start forming habits to make you achieve that thing. Only gamble maybe a set of games that is worth the least amount you can dash someone when you have gained a substantial number of that other positive habit.

I am a strong proponent that everything was created good and only gets bad when it is not used right including gambling. It's obvious you get pleasure from taking risks and identifying the root cause and dealing with it may be a long thing.

So instead of doing that, accept who you are, and reward yourself responsibly with gambling only when you have achieved a substantive feat in another positive habit and in a way that is not detrimental to you. That's more realistic and achievable.

So, what positive habits do you have in mind?

imustsaymymindo:
Look for a positive habit to gradually replace it with. Then slowly withdraw from gambling.

For instance, if you are fat, start forming habits to make you lose weight. Only gamble maybe a set of games that is worth maybe 1 percent of your income when you have lost 3kg of weight.

Or if you don't have muscle, start forming habits to make you gain muscles. Only gamble maybe a set of games that is worth maybe 1 percent of your income when you have gained 5 grams of muscle.

Or any other thing you want to achieve, start forming habits to make you achieve that thing. Only gamble maybe a set of games that is worth the least amount you can dash someone when you have gained a substantial number of that other positive habit.

I am a strong proponent that everything was created good and only gets bad when it is not used right including gambling. It's obvious you get pleasure from taking risks and identifying the root cause and dealing with it may be a long thing.

So instead of doing that, accept who you are, and reward yourself responsibly with gambling only when you have achieved a substantive feat in another positive habit and in a way that is not detrimental to you. That's more realistic and achievable.

So, what positive habits do you have in mind?

hmmmmm, ok.

I think I'll consider learning a skill but saying that I should view gambling as a way if rewarding system is kind of new to me but I'll give it a try. Thanks for the reply.

I appreciate you!

Mindlog:
Another poor attempt at "tales by moonlight"!

Another social media tale of what never happened!

What is the Nigeria Bar Association's ethical provision regarding that?

It is like a licensed marriage therapist who handled the marriage counselling of a married couple and they went on to get a divorce, 2 weeks later, the therapist got married to one of them! , The therapist is sure losing the practicing license as one can only date/marry a former client after 2 to 5 years of cessation of therapy session.

That wan na for country we sane. For this our country, na those wey no get any kain psychiatric issue dey abnormal