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Threedoorsdown:
You are right but what has bringing it to the internet done. It would rather help you destroy your home faster. That's the truth

Her flaws may just be this while she is good in all other aspects but the internet trolls won't have that. They'll would remind you how useless she is

Best thing is to discuss with her family. If no changes and you can't keep living with her then move on from her. Social media won't help him

he might have told her severely. Sometimes, some lessons are not learnt till you are subjected to public disgrace

APOPTOSIS:
You can make a video and keep such as an evidence because women lie a lot.
But releasing the video for our consumption is not necessary since you are not divorcing her.
Such videos are released after you would have divorced her and she goes about lying like the women we know.

Not necessary if both of you are gonna still remain in that house.
Now she can KILL you.
Women act before they think.
She can KILL you now & being uneducated facilitates such bcoz of the kind of friends she will be keeping.😭😭

he might have told her severely. Sometimes, some lessons are not learnt till you are subjected to public disgrace

Now reverse the role and picture a situation where the woman is the breadwinner while the man doesn’t earn but can’t keep the home the way he expects her to.

Now imagine her saying these things to him and judge what the general reaction of people will be. She should have been the evil westernized wife who wants to turn the man into a house boy because she’s earning money.

See how it feels to go out and labor only to come home to a partner that refuses to contribute?

Gistmedia10:
A Nigerian man living in Europe blasts his wife for neglecting house chores while he was out working to support their family. The confrontation, which was captured on video and has since gone viral, reveals the husband's frustration over his wife's perceived lack of contribution to their household.

In the footage, the visibly upset husband chastises his wife for failing to keep their home clean. "You’re a liability to me," he exclaims. He points out that she has no job, does not attend school, and does not engage in any farming activities. Yet, despite these circumstances, she fails to maintain the cleanliness of their house.

"Where have you been since morning?" he demands. His wife responds that she had gone out to help a friend find a place to shop, an explanation that only further enrages her husband. "All you do is eat inside dirtiness," he retorts, labeling her a "liability woman."



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHXznDKH5v0

Goalnaldo:
he might have told her severely. Sometimes, some lessons are not learnt till you are subjected to public disgrace

Fairs

elrufiason:
It wasn't fair for the husband to have released the video, with her wife face visible clear, she fit commit suicide ohhhhj

he might have told her severely. Sometimes, some lessons are not learnt till you are subjected to public disgrace

pansophist:
The man sef.

Making a video to disgrace his wife, but ends up proving that he doesn't have sense. She is your wife. You don't make a video to disgrace her. Solve your issues without a camera.

All he just did is give strangers the license to insult his wife, the mother of his kids, and a woman he has sworn to be one with.

Nonsense. The guy man is putting evidence together because he knows how easy it is for the story to change to his disadvantage.
His tone clearly depicts the frustration he faces from settling with the liability he calls a wife.
If he doesn't keep track of issues like this, the wife can twist this story and he'll probably risk losing his children and all he has worked for.
Na abroad, no be Naija.
His approach appears irrational to you but mad man and im sense dey

doggedfighter:
Ahhhhh , 24 hrs ?😄😄

Are you the husband? 🤔

How did you know?

Her posture reminds me of how we stood as children when we overslept and our mum was standing with instructions and a cane😁

pansophist:
The man sef.

Making a video to disgrace his wife, but ends up proving that he doesn't have sense. She is your wife. You don't make a video to disgrace her. Solve your issues without a camera.

All he just did is give strangers the license to insult his wife, the mother of his kids, and a woman he has sworn to be one with.

With this nonsense you just typed I swear down na full grown idiot you be, why wouldn’t he ? You think he should only post the good side and hide the bad side abi. Pig 🐷 supporting pig 🐷 honestly I no surprise

Mckraz01:
The both of them disgrace themselves



Abeg I need a job oo
Graduate of Business Admin

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Me too

[quote author=Goalnaldo post=130421904][/quote]And by posting on a world wide web is the solution?

They say in Yoruba, Oju ti ore e, o sope Oju o ti e, iwo gangs ni oni Oju ti.......Dem shame your friend, and you say you are not ashame,

Magnificenttop:
If it's real and not a skit.
Yea, if he's pushed to the wall. They might have been on the issue for years and involved outsiders/family with no changes.
He's just maybe finally pissed and thinks it's time to cast her openly.
He's already fed up and tired with her actions and seems he doesn't really care anymore.

Fairs

Proserpina:
Men keep loosing maturity, wisdom and conflict resolution skills we grow up learning from them every single day


We don't have "handle it like a man" anymore, these days we have "handle it like a feather brain"

No more "handle it like a man" because men are now wiser and won't sulk up all rubbish from women anymore. Accountability is now expected of everybody since we now have gender equality!

Dat why some men beat doa wife cos she deserve to b beat

santaclaws:
So true. When things like this begin to happen, it's a sign that one or both partners have fallen out of love... Also, most ladies pretend to be neat when they're not and after they marry and start having kids, it begins to show... All the same, there is nothing love, understanding and patience cannot solve.

abeg go sit down, the home can never 100% clean with kids in it, gerrout!! That's why my stupid neighbour will keep his kids outside everytime just so his nonsense house will remain neat, paying one day care or the other to keep them, no go allow children feel free for their papa house

onadana:
Yes I know the woman is lazy and has a fault but the man is there to complement her and cover her weakness,as her strength.He can start with some chores surely she will join up and wouldn't want her husband to take part again.She will sit up.That is why the two join together and became one.The woman is not meant to do all the work like a donkey.If the wife is lazy and dirty it is because he allowed it.The buck stops with the man.

Nonsense talk.

You ladies always wanna blame men in everything. A woman who is not working yet can't keep the household clean!

A jobless woman escort a friend to find place to shop

Do they have kids? If there are kids she's taking care of, he should bear with her. If there are no kids then she hasn't tried at all.

jaksmillioniar:
Dat why some men beat doa wife cos she deserve to b beat

You are a lunatic.

cococandy:
Now reverse the role and picture a situation where the woman is the breadwinner while the man doesn’t earn but can’t keep the home the way he expects her to.

Now imagine her saying these things to him and judge what the general reaction of people will be. She should have been the evil westernized wife who wants to turn the man into a house boy because she’s earning money.

See how it feels to go out and labor only to come home to a partner that refuses to contribute?

coco Hippocrates for d man to put her on internet show dat his tired and be warning her before. Is not fair I go out Hussle come back yet meet a dirty house can she tried dat in naija

This is a Yoruba woman

2mch:
You are a lunatic.

I prayed u marry a dirty wife

Jman06:
No more "handle it like a man" because men are now wiser and won't sulk up all rubbish from women anymore. Accountability is now expected of everybody since we now have gender equality!

Yes! Whenever you have issue with your wife entertain us with a video of it.

How immaturity equates accountability in your dictionary eludes me!

LordIsaac:
Her posture reminds me of how we stood as children when we overslept and our mum was standing with instructions and a cane😁

I don't tire posture 😄

Oyibo dey favour women oga be careful before them send u back to africa

doggedfighter:
I don't tire posture 😄

Exactly!

You are even lucky she was not running her dirty mouth, trying to prove to you that you guys are equal

Very childish man for bringing this online. What does he want to achieve?

Can he not set an example by cleaning the house himself. What an idiot.

pansophist:
The man sef.

Making a video to disgrace his wife, but ends up proving that he doesn't have sense. She is your wife. You don't make a video to disgrace her. Solve your issues without a camera.

All he just did is give strangers the license to insult his wife, the mother of his kids, and a woman he has sworn to be one with.

You do not live with the them. This may just be the last straw that broke the camels back. Some people can be very frustrating and you cannot resolve anything with them no matter how hard you try cos they can't seem to reason well. How will a woman leave her home like this and go out with another woman for shopping? It shows she doesn't reason fine at all. No sane person leaves her home like this and goes out to help another person. It goes to show she may have a faulty upbringing that is finally affecting her marriage.

The video is unnecessary please

If you cannot work and earn for yourself, at least keep your environment clean. You don't even have to be rich to be clean. Laziness personified.

Useless lazy woman. The ugly thing even died her hair . What a shame. This one na conform liability