₦airaland Forum

maak400:
Bro, let me give you advice from experience. Women don't want men who treat them special.

Even though they tell you they want to be treated like a treasure, they actually despise men who treat them special, they prefer the men who treat them like ordinary person. Your wife actually wants you to be firm and set boundaries for her, she wants you to scold her when she's wrong.

Don't do house chores, they actually don't respect men who cleans the house. Let her know that you will send her packing if she mess up, let her know that you can do without her. You should actually be able to ignore her for days and reject her food. If she doesn't give a fvck about you, despite rejecting her food and ignoring her, then you should not have such woman as your wife.

Again, women only say they want a caring man, it's actually a lie, they will disrespect the caring man and respect the man who doesn't give a fvck about them.

It gives women sense of insecurity if her Man is simping ....

It's also Immaturities to let your wife know you will send her packing or be threatening simply use body languages & Aura to controlled the entire environment, She would get the clues as women are the smartest specie ...

Then before she started seeing you as Sanni Abacha just change the aura ....

It takes being different 100men in One Man before a Woman would actually acknowledged your Manhood if not, she will test you across Board & you reaction would mould her brain in concluding the Kinda Man You are then she would train your children with the training you imbibed on her....

If you are a one way traffic kinda Man, you have no business managing woman in a Marriage, You will Fail because she will fail you & you will fail the marriage !

advanceDNA:
Me i nor know wetin u get from my comment wey make u crash enter my mention dey insult me?
I not get time to dey explain my comment to those that only read but can't decipher context

No be you call some of us weyrey for saying women ain't wrong

A Woman is as Good/Evil as The Man Behind her Womanhood .... from home to Street & Matrimonial Home .... ...

Make We Men beg Ourselves to Man Up & stop being Boyish ! ...

This drama between men & women no go finish forever na from Adam e start 😑

DonroxyII:
No be you call some of us weyrey for saying women ain't wrong

A Woman is as Good/Evil as The Man Behind her Womanhood .... from home to Street & Matrimonial Home .... ...

Make We Men beg Ourselves to Man Up & stop being Boyish ! ...

This drama between men & women no go finish forever na from Adam e start 😑

Giddem 😆

Ed12:
Your wife have seen through you finish.

It is so wrong to treat women as equal. Not only Nigerian women.

They get wet who they can look up to. Not you that can't keep two relationships

What you can do.

Resume your duty fully.

Provide all finances, kindly turn down her money and refund any money she spent for the house with some interest sef.

Run your home fully with your money.

And improve your bed game.

She will notice.

She look up to and she is beginning to hate herself for choosing a weak man for herself.

She may have started cheating on you too, be vigilant but don't stress yourself with that and until she raise your suspicious or finally get caught.

Man up, take back your home.

Chairman, You wan die young abi

Provide all Finances gini ....

Oboy, you no wan leave long oo ... if I no collect money from my woman make I Scatter..... Just be Fair in your dealings !

Provide all the mental needs is the better deal .. in this 2024 global economy ... Let her see you as bustop for all her mental & Physical needs ..

Even if she go borrow something from outside make ihm sha no be pen.is she can borrow all other things but faculty of kpanshing must be solely exclusive to you as Her Man if not ... Gisos

DonroxyII:
No be you call some of us weyrey for saying women ain't wrong

A Woman is as Good/Evil as The Man Behind her Womanhood .... from home to Street & Matrimonial Home .... ...

Make We Men beg Ourselves to Man Up & stop being Boyish ! ...

This drama between men & women no go finish forever na from Adam e start 😑

Na u carry my comment and use it to tag urself.....I don't remember calling u werey, and im sure i ddnt call ur name...

Btw...Does it sound well to you to say a human being is not capable of wrong doing....?? Are there no women in prisons?? Why nor look for men to take their place??

Women commit paternity fraud...u blame men
Women kill the man..u blame men...
Women insult man..u blame the man...
Women sleep with ex..u blame men

See..There are bad, damaged women out there that have no business with marriage so, sometimes, their behaviour has nothing to do with what the man did.... but u are free to carry wateva mentality u have about women..

I nor get time to dey go into technicalities with captain save a skirt.....

EreluRoz:
Giddem 😆

.. I was just bantering with him now !

DonroxyII:
.. I was just bantering with him now !

I know 😆

EreluRoz:
I know 😆

U sef like trouble

DonroxyII:
U sef like trouble

That particular guy takes delight in looking for my trouble

DonroxyII:
Chairman, You wan die young abi

Provide all Finances gini ....

Oboy, you no wan leave long oo ... if I no collect money from my woman make I Scatter..... Just be Fair in your dealings !

Provide all the mental needs is the better deal .. in this 2024 global economy ... Let her see you as bustop for all her mental & Physical needs ..

Even if she go borrow something from outside make ihm sha no be pen.is she can borrow all other things but faculty of kpanshing must be solely exclusive to you as Her Man if not ... Gisos

In marriage, you provide all finances, that is your power (shield), aside proper knacking.

Everybody know there can be some devastating time, she can step in temporarily if she is capable and you must refund her even add some interest when things return normal.

Providing for your women has never kill a man, lack of provision kill him faster.

When provision role is interchange, you should be ready to compromise alot as a man.

Full/subtle disrespect will come your way..

Your woman is not suppose to spend on you,

take your eye away from her money.

Ed12:
In marriage, you provide all finances, that is your power (shield), aside proper knacking.

Everybody know there can be some devastating time, she can step in temporarily if she is capable and you must refund her even add some interest when things return normal.

Providing for your women has never kill a man, lack of provision kill him faster.

When provision role is interchange, you should be ready to compromise alot as a man.

Full/subtle disrespect will come your way..

Your woman is not suppose to spend on you,

take your eye away from her money.

... I like your Energy .....
Life has a way of training us all

EreluRoz:
That particular guy takes delight in looking for my trouble

You that find their trouble pass

DonroxyII:
You that find their trouble pass

You know I'm a peaceful person

ScotHarvath:
Sex is another issue, I always have to beg for it and when I raised the issue in anger she said I can be going to get it from other girls.

I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.

Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.


Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.


If there’s an altercation, she turns on off the TV and sound system so the neighbors can hear everything.


Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.

If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me

Lol, you are not wrong, that last statement, women who like going for divorcees and the likes, kindly read up.

Villa12:
God bless you sir. @ScotHarvath we the nairaland in-laws and chief justice hereby summon you to invite your dear wife that is if she exist o. Let's hear her own side of story.

Hohally