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| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Solofresh2: 2:35pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
7demons:There is no quality that will make me want to die for a woman. There are many women who will still beat that quality and still be better than her. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Innobee99(m): 2:44pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Forcing a woman to marry u will be your biggest calamity 4 Likes |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by bitingcool: 2:44pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
chatinent:Exactly, the wise lady said slow things down. Perhaps she didn't want to embarrass you by saying no when you proposed. Don't rush into marriage with attitude behavior that could damage it. As she is wise enough to tell you that and not rush to bear your name. The fouols saying go and find another babe have forgotten thay there are many women but few wives. If there are aspects in your behavior that needs to be checked, work on it now b4 u become a husband. Truly, slow things down and be wise. A broken engagement is better than broken marriage. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Kelly2713(m): 2:47pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
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| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by LordReed(m): 2:51pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Chidex369:Can you name the areas of change she pointed out? |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Truvelisback(m): 2:51pm On Jun 24, 2024*. Modified: 7:07pm On Jun 25, 2024 |
Chidex369:She isn't serious. She just dey use you dey hold body until she find her spec.  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Babastrong(m): 2:53pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
She asked you to fu^ck her with fast motion but think of marriage with SLOW MOTION. |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by gracedson: 2:59pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Start going to the gym. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by femi4: 2:59pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Chidex369:You will suffer in that marriage if you go ahead. Never force a woman into marriage.....if she's in doubt, don't go ahead with any marriage plan |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by IamAsiri: 3:06pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Nicepoker:So many sure people on Nairaland. |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by drsibz66(m): 3:15pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Chidex369:I will be honest with you . You need to leave the relaxed totally. That lady already has the power over you and your emotions. Even if she comes back and decide to go on with the marriage, you will see shege promax the type we warned them about before they voted tinubu. Run , Run , Run you won't survive the marriage. She will always be on top and you will continue to beg for love and validation from her. And the more you show love to her the more she hates you and cheats on you. A woman who has already told you that you are not complete is a no no. Starr again with another woman that will be happy when you are discussing marriage and someone that sees you as a complete package. Don't say you weren't warned. 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Auxtan(m): 3:16pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Jeon:You've been a fvcking nuisance on this platform. Get a life! 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by BigBashiru: 3:20pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Coolestguy2023:The funny thing is if the guy puts himself in the open market he will definitely find another better girl within a few weeks. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Stanweezy(m): 3:22pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Oga slow things down, because that place u wan enter if u know study ur partner well e go belike hell fire to you |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Azazyel: 3:25pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Chidex369:Why are you so desperate to settle down? See let me tell you, if she truly sees you as husband material, she would be the one telling you to come see her parents. You guys broke up before and came back. Can't you see that she is still not convinced that you are the one for her. She is still looking for a replacement and she just accepted your proposal out of pity. There are several things she doesn't like about you and cos of that, you're not her spec. Slow down and have a heart to heart talk with her to know what she actually wants. Stop talking so much and start listening. She might not even want the relationship anymore but is just waiting for the perfect person to come along. Is it until she cheats on you in marriage that you'll understand? Women know when they find their spec and they would try as much as possible to tie him down but in your case, it's opposite. Think bro. You still have the opportunity to avoid making a mistake that could ruin you forever 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by optimismlaz(m): 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Oga you don't need advice. You know exactly what to do. Marriage is different from friendship. Be warned! |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by omoadeleye(m): 3:43pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
You are just a backup plan for now. After 2 years of break, what do you expect? |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Berankis: 3:51pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Sometimes, guys can be impressive. Guys giving other guys they don't even know some good advice. I am impressed! 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Blackman101: 3:54pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
My brother it may be difficult oh but move on and don't look back. 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Mftivi: 4:02pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Chidex369:Move on |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by ExudeLoveToAll: 4:09pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
7demons:You are right |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Hezzyluv: 4:12pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Knightred: 1 Like
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| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by sparko1(m): 4:17pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Jeon:It's not about redpill, sometimes you meet someone and you fall completely hard and when she discovers this, things will never remain the same, women wants a man that doesn't really want them. In his case, he should just ignore her, forget about marrying her, start building a relationship with someone else, worse case scenario she will give him an excuse that he is no more caring or romantic and end it herself, (at which time he is already moving or completely moved on) Or She will want him back and he will weigh his pros and cons on both. The mistake many guys make is, looking for a sexual active woman that will be yours alone, NOT POSSIBLE, the moment she has been ACTIVATED SEXUALLY, you can't monopolies her EVER. If you want to marry such let her know you will get another wife in time, watch how guided she will be. Another thing, once you break up with someone, stay the hell away, getting back together with her is a terrible mistake, it doesn't matter who did the breaking up, just say your prayers and move on. Reasons 1. She tried the options she has and prefers yours (meaning at the least, you are not up to her expectations) 2. You have no other option (meaning if she leaves, you will always be there when she returns) 3. You lack some ingredients (like she just explained to you, you need to visit the market and upgrade if not, she's still searching.) 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by MightySparrow: 4:21pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Remman:It is always not normal after a breakup that men goes to beg . The lady has reservations. It is most likely that this OP is at fault. If the lady has a considered better suitor today, she will not go ahead. Not all girls are dummies. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by akan102: 4:45pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
You guys know why you broke up at first, has that issue or issues been fully resolved, what are the things she is having reservations about, have you analyse those things and see if she has a point in them, or are they baseless, do you think she really love you but wants certain points of behavior in you to be changed for good, because friendship is different from marriage. You need to sit and talk seriously to understand yourselves, maybe she doesn't want to make a mistake that would make her regret in the future. |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Algold: 4:51pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Freshtruth:Abeg tell am. Say them dey share her honey pot 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by okoloto: 5:14pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
You are a second option and if the first didn't go well, she may consider or fall back to you. 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by cococandy(f): 5:21pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
What were the areas she asked you to work on? Tell us so we can know if she has a point or not She might love you too and want to marry you but only if she feels like those issues she talked about can be worked on. Maybe she’s dragging her feet on the commitment because she’s not sure if you would be willing to work on said issues which might be a deal breaker for her. Or she might just be using you as a placeholder So let’s know before we judge. Chidex369: |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Dalohad: 5:27pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Chidex369:Chidex, I have been in your shoes and I can tell with 99.9% accuracy that you are not a priority to her at this time. She has other options and you are probably down the totem pole on her scale of preferences. Start looking elsewhere immediately and find another banny ready to settle down. It does not have to be SPELT OUT. Stop wasting your young life waiting for her and move. You are the man and you are the prize. 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Majesty33(m): 5:34pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
To be candid, its not easy to move on just like that especially when you have zero your mind on that particular person .Although there are several women out there but the stress of starting allover again its not that easy. My candid advice is that, u should stay away for awhile as long as possible then you can judge her reaction. 1 Like |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Nyanabo2: 5:48pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
I think you're just a place holder. A placebo |
| Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by lextube: 5:59pm On Jun 24, 2024*. Modified: 6:22pm On Jun 24, 2024 |
Chidex369:From my experience, most times it is usually the woman who is always looking forward to tying the knot with a man. When a woman starts pointing out your fault and telling you to slow things down, in my opinion, it means she's not ready for marriage in general, or she doesn't want to marry you at all. That is you are not the type of person she wants to marry. 2 Likes |
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