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Pls advice your brother, guys and ladies in the house, happily married men and women, pls advice me.
I am a guy that doesn't like to keep malice between me and my friends or families even at work I'm well know for this attribute. If you offend me I will come to you and I will express my feelings to you the way it hurts me and after expressing myself that is the end of all.
But some of these ladies that are coming to my way always have this ugly attitude of keeping malice. I keep wondering if I am the only person having this ugly attitude with girls. How can you start keeping malice with me because of me not telling you the reason why I broke up with my Ex. I told her it's confidential that it is not necessary for her to worry about. Just because of that, she started behaving like GLO network.
And not only over this matter even on a very little matter as using a restroom before her she will still keep malice. I will even be the one to pet her and bring her back to normal mood. And I'm feeling like I'm being simp and weak. And not that I'm push and start guy. But I'm just wondering why I keep experiencing this with Ladies. I don't know if they see keeping the malice as a threat or what because I never understood

"And I'm feeling like I'm being simp and weak."

Self-awareness = 10/10.

Someone got ANGRY at you and started giving you a cold shoulder just because you entered the toilet before her and you still think you are the problem.

That right there is the REAL problem.

You probably give off EMOTIONAL SOAKAWAY vibes and that's why you keep attracting girls who dump their SHITTY attitude on you.

Being around someone who keeps malice sucks up the joy and energy in the vicinity. It ruins your mood.

Best thing is DUMP the girl.

Before you even get serious with the next girl, sit her ass down and teach her your RULES. One of which should be "the first hint of malice and you're OUT the door".

Life is to short and HARD to be with a girl who makes it HARDER.

Ayomide11111:
Pls advice your brother, guys and ladies in the house, happily married men and women, pls advice me.
I am a guy that doesn't like to keep malice between me and my friends or families even at work I'm well know for this attribute. If you offend me I will come to you and I will express my feelings to you the way it hurts me and after expressing myself that is the end of all.
But some of these ladies that are coming to my way always have this ugly attitude of keeping malice. I keep wondering if I am the only person having this ugly attitude with girls. How can you start keeping malice with me because of me not telling you the reason why I broke up with my Ex. I told her it's confidential that it is not necessary for her to worry about. Just because of that, she started behaving like GLO network.
And not only over this matter even on a very little matter as using a restroom before her she will still keep malice. I will even be the one to pet her and bring her back to normal mood. And I'm feeling like I'm being simp and weak. And not that I'm push and start guy. But I'm just wondering why I keep experiencing this with Ladies. I don't know if they see keeping the malice as a threat or what because I never understood

If Only it affects the price of rice, maybe I would have given a fuhk

All women keep malice and are manipulative. Just look for the lesser evil and manage her.

It happens to all men. No man likes to keep malice but women will test you.

The best solution is not to base your happiness on her. Just treat her like you would treat your sister or your mum. (You no go get choice because she go test you to the point of denying you sex for months or weeks)

Just detach your happiness from them. Make dem happy but expect nothing in return.

I used to be like you before, my babe will offend me and I will still be the one to call a truce because I couldn't bear the silent treatment. I got tired of the manipulative attitude and started giving her a dose of her own medicine, I became a malice king myself. Before she would start her malice I would active the silence mode and go about my activities like she's a piece of furniture na she go dey beg me to talk to her self. Since then she has dropped that nonsense attitude.

it seems you have eaten well and don't have responsibilities if not people feelings towards you will be the last thing on your mind.

Ballzproblemm:
it seems you have eaten well and don't have responsibilities if not people feelings towards you will be the last thing on your mind.

Exactly...

E no go better for feelings.

Supreme145:
I used to be like you before, my babe will offend me and I will still be the one to call a truce because I couldn't bear the silent treatment. I got tired of the manipulative attitude and started giving her a dose of her own medicine, I became a malice king myself. Before she would start her malice I would active the silence mode and go about my activities like she's a piece of furniture na she go dey beg me to talk to her self. Since then she has dropped that nonsense attitude.

Op here's the help you need

They will call it mood swings but they don't know that such behaviors are capable of ending a relationship that is likely to lead to marriage...

Ok,I think it's high time you grew some balls and start giving her similar vibes ......If not, you'll not only get this kind of behavior from her continuously but from other bannies in the future.

You're a weak man

Ayomide11111:
Pls advice your brother, guys and ladies in the house, happily married men and women, pls advice me.
I am a guy that doesn't like to keep malice between me and my friends or families even at work I'm well know for this attribute. If you offend me I will come to you and I will express my feelings to you the way it hurts me and after expressing myself that is the end of all.
But some of these ladies that are coming to my way always have this ugly attitude of keeping malice. I keep wondering if I am the only person having this ugly attitude with girls. How can you start keeping malice with me because of me not telling you the reason why I broke up with my Ex. I told her it's confidential that it is not necessary for her to worry about. Just because of that, she started behaving like GLO network.
And not only over this matter even on a very little matter as using a restroom before her she will still keep malice. I will even be the one to pet her and bring her back to normal mood. And I'm feeling like I'm being simp and weak. And not that I'm push and start guy. But I'm just wondering why I keep experiencing this with Ladies. I don't know if they see keeping the malice as a threat or what because I never understood

telling your woman that the reason why you broke up with your ex is "confidential" is not a great answer as it will make her more curious about what happened... what you should instead have told her is:"its none of your damn business, irrelevant to our relationship, its in the past, she is my ex and i am dating YOU now, so why should you care?"

Ayomide11111:
Pls advice your brother, guys and ladies in the house, happily married men and women, pls advice me.
I am a guy that doesn't like to keep malice between me and my friends or families even at work I'm well know for this attribute. If you offend me I will come to you and I will express my feelings to you the way it hurts me and after expressing myself that is the end of all.
But some of these ladies that are coming to my way always have this ugly attitude of keeping malice. I keep wondering if I am the only person having this ugly attitude with girls. How can you start keeping malice with me because of me not telling you the reason why I broke up with my Ex. I told her it's confidential that it is not necessary for her to worry about. Just because of that, she started behaving like GLO network.
And not only over this matter even on a very little matter as using a restroom before her she will still keep malice. I will even be the one to pet her and bring her back to normal mood. And I'm feeling like I'm being simp and weak. And not that I'm push and start guy. But I'm just wondering why I keep experiencing this with Ladies. I don't know if they see keeping the malice as a threat or what because I never understood

Same here......

Just learned to keep malice too......

I'm someone who doesn't before but at least I can try a bit.......

No be only girls will manipulate u with malice even guys too........going back to Dem each time......make Dem see u as weak.......

Why would a lady start keeping malice with you simply because you did not tell her the reason you broke up with your ex?

The lady is very childish

Ayomide11111:
Pls advice your brother, guys and ladies in the house, happily married men and women, pls advice me.
I am a guy that doesn't like to keep malice between me and my friends or families even at work I'm well know for this attribute.
Your Strength and Also Your Weakness; learn to keep malice too.
If you offend me I will come to you and I will express my feelings to you the way it hurts me and after expressing myself that is the end of all.
But some of these ladies that are coming to my way always have this ugly attitude of keeping malice. I keep wondering if I am the only person having this ugly attitude with girls. How can you start keeping malice with me because of me not telling you the reason why I broke up with my Ex. I told her it's confidential that it is not necessary for her to worry about. Just because of that, she started behaving like GLO network.
And not only over this matter even on a very little matter as using a restroom before her she will still keep malice. I will even be the one to pet her and bring her back to normal mood.
Another Weakness, don't beg sometimes even when you are wrong. I can bet she doesn't beg when she's wrong, when you care about what she will do is the beginning of simping
And I'm feeling like I'm being simp and weak. And not that I'm push and start guy. But I'm just wondering why I keep experiencing this with Ladies.
Because You Keep Tolerating there bullsh1t and manipulation.
I don't know if they see keeping the malice as a threat or what because I never understood

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Supreme145:
I used to be like you before, my babe will offend me and I will still be the one to call a truce because I couldn't bear the silent treatment. I got tired of the manipulative attitude and started giving her a dose of her own medicine, I became a malice king myself. Before she would start her malice I would active the silence mode and go about my activities like she's a piece of furniture na she go dey beg me to talk to her self. Since then she has dropped that nonsense attitude.

One of The Best Response so far, I even dey extend it further by being Toxic and manipulative.

I was like you before
You have to grow thick skins
If she keeps malice with you don’t beg her, let her be.
You have to keep the malice more than her and trust me if u do this repetitively like 5 times she will adjust.

this op may sound like a very st*upid man but don't be decieved...He is actually very fo*olish

Ayomide11111:
Pls advice your brother, guys and ladies in the house, happily married men and women, pls advice me.
I am a guy that doesn't like to keep malice between me and my friends or families even at work I'm well know for this attribute. If you offend me I will come to you and I will express my feelings to you the way it hurts me and after expressing myself that is the end of all.
But some of these ladies that are coming to my way always have this ugly attitude of keeping malice. I keep wondering if I am the only person having this ugly attitude with girls. How can you start keeping malice with me because of me not telling you the reason why I broke up with my Ex. I told her it's confidential that it is not necessary for her to worry about. Just because of that, she started behaving like GLO network.
And not only over this matter even on a very little matter as using a restroom before her she will still keep malice. I will even be the one to pet her and bring her back to normal mood. And I'm feeling like I'm being simp and weak. And not that I'm push and start guy. But I'm just wondering why I keep experiencing this with Ladies. I don't know if they see keeping the malice as a threat or what because I never understood

Bro na format
She or they use that pretending malice keeping to manipulate you to end up doing what she/they wants.

She has attempted it before it works,she won't stop until you stop her.
Thru always want to be in emotional control in any relationship -so take charge
Ancient Eveic formula
Am surprised you don't know about these,read more from Ubunja Miseducation and others

Supreme145:
I used to be like you before, my babe will offend me and I will still be the one to call a truce because I couldn't bear the silent treatment. I got tired of the manipulative attitude and started giving her a dose of her own medicine, I became a malice king myself. Before she would start her malice I would active the silence mode and go about my activities like she's a piece of furniture na she go dey beg me to talk to her self. Since then she has dropped that nonsense attitude.

Twale Baba💯

Barman give him a chilled bottle of Orijin 🍻

Na man you be