Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor - Christianity Etc (6)

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by eliwa47(m): 9:54am On Jul 04, 2024

End time pastor undecided

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Chikel20000(m): 9:54am On Jul 04, 2024

Namaster:
If you ever want to listen to UTTER folly being spewed with confidence, go to a church.

u are lucky to just have christians teach n u can say anything u wanna say about Christianity without getting harmed or abused....try that with islam

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Benmsu: 9:58am On Jul 04, 2024

No be only owner add creator join

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by CorrectionFLuid: 9:58am On Jul 04, 2024

You see pentecostalism, that's what will bring the end to Christianity grin

From Christ embassy to Adeboye rccg to the unbranded ones, It has outlived it's usefulness.

Even it's pioneer Martin Luther ended up being a villain against poor people.

No sane person should take pentecostalism serious anymore.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by akanni79(m): 10:01am On Jul 04, 2024

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWhPaSoIyuA

This is not Bible teaching, may be this pastor doesn't know the meaning of friendship, your spouse should be your best friend, If you want to enjoy your marriage very well.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Kingri: 10:01am On Jul 04, 2024

Botragelad:
Do people actually give credence to what these individuals say? How laughable!

Marriage is intended to be a partnership, distinct from the ownership and control inherent in slavery, I believe. Yet, individuals like this perpetuate sexist ideologies that blur these lines.

If someone finds themselves in a volatile and abusive relationship, where they feel 'owned' or controlled by their spouse, how can they possibly escape? Does he not comprehend the fundamental human rights that are violated by 'owning' another person?

Think before you talk ..did he say any thing about abusive relationship?

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by AdeCityzen(m): 10:03am On Jul 04, 2024

Winnin009:
I didn’t twist your words; I simply mirrored it back to you and I’m sure you can see how distasteful it is.

Yeah; you see those greedy parents you spoke about; that’s you in years to come if you keep up with this mindset.

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by AdeCityzen(m): 10:03am On Jul 04, 2024

Winnin009:
I didn’t twist your words; I simply mirrored it back to you and I’m sure you can see how distasteful it is.

Yeah; you see those greedy parents you spoke about; that’s you in years to come if you keep up with this mindset.

Lol, you be OP aswear. You dey para bro

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by ufuosman(m): 10:04am On Jul 04, 2024

Well said👍

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by KnownUnknown: 10:06am On Jul 04, 2024

Botragelad:
Do people actually give credence to what these individuals say? How laughable!

Marriage is intended to be a partnership, distinct from the ownership and control inherent in slavery, I believe. Yet, individuals like this perpetuate sexist ideologies that blur these lines.

If someone finds themselves in a volatile and abusive relationship, where they feel 'owned' or controlled by their spouse, how can they possibly escape? Does he not comprehend the fundamental human rights that are violated by 'owning' another person?

The religion at its core is obviously depraved. Everything they say can be backed up by the book of bad ideas they call the Bible. So, yes if you’re a Christian woman, you are obviously property.

Like one of their commandments says:
You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his male slave, or his female slave, or his ox, or his donkey, or anything that is your neighbor's.

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by komzy589(m): 10:12am On Jul 04, 2024

lexy2014:
If you own children, does that mean they are your slaves?

PortHarcourtcit:
please read what typed again... You just rushed to comment without reading it first...

He perfectly understood you.
You were complaining that a wife is the mother of your children and not a slave.
The Pastor never mentioned that your wife is your slave, he only said the husband owns her. And that is true.
Just as a man owns his children but they are not his slave.
Whose last name are they all bearing?
I don’t know what we are arguing here if not too much unnecessary pride.
A man pays a woman’s bride price, brings her to come and leave with him from her father’s house. That’s ownership.
But because she’s human and she’s someone you must first love, you’re obligated to treat her right.
The Pastor is 100% spot on.

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by LordIsaac(m): 10:13am On Jul 04, 2024

confydoedowaye:
Don't misquote the gentleman. Why sarcastically use "toy"?, why not use "the universe". Your husband owns u like humans own the universe. Humans protect the universe against global warming, invasion of aliens, technological obsolescence, animal and plant extinction etc and humans play superior role on the universe over other mammals and animals. Ownership is not for toys only. Husband own their wife because they want to completely provide for their wives all their needs, protect their wives with their lives, enjoy sexual pleasure and produce children with their wives. The man is the head and not the controller, the leader and not the ruler. THE STRENGTH OF A WOMAN LIES ON HER ABILITY TO USE HER WEAKNESS TO HER ADVANTAGE...

They interpret it according to the bias in their minds. The Pastor just stated it as it is...there is too much sugar-coating going on recently. Everyone has learned to be politically correct to survive. Most pastors would rather use the head and neck analogy in order to retain their female followership.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Thazard(m): 10:16am On Jul 04, 2024

Anguldi:
Nigerian ladies get offended from this kind of statement

That's why she's your rider 😁

Meanwhile

When I marry pocohantas, am changing her name, status, location, looks, orientation.

Full ownership

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Pootle: 10:18am On Jul 04, 2024

me no own my wife o...na slave wtf man how will you say such a thing undecided

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by wanted222(m): 10:22am On Jul 04, 2024

yes and thats the gospel truth i bought her with my own money so she is my property if they don't like it they should remove pride price system thats all

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by BABANGBALI: 10:22am On Jul 04, 2024

RealityKings:
This post is not about banks

can I save my money in your Bank's branch? grin

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by greygoblings(m): 10:27am On Jul 04, 2024

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWhPaSoIyuA

Mumu Pastor

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Lanre1st(m): 10:33am On Jul 04, 2024

Botragelad:
Do people actually give credence to what these individuals say? How laughable!

Marriage is intended to be a partnership, distinct from the ownership and control inherent in slavery, I believe. Yet, individuals like this perpetuate sexist ideologies that blur these lines.

If someone finds themselves in a volatile and abusive relationship, where they feel 'owned' or controlled by their spouse, how can they possibly escape? Does he not comprehend the fundamental human rights that are violated by 'owning' another person?

I agree with your view and that is my stance.

But why must man pay heavily or responsible for marriage and wedding expenses? If it were to be partnership, I think women should brace up to pay part of the bill

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Finegirl734(f): 10:34am On Jul 04, 2024

True

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by lailo: 10:37am On Jul 04, 2024

He never said anything wrong. Meanwhile people who lack comprehension ability have began to bash him right, left and centre. He only said men own women which is the fucking truth. He didn't say women for that reason are their slaves. Wrong interpretation so many commenters have given his statement. Men also own their children and the children are never slaves. The reason why most marriages are going through turbulence is bcs women see themselves as equals to their husbands. No canoe can survive two paddlers, it will lose direction and capside. Any lady who doesn't want to be owned have a choice to remain single. Marriage is a different ball game. Your husband is your fucking lord, your head, your leader, not your equal. Too many aalterations in marriage leading to distructions.

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Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by chidiokay: 10:41am On Jul 04, 2024

Botragelad:
This statement is really silly! Paying bride price is a cultural tradition, not a way to buy a person. It's like a wedding gift, not a purchase.

When parents accept gifts or money, it doesn't mean they're giving up their child's freedom. It's a kind gesture, not a contract. And with goats and chickens being mentioned, do you really think the number of animals traded decides how much control someone has? That's ridiculous! Get rid of such outdated way of thinking.

In clear terms or one word, what does money symbolize,

when you see an exchange and one party brings out money what comes to mind, can you nullify "buy"

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Myhusband(m): 10:43am On Jul 04, 2024

The word owned was wrongly put but in reality paying bride price of your woman made you the owner and any man that crosspath to sleep with her brought curse to himself

As pastor was made the head of the church, so also the man is the head of the house. Wife was mandated to be submissive to their husband while husband was instructed to respect and love his woman

These Gen z generation believe they've contrary opinions, continue bringing your marriage issues to social media for people who have change bf/gf like 10times within 3months to advise you on marriage

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Maliqcious: 10:47am On Jul 04, 2024

Pastor slow down the tempo you talking too much

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Anguldi(m): 10:55am On Jul 04, 2024

chidiokay:
you are a young man, you should be aspiring for young and fresh tinz ... go for deliverance

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by Elidrisy20: 10:56am On Jul 04, 2024

Their head belongs to Dem, but their Vijay belongs to the husband

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by ChybuzzDD(m): 10:59am On Jul 04, 2024

Botragelad:
Do people actually give credence to what these individuals say? How laughable!

Marriage is intended to be a partnership, distinct from the ownership and control inherent in slavery, I believe. Yet, individuals like this perpetuate sexist ideologies that blur these lines.

If someone finds themselves in a volatile and abusive relationship, where they feel 'owned' or controlled by their spouse, how can they possibly escape? Does he not comprehend the fundamental human rights that are violated by 'owning' another person?

So, why are men being made to pay huge amount to "acquire" them if marriage is meant to be a partnership huh

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by MrBroke(m): 11:05am On Jul 04, 2024

Something way I pay for with my money 9 ona dey argue say I no be the owner.

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by chidiokay: 11:19am On Jul 04, 2024

[quote author=Anguldi post=130789133][/quote]you will need it

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by desthan(m): 11:32am On Jul 04, 2024

nwakibie3:
Full stop.

ANOTHER FULL STOP cool

FEMINIST ARGUE WITH YOUR RABBIT

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by folks4luv(f): 11:33am On Jul 04, 2024

Badexx:
Always trying to sound smart and civilised but keep deceiving yourself with your illusions. Why do men sweat through their anus to pay exorbitant pride price then?

Lol. Y'all won't get tired of this bride price thingy? In nations where women used to pay dowry, were women treated better? There are places with very cheap bride price in Nigeria, does that mean these husband doesn't 'own' their wives?
How much do you think you can pay to own another human? Does that mean a random person can buy and own you too like a slave?

Re: Your Husband Is Not Your Friend, He Is Your Owner - Pastor by desthan(m): 11:35am On Jul 04, 2024

Lanre1st:
I agree with your view and that is my stance.

But why must man pay heavily or responsible for marriage and wedding expenses? If it were to be partnership, I think women should brace up to pay part of the bill

.

FULL STOP cool

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