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| What’s The Big Deal In Cheating In A Relationship? by ayjay45(op): 2:56pm On Jul 05, 2024 |
What’s the big deal? Why do people act like it’s a big deal. Yoruba demon I Dey fuūck anything |
| Re: What’s The Big Deal In Cheating In A Relationship? by goran3310(m): 3:46pm On Jul 05, 2024 |
I don't cheat, that's not an option. I hate it. I give it my all. But I leave it for small mistakes. |
| Re: What’s The Big Deal In Cheating In A Relationship? by NoChill: 8:27pm On Jul 06, 2024 |
ayjay45:You must be in secondary school 1 Like |
| Re: What’s The Big Deal In Cheating In A Relationship? by onumadu: 8:41pm On Jul 06, 2024 |
This your topic is huge.. but the answer is very simple: Cheating is BREAKING OF A PROMISE/TRUST. "Fidelity" (being loyal or trustworthy) is the bedrock of interpersonal relationships. I say it is huge because A LOT of people get into these things (relationships) with a very tiny/narrow worldview. Breaking a promise is not just a physical wrong but a spiritual one. In my humble opinion this is perhaps the original true sin I can think of. I tend to not want to bring spirituality and religion into topics here, but this one cannot be separated from spirituality. NEVER promise what you do not intend to honor. And whenever you break a promise, try your level best to: (1) Expiate (pay for it), or (2) Apologize and ask for forgiveness and (3) VOW to never repeat it. My simplest solution to it? NEVER promise anything to anyone you cannot be sure of. Period. If they want a relationship with you that way, good and fine and be willing to accept their lifestyle choices as well. Else, conduct the utmost promise exercise: MARRY THEM. And if (or when) the marriage sours, divorce and move on so that no promises is hanging on your neck. In non-marriage (or even marriage one sef) ensure that the golden rule (do unto others as you'll have them do to you) applies. OP, thanks for asking an important question. |
| Re: What’s The Big Deal In Cheating In A Relationship? by MrCork: 10:30pm On Jul 15, 2024 |
ayjay45:U sir are so so dumb..its naturally unbilifable...very dumb man(((no oofencse)))  |
| Re: What’s The Big Deal In Cheating In A Relationship? by helinues: 11:17pm On Jul 15, 2024 |
You will become a chronic liars To maintain your own sanity would be hard as you will be receiving nagging from different corners You are prone to attract Aids , hiv and the possible sexual transmission diseases |
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