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justwise:
Many legal abortion clinics are forced to close down either by the politicians or ant-abortion groups in a way to go round the abortion exemptions. This is why a lot of women travel to democrat run states for abortion.

again not true.

People are leaving not cos they can't get abortions in even the Cray Cray Alabama for lack of facilities to get it done, provided they are the listed aforementioned exceptional cases. They are leaving to other states cos they don't fit the said exceptional cases.

Two very different things.

Hello, everyone.

I want to ask NLers in the UK what it's like living and working in Bedford.

The cost of living, quality of life, healthcare, education, housing, crime rate, the reception of community members to foreigners and the likes.

I read it's a "market town".
Please, what does this mean?
Are things relatively cheaper there?
Are there African stores in the area?

I also read it is predominantly a white community.
How true is this, please?

I would appreciate any other detail/information about the place.

Thanks.

Zahra29:
American women are not a monolith. There is a sizeable number that think that abortion is immoral, for example many would disagree with the freedom to terminate a healthy pregnancy at the stage when the baby would have been able to survive outside the womb. A woman has rights, but so also does an innocent baby who can feel, hear, move. It's not a black and white issue.

Who is advocating for this? Roe v wade never did. That would be murder.

Zahra29:
The abortion law allows provision for certain cases such as rape. Treadway has made a couple of posts on this.

in addition, even on the issue of rape, this isn't 1792. Even in Nigeria as backward as it is, after a rape is committed, there are medicaments that the victim can take 24-72 hrs after intercourse to prevent conception.

As a bad boy back in the day, my babes used am wella on the few times that we slipped up...there was postinor 2 to the rescue. If the tin don hook sef, the one wey go do the do even up to 2weeks post-coitus sef dey.

So expectedly, common sense dictates that there will be a wider variety/spectrum of options in the 'abroad', to prevent conception after an unfortunate rape incident.

So talking like a full abortion with all the bells and whistles is the ONLY available solution option following a rape is obviously blatantly mischievous and utterly ridiculous.

Even HIV sef get PEP regimen wey you fit use hours after exposure. And yes, they administer all this medications as standard preventive measures after a rape (I mean including PEP) cos you don't know what medical conditions the assailant/rapist had.

Now in the instances where conception still happens despite all odds (and yes that can happen on rare occasions), there is the abortion option as a last resort, which should be easy to prove cos there will be records and documentation to that effect. Abortion in this day and age is not a first resort option or response to rape. Painting it as though it is, is very infantile🤣

[quote author=Treadway The one wey go do the do even up to 2weeks post-coitus sef dey.

.[/quote]Apropos of nothing,I don't think this is correct. An embryo is already safely ensconced in the womb . No emergency contraception can get at it at 2weeks GA. Medical and surgical Terminations will be effective .

Just correcting the record. You never know who might be reading. Emergency contraception should be on board within 72 hrs to stand the best chance.

missjekyll:
Apropos of nothing,I don't think this is correct. An embryo is already safely ensconced in the womb . No emergency contraception can get at it at 2weeks GA. Medical and surgical Terminations will be effective .

Just correcting the record.

dey play

This one no be Google, although e dey Google sha. I'm telling you facts. Up to 2weeks post coitus, e go activate menstruation up to 80% of the time.. and out comes the lining and everything on the lining.

Yes, per the use of emergency contraceptives eg postinor 2, I already said up to 72hrs is the best. Infact to be quaint, up to 48hrs is best, by 72hrs success rates already down to 50%.

But make no mistake, menstruation can be kick-started by
other medication up to 2weeks post coitus with a 80% success rate. If you Google it, it will show you the medication. Not advocating for this, I'm just sharing information due to this convo ni o, based on even personal experience not Google or hearsay. Just trying to show that so much can be done that doesn't include abortion after a rape

Treadway:
dey play

This one no be Google, although e dey Google sha. I'm telling you facts. Up to 2weeks post coitus, e go activate menstruation up to 80% of the time.. and out comes the lining and everything on the lining.

Share the name here or PM me. Lots of women read this thread, we don't want anyone getting caught out now , do we? That's why I m dragging this, sorry

Unless you are a gynaecologist?

missjekyll:
Share the name here or PM me. Lots of women read this thread, we don't want anyone getting caught out now , do we? That's why I m dragging this, sorry

Unless you are a gynaecologist?

check one of your threads. Once you see it, let me know here, and I'll delete it there.

Then do your research and then come back to share your findings

Treadway:
dey play

This one no be Google, although e dey Google sha. I'm telling you facts. Up to 2weeks post coitus, e go activate menstruation up to 80% of the time.. and out comes the lining and everything on the lining.

Yes, I already said up to 72hrs is the best. Infact to be quaint, up to 48hrs is best, by 72hrs success rates already down to 50%.

But make no mistake, menstruation can be kick-started by medication up to 2weeks post coitus with a 80% success rate. If you Google it, it will show you the medication. Not advocating for this, I'm just sharing information due to this convo ni o, based on even personal experience not Google or hearsay. Just trying to show that so much can be done that doesn't include abortion after a rape

What emergency contraception does this ? Note that I haven't said Medical Termination.

missjekyll:
What emergency contraception does this ? Note that I haven't said Medical Termination.

I didn't call it emergency contraception. Let's stay on point.

I said there are medications that you can use up to 2wks post-coitus with as little risk as using postinor 2. I didn't say it was an emergency contraceptive like postinor 2.

I also only stated this to show there are medications and options that can be used even up to two weeks, and that for that reason abortion isn't a first line response or defence to rape, but rather last line.

missjekyll:
Apropos of nothing,I don't think this is correct. An embryo is already safely ensconced in the womb . No emergency contraception can get at it at 2weeks GA. Medical and surgical Terminations will be effective .

Just correcting the record. You never know who might be reading. Emergency contraception should be on board within 72 hrs to stand the best chance.

I just saw the bolded. Yes, that is correct.

Again, I did not call it emergency contraception anywhere in my posts. I wrote out the name of the emergency contraceptive Postinor 2 just to be clear I was talking about different levels/tiers

Lexusgs430:
With the rates of forex now, I dey slowly tread away........ 😁🤣

emergency lyrics

Treadway:
lol😁🤣

You be eel....person no just fit hold you...lol

Over slippery dey worry the bros, chai! Years and years of being slippery experienced "slipperer"

What's your advice in making friends in the UK please?

Treadway:
I just saw the bolded. Yes, that is correct.

Again, I did not call it emergency contraception anywhere in my posts. I wrote out the name of the emergency contraceptive Postinor 2 just to be clear I was talking about different levels/tiers

My bad. Do carry on.

rock86:
What's your advice in making friends in the UK please?

Kumbhuru is that you? Scratching my head at your question...

Nawa o, I just noticed about £800 left my monzo account overnight, all to Meta Pay/oculus... Thank God I didn't have much funds in that account!!! Multiples of $100 converted to £78. I've logged with Monzo though, but suggestions/experiences here would be welcome. @Lexus hope you've not traveled

missjekyll:
Who is advocating for this? Roe v wade never did. That would be murder.

With the right intervention, a baby is able and proven to survive at 22 weeks. There is at least one case of a baby who survived when she was born prematurely at 21 weeks.

In the UK and in several US states, abortion is legal until and through 24 weeks, even of perfectly healthy babies. In fact, looking at Wikipedia, I've just seen that in some US states abortion is legal at any stage.

If a healthy baby is aborted at 24 weeks when it had a very good chance of survival outside the womb, then this would be murder as you've called it and there are a lot of women (Christian or otherwise)who think this is wrong and would vote in favour of stricter abortion laws.

makazona:
Thanks for your assistance 🙏🏾. It's actually hard to believe that such a little error will come with this consequence. Pheeew.

Your friend get mind sha

Who lives in Stockton on Tees and/or knows these people? Is this for real or for a Nollywood movie 😳

The "new English" blending in unnoticed in Stockton on Tees. https://t.co/MTSp5p0pCh pic.twitter.com/U0xuR5n23s

— Tommy Robinson 🇬🇧 (@TRobinsonNewEra) July 6, 2024

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missjekyll:
Kumbhuru is that you? Scratching my head at your question...

Lolzzz, you like trouble

Zahra29:
Who lives in Stockton on Tees and/or knows these people? Is this for real or for a Nollywood movie 😳

The "new English" blending in unnoticed in Stockton on Tees. https://t.co/MTSp5p0pCh pic.twitter.com/U0xuR5n23s

— Tommy Robinson 🇬🇧 (@TRobinsonNewEra) July 6, 2024

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Is that Tommy Robinson shouting Jesus loves you? lol

justwise:
Is that Tommy Robinson shouting Jesus loves you? lol

😂

Well, it is a true statement.

Plus it's better than him asking "where are you from mate, you don't look like a local" , lest he's called racist lol

Zahra29:
😂

Well, it is a true statement.

Plus it's better than him asking "where are you from mate, you don't look like a local" , lest he's called racist lol

He has that reputation for years and have paid the price, his own version of racism is specific to certain ethnic group.

missjekyll:
Kumbhuru is that you? Scratching my head at your question...

??

rock86:
What's your advice in making friends in the UK please?

Are you religious? Do you have children? Are you single and alone?

Church, parents groups, hobbies like rock climbing or dance classes.

Either that or friends from work.

I think in this day and age you have to be quite deliberate about trying to make connections.

I have two years experience in care and teaching as well.

Zahra29:
Some more details might help someone signpost you to the right opportunities, such as what field are you looking for employment in, your skills and background.

missjekyll:
Kumbhuru is that you? Scratching my head at your question...

Lol. The first suspect moniker that came to my mind.

IridescentAge:
Are you religious? Do you have children? Are you single and alone?

Church, parents groups, hobbies like rock climbing or dance classes.

Either that or friends from work.

I think in this day and age you have to be quite deliberate about trying to make connections.

That last part!!!

Ok, thing is, I've heard people say to avoid Nigerians or some Africans as they can put one in trouble

rock86:
That last part!!!

Ok, thing is, I've heard people say to avoid Nigerians or some Africans as they can put one in trouble

Welcome back Kumbhuru. We miss you.
As a specialist mental health nurse, you are a full grown matured adult. You are more than capable of making your own decisions.
You may wish to befriend whomsoever you want to befriend, and run away from whomsoever you want to stay away from.
Cheers mate.

ReesheesuKnack:
Welcome back Kumbhuru. We miss you.
As a specialist mental health nurse, you are a full grown matured adult. You are more than capable of making your own decisions.
You may wish to befriend whomsoever you want to befriend, and run away from whomsoever you want to stay away from.
Cheers mate.

Who's Kumbhuru y all talking about

rock86:
That last part!!!

Ok, thing is, I've heard people say to avoid Nigerians or some Africans as they can put one in trouble

Yes if you commit or assist them in committing crime