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Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

Confused

A man that doesn't know his own mind. I feel for the pregnant lady.

It'd be better if you lose her( your sales girl) to other men than to allow her scatter your relationship....

No let your Preek do the thinking for you bruh...

Use your head bruh .

Your first mistake was mixing business with emotions.........And trust me,in most cases,it doesn't end well.........But if she's lucky enough to find any responsible suitor who's willing to take her in,let her go jejely 🙏

the above is the definition of a CONFUSED SOUL....
you have your woman, you pretend to be fully happy with her, salesgirl tells you she loves you and you turn her down (while you should have fired her); now salesgirl moves on and looks for better brothas to be with and now you have "bad feelings about it that you may lose her"

bro, you cant lose something that was never yours to begin with!

Leave your sales girl alone and don't fall for her manipulation and desperate moves to settle down, she has it all planned out reason why she's acting perfect. You'll be shocked when you finally entered her trap and see her hidden side.

Stay with your fiancee. Keep your prick one place

na your pregnant girlfriend i am sorry for cos she will still suffer this kind of shit from you in future even if u overcome this one. For the record you dey very maaaaad.

U dey craze?

Very confused creature

madone:
na your pregnant girlfriend i am sorry for cos she will still suffer this kind of shit from you in future even if tou overcome this one. For the record you dey very maaaaad.

lol funny 😄

Why you impregnate that girl when una never marry?

Dump your fiancee and follow the sales girl.....

So after you don knack am.
U are seeking opinion.
Seems like the gal knows you have money

You think is not because sh has access to your funds loves you.

Person wey get target.

Profess love and date her then you will see that all she wanted is unrestricted oga role.

She will stop taking the business serious as you expect. She will want you get another sales rep.
She might even say she wants to start her business.

If you must knack. Knack her well. Pay her for the knacks.
Then sack her at month end.
Ur gf dey with you and bisiness dey prosper.
Use your head.
E get why.

Dey play.

Your sales girl is agent of darkness planted to ruin your life, with time she end your relationship and kill your business.take it or leave it those showmanship are predetermined, let her go

my advice
fire her
get a better person
no one is ever missed in an organisation
protect your relationship or marriage
peace of mind in marriage is rare
If u find one
protect it with your life
love your wife and be focused
give yourself peace of mind
caution ⚠ your third leg.

people advising you to leave your sales girl are funny o,what does pregnant fiancee brings on the table no vex?

I would have advice you to be brutal when making decision but they both have pros and cons.


PROS (Salesgirl):* already handling your business, meaning that relationship will experience smooth transition.

*she's productive.


CONS(Salesgirl): *might not the business serious after she enters relationship with you .

*Authority gap will be thin now, meaning she can disobey your orders.(see finish)

*Convince you to neglect your child with ex-fiancee.

*stagnation of the business.

*might be pretending


PROSfiancee):*homely

*long term stability due to you guys knowing each other for long.

CONS:* might be liability if she doesn't have source of income.


In conclusion stick to your fiancee,the pros outweighs the cons,never eat where you shit.


Business 101.

Una get time to dey advice this one, confused people everywhere

hakeemhakeem:
Your sales girl is agent of darkness planted to ruin your life, with time she end your relationship and kill your business.take it or leave it those showmanship are predetermined, let her go

Or an angel of light sent to rescue him from marrying his current girlfriend. People come into our lives for a reason. A wise man should sit down and journey back the memory lane to figure out answers.

Read in between the lines and be wise

It’s not every yam that the goat must eat, not every fish the rat must eat.
You cannot marry all the good ladies that you come across. Some relationship are for future benefits. DON’T SPOIL IT WITH LUST!!!

Oga ashawo dey your eye that all

Ballzproblemm:
people advising you to leave your sales girl are funny o,what does pregnant fiancee brings on the table no vex?

I would have advice you to be brutal when making decision but they both have pros and cons.


PROS (Salesgirl):* already handling your business, meaning that relationship will experience smooth transition.

*she's productive.


CONS(Salesgirl): *might not the business serious after she enters relationship with you .

*Authority gap will be thin now, meaning she can disobey your orders.(see finish)

*Convince you to neglect your child with ex-fiancee.

*stagnation of the business.

*might be pretending


PROSfiancee):*homely

*long term stability due to you guys knowing each other for long.

CONS:* might be liability if she doesn't have source of income.


In conclusion stick to your fiancee,the pros outweighs the cons,never eat where you shit.


Business 101.

thank you

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.
I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.
Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.
The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.
Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.
Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

Don’t fall for her trap
Face your 3 years woman please
That’s if you’ve not fallen
Don’t sleep with her she is your sales girl
You will regret it

You just disrespected that your fiancee. You have feelings for your sales girl, that was why she was bold enough to tell you she has feelings for you

You're only jealous, you ain't concerned about your business

Lemme advice you, put work first...if she leaves another sales girl will come and your business will strive on if your products are good

Simple

The sales girl has killer figure. Op admit this and let's help advise you proper

You're trash.

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.
I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.
Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.
The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.
Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.
Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

You re very confused Man. I pity your pregnant fiance, You have someone already and you re stylishly jealous of your employee having a guy. If confusion is a man, definitely you re one

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.
I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.
Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.
The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.
Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.
Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

let her go nobody is irreplaceable,she is not a good woman by try to psynop you with fake crocodile love,I will just pay her off,she is a ticking time bomb,if you have not knacked her better refrain from doing so because she will also be pregnant for you

flames007:
A man that doesn't know his own mind. I feel for the pregnant lady.

I'm really worried for that young lady... at first he was trying to make it look as if the sales rep he employed is the problem. But even after she accepted her fate and moved on, uncle is still allowing his third leg think for him.

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.
I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.
Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.
The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.
Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.
Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

U Don nack am abi u neva nack am?

JOACHINpedro:

The sales girl has killer figure. Op admit this and let's help advise you proper

am reading

Blitzking:
U Don nack am abi u neva nack am?

na only 2 but na mistake