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I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

Ellasky:
I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

A) what you are trying to do is not surrogacy... and more like an adoption
B) i am sorry but this is BY FAR the worst place to look for possible adoptive parents for your unborn child
C) unless you are trying to get financially rewarded, you should go through the legal adoption channels
D) ultimately, an abortion will solve your problem

Ellasky:
I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

Visit your the Ministry of Women Affairs in your state. Ask for the Director, Social Welfare
All you need do is swear an affidavit of relinquishment if you insist after proper counseling and necessary intervention.

Wahala le leyi sha

Consider terminating the pregnancy and be more careful in the future. If you born that child and become a single mom, you may have successfully destroyed your future.

You are looking for who to dash your baby!

You are about to add or increase the population of Nigeria in this food insecurity seasons 😳

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Let's talk

Ritualistically Dey Nairaland o. Be warned

Ellasky:
I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

honestly, things dey happen oooh!

Ellasky:
I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

Be patient. Help is coming, don't listen to those evil people up there telling you to terminate

Ellasky:
I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

I can connect you to a childless married man that is interested check me on the email below.
nawaa4sam@gmail.com

Ellasky:
I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

Check the meaning of surrogacy!

Ellasky:
I'm a 23 year old,I'm pregnant and need someone to give the child to,it's just two months

Are u in Abuja?

Hi

@Ellasky, I'm interested to adopt the baby. Please don't do anything crazy. Let's talk. Reach me @.
sibelywood.ltd@gmail.com

That's not surrogate

Your pussie need to be sealed

Your pussi need to be sealed

Sapasenator:
Consider terminating the pregnancy and be more careful in the future.

If you born that child and become a single mom, you may have successfully destroyed your future.

You are looking for who to dash your baby!

...becoming a single mother at a young age doesnt mean her future is destroyed. It doesn't mean she can't make head way in life again because of the fact.

There will be strong life challenges here and there for her and her baby but that doesn't mean she can't turn around the tide for good.

henrimoto:
...becoming a single mother at a young age doesnt mean her future is destroyed. It doesn't mean she can't make head way in life again because of the fact.

There will strong life challenges here and there for her and her baby but that doesn't mean she can't turn around the tide for good.

It is easy for you to say in theory.

A society like Nigeria, a single mum at such an early age is a very big disadvantage to the lady.

Sapasenator:
It is easy for you to say in theory.

A society like Nigeria, a single mum at such an early age is a very big disadvantage to the lady.

... Sapa the senator, no be Nigeria here you dey grow before you jakpa go where you dey now...?

You never see single mothers wey born at a young age with tough life challenges raising their babies and they made head way in life..

Sapa the senator, she making that mistake is not the end to a better future in her life.

She no be the first , and she won't be the last.

henrimoto:
... Sapa the senator, no be Nigeria here you dey grow before you jakpa go where you dey now...?

You never see single mothers wey born at a young age with tough life challenges raising their babies and they made head way in life..

Sapa the senator, she making that mistake is not the end to a better future in her life.

She no be the first , and she won't be the last.

I have seen lots of people wey it destroyed their lives. How will a 23 yr old raise a child and couples are even struggling in Nigeria?

How will she continue with her career or look for jobs with a child to care for?

She has more chances abroad but in a Nigerian society, I will advise to safely abort a pregnancy than having an unplanned for or unwanted child. I like to be precocious.

Sapasenator:
I have seen lots of people wey it destroyed their lives. How will a 23 yr old raise a child and couples are even struggling in Nigeria?

How will she continue with her career or look for jobs with a child to care for?

She has more chances abroad but in a Nigerian society, I will advise to safely abort a pregnancy than having an unplanned for or unwanted child. I like to be precocious.

Abeg, Sapa the senator, how long now you don comot from Nigeria ?

henrimoto:
Abeg, Sapa the senator, how long now you don comot from Nigeria ?

I was in Nigeria early this year so not too long.

Go to an adoption agency or social services and offer the baby for adoption. Don't sell the child, that'll haunt you forever as you might be selling the child to a ritualist or child molester .....well those are risks even with adoption but the risks are less when you do it legally through government or established institutions that deal with genuine couples in need of babies.

SweepingBroom:
Be patient. Help is coming, don't listen to those evil people up there telling you to terminate

Why don't you help her

I don’t mind taking care of the baby, I love babies, I love children

Sapasenator:
I was in Nigeria early this year so not too long.

before the recent visit to Nigeria, when did you left Nigeria ?

Why I ask, you act like it's been ages you left Nigeria. That lady can still make head way in life even as a young single mother if she is determined.

Sapasenator:
I have seen lots of people wey it destroyed their lives. How will a 23 yr old raise a child and couples are even struggling in Nigeria?

How will she continue with her career or look for jobs with a child to care for?

She has more chances abroad but in a Nigerian society, I will advise to safely abort a pregnancy than having an unplanned for or unwanted child. I like to be precocious.

See, being a single mother isn't just the problem or the end of the world.

The main problem is that many of these single mums aren't ready to tighten their belts and get to work! Some of them still have unrealistic demands of men, rather than working together with them to make things work.

There are also other stories - of still being emotionally connected to men who made them single mothers or loving those who marry them less than their own children etc.

These factors combine to scare many men away. So, being a single mother is not the main problem.

henrimoto:
before the recent visit to Nigeria, when did you left Nigeria ?

Why I ask, you act like it's been ages you left Nigeria. That lady can still make head way in life even as a young single mother if she is determined.

Hmm

henrimoto:
before the recent visit to Nigeria, when did you left Nigeria ?

Why I ask, you act like it's been ages you left Nigeria. That lady can still make head way in life even as a young single mother if she is determined.

And she must avoid the same mistake. The reason why it seems it is the end of the world for them is because most of them give in! What do I mean? I have seen some of them who hand over the baby to their own mother and go back to the street following other men just to get something to send to their mother for the upkeep of the child and for their own daily needs.

Of which having who to hand over the child to should normally have provided them the opportunity to focus on building up their lives either by going back to school if her parents can sponsor it or going to learn a skill or take up a work that can help them earn a living without allowing men to pass them from one to another just for the pecks!