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The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Mille: 5:27pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
I came across this post on Reddit and it's triggering. I am 36F, husband is 37M 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Mille: 5:28pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
The poster is definitely a narcissist who has a lot of self-love and doesn't care about other people's feelings. The man waited 14 years. I'm glad my wife got pregnant at the first time of asking. If not, I'd have been out in less than two years. 268 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Messileo10000: 5:28pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Therapist oo, advice oo All join, nothing can apparently solve this You are face to face with the consequences of your actions Hug it tight ![]() ![]() 164 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by TemplarLandry: 5:28pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
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Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Acekidc4(m): 5:30pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Why are you not able to Carry a Child π€π€ Who caused it, Your Past or Natural Causes?? 95 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Dchampion65: 5:31pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
You still need to see your therapy. In reality, not every male will become a natural father nor every female shall become a natural mother. That's the mystery of life. Come on, put off your frustration and depression and embrace medical advice as well. Adoption,surrogate or IVF. Rejoice always and I say rejoice. 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Kobojunkie: 5:31pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Mille:Triggering? Sounds like you have unresolved issues you are yet to deal with. Might I suggest you book an appointment immediately with a mental health therapist so you can get that sludge out of your head soonest? ? ![]() 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Sharpsharp00123: 5:32pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
After I book space finish I realize say na thrash I dey go my house 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by AllBlack: 5:32pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Okay so? |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by tommy589(m): 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Hambivert: 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
"What Do Women Really Want?" 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Pepperoniq(m): 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Madame stop grieving and move on. She was the cause of her misfortune. Nonsense 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Zooposki(f): 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Mille: 6 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by DenreleDave(m): 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
You are the problem. You probably can't conceive, you won't take adoption and you want him to remain with u childless. Yet you can't fv k him too and you want him to stay with you... Maybe na ur type don do my past is my past and you want the innocent man to stick by you. Person wey no dey there when u dey diminish the usefulness of Ur womb 96 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by jeromestarks: 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
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Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Fafesot: 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
You didn't go deep into the nature of the problem causing the infertility, to know if it could be addressed or not. Your husband suggested surrogacy on the ground that he did not want a child from a foreign body (another woman outside), but instead of you to sit down and talk about it with him, you flared up. He's a good man, if I were him, I wouldn't even ask you neither suggested a way forward, I'm getting another woman pregnant... fourteen good years, if you were him and found out he's the problem... would you wait? You see, emotion does not solve problems, rather complicate the matter. You should find a good way to solve your problem, else forget about the marriage. 87 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by richard870(m): 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
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Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Nobody: 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Another marriage wahala You pushed your husband away, he's a reasonable man 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Ombudsman1: 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
SOMEONE SOMEWHERE IS DYING OF HUNGER NOW. THATS MORE IMPORTANT NEWS ![]() 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by ednut1(m): 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
A lot of people are sick in the head. Because you canβt have a baby he should not have after divorce ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by kennyz247(m): 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
life no balance oooo, just accept it,and move on your happiness should be ur priority for now 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Cromagnon: 5:34pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Mille:this wan think say na Yankee she Dey 1 Like |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Obierika(m): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
The time has come for them to remove that "For better for worse , till death do us part" bullshit they use in wedding vows ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Wealthoptulent(m): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Not too good |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Homologous: 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
I'm truly sorry to hear about the emotional turbulence you're going through. The complexities of fertility, marriage, and emotional well-being are deeply interconnected and can be incredibly challenging to navigate. You're doing the right thing by seeking therapy, and I hope you continue to find it a helpful avenue for addressing your feelings and depression. 7 Likes |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by Kobicove(m): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
The man tried sef, 14 years is a long time to spend in a childless marriage especially if the fault is not from you ![]() 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by inoki247: 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Otilo... 2 Likes |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by nairalanda1(m): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Husband no dey understand that marriage is for better for worse . Your wife dey undergo serious issues and the best way to deal with it is to get another woman pregnant? Suppose it was the other way round? Suppose the woman was fertile and you were the one shooting blanks? The man married because he wanted free punnami and the pride of being called a father. Not because he wanted to get married. I doubt he loved the woman. Don't get married for the image 9 Likes |
Re: The Woman My Husband Left Me For Is Pregnant And I'm Not Handling It Well by ubest1(m): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Women should understand asking ur husband out is another woman prayer point, learn to manage ur anger & home 32 Likes 3 Shares |
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