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| Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Sarcastic101(op): 2:21pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
I won't explain much now but will do to those who can give me 3 things you can get from being married that you can't get if you're unmarried. |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by dawnomike(m): 2:22pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Well, you can't know till you're married... |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Sarcastic101(op): 2:24pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
dawnomike:No there's nothing to gain from getting married. Married people can't even state what they have that they couldn't get when they were unmarried |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Ynix(m): 2:26pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Sarcastic101:this must be sarcastic as your username suggest. But I have a question for you, were you born out of wedlock? |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by 2special(m): 2:28pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Sarcastic101: |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by akube34: 2:28pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Sarcastic101:let us get married first. If no b Wetin we think we go opt out. But let us taste it |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Sarcastic101(op): 2:30pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Ynix:funny you Nobody needs to get married to have kids,and there's nothing wrong with being born outside wedlock. But with the 30% paternity fraud going on in Nigeria. Are you sure that your father is your father? You that's born in wedlock |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by okoroemeka(m): 2:37pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Sarcastic101:a real man that is married with children and the responsibility that comes with it do not have the luxury to explain to a teenager why he got married,if you like don't marry it is your choice. |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by dreamxhaser: 2:43pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
You people should stop beating round the bush and tell us the benefit of marriage. I swear deep down, if not because of religion. I aren't getting married |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Sarcastic101(op): 2:46pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
okoroemeka:There are many unmarried men with kids and responsibilities. Tell me the benefits of marriage and stop beating around the bush. Because I see nothing you get as a married man that an unmarried man can't get. |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Xscape047: 3:17pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Exactly |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Amumaigwe: 3:20pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Sarcastic101:Savagery .... |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Ynix(m): 3:47pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Sarcastic101:Now I understand where your challenges comes from, you consume lots of poison |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by PARADIZEPRIEST: 5:52pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
You are lost in limbo no doubt ![]() |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:31pm On Jul 14, 2024*. Modified: 9:39pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Sarcastic101:the problem here is that you are looking with your eyes at an issue that many other men look differently. if a man doesnt see the benefit of marriage then that man shouldnt get married... but there are many other men who see the benefit of getting married... benefits such as 1st Religion, 2nd family, 3rd lineage/legacy, 4th having a life contract with someone remember, not everyone is capable of having a baby mama... |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by ItisWell22(f): 6:33pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Lies from the pit of hell! 😏 |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Kaczynski: 9:09pm On Jul 14, 2024 |
Good , don't marry and dont reproduce, we don't need people like you |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Peakdesign23(f): 12:08am On Jul 15, 2024 |
Marriage is not a do or die affair. If you can’t Mary stay single for the rest of your life, and live happily ever after. |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Sapasenator: 12:20am On Jul 15, 2024 |
Found this on FB, may not apply in every circumstance I guess. Men do not benefit from marriage!!! 1. He is 72 years old. 2. He has retired from active service. 3. He worked all his life to raise his children. 4. He deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his children abroad. 5. They are now well-off in Europe, Australia, and America. 6. His wife, aged 62, has relocated to live with their children. 7. He remains alone back in Nigeria. 8. His children barely call him. 9. He has to start life all over again as a bachelor. 10. He struggles with high blood pressure and other ailments associated with old age. 11. How much longer will he survive alone? 12. This is the reality for most working-class monogamous men: their old age is often lonely and, in many cases, sad. 13. No matter how good the man is, women tend to love their children more than their husbands. The older he gets, the less use they seem to have for him. 14. So, what do men truly benefit from marriage? 15. They sacrifice so much but receive little recognition for their hard work, while the woman seems to reap all the benefits. It’s a man’s world they said but for the women and children in reality. Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it? What is your retirement plan? Care for your self as much as you care for your family. Love yourself. God bless you.
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| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Adaisback(f): 1:54am On Jul 16, 2024 |
This is for people that raised their kids badly and without the fear God and kids that got married to bad wives. When I was living with my elder sis at Awka, the father in law, fell sick, the entire family pushed him to the first son who is my big sister's husband. The son too is always off to work. My sis was nursing a baby then but i saw her did her best for the old man. Timely medication, cooking recommended meals , washing his clothes, keeping him happy and comfortable. Chai! She is wonderful! My point is, pray to marry a good and God fearing woman and try your best not to cause her pains or heart break. She will train her children to love you in return. I know a woman who promised to deal with her husband in his old age. The woman was barren for 13 years, so she brought in her sister's only daughter to live with them. This little girl was 10 when the woman brought her to live with them. Before you could say jack, the man started sleeping with this little girl that calls him dad. One day she caught them in the act, but the husband wasn't remorseful at all and even asked her to do her worst. She never forgot that incident and instead hatched a future plan. She decided that she would make sure her husband watches her Bleep another man in his bedroom after he must have grown old , weak and weary. The man is very much older than her and already growing old. Learn from my story and be good to that good woman you married |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Alphamentips: 3:41am On Jul 16, 2024 |
Ynix:That guy could actually be born out of wedlock hence his thoughts. Don't you see how he evaded the question? Lol |
| Re: Marriage Is Outdated And Has No Benefits In This Generation by Ynix(m): 3:45am On Jul 16, 2024 |
Alphamentips:so unfortunate |
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