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Hi guys…
Something have been bothering for long I feel the need to talk to someone about it.
I’m in a relationship for 6 years with my partner of same age but she’s older than me with 2 weeks gaps. And this is the main issue I’m having, first I fell in love with her back then in campus when she was okay with the perfect shape, and all not now she has turn out to be big and even look more older than I, that most people thinks she’s my big sister and not my gf, now the thought goin on in my head about all of this is either I let go of her and find a perfect person which I will be able to love and see as someone I have total and full confidence on, knowing what’s important going into have seek advise from my mom she’s find the girl good and nice but told me experience of marrying same age lady or lady older than me and she said she won’t advise me to do that. but my current gf is okay and I have the choice to make and considering marriage is a long term journey but if I end up marrying my so call gf I might as well end up marrying a second wife cus I’m already lossing interest in her in all aspect both sex and all I see her big and not someone I have that dominion as a man over and this have been affecting me mentally I will need some advise on this I will be in the comment session

Then no give am food chop again, if you no want fatty bombom.


Simple thing!!.

congratulations! father to be!!

God will now catch you, the person you will leave her for will now get fatter than her after giving birth to a child

Hope you have sixpacks too because Nigerian men will be carrying potbelly and complaining about women's weight. Some of them can't even see their penis again but they complain the most.

OP!

My advise to you, help the lady UNFAT if you can.

You have been with her for 6 years, why complaining now ?

Is it because you have an alternative ?

Let me say this, those attributes a man need in a woman for marriage are not always in the body we like.
Your current gf might be slimmer and good looking but does she possess those qualities for marriage ?

My only issue is that, the lady is older than you.

You should read about Fosil calculator, a man is supposed to be older than his woman.

Please don't be ignorant.

Tell her first...

i dont understand you... are you saying that the love you have for her is solely based on the way she looks? as much as you may not be physically attracted to her any longer (after 6yrs), that shouldnt change the love you have for this person, thus you should look for ways to solve her weight issue, before looking for extreme solution like getting rid of her.

she didnt suddenly turn fat overnight, she gradually turn into it, little by little after all these years, and you should have said something the minute she put on that 1st extra kilo. women often put on weight when they are comfortable in their r/ship and foolishly believe they dont have to look good for their partner any longer. thus why so many turn into baby whales after childbirth and do very little to get back to their initial shape.

Fatness is not a disease.

MrBrownJay1:
i.

Your signature inspires me.

After supplying her ur akamu for six years...why she no go fat?

Now u want to leave her for another lady.

So if the next lady gets fat, u leave again, and the cycle continues.

U no love that girl again,her weight gain na just excuse,
Dnt blame u sha it's not easy to date a girl for six yrs nd not marry nd still maintain the same level of affection u had when u first met her

Oga, kindly dump that useless ashawo B4 you begin knack ur ancestors.

All 9ja girls are useless. The only biz Btw u and her is to use and dump her. If you know the number of guy wey don knack her behind your back, you go faint.

Dump that useless ancestor now!

EreluRoz:
Hope you have sixpacks too because Nigerian men will be carrying potbelly and complaining about women's weight. Some of them can't even see their penis again but they complain the most.

Stop playing

No to baby whales

Henry2405:
Hi guys…
Something have been bothering for long I feel the need to talk to someone about it.
I’m in a relationship for 6 years with my partner of same age but she’s older than me with 2 weeks gaps. And this is the main issue I’m having, first I fell in love with her back then in campus when she was okay with the perfect shape, and all not now she has turn out to be big and even look more older than I, that most people thinks she’s my big sister and not my gf, now the thought goin on in my head about all of this is either I let go of her and find a perfect person which I will be able to love and see as someone I have total and full confidence on, knowing what’s important going into have seek advise from my mom she’s find the girl good and nice but told me experience of marrying same age lady or lady older than me and she said she won’t advise me to do that. but my current gf is okay and I have the choice to make and considering marriage is a long term journey but if I end up marrying my so call gf I might as well end up marrying a second wife cus I’m already lossing interest in her in all aspect both sex and all I see her big and not someone I have that dominion as a man over and this have been affecting me mentally I will need some advise on this I will be in the comment session

This is a plus for you. Fat chicks are very bouncy, you can use them as cushions. 🥳

Anguldi:
No to baby whales

Say no to potbellies. You wey carry bele like seven months pregnant woman

Let your gf register herself in my gf fit-fam rooster...just 15k ... she go lose weight. na U go dey beg to chop small

Mayb you spend on her so much

Contraceptive pills at work.

If you know , you know

wahala

Stop pouring your custard inside her apple pie. That is the reason she's fat.

if you'd ever promised her marriage you better get on with it. Don't waste somebody's 6yrs,

Congratulations in advance better go buy baby tins & I no wan hear say you loseguard d little one. Na Oba OGUN I go take swear for you

Thats why its good to at least reserve or keep one or two something valuable to yourself while in a relationship, don't give all of yourself. Reserve it till you marry. If you give all of yourself in a relationship, you'll forever regret it if that relationship fail, even if you find a better person in future you'll still regret it. (Opinion)

At OP, you've seen everything about her but now you are tired of her already and I'm sure you don get alternative. You're thinking now that 'I have nothing to loose' Yes you might probably right. Yes its not good to marry out pity too but I don't support taking advantage of others.

Someone who put on weight can actually lose it. Are you going to divorce your wife after she gets fat?

EreluRoz:
Hope you have sixpacks too because Nigerian men will be carrying potbelly and complaining about women's weight. Some of them can't even see their penis again but they complain the most.

You have nice tits. 😘

The weight didn't just appear overnight. It was a gradual process. As such the weight can be lost. It will take discipline and sticking with a strict diet and exercise regimen. If you are also fitness inclined it could have been less difficult for her.

When my woman gave birth, she really put on serious weight. She had to loose that weight. How will a muscular ripped man like me be moving with a fat partner? We hit the gym together, she adopted eating clean and healthy diet. I practically monitored her eating habits.

Today, my woman is looking very good body wise. It was not an easy journey for her I must confess.

If she is good in every other aspect except her looks and she no dey give you shege, free her abeg. Na fat she fat, she no kill person. On the other hand, hope you people have not been terminating pregnancies? I heard that evil act makes women age fast and also makes them fat.

Nw i believe that men are indeed wicked,so u wanna waste her six good years 4 some silly reasons,may god not forgive you if you do so 4 just that crazy reason you mentioned

How can you tie down a lady for a whole 6 years and now you're looking for a stupid excuse to dump her?!

Beat tf shît outta her, scold her then cheat on her with a gorgeous slim thick babe