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Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by maasoap(m): 7:00am On Jul 23, 2024
Nonexisting1:
You are right. But assuming the man was an intruder who broke into his house and raped his wife. He can shoot him and then plead for manslaughter. He may still go to prison regardless.
Whether na rape or consensual, it doesn't matter as long as you are caught during the act. If kills you that very moment, he will walk free by the order of the judge. We shouldn't play with fire just because we don't know our own law
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by maasoap(m): 7:03am On Jul 23, 2024
FRANCISTOWN:
There is no way around it. The man will be convicted of murder. Even in Nigeria, If someone attempted to kill you and you kill the person in self defense.
The person will be sentenced to nothing less than 5-10 years in prison.

A case happened during those years when I used to have lots of land cases in court.
A man caught his wife with another man and out of anger, he butchered the man to death.


I remember the exact word the judge said. He said The law does not allow any human to be responsible for the loss of another person's life, whether in self defense or due to pressure "

The only exception in law is, if the defendant was mentally unstable. In this case, provided that it is established beyond any reasonable doubts with irrefutable proofs that the defendant had been mentally unstable before such event.

You see these days, I no wan dey drag with many people on NL again. Many of them are semi-lliterates and unexposed educated mofos.
They always react based on emotions and always forget to use their brain.

You'd meet your wife with another man, you'll kill the man and end up in jail. And the wife would still sleep with someone else while you are there.
Or kill the man and kill the wife and end up in jail. Your wife have wronged you, and you will still further wrong yourself by ending up in jail.
Some men have no greater purpose in life than seeing that their wife mustn't sleep with another man. That's their ultimate goal in life.
Caught in what sense, talking or fvcking? If it was talking or sitting down in the husband's house, that's unpardonable offence. But if it was during the fvcking, the judge wouldn't sentence him
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Psoul(m): 8:22am On Jul 23, 2024
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Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by FRANCISTOWN: 8:27am On Jul 23, 2024
maasoap:
Caught in what sense, talking or fvcking? If it was talking or sitting down in the husband's house, that's unpardonable offence. But if it was during the fvcking, the judge wouldn't sentence him
Okay now.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by FRANCISTOWN: 8:37am On Jul 23, 2024
Nonexisting1:
You are right. But assuming the man was an intruder who broke into his house and raped his wife. He can shoot him and then plead for manslaughter. He may still go to prison regardless.
Seems you are very inclined towards litigation and the legal system in general.

Exactly! If a man broke into another man's house and raped his wife. If by chance, the husband killed the intruder.

If it is established beyond reasonable doubts in the court of law with irrefutable proofs and if the DNA of the deceased can be found anywhere close to the PW1's private part. The defendant can plead man-slaughter to reduce sentence. And that's if the defendant was rich and had a very sound lawyer.

The court of law will not punish anyone for consensual sex. Two adults are free to explore each other's sexualities.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by BeeNG3: 8:52am On Jul 23, 2024
[]Any man who is not sexually disciplined is useless. It is good to have sex, but most importantly. It is better to have sense

Dey play
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by FRANCISTOWN:
Bobbynobobby:
If na yanky, dem go say na crime of passion. The man would be freed
Crime of passion only exists in France and in Texas to the best of my knowledge.

Crime of passion doesn't automatically exonerate the defendant from prosecution.

It depends on the circumstances surrounding the event and how emotionally charged the judge is. Then the judge might acquit the defendant or lessen his sentence.

But anywhere in the world. A crime of passion is a second degree murder and you are liable to at least 10years in prison if the court could find the DNA of the deceased in your wife's vaginal or if there was a surveillance video as evidence.
But If there is no video evidence and the DNA of the deceased cannot be found in your wife's vaginal. There is no other way. You just murdered an innocent man.

If your wife loved someone, and that person loved your wife too. The court cannot punish anyone for loving anybody.
Love is not a punishable crime under the law.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by cyrusmillz: 12:11pm On Jul 23, 2024
sparko1:
Lots of novice on this forum, there are instances he can sue, but none is advisable.



Do you know that if he is killed, the man can get a good lawyer and will be out within 5 years.
Leave them , make them dey cap rubbish. I Watched this same scenario on ID channel. The husband caught the wife cheating on their matrimonial bed , out of anger , brought out his gun and shot the guy , he got charged to court and he was sentenced to 5 years , he got out in less than 4.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by cyrusmillz: 12:15pm On Jul 23, 2024
Nonexisting1:
We are debating this because we are in Nigeria. If you move abroad, go and shoot someone because you catch him having sex with your wife. If the sex is consensual, you will be tried for murder and probably get life sentence. If you like, hire Barrack Obama as your lawyer.
Forget bro , go watch ID channel. I've watched like two episodes like this . The husband killed the guy and got out in less than 5 years . I think the thing is , if the reaction was spontaneous e.g if the husband was carrying a gun at the time he walked in on them , and shot the guy , he can claim provocation or something, i cant remember what the term is... but if he caught them left and now planned his revenge over a period of time , he could get a longer sentence.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Holluwhakemmy(f): 12:17pm On Jul 23, 2024
Talkisneeded:
The one that served his oga for eight and didn't get any reward is just pure wickedness from the boss...
Even if he had not knacked the woman, the boss would still come up with other means to deprived his worker of his hard earned reward...

I sell herbs tho
The Oga just used that as an excuse not to settle him.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by iamL(f): 2:17pm On Jul 23, 2024
Sirkingsnado:
grin grin am just hearing it for the first I no know where ur mind dy go
Lol. *Hugs*
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by iamL(f): 2:18pm On Jul 23, 2024
MaziX:
We Don see wetin pass am.. no issues
You self know say you just dey form hardman online.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by virginboy1(m): 3:08pm On Jul 23, 2024
Nature has made men polygamous in nature...it is now to onus of the man to tame the "id"
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Odebayo4010(m): 9:53pm On Jul 23, 2024
GOFRONT:
grin

Penis dey land Reverend Fathers inside trouble. Who come be ordinary me.......Go and ask some Lecturers how their penis don ruin their career and families.

For days now, I have been struggling to tame my penis cos of one lady serving with Chicken Republic
You quote remind me that of my Cathedral church Bishop at Ijebu ijesha his side chicks post his nude videos to internet na so dey demoted him oh,the will forever run from anything call woman
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Odebayo4010(m): 10:09pm On Jul 23, 2024
Nonexisting1:
The one that was shot at, I hope he sued the useless husband. How can your shoot at a man simply because you caught him fuccking your wife. Was his wife a minor or was he raping her? Some men don't have sense. Mtchew
The Man is right by shot him, that's rubbery cese,he came to rub him,even if he killed him he will never go to jail, ask any police Man concerning what I said here they will tell you something
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Archtype(m): 1:28pm On Jul 24, 2024
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Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by seunH: 2:10pm On Jul 24, 2024
Nonexisting1:
We are debating this because we are in Nigeria. If you move abroad, go and shoot someone because you catch him having sex with your wife. If the sex is consensual, you will be tried for murder and probably get life sentence. If you like, hire Barrack Obama as your lawyer.
You can plead temporary insanity
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Bobbynobobby: 10:34pm On Jul 24, 2024
FRANCISTOWN:
Crime of passion only exists in France and in Texas to the best of my knowledge.

Crime of passion doesn't automatically exonerated the defendant from prosecution.

It depends on the circumstances surrounding the event and how emotionally charged the judge is. Then the judge might acquit the defendant or lessen his sentence.

But anywhere in the world. A crime of passion is a second degree murder and you are liable to at least 10years in prison if the court could find the DNA of the deceased in your wife's vaginal or if there was a surveillance video as evidence.
But If there is no video evidence and the DNA of the deceased cannot be found in your wife's vaginal. There is no other way. You just murdered an innocent man.

If your wife loved someone, and that person loved your wife too. The court cannot punish anyone for loving anybody.
Love is not a punishable crime under the law.
Wow thanks for educating me on this
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Onitola2: 4:27pm On Jul 25, 2024
Talkisneeded:
He did set him up, you know how dangerous it can be denying a woman under your own roof, especially a woman that's your superior
I'm not disputing that, but he can't prove set up like this.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Talkisneeded(m): 4:33pm On Jul 25, 2024
Onitola2:
I'm not disputing that, but he can't prove set up like this.
The person in question is his boss,it's an already a lost cause regardless of him proving his case or not...
How many sane men uses his wife as bait against his boys
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Bobbynobobby: 10:26pm On Jul 25, 2024
Bobbynobobby:
Just keep this your foolish submission till you meet your Maker on judgement day...you will be given time enough to do this your alaye, don't worry
Imagine calling God foolish. Bobo yi ti e ti ta o
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Onitola2: 6:21am On Jul 27, 2024
Talkisneeded:
The person in question is his boss,it's an already a lost cause regardless of him proving his case or not...
How many sane men uses his wife as bait against his boys
I'm not supporting the boss at all, my point is the fact his dick rose to Bleep his wife, if no be set up ,na so he go dey Bleep the wife. Where's the loyalty then ?
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by finallybusy: 7:25pm On Jul 28, 2024
I no dey believe these kind threads.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by SenecaTheYonger: 8:16pm On Jul 28, 2024
That HIV story is touching. The right woman can change your life.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Fattprince23: 4:03pm On Jul 29, 2024
Orlu13:
leave it fr me ...is it ur curse...why are u crying more dan d person dat said it...or is there anything wrong with u
Really don't know why people think it's right to fight for God. I mean what's your business if God decides to punish the person that abused him or they are just pained that He would not punish the person or maybe they will be blessed just for talking or fighting for him. I just don't understand. The only thing God is asking of you is to love your neighbor just as you love yourself not fighting for him
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Fattprince23: 4:08pm On Jul 29, 2024
Sirkingsnado:
grin grin am just hearing it for the first I no know where ur mind dy go
It true sha but it still takes courage and confidence on the lady's part because it's easier for a lady to contact HIV from a guy, than from a guy to contact from a lady. And contacting HIV through sex is very low like I think 0.4% or there about so if the guy can be using his ARV drugs keeping his viral load low then he can impregnate his wife without infecting his wife and unborn child. Then the lady can use PEp just to be double protected.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by truespeak: 10:25pm On Jul 29, 2024
Fattprince23:
Really don't know why people think it's right to fight for God. I mean what's your business if God decides to punish the person that abused him or they are just pained that He would not punish the person or maybe they will be blessed just for talking or fighting for him. I just don't understand. The only thing God is asking of you is to love your neighbor just as you love yourself not fighting for him
Only a wicked person would see a wrong being corrected and complain about it.

You did not complain about the guy evily blaming God but you are complaining about the person who came to speak about the evil being done to God.

May all who come across you when you are being wrongly accused never speak up for you and if any dares try to, let that tongue be cut down.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Fattprince23: 1:06pm On Jul 30, 2024
truespeak:
Only a wicked person would see a wrong being corrected and complain about it.

You did not complain about the guy evily blaming God but you are complaining about the person who came to speak about the evil being done to God.

May all who come across you when you are being wrongly accused never speak up for you and if any dares try to, let that tongue be cut down.
I am being wicked? I am being wicked for asking a guy that wants to fight for God to hold his peace and allow God to fight for himself? I'm not an atheist believe me, but people tends to fight for God because they don't even know Him or should I say understand what He is (please pardon the pronoun I use as I believe God is genderless). You know if these people that fights for God really loves Him then you would not be aggressive towards your fellow human as your neighbor plus you plus the mountains and winds and everything you could imagine or think of in the universe in there totality is what God is.

And how was God wrongly accused? Isn't it right that He created our penis and the urge or even the vagina and the pleasure we derive from sex. And if you really love God and know Him you would not send negative thoughts which you wrote up there my way or of anyone's. You really have a long way to go out of the darkness to the Light of God.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by truespeak: 6:30pm On Jul 30, 2024
Fattprince23:
I am being wicked? I am being wicked for asking a guy that wants to fight for God to hold his peace and allow God to fight for himself? I'm not an atheist believe me, but people tends to fight for God because they don't even know Him or should I say understand what He is (please pardon the pronoun I use as I believe God is genderless). You know if these people that fights for God really loves Him then you would not be aggressive towards your fellow human as your neighbor plus you plus the mountains and winds and everything you could imagine or think of in the universe in there totality is what God is.

And how was God wrongly accused? Isn't it right that He created our penis and the urge or even the vagina and the pleasure we derive from sex. And if you really love God and know Him you would not send negative thoughts which you wrote up there my way or of anyone's. You really have a long way to go out of the darkness to the Light of God.
Only a wicked man says it is wrong to speak up for another when such other is being wrongly accused.

And only a wicked man does not see the wickedness in accusing God wrongly in that He gave you a tool of pleasure which every sane person even you at one time or the other had called it good.

It is your responsibility to use it to your good or to destroy yourself with it. That is on you not on God.

And as you have done all these things to God, whom ye say we should not speak up for, the law of as you have done, so shall it be done to you, shall afflict you, you shall be wrongly accused and no one shall speak up for you.

Anyone who dares to try shall be cut down.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Fattprince23: 1:00pm On Jul 31, 2024
truespeak:
Only a wicked man says it is wrong to speak up for another when such other is being wrongly accused.

And only a wicked man does not see the wickedness in accusing God wrongly in that He gave you a tool of pleasure which every sane person even you at one time or the other had called it good.

It is your responsibility to use it to your good or to destroy yourself with it. That is on you not on God.

And as you have done all these things to God, whom ye say we should not speak up for, the law of as you have done, so shall it be done to you, shall afflict you, you shall be wrongly accused and no one shall speak up for you.

Anyone who dares to try shall be cut down.
See a true Christian filled with negative thoughts. Please for the last time you are not God's advocate that you should speak for Him lest you end up as Uzzah. I hope you remember Uzzah right? That's why Atheist are far better moralist than you religious peeps because you always see the speck of wood in every other persons' eyes over the log in yours. You feel you are better whereas you are just the worst when it comes to morals. Leaving out the necessary and insisting on filial things.
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by truespeak: 7:04pm On Jul 31, 2024
Fattprince23:
See a true Christian filled with negative thoughts. Please for the last time you are not God's advocate that you should speak for Him lest you end up as Uzzah. I hope you remember Uzzah right? That's why Atheist are far better moralist than you religious peeps because you always see the speck of wood in every other persons' eyes over the log in yours. You feel you are better whereas you are just the worst when it comes to morals. Leaving out the necessary and insisting on filial things.
grin grin Guess you didn't know they were those who uphold Psalms 94:16-17
"Who will stand up for me against the evildoers? Who will take a stand for me against those who do wickedness?"

You thought God had no one who would speak up for Him? Sorry grin you have just met one of God's advocate.

And see how evil you atheists are? I am simply giving you a taste of your own medicine and see how you are screaming.

You guys make me laugh grin grin e sweet to do, e no sweet to receive your doing.

The Biggest Hypocrites who can not take what they dish out.

Immorals personified. The filth of the filth dey complain of morals now that it is against you grin grin grin

CURSED be you all in all your going in and your coming in.

Nothing good shall befall you all your life, you shall sow and another shall reap!
Re: Men Share Their Experience On How Their Gbola Almost Ruined Their Life by Fattprince23: 12:12am On Aug 01, 2024
truespeak:
grin grin Guess you didn't know they were those who uphold Psalms 94:16-17
"Who will stand up for me against the evildoers? Who will take a stand for me against those who do wickedness?"

You thought God had no one who would speak up for Him? Sorry grin you have just met one of God's advocate.

And see how evil you atheists are? I am simply giving you a taste of your own medicine and see how you are screaming.

You guys make me laugh grin grin e sweet to do, e no sweet to receive your doing.

The Biggest Hypocrites who can not take what they dish out.

Immorals personified. The filth of the filth dey complain of morals now that it is against you grin grin grin

CURSED be you all in all your going in and your coming in.

Nothing good shall befall you all your life, you shall sow and another shall reap!
I'll just leave you with this. "What you think of others, so shall it be of you" I didn't say that, Karma did. Whatever you think is always what you'll attract. You should be wary of your own curses. Only curse what you think your life can bear. I don't pity you because whatever becomes of you will be your own doings.
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