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You see women are emotional beings ,they act purely based on their emotions ,this is why the love of a woman is as fickle as their hate. Make no mistakes as a man trying to get back a woman who has transitioned from love to hate , you are only making matters worse.

A woman's love for you is attached to certain attributes you possess as a man , if these attributes bites the dust, then a woman's love starts to dwindle. These attributes could be finances aka your pocket , attractive features , emotional maturity, words of affirmation etc in some cases these attributes you possess as man might not even fade away but a woman's emotion might just be at play.

Have you noticed most women are confused , yes very confused and its all because of their fickle emotions. Personally I've dated women who I thought could die for me with the way they loved me but I was wrong all along ,it becomes clearer every day that those times my attributes contributed to them commiting to me and when those attributes began to fade away slowly due to certain circumstances I saw their true colours.

No woman I repeat no woman has the capacity to give out unconditional love , except to their children ofcourse. Their love is as fickle as their hate. A woman can love you today and become your worst nightmare tomorrow. Very fickle beings. Most of Them aren't logical in their reasoning, they act based on emotions anytime and Everytime.
Why do you think most women return to their ex for a quick match when they are about to get married ? Emotions ofcourse.

Now this lecture wasn't created to downplay women or any sorts of that , after all we all need women in our lives as men. Women are just so emotional that sometimes you can't live with them but at the same time you can't live without them. Bear all this in mind as man looking for a woman , so when they start acting up you can understand it's just their emotions at play and that can save you a whole lot rather arguing unnecessary with them.

Most men would say marry a virgin to avoid problems bla bla bla o pls spare me all that bull crap, virgin women are the worst when it comes to emotions and they also masters of manipulation. Listen a virgin woman thinks she has lots of value just because virgins are scarce in today's society,so the few virgins feel like they deserve the world , I laugh in Chinese hahaha. Back in the days they were so many virgins and that was a norm , so they were no advantage monopoly, all virgin women acted and played their respective roles perfectly well, unlike today's virgins who demands heaven and earth, for what ??

This is just a clue of what it's like to be in a romantic relationship with a virgin woman , she would manipulate the hell out of you, so you better be wise as a man in these regards.
I once dated a virgin woman and day and night I was being manipulated, gaslighted , without even realizing. Everything she wanted me to do was for her own image , if she wanted me to get new clothes it because she needs me to look good so she can brag to her friends , if she wanted me to be emotionally available it was so she could use the relationship to her own satisfaction, everything she wanted me to do for myself was indirectly for her own self image.....
To be continued.

All correct 💯 apart from you saying "we all need women in our Lives" ....

What a heap of generalizations
There are 4 billion women in the world. How many have you dealt with?
From your tiny corner and very short time here you've become an expert on women!

MikeofKd:
This is just a clue of what it's like to be in a romantic relationship with a virgin woman , she would manipulate the hell out of you, so you better be wise as a man in these regards.
I once dated a virgin woman and day and night I was being manipulated, gaslighted , without even realizing. Everything she wanted me to do was for her own image , if she wanted me to get new clothes it because she needs me to look good so she can brag to her friends , if she wanted me to be emotionally available it was so she could use the relationship to her own satisfaction, everything she wanted me to do for myself was indirectly for her own self image.....
To be continued.

I'm happy this virgin woman myth is being debunked, nothing more useless in value than a religious virgin woman in actual reality. Once you meet them, you'd see they don't have much to offer other than the virginity.

Character zero, career & upward mobility zero, financial knowledge zero.
They don't strive to add values in other areas at all.

I rather have someone with usable material value than being a virgin.
The usual excuse is that, once she is a virgin, she would not cheat & that's a lie. Infidelity has nothing to do with virginity.