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siofra:
This is how you know he doesn't like you. Any guy that's comfortable seeing you pay for anything doesn't love you.

Dey play

MMempire:
The guy is fucking wrong.

How?

Juliearth:
This is possibly staged. Courtesy demands that when you ask a lady out on a date, you foot the bills. If you are also not very buoyant, you take her to a restaurant that you can well afford.

Dey play... Which courtesy demands that?

Let us pretend this is real.

Ideally, do you order without him telling you to place an order?

He is supposed to tell you to place an order first.

I generally hate being too forward,most times he does more of the talking with the waiter/waitress.

He invited you out,let him take the lead.you work is to make your choice on the menu AFTER HE HAS OFFERED YOU MAKE A CHOICE. And say thank you when the meal arrives.

Let men do more of the doings...

If I were a guy,I will just pay then block her ancestor.

You ladies that have been shown pepper because of food, ordinary food,where una they meet this trash of men na..chai

First time impression went wrong, this mentallity of pay-i-pay mine has to stop cos nothing good comes out of it. As a MAN not ( man ) you are to be up to task to take care of your spouse on a first date. You dont invite someone you cant take care of, remember she left something important to her to attend to you, now you in your dumb state thinking she will take care of herself after wasting her time is just not it.😎

Westchester:
Who do you think is at fault here

The girl shouldn't have ordered for anything but when she noticed the guy wasn't going to get her anything, she should have made the date brief n left, meanwhile as man,I would have certainly gotten her something modest, at least out of courtesy.

Fahvvy:
Those of y'all supporting that guy are wrong! ...

Whoever invites any out should pay for the treat or at the very least, inform your date that you want to go dutch on things, that way, they'll be prepared before coming ...

Ifthat girl didn't have cash, she would just be embarrassed to death because of a boys immaturity - honestly eh, some of y'all need to grow up! ...

And girls, when you go out eh, try dey order food with conscience ...

Don't go on a date and proof to the world that you're a retched orphan who hasn't eaten for 2 years ...

So what if the guy didn't have enough money for food? Is a date a buffet dinner?

MMempire:
The guy is fucking wrong.

How

If u still Dey believe anything for social media you be Mumu

Tightpussy2024:
Let us pretend this is real.

Ideally, do you order without him telling you to place an order?

He is supposed to tell you to place an order first.

I generally hate being too forward,most times he does more of the talking with the waiter/waitress.

He invited you out,let him take the lead.you work is to make your choice on the menu AFTER HE HAS OFFERED YOU MAKE A CHOICE. And say thank you when the meal arrives.

Let men do more of the doings...

If I were a guy,I will just pay then block her ancestor.

You ladies that have shown pepper because of food, ordinary food,where una they meet this trash of men na..chai

The only sensible comment I've seen from a lady here.

siofra:
This is how you know he doesn't like you. Any guy that's comfortable seeing you pay for anything doesn't love you.

That's not how you know if someone loves you, what if the guy was actually testing her to see her response and how she behaves afterwards? You are pretty tho that's if that picture is really you.

GABRIEL6036:
First time impression went wrong, this mentallity of pay-i-pay mine has to stop cos nothing good comes out of it. As a MAN not ( man ) you are to be up to task to take care of your spouse on a first date. You dont invite someone you cant take care of, remember she left something important to her to attend to you, now you in your dumb state thinking she will take care of herself after wasting her time is just not it.😎

They are following redpillers advise . Forgetting the lady preparation to come out. I know how much it cost to get makeup. Dress and prepare. Nobody told me to enroll in professional makeup training to learn makeup myself .
Even normal visitors you invite,you entertain them .
Let them let resentment and vileness lead them and deprive them from enjoying a loving relationship.
That is how one almost ruined his home.went to do DNA test on his children openly even though he married a decent woman from a good home,all three kids were his,now he is begging his wife who has refused to speak with him

Fahvvy:
Those of y'all supporting that guy are wrong! ...

Whoever invites any out should pay for the treat or at the very least, inform your date that you want to go dutch on things, that way, they'll be prepared before coming ...

Ifthat girl didn't have cash, she would just be embarrassed to death because of a boys immaturity - honestly eh, some of y'all need to grow up! ...

And girls, when you go out eh, try dey order food with conscience ...

Don't go on a date and proof to the world that you're a retched orphan who hasn't eaten for 2 years ...

Receive some senses.

The girl ordered for food without the guy's consent.

siofra:
This is how you know he doesn't like you. Any guy that's comfortable seeing you pay for anything doesn't love you.

You may remain single till death unless you discard this nasty mindset.

Nazgul:
You're not getting it.

Courtesy demands that you politely wait for the guy to ask if you care for food and order when he gives you the nod to do so.

Even though the guy rightfully pointed out that their primary objective of meeting was to discuss not to eat. Common sense should have make her know that since they're in an eatery, they'll definitely eat. So why place orders ahead of the guy who brought you in? Why not patiently wait for him to ask you what you'd like to take?

If I tell you to meet me at a bar, would you just walk in and start telling the bartender to bring drinks without my consent? You might make me think you have money on you, Thus leaving you to pay for your drinks. The right thing is to come in exchange greetings and wait for me to tell you to tell the bartender what you'd like to take. Because for me to tell you to meet me at a bar shows I definitely want to give you some bottles.

A lot of Nigerian girls lack courtesy. Entitled mentality and chronic hunger has eaten deep into their system.

Let's be realistic here: why should he take her to the resto when the whole idea of going there is to eat food? Is a restaurant where you gather family members to discuss about issues or where political campaigns take place??
How would management recuperate their money if most people come to restos to discuss their problems and order forbnothing?
There are parks and free areas if you don't wanna get yourself in a mess.
Albeit, you can take a date to the cafeteria just for a coffee which to me is a more secluded place to know someone.
We may not actually know what actions took place there cos the Waiter might have given the guy the menu booklet first before handing it over to the lady or vice-versa...but any how, you don't expect one of them(guy) to be eating and the other watching.
The dude here is ill matured, and acted in a very condescending manner.

Sapasenator:
"Baba" will die a bachelor, alone and grumpy.

She knows the money wey dey the guy hand?? Why she nor let the guy order abi na food she come.there come chop....

It's better to die single than be with some women

PureFace1:
That's delusional sense of love that even your parents and siblings won't cope with.

And any woman that's comfortable making his man pay for everything doesn't love the man one bit or have good plan for him.

Even as much as we love ourselves people don't buy everything for themselves, sometimes we even starve just to save money does that now mean we don't love ourselves ?

I can love you but not to the extent of letting you mismanage my future or become a liability and stumbling block to my progress in life even Dangote and Elon Musk don't want women that are liabilities in their lives.

How is paying for a first date paying for everything?

No matter how inappropriate you think a woman behaves, pay for the first date then afterwards,delete her number.

Juliearth:
This is possibly staged. Courtesy demands that when you ask a lady out on a date, you foot the bills. If you are also not very buoyant, you take her to a restaurant that you can well afford.

Thank you. Unfortunately, most people here are "boys" who are just hustling to chop 3 square meal.

Juliearth:
This is possibly staged. Courtesy demands that when you ask a lady out on a date, you foot the bills. If you are also not very buoyant, you take her to a restaurant that you can well afford.

- It appears "ladies" in your family were raised to comfortably live in a man's pocket. If so, you and your sisters have been raised very badly and would attract little or no respect from men. Re-educate yourself, this is 21st century.

- Meanwhile, an actual lady should be able to comfortably pay her bills without whinging.

krushdripper:
Courtesy demands that you get rid of your saggy, puffy face & put it in the waste bin. So because you imagine a man should buy food for you cos he invited you on a date, you would just come in & order without his consent? She should have brought courtesy with her to force the guy to pay.

Who told you she ordered without his consent?? Or where they sitting at different tables?
You guys would just concluded without knowing what actually took place when the Waiter came to them with the menu booklet? This is one sided story.
You can't afford food but you carry woman go restaurant.

Favyoma:
This is actually funny and annoying at the same time. Why did you invite her out in the first place. I mean you could have gone out to a place where you wouldn’t need to spend like a park or something or better still, don’t see at all. Continue getting to know each other through phone till you have money.

A first time date is not buffet...How can u order for food that u want someone else to pay without knowing how much he has in his pocket...someone u don't even know yet...


Some of women are too entitled, no decorum...behaving hungry on a first date..


..and the sad part is...y'all support each other

Sapasenator:
"Baba" will die a bachelor, alone and grumpy.

When he has been ghosted or rejected by three women, his head will reset

PureFace1:
The guy fvcked up

He shouldn't have made that confession to her that he like her especially when she's still giving attitude and acting like a bitch even on text.

Compliments, attention, validation etc should only be rewarded after good behaviors and withdrawn after bad behaviors.

Rewarding that girl bitchy attitude with confession and compliments made him came up as every other desperate losers, it's misplaced and not earned , with her bad attitudes he should have seen the handwriting on the wall, be ready to move on and throw her in the bin not complimenting and giving the girl free validation, sending several messages after she didn't reply also make the guy look more desperate.

👌🏽

advanceDNA:
A first time date is not buffet...How can u order for food that u want someone else to pay without knowing how much he has in his pocket...someone u don't even know yet...


Some of women are too entitled, no decorum...behaving hungry on a first date..


..and the sad part is...y'all support each other

Oga,when you meet a woman you like,invite her for a date in a RESTAURANT then don't order anything for her.

The only fault I have with her is that she should have waited for him to tell her to place an order. If he refuse,she should delete his number.

You people belittle yourself thinking you are punishing women not knowing you are punishing yourself.

This women dressed and prepared to impress you. Probably a new hairstyle just for you. If her presence lightens you and makes you happy,how is food your problem? Doesn't she have food in her father's house? It's just a way of showing you value her.

Left alone as the lady,I will give excuse and leave if I notice a man will not tell me to place an order

joseph1832:
Lol. It's good the girl ignored him, because it's obvious the guy is the type who doesn't spend on women.

The boy is still growing up. All these red-pill tales he's being reading and listening online is disturbing his mindset. He might still be in his hustling days...probably not have much on him, but that's a childish thing to do.
We might not as well know what exactly took place on their table when the Waiter came to them with the menu booklet. That's why I take most of these stories with a pinch of salt cos it's one sided.

Fahvvy:
Those of y'all supporting that guy are wrong! ...

Whoever invites any out should pay for the treat or at the very least, inform your date that you want to go dutch on things, that way, they'll be prepared before coming ...

Ifthat girl didn't have cash, she would just be embarrassed to death because of a boys immaturity - honestly eh, some of y'all need to grow up! ...

And girls, when you go out eh, try dey order food with conscience ...

Don't go on a date and proof to the world that you're a retched orphan who hasn't eaten for 2 years ...

You forgot that we have a lot of jambites and WAEC holders here that can't make that small cut off points of 180? They're the reason why the university entrance cut off point is now 140.

Nothing in their brain.

How can you ask a woman out and you can't pay for her meal? And you expect the girl to flow with you? I am shocked people are celebrating him.

7demons:
The boy is still growing up. All these red-pill tales he's being reading and listening online is disturbing his mindset. He might still be in his hustling days...probably not have much on him, but that's a childish thing to do.
We might not as well know what exactly took place on their table when the Waiter came to them with the menu booklet. That's why I take most of these stories with a pinch of salt cos it's one sided.

I agree with you.

7demons:
Let's be realistic here: why should he take her to the resto when the whole idea of going there is to eat food? Is a restaurant where you gather family members to discuss about issues or where political campaigns take place??
How would management recuperate their money if most people come to restos to discuss their problems and order forbnothing?
There are parks and free areas if you don't wanna get yourself in a mess.
Albeit, you can take a date to the cafeteria just for a coffee which to me is a more secluded place to know someone.
We may not actually know what actions took place there cos the Waiter might have given the guy the menu booklet first before handing it over to the lady or vice-versa...but any how, you don't expect one of them(guy) to be eating and the other watching.
The dude here is ill matured, and acted in a very condescending manner.

You're the one who's not being realistic here cos you seem not to get the point.

There's nothing wrong in taking a girl to a restaurant in a date. In case you don't know more than 60% of dates world wide take place in restaurants.

My point here is rushing to order for food ahead of the guy you came with. It's so wrong. If you go out with someone, you don't begin to order food like a hungry orphan, you should always restrain yourself from going ahead of the person who invited you. It shows you have good manners. She was expected to sit back and allow the guy ask her what she wants and not ordering what she cannot afford and expecting the guy to pay for it.

The guy wasn't in the wrong here.

PDJT:
- It appears "ladies" in your family were raised to comfortably live in a man's pocket. If so, you and your sisters have been raised very badly and would attract little or no respect from men. Re-educate yourself, this is 21st century.

- Meanwhile, an actual lady should be able to comfortably pay her bills without whinging.

How do you mistake living off a man pocket with honoring who you invited with a meal? Not just relationships,even visitors,once you invite someone you entertain them.

Nazgul:
You're the one who's not being realistic here cos you seem not to get the point.

There's nothing wrong in taking a girl to a restaurant in a date. In case you don't know more than 60% of dates world wide take place in restaurants.

My point here is rushing to order for food ahead of the guy you came with. It's so wrong. If you go out with someone, you don't begin to order food like a hungry orphan, you should always restrain yourself from going ahead of the person who invited you. It shows you have good manners. She was expected to sit back and allow the guy ask her what she wants and not ordering what she cannot afford and expecting the guy to pay for it.

The guy wasn't in the wrong here.

I get your point,she was too forward.

He should have paid ,then delete her number afterwards.

GABRIEL6036:
First time impression went wrong, this mentallity of pay-i-pay mine has to stop cos nothing good comes out of it. As a MAN not ( man ) you are to be up to task to take care of your spouse on a first date. You dont invite someone you cant take care of, remember she left something important to her to attend to you, now you in your dumb state thinking she will take care of herself after wasting her time is just not it.😎

Don't blame the BOY. These are kids looking for free fuks, by their comments you know them on this site.
You No get money but na Woman be your problem.