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Lalami3232:
That girl wey dey block you and snub you dey beg one guy for attention for DM.
Do you know why? You're not their type na make dem dey block you, not because of their profession

Gbam. Low self esteem is a very bad thing.

Karleb:
Lecturer inside high class professionals?

My late boss was a lecturer who used his knowledge to hammer. Lecturers are not all the same.

Am currently in a serious relationship with a 25yr old doctor that just moved into my area . Very beautiful angel. I just toast am normally..it helps that I drive a lexus car tho

VinnyBaba:
First of all, OP

*They are Rich Men's Kids
*They are mostly Intelligent and Well read.
*They have very High Taste in Men.
*They know aLot about Male Anatomy and seems to Target Guys with Big Diccks.

When you think your Dicck is BIG, they feel it's small.

LoL at Big Dicks, haha 😂

Nyascobar1414:
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And the male doctors don't see them as the ideal woman...
Hypergamy 😹

Yes, is not possible to marry themselves with the type of work they do, they might not have time for each other

This is news to me.

Karleb:
Before you become a doctor, you'd probably be married so the chance of a female medic marrying a Dr. or vice versa is very very slim.

Besides, professors in nigeria hardly earn more than 400k.

A young boy in KPMG or Oando would double their salary probably at entry level.

So no, lecturing is not high professional career.

There is status in those professions. The female medic considers those.

On her wedding day she wants to hear Engr. Dr. Chief, Prof before her husband's name. It is what it is

Female medics are very easy to date.
Which planet are you guys from?
This thread has finally confirmed my suspicions, many users of this forum are not in touch with reality.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

You sound like an expert

Lmao. I avoid nurses. Doctors understand why.

Full Of Happiness

DrAda:
This is news to me.

Really, tell us more Dr Ada , we are all ears

Female doctors to me are the best if you want to be with an intelligent woman. They only go for intelligent men, and there aren’t many around.

I see no problem dating them. I prefer them to ordinary 9ja women.

Intelligent women shouldn’t frighten an intelligent man. You will both compliment each other to form a badass partnership.

DrAda:
This is news to me.

Welcome to Nairaland.
Today it is doctors/nurses. Tomorrow go be army or bankers. As they know the ones to date/marry, I wonder why they haven't married them.

Creamypie:
a female doctor/nurse sees the doctor as ideal man sir

Lol. Not true. They are regular babes. They just want the richest and most stable dudes around

They rarely have time for themselves talkless of you. With the shortage of medical personnel, they are always on call. But when you are lucky to catch one and it works, you are truly the luckiest man around.

Hehehe, it's a general problem. Man must work hard and as it is now, work even harder to see better woman. Well the scripture says that a woman will yearn for a husband. That's their own part of the punishment. Op, they are not snobbing you they are carrying out part of the curse.

But they are easy going when it come to love relationship only that they don't have all the time and one thing again is that when they look into your eyes they will see Malaria in your eyes

Not difficult, i have dated a doctor/consultant we have a child together she is one if my baby mamas. How we met? I was a traffic warden, i gave her a ticket for parking at the wrong side of the road. After we had argument over the parking ticket. She called me a retard. Next time she apologised said she understood i was just doing my job. Next thing we exchanged numbers before you say jack! She became pregnant. After 2 years she dumped me, said i am a womaniser. I am no longer a traffic warden people were alway rude when you issue them parking fine ticket, one guy threatned to shoot me, just because i gave him a parking fine. So i quit!

Karleb:
The only part I agree with is some female medics eventually don't end up with anyone, because it is true.
The problem is also in civil service and it's common in Nigeria too.

That aside, all other things you stated are the men's issue because they already decided in their mind that a lady in a particular field is bigger than them. So it's basically a self esteem issue.

I am surprised Nigerians consider 150k big money tho. No wonder this guy staying with us got married the moment he started earning 150.

150k na isha money during the Tinubu era, if it's during Buhari era, it's still okay.

Let me buttress about some of the comments I've read earlier. The comments I've read so far is 100% true. My wife is a Matron in a federal hospital. So what I'm about to tell you is true and I also have a dentist and medical doctor as siblings too. The mentality of most nurses is that if you aren't up to their standard or taste, you are no go area. You must look clean, decent and most be presentable among their colleagues. When I was dating my wife 14 years ago, I have a ride, that gave me my first edge and good pay. One of her lecturers asked her that hope I'm not a scammer that will scam her and dump her? That question self can make a man leave the woman if he doesn't love the lady. Moreso the medical Doctors, if you aren't in their profession, don't move closer to them, they won't give you chance to even talk to them. It's either you are childhood friends or u are colleagues from 100 level in the same university and one way or the other, the guy changed the course to a lucrative one, most especially Engineering line or Architecture. Some Doctors don't like to marry their colleague because of their children. Both husband and wife can be on call for 5 straight days without seeing their children, which in turn, affect the upbringing of them children. If you want to marry a doctor, even though u aren't from their profession, if you have good fashion taste, speaks good and fluent English, smart and intelligent, you are good to go.

SunShowAfrica:
The same woman giving you a tough time is using all here airtime to call another dude...
The female medic probably doesn't like what you do to earn a LIVING and is trying to wait if a rich dude will come her way

Agba the OP is only trying to console himself 99.99% of ladies are after status, power and wealth

They're not difficult, but that is if you're not jobless.

Hezzyluv:
No be me oooo

I don't go close to them for relationship lailai.
Because, most of them are full of themselves.

Shey?

Dem fit use annoyance give you injection wey no good...

I dey fear dem instead, dem too get mind...

Karleb:
I am surprised Nigerians consider 150k big money tho. No wonder this guy staying with us got married the moment he started earning 150.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

What nonsense talk. Was he a virgin or is it in universities or colleges of education or polytechnics you see saints or virgins. He is generalising and that is wrong.

Edpuma:
My Male Doctor friend always discourage me from dating them, he personally says, he knows how they behave in medical school and he finally married of recent outside the profession.

Creamypie:
na so their brain be. Most or all female nurses I know wey Marry from outside the profession, don divorce, except those wey marry high class professionals like lecturer, high Grade businessman,above average politician, Manufacturer, top tech men, bankers etc

lecturing na high class? hmm

1Sharon:
You are not equally yoked. Most female medics want other medics.

Not all of them. Cos they will have prob later in the cause of raising their children. Both husband and wife can be on "call" for 5 straight days before going home. The wife won't see the husband and vice versa. Most Doctor I know are married to Lawyers, University Administrators, Lecturers who will have time to stay with the children at home whenever they are on "call". And if the eventually marry each other, It's either the husband works with a government establishment and the wife opens a private hospital where she can take charge of the home. I love that profession. There are many benefits attached to it. Apart from the money, even though their pay isn't much at the beginning but on the long run, the are wellpaid. When you marry a Doctor, all the issue of hospital bill, child been sick, pregnancy palava, delivery palava will be taken care of by the his or her colleague and his/her place of work without paying a dime. All what I'm saying here is 100% correct because I've passed through everything.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

Accept it, they are above your standard. In other words, you are beneath them. FACT.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

Go pursue your dream. Leave drama.

Manculated:
I don't even find them attractive nor romantic just to start with plus i hardly notice them.

Smile, they are romantic oooo. If you fall into one hand, you will know what I mean. ;

SpaceX:
leave marriage for s.imps if you need any for a night just rent, pay and move on. Simple!

yes that defines you as a SIMPleman already