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Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by tallfish145(m): 8:38am On Aug 14, 2024
No matter how long some women hide or brainwash their children against their father,they must always ask and look for him when they grow.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Exceed15: 9:09am On Aug 14, 2024
Wise girl. U can't be dumb like your mother. I wish her a fruitful mission. She looks exactly like her father.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Exceed15: 9:10am On Aug 14, 2024
RealityKings:
She is one of the luckiest girl on earth
Well said bro
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Exceed15: 9:11am On Aug 14, 2024
Fisiryorh:
For all those jennyclay minded idīōts that say men are bala blu, I guess you never had the true love of a father(or a father figure) in your life that's why y'all so bitter....


Mothers do the very best they can but the absence of a father is always felt no matter what..

I pray she unites safely with her dad ...#peace..
Hmm..Wise words. Bittered single mothers will come for u now .
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by 99thEnemy(m): 9:18am On Aug 14, 2024
WantsandMore:
. Every woman’s seeks to possess her man or else how does she control him? But in return he enjoys bliss with limited freedom unlike alpha male who enjoys the same bliss with total freedom intact but in return they take care of their queen.
Who said anything about bliss. you chose to interpret it however you perceived.

I never was specific that it involved cheating.
Being possessive does not only entail jealousy .
Controlling and domination is also in the possessive nature package

And even jealousy is not always about cheating.
Trust me, those girls will want you to sideline your family members in their favor but the other side is that they are willing to do the same for you.

When you can’t do that for them, they feel you don’t love.

Imagine someone even being angry that you talk to your own mother or sister a lot and don’t give them the same energy when you might even be living in the same house oh!
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody: 9:24am On Aug 14, 2024
Maeve7:
The mother stopped him from seeing her bla bla bla. Always the same victim story.
Think before commenting.

Imagine giving your love to a foreign immigrant,that is broke. He uses you to get his papers, suddenly he tells you that he is travelling back or discards for his female naija women you after carrying his child and giving him papers. Will you want him near you and the child?
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody: 9:25am On Aug 14, 2024
tallfish145:
No matter how long some women hide or brainwash their children against their father,they must always ask and look for him when they grow.
The ones that made effort to reach out but where blocked by the mothers .

Not the ones that didn't want anything to do with them.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody: 9:31am On Aug 14, 2024
1Sharon:
Another mixed race offspring with an absent black father... what else is new?
They are praising the girl because she wants to reconcile with her father,if she doesn't,all these praises will not be there.

The narrative of women always being accused of being bitter and "brainwashing kids against fathers" should end. You can't act anyhow,walk away,do as you wish,leave the bunch of the work of parenting to one parent,have her endure scorn from the society, and then feel entitled to walk in whenever you wish, then should the woman refuse you,she is called "bitter". Or the kids refuse ( as should all wise kids do), they accused of being brainwashed or poisoned by the mother.

Being a sperm donor doesn't ultimately givrs you right to a child,only a father,or one who makes attempt to within his best, should have the right to kids

Not saying this is the case of the story in the OP( he made efforts to reach out to the daughter) and probably he was deported.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody: 9:40am On Aug 14, 2024
Rechargeam247:
Are they saying the man impregnated her mother at 19, I doubt he married her.
Those young immigrant students affairs with white woman.

Seems he was deported or had issues, obviously young and I will not qualify him as a deadbeat ( he has made several attempts to reach out to her)
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by WantsandMore: 9:41am On Aug 14, 2024
99thEnemy:
Who said anything about bliss. you chose to interpret it however you perceived.

I never was specific that it involved cheating.
Being possessive does not only entail jealousy .
Controlling and domination is also in the possessive nature package

And even jealousy is not always about cheating.
Trust me, those girls will want you to sideline your family members in their favor but the other side is that they are willing to do the same for you.

When you can’t do that for them, they feel you don’t love.

Imagine someone even being angry that you talk to your own mother or sister a lot and don’t give them the same energy when you might even be living in the same house oh!
That’s just plain toxic and insecure partner. An ecosystem survives on partnership not isolation . Why una Dey date people wey Dey stress una life .
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by 99thEnemy(m): 9:52am On Aug 14, 2024
WantsandMore:
That’s just plain toxic and insecure partner. An ecosystem survives on partnership not isolation . Why una Dey date people wey Dey stress una life .
They would never see it that way.

Some cast their family aside to be with a guy and they can want you to be able to do what they did for you in return to them.

They can be selective of the friends you have etc..

It goes a long way, these kind of things should be defined at the very beginning of the relationship or else when it goes deep you might start having issues.

Sometimes its not about cheating, and sometimes not giving them the attention they feel they deserve is interpreted to them like there is high chance you might be cheating.

The dynamics of their behavior is endless and it still differs from Filipina to Filipina.

Fear Asians with love.

Genuine love can be both beautiful and the same time ugly.

Why una Dey date people wey Dey stress una life
I never dated a Filipina.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody: 10:02am On Aug 14, 2024
43Ronin:
Disgruntled, & embittered Baby momas should realise there's nothing to gain from denying a child his father. You will always lose because;
1: The child will eventually go looking for the dad despite the lies and hate being fed into him/her at least to hear the father's side.
2: You spent all those resources(time&money) training him/her yourself thinking you are wotowotoing the man only for her to take all those effort to go see her father and reconnect for free cheesy
Sophia might have won the battle but davido will win the war especially as he was close to imade. Imade won't even wait till 18 b4 she goes looking for her dad(her paddy)
A pile of horseshit.

Which baby mamas are you talking of? The ones that deliberately deprived their kids father access due to some issues or the ones that the fathers didnt want anything to do with them?
You all just lump the two cases together.

What sort of reconciliation do you envisage? Going to know your roots or going to establish a relationship with your father? Una never know anything yet. Ask how rashidi yekini died. He was mad. Talking to himself. Even defecated on the road. What an ace Nigerian football player was reduced to,died with no family or love.

Keep waiting for the prodigal son reunion with your children.


Concerning Sophia case,he was never denied access to the child. He was only denied custody. Imade will become a woman and will understand why her mother made such decision. So you have no accusation against her.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by IamAtAnger: 10:05am On Aug 14, 2024
U be mumu... how she wan take prevent 18 yrs old girl now?... she don mature and the mother no fit get full right like be4 wen she be teenager
1Sharon:
Typical excuse of deadbeat fathers. It's like you all read from the same script.

How comes the same mother wasn't able to stop the child from finding her father? Why was the daughter successful at connecting, but he wasn't? The man never wanted to be found, now who truly lacks accountability?
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody:
Johncables402:
Do you know how evil these foreigners are to Nigerians once you fail to give them the money they demand?. They can send you to jail or have their stupid and lazy man frame or kill you. Nigerians are hot cake over there because we take care of their girls but they are too demanding and hateful. The guy must have tried to reason with the stupid mother but because these women are not made for marriage, she acted stupid
Why do you all have all excuses and positive assumptions for men considered deadbeats? You people obviously conceive all nuances and instances. "He may have", "it's her toxicity that chased him away", "maybe this or that happened"..

But never a single understanding or nuances for baby mamas or single mothers. Like extend the grace you give to these men to single moms .

Personally,looking at his age,and seeing he had to leave the country, I assume he was deported and couldn't return back. I can give him that benefit of doubt,give single moms and baby mamas the same benefit of doubts in all your judgements.

But no, in your kangaroo courts all single moms are promiscuous women wanting men to trap men with pregnancies or was too toxic then men had to walk away. They are extremely bitter people that poison the mind of the kids against their father.
All deadbeats were men manipulated into pregnancies,or couldn't endure the mothers excesses or were trying to reach out but were blocked off by the mothers
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by IamAtAnger: 10:11am On Aug 14, 2024
Na for Nairaland u wan dey test English proficiency wey nor be ur mama tongue?... ur mumu na grade A na why whites dey call una black monkey
Bwilliam:
English language - F9.
Abeg try retake Waec next year.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by shunlet(m): 10:13am On Aug 14, 2024
From the passport detail, father born 1987, he is now 37 years old, Daughter is 18 years old. The guy impregnated the woman when he was 19 years... I wonder how old was the lady when they had this baby girl in 2006.
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by 43Ronin: 10:57am On Aug 14, 2024
Tightpussy2024:
A pile of horseshit.

Which baby mamas are you talking of? The ones that deliberately deprived their kids father access due to some issues or the ones that the fathers didnt want anything to do with them?
You all just lump the two cases together.

What sort of reconciliation do you envisage? Going to know your roots or going to establish a relationship with your father? Una never know anything yet. Ask how rashidi yekini died. He was mad. Talking to himself. Even defecated on the road. What an ace Nigerian football player was reduced to,died with no family or love.

Keep waiting for the prodigal son reunion with your children.


Concerning Sophia case,he was never denied access to the child. He was only denied custody. Imade will become a woman and will understand why her mother made such decision. So you have no accusation against her.
I am focusing on the one relating to this story which is the mother depriving her daughter of her father due to some issues. I think davido wanted joint custody not full custody which make sense. And guess what the moment imade becomes independent even if it's secondary school she's calling her dad and linking up. We will be here to see it
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody: 10:57am On Aug 14, 2024
cococandy:
I’ll leave you to fight what’s fighting you

This one pass me. 👀
It's the devil and the deep blue sea for them. grin

Choose naija women and endure billing or choose a white lady that will not bill you but can't tolerate your excesses.

During their early days as a broke immigrant, they need the white ladies,to help them establish,then when money comes, they go back home to pick naija women
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Nobody: 11:00am On Aug 14, 2024
43Ronin:
I am focusing on the one relating to this story which is the mother depriving her daughter of her father due to some issues. I think davido wanted joint custody not full custody which make sense. And guess what the moment imade becomes independent even if it's secondary school she's calling her dad and linking up. We will be here to see it
Okay,but it general how do judge this single mother and absent father cases?

There is no calling or linking up with her daddy needed,he has access to her,just not living with him. He has no respect for Chioma to propose that
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:12am On Aug 14, 2024
omooba969:
You're full of bile and hatred. Better go to the toilet 🚽...okpe! grin

Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:13am On Aug 14, 2024
Orlu13:
hopeless fool...very soon now u will change to ur second moniker VTJN abi wetin dem dey call am....if u ban dis account...anoda one dey ready


useless agbommas like u will be treated according... fool

Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:14am On Aug 14, 2024
cococandy:
She’s definitely acting more sensibly than the whole adult male who fathered her.

You’re so close to the point 🤏🏾
So close.

But we know in y’all’s worlds adult men are never responsible for what happens in their lives, if they’re not being trapped by pregnancy, they are being forced into marriage or someone else is keeping them from their kids. They were pushed into streets by their partners or the relationship they couldn’t cultivate with their kids is because someone else is turning the kids from them.

They never have or show any initiative.

I’m glad the little girl is showing him how it’s done. Showing him he can actually do stuff if he means to. Maybe he’ll learn something from her. Maybe you too can
Use gifs next time, stop wasting your words on a Nairaland dude
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:16am On Aug 14, 2024
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Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:17am On Aug 14, 2024
Johncables402:
Stupid fool. Foreign women are still better than most Nigerian women who beg for a living. The problem is the lazy and stupid foolish men over there who influence the girls to see Naija guys in bad light. If not for the useless men , Naija guys would not even come back to Nigeria to look at Nigerian women. Those girls will die for hardworking Nigerian men unlike you who don't appreciate good things.

Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:17am On Aug 14, 2024
Johncables402:
A foolish woman will remain a foolish woman.

Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:18am On Aug 14, 2024
cococandy:
I’ll leave you to fight what’s fighting you

This one pass me. 👀
Just see the kind of confusion you’re dealing with this early morning

This is enough to throw your whole day off 😮💀

Even apes reason better
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maysdevices(f): 11:21am On Aug 14, 2024
IdeasYapayaski:
Hoeismhuh? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😃😄😅
Most of the women in your families are implicated in his analysis

When will Black Nigerian men start reasoning farther than primates do?

Even Science doesn’t see that happening soon
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by IdeasYapayaski: 11:26am On Aug 14, 2024
Maysdevices:
Most of the women in your families are implicated in his analysis

When will Black Nigerian men start reasoning farther than primates do?

Even Science doesn’t see that happening soon
You lack home training! You are a classless useless fool! My own family. You're lucky this podium is without address. Else, you go chop watery beans tire! Bloody animal!
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by cococandy(f): 11:37am On Aug 14, 2024
Maysdevices:
Just see the kind of confusion you’re dealing with this early morning

This is enough to throw your whole day off 😮💀

Even apes reason better
Me sef tire 😅
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by cococandy(f): 11:39am On Aug 14, 2024
They refuse to admit they’re the problem.

Home and abroad women are not treating them well.
Only them.
How come white men are evil as they are, are not renowned for littering their communities with fatherless children?
Tightpussy2024:
It's the devil and the deep blue sea for them. grin

Choose naija women and endure billing or choose a white lady that will not bill you but can't tolerate your excesses.

During their early days as a broke immigrant, they need the white ladies,to help them establish,then when money comes, they go back home to pick naija women
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by WantsandMore: 12:00pm On Aug 14, 2024
99thEnemy:
They would never see it that way.

Some cast their family aside to be with a guy and they can want you to be able to do what they did for you in return to them.

They can be selective of the friends you have etc..

It goes a long way, these kind of things should be defined at the very beginning of the relationship or else when it goes deep you might start having issues.

Sometimes its not about cheating, and sometimes not giving them the attention they feel they deserve is interpreted to them like there is high chance you might be cheating.

The dynamics of their behavior is endless and it still differs from Filipina to Filipina.

Fear Asians with love.

Genuine love can be both beautiful and the same time ugly.


I never dated a Filipina.
I was referring to the female biological social structure. If a man doesn’t lead a woman will. Nature habours vacuum
Re: 18-Year-Old Filipino Girl Looking For Her Nigerian Father (Photos) by Maeve7: 12:03pm On Aug 14, 2024
cococandy:
She’ll soon find out why. Gotta let it play out
You‘re right.
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