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Hope you will reflect all these in your marriage.

seunoladele:
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Am here to learn

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Cibel59:
Okay

Yes. Let it sink in

Women dey face this problem too?

Keep clean.. spirituality, morally and bodily......
Then once a while let him go down there.....and you fix him up in turn real good....
By the way, why is he your husband.....?

onumadu:
One thing is missing conspicuously from your list.

What is missing?
GOOD FOOD. (home meal well made)
Good food is what signals to a married man that he is "home", and that "home" can be anywhere if the wife is slacking in that department.
Most married men are responsible (which is why they married in the first place).
Understand this first.
Such men hate eating outside.
After he's had a great MEAL you prepared, he would be available for other things (including your seductions) .
Most married men are captured by other women outside using just food.
After eating there, other things become possible.
This is why most responsible men HARDLY eat outside, particularly foods cooked by women who they suspect is eying them.
Take this advice and thank me later.

This is a good one, woman wen sabi cook join but last last na character o, even when I dey nysc den, babe get character and gentle and she dey cook fire ah I nor fit do other runs cause when i reason am I will be fooling myself , so i kukuma stay. One place....so women try understand yr husbands, be supportive.

Oluromantic:
That's why I support men marrying older or slightly older women. Although women will always be women but there are significant differences.

You think all this thing you listed aren't too cumbersome for the comprehension of someone who believes the man is to do the caring by his age compared to hers. How many sense women get let alone those with younger age

I guess this is my major problem in my marriage now the girl is way too young whereby she doesn't even know any romance chemistry or rather when to seduce how to seduce or how to make me in mood.

The chemistry of romance between us is not just there and hence making me lost interest already ..

But my experience with older women ehn they are mostly almost professional in d game ..

U should get my point 🤔

Personally, the most important is that number 5, respect.. when a woman respects u, every other thing follows.
Even if I’m going through the worse, as long as I know my second-half genuinely respects me with no condition , I’ll always use that as an inspiration to sort things out and get better .

Komu1048:
I swear, na person like u I suppose marry, Its like a magic when I see men craving for sex or talk about sex. If 2say my prick no dey stand I for say maybe I have low libido. I c sex as a dirty habit. And i swear my wife is clean, far better than me in cleanliness. I'm always happy when I have a job that will take me away from home for min 6months coz I no I won't even have to think of sex( me too only engage in it for procreation n as a responsibility). Before married, ive engage in many sex to really check if its sweet like people talk but its pure trash. Of all the wahala wey dey this world na sex person go dey think. I can only have urge for sex if I don't have it for more than a year.

I don't see it as a dirty habit.
For me, it's just stress...

Nwaikpe:
Get born again. Sex is sin.

So, you were born from sin.

You are right on point.

SafePromotions:
So, you were born from sin.

WHO IS NOT BORN FROM SIN? WITHOUT SIN THERE WON'T BE SEX, AND WITHOUT SEX, NO BIRTH; WE ALL FOR STILL DEY THE SPIRITUAL REALM. GOD SANCTIONED SEX WITH THE DECREE: GO AND MULTIPLY. NOTHING LIKE BORN AGAIN FROM SEX FOR PROCREATION. THAT WILL BE GROSS DISOBEDIENCE TO THE DECREE OF GOD.

Oluromantic:
That's why I support men marrying older or slightly older women. Although women will always be women but there are significant differences.

You think all this thing you listed aren't too cumbersome for the comprehension of someone who believes the man is to do the caring by his age compared to hers. How many sense women get let alone those with younger age

Women get hornier with age though

SafePromotions:
So, you were born from sin.

Then I gave my life to Christ.

No matter how hard the economy is a deek will still rise that's why poor men have more children and despite the poverty in the north, they are the most populous region.

Toosure70:
I need another wife urgently please

go market go buyam na

Do nothing. If he's losing interest, it means he's gonna cheat that is if he hasn't already started cheating.

What to do: Again, do nothing but this one thing. Start paying attention to your toasters. Start giving them greenlight. You know all those guys that like you but you ignore them cos you want to be faithful to your husband, start giving at least one of them attention.

Never get anxious or nervous that your husband is losing interest.

If your husband cheats on you, don't sweat it. Just cheat right back. No dey give yourself headache. Nothing dey this life.

Hemanwel:
It's a good thing that this kind of threads are created for the married to refresh their marital responsibilities, so as to keep the fire burning in their love lives.

However, as a man, father, and a husband, these are my personal experiences in marriage:

When you say do house chores together... would you assist with house chores because she supports you financially? Would you be able to assist with chores if she doesn't contribute 1naira to the home?

MVLOX:
As a man you could do all this and still not get the right response.... What I have noticed about many women is that immediately you start something which is actually not suppose to be your usual role, they would always want more even when they Dem selves don't want to make their own needed improvement and put in the work.... For me in particular I haven't had any intercourse with my wife for more than a year and honestly it's not something I am even thinking of doing at all again.... There are more important things to life than sex.....

You're getting it from somewhere else. If no, that's because there's no woman available for you to fckkk, perhaps you're abroad, and not because you don't want to.

Jamiubond009:
If he's tired of the kuntus,forget it.Men get tired of doking one kpekus.Variety is the spice of life

You gat that right. One puna always gets boring

Buy him high libido drugs that's all

randymirrors:
When you say do house chores together... would you assist with house chores because she supports you financially? Would you be able to assist with chores if she doesn't contribute 1naira to the home?

It's always been my personal philosophy that, "I will not marry my wife because I love her, I will love her because I married her". So, I will do the chores because I love her - whether she brought something to the table or not. I have helped my wife do the laundries including her undies. Unfortunately, she's late now.

Reality3080:
The economy is really not smiling n much load is a man so the last thing a struggling man will think about at this stage is sex

Come to think about it
House rent
School bills for kids
Home maintenance
Feeding
Fuel for house n car(s)
Family ( most especially parents of both sides)
His siblings who need little support

I never even talk about how himself wan get savings n how e wan flex

Omo things are hard

You no dey buy cloth
That cloth matter tire me ooo

Zooposki:
I agree as a confirmed woman. Different varieties of gbola is the spice of life.

Na you go taya, by the time different sizes and rugged gbola finish with ya kuntus, you go know say man no be woman.

randymirrors:
Do nothing. If he's losing interest, it means he's gonna cheat that is if he hasn't already started cheating.

What to do: Again, do nothing but this one thing. Start paying attention to your toasters. Start giving them greenlight. You know all those guys that like you but you ignore them cos you want to be faithful to your husband, start giving at least one of them attention.

Never get anxious or nervous that your husband is losing interest.

If your husband cheats on you, don't sweat it. Just cheat right back. No dey give yourself headache. Nothing dey this life.

Let's assume the husband is cheating, can you please enlighten me on what can be achieved if the wife tends to follow your advice?

**Just curious to see things from your perspective.

SenecaTheYonger:
Women get hornier with age though

Can you please reference your claim?

Just for educational purposes.