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seanwilliam:
Personally, the most important is that number 5, respect.. when a woman respects u, every other thing follows.
Even if I’m going through the worse, as long as I know my second-half genuinely respects me with no condition , I’ll always use that as an inspiration to sort things out and get better .

Omo Ibadan how far, bawoni nkan?

randymirrors:
You're getting it from somewhere else. If no, that's because there's no woman available for you to fckkk, perhaps you're abroad, and not because you don't want to.

Make I laff small...... Back to the matter, NO I am not getting nothing from else where, definitely not because there are no women available, as there are lots of them flocking around even with my marital status and most definitely not because I live broad.... But YES it is simply because I don't want to. I am too busy working and planning on how to take care of my very large family of 4 children and a wife....

PS: I got married as a virgin, that should help you see that sex has never been a priority..... Besides all men are not the same .... Some are just rare...

omooba969:
Omo Ibadan how far, bawoni nkan?

Daada nio oremi,

Be kind to a man, settles all as in my own case.

That's the secret

Jamiubond009:
Men are polygamous so one kpekus is not enough

Maybe you should marry multiple women to begin with. Alot of you make this statement and deceive one woman into monogamy.

seunoladele:
© Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

Oga, sometimes, it's medical condition. Tell him to see a doctor asap. Some guys can't remember the last time they experience morning wood

Komu1048:
I swear, na person like u I suppose marry, Its like a magic when I see men craving for sex or talk about sex. If 2say my prick no dey stand I for say maybe I have low libido. I c sex as a dirty habit. And i swear my wife is clean, far better than me in cleanliness. I'm always happy when I have a job that will take me away from home for min 6months coz I no I won't even have to think of sex( me too only engage in it for procreation n as a responsibility). Before married, ive engage in many sex to really check if its sweet like people talk but its pure trash. Of all the wahala wey dey this world na sex person go dey think. I can only have urge for sex if I don't have it for more than a year.

I don't like sex.
Never been a "sex person" from beginning.
When I became a teenager,my mum wasn't even advising me about sex cos she noticed the interest wasn't there.
It was alcohol that seemed to interest me.
I grew up with some form of alcohol addiction but thanks to rigors of medical school and determination,I was able to overcome it.
Now,I just go to work,return and take care of my family.

Sex irritates me..I just manage to do it as an obligation.
If my husband doesn't make any move,it doesn't happen.
I don't know what people see in sex.

randymirrors:
Do nothing. If he's losing interest, it means he's gonna cheat that is if he hasn't already started cheating.

What to do: Again, do nothing but this one thing. Start paying attention to your toasters. Start giving them greenlight. You know all those guys that like you but you ignore them cos you want to be faithful to your husband, start giving at least one of them attention.

Never get anxious or nervous that your husband is losing interest.

If your husband cheats on you, don't sweat it. Just cheat right back. No dey give yourself headache. Nothing dey this life.

If you're caught, you'll leave the house.

Life no suppose hard

Hemanwel:
It's a good thing that this kind of threads are created for the married to refresh their marital responsibilities, so as to keep the fire burning in their love lives.

However, as a man, father, and a husband, these are my personal experiences in marriage:

- We need to regularly appreciate our wives.
- Your wife should be your best friend.
- Do the house chores together.
- Understand your wife's weakness and make her see it rather as strength.
- Be in constant communication with your wife, even while at work.
- Be romantic. Initiate seductive conversations. Be playful with her.
- In times of argument, do it with love. If you notice she's still angry, cuddle her and laugh it off.
- Always make your wife feel special. Buy her gifts. Take her out, even after birthing 5 children.
- For your marriage to work, the onus lies on the man/husband. What you put in is what you get.

Good advice except for the last one. This is what society has conditioned men to believe and that is why most women think they are not accountable for their actions.

Both parties are responsible

spiceadole:
I don't like sex.
Never been a "sex person" from beginning.
When I became a teenager,my mum wasn't even advising me about sex cos she noticed the interest wasn't there.
It was alcohol that seemed to interest me.
I grew up with some form of alcohol addiction but thanks to rigors of medical school and determination,I was able to overcome it.
Now,I just go to work,return and take care of my family.

Sex irritates me..I just manage to do it as an obligation.
If my husband doesn't make any move,it doesn't happen.
I don't know what people see in sex.

Hanty Dr. Sexual attraction is important o. and it shouldn't be one sided else the other party will get tired one day and stop. Don't let any man decieve you unless if he's getting it from somewhere else.

Zooposki:
I agree as a confirmed woman. Different varieties of gbola is the spice of life.

kikikikiki ... Go ahead then ...


😁😁😁


Let's see if you don't have more to lose doing that..

spiceadole:
I don't like sex.
Never been a "sex person" from beginning.
When I became a teenager,my mum wasn't even advising me about sex cos she noticed the interest wasn't there.
It was alcohol that seemed to interest me.
I grew up with some form of alcohol addiction but thanks to rigors of medical school and determination,I was able to overcome it.
Now,I just go to work,return and take care of my family.

Sex irritates me..I just manage to do it as an obligation.
If my husband doesn't make any move,it doesn't happen.
I don't know what people see in sex.

Aswear, I don't know if people truly feel the way they say about sex or they just like to exaggerate. Some will even say if your husband/wife is not having it with u then he/she is having it with another person. I say nawao, na food?

Iamzik:
Hanty Dr. Sexual attraction is important o. and it shouldn't be one sided else the other party will get tired one day and stop. Don't let any man decieve you unless if he's getting it from somewhere else.

Let him get it somewhere else..let me have peace,please.
I don't like sex.
I'm done with child bearing.

seunoladele:
© Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

I approve this message!

On point. But why is it that some men Dey fire well well for outside but gbola no Dey rise for wife.

onumadu:
One thing is missing conspicuously from your list.

What is missing?
GOOD FOOD. (home meal well made)
Good food is what signals to a married man that he is "home", and that "home" can be anywhere if the wife is slacking in that department.
Most married men are responsible (which is why they married in the first place).
Understand this first.
Such men hate eating outside.
After he's had a great MEAL you prepared, he would be available for other things (including your seductions) .
Most married men are captured by other women outside using just food.
After eating there, other things become possible.
This is why most responsible men HARDLY eat outside, particularly foods cooked by women who they suspect is eying them.
Take this advice and thank me later.

This n!gga is wise.
Hear ye him.

EmmyDJourno:
Even with all this advise, who no get sense, no go still get sense😅
Women are more brilliant/smart, very few are intelligent/wise and the wise ones enjoy their man silently😆
It’s the unwise ones you see on podcasts and social media capping all day 😁

Repeat that last part a little louder for the people at the back.

omooba969:
Na you go taya, by the time different sizes and rugged gbola finish with ya kuntus, you go know say man no be woman.

See you. Woman wey fit take 100 gbolas in a day. You fit?

DeeScan:
kikikikiki ... Go ahead then ...

😁😁😁

Let's see if you don't have more to lose doing that..

I have nothing to lose.

SenecaTheYonger:
Women get hornier with age though

Very true.
They are most attractive in their late teens and early to mid-twenties.
They're horniest in their mid-30's to mid-40's.

Zooposki:
See you. Woman wey fit take 100 gbolas in a day. You fit?

Try am na...lol 😆

Abeg stop watching porn o, e get why.

chigoziri2403:
How will you have erection in this austerity times

.... erection in a time of insurrection doesn't add up

Mitsurugi:
Organize a menage a trois. Royal 3 somethings. Bring Felicia that your very fine friend with big nyash

my chief .your head geh oil

Zooposki:
I have nothing to lose.

great .
.. GOOD LUCK!!