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jorion:
You don tire abi...

YOUR EMOTIONAL MANIPULATIONS WON'T WORK.. YOU CAN CALL ME MENTALLY UNSTABLE ALL YOU LIKE.. I DON'T CARE, AS LONG AS IT IS COMING FROM A NIGERIAN WOMAN...

folake4u:
Yen yen yen, no one cares.

Go there and disgrace yourself na. Sheybi fúçking is the bane of your existence.

I'm always happy when y'all Nigerian men go to a working country and realize that if you do anyhow to women, you'd sleep in prison.

Go there and disgrace yourself please.

folake4u:
You're hurt, I understand.

I will pray to God to heal your broken heart.

PissInside:
A certain nigerian woman told me that the reason Nigerian women are always proud is that Nigerian men have low self esteem even the rich ones.

How can you enter a girl's DM and tell her - Can I send you money for no reason? How do you want such a girl to feel?

The most painful thing is that even prostitutes have as much as 50 guys disturbing them everyday with the same old basic lines - Hi,Hey ,Hello,You're so beautiful,Can I get to know you better etc not of talk of normal girls who got as much as thousand of numbers of guys on her contacts...Only a fool and jobless man keeps chatting a girl that's not your wife or serious girlfriend.

As a man,be unique and disciplined when it comes to women issue and your life will never be the same.

jorion:
Yes, a working country where people treat each other with mutual respect...

Where a man is truly appreciated...

Don't worry about me... I know married Nigerian men during my masters who even forgot that they were married after they saw REAL WOMEN... WE KNOW OUR WAYS... DON'T WORRY ABOUT US...

GO AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO EMOTIONALLY BLACKMAIL. NOT ME

folake4u:
Lol real women indeed. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

No one's worried about y'all. You just cannot eat your cake and have it. Here's you endorsing your fellow Nigerian men cheating on their wives, whereas your own mother went through hell in your father's hands.

You really should heal because all your posts show you have no regard for women. No one blames you for being raised in a dysfunctional family but you owe yourself the duty of personal development.

No one's emotionally blackmailing you but it seems you're heading to your 30s/40s, maybe drop this attitude? I mean, as you're aging, you're supposed to be wiser and not dense.

Lastly, you can reach out to Mentally Aware Nigeria on Twitter for free counseling services.
https://twitter.com/MentallyAwareNG?t=n_LSesHlS-pQC5zMvt_Z_g&s=08

Your mental health matters and I'm rooting for you.


Goodnight.

kkins25:
OP was just panicking and probably scared.. Make una show am mercy. E fit dey wonder why he even called. 😂😂😂..

I need that kind of confidence though.. I hate video calls or anything face to face.

I was in napep the other day, opposite me was a beauty. I was stunned. Forgot all my pick up lines. Even my thoughts were scattered. All that "alpha" ego vanished. So disappointed in myself😂.

I wanted to initiate a conversation, but remembered reading folake4u incident of some guys approaching them at a restaurant(or so). And she said she was irritated by it.

I was like "this girl no fit dey find love now".

To folake, thanks but no thanks. 😭 I've been thinking of the incident for the past 3days..The girl was really my spec.

Indeed, what we watch and read influences us in ways we are unconscious of. I thought it was esoteric BS, but now that e don happen to me, I now agree..

folake4u:
No one's worried about y'all. You just cannot eat your cake and have it. Here's you endorsing your fellow Nigerian men cheating on their wives, whereas your own mother went through hell in your father's hands.

jorion:
STFU, who the hell made you the girl's lawyer. TAKE YOUR BS FEMINISM SOMEWHERE ELSE.

Magnoliaa:
Infact, here is LIKELY where you fell out of grace.

She literally sent "hii." That was enthusiastic (real or fake) enough.
But if I greeted you like that, and the next thing you did is to call me on video, mo ma gbe e shepe ni.

pansophist:
If the girl is attracted to him, that single act of video calling will not make her ignore him. At least she will respond to chats.

Talking stage is not only about saying the right thing to a girl, it is about being the right guy. If video call is too early, what about those that nack each other same day? Lol

folake4u:
It is also possible that Op is deluding himself that the lady's into him.

I'm a friendly person and very playful when talking to people. I will even smile and crack jokes with the person. Some guys think it's "green light" from my end whereas it's just basic courtesy. They try to seize the opportunity by asking for my number and when I refuse, they insist saying they won't disturb. I don't like stress, I'd give him the number and he begins to chat himself daily.

Oluromantic:
You dey craze o. So a girl kept you like this for days now and you're wasting your value where it is not needed. You're really a worthless person. Get another girl and ignore this one. Don't block her cuz she could be hit with insult from d dick she's been fucking then suddenly remembers you.. If I were you I will Bleep the living daylights from her life when she returns. But for now, get someone else.

Magnoliaa:
You can imagine this.

I've never met a dumber group of people.


Their mums have literally gone through the worst shit at their fathers' hands in real life, but they'll come online to come and be painting a different picture. Performing for the validation of other men.


It is the mums who usually end of contributing the most to their lives that they'll reserve all their vim for but their wicked, deadbeat dads will remain an idol in their eyes, even if they cannot say their favourite colors.

CyrusVI:
She's right tho

The video call thingy is actually a turn off to even me wey be guy



Male-Female relationship aside, he sucks badly at communication

Magnoliaa:
You can imagine this.

I've never met a dumber group of people.


Their mums have literally gone through the worst shit at their fathers' hands in real life, but they'll come online to come and be painting a different picture. Performing for the validation of other men.


It is the mums who usually end of contributing the most to their lives that they'll reserve all their vim for but their wicked, deadbeat dads will remain an idol in their eyes, even if they cannot say their favourite colors.

folake4u:
Very dumb set of humans.

Lol I know right. Always coming online to act picture perfect, meanwhile their reality is different.

He should channel all the anger to his father, and leave Nigerian women out of his shenanigans.

By their utterances, you can know if they're loved at home or not...

Gerrard59:
I am curious, how do you express genuine desire to a guy?

This love thing don dey hard pass further mathematics.

Gerrard59:
I think the issue is the overload of rules these days. However, I see video calls from someone I met and interacted with for the first time two days ago as a breach of privacy.

Gerrard59:
Na here the guy fvck up. A video call to someone you met two days ago and unwarranted looks very somehow. You first ask if the person is okay with a video call before proceeding to call. Even voice notes sef, you ask first "Are you okay with a VN"? Esp to someone you have not established familiarity with.

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In all of this, I no get GF sef. But try to learn to not repeat this act.

Coldplay007:
Have you called her on phone since after you met? Or you just jumped straight to WhatsApp like a randy teenager

idahme:
As old as you are you still think one must call first then you have a long way to go . Why not send a fax , letter etc to know you are a very old lady born in the era of letters and fax.

Who gave the rules that when someone shares a contact it must be a call that should come first and not a phone text or a Whatsapp message? No wonder most of you don't grow and improve yourself with the ever changing digital space , you think the world should remain in the 20th century in your brain and whoever negates this thought process is antithetical to effective communication, only one whose critical thinking skills hasn't developed fully asserts this way.

N/B Age isn't a criteria for exuding good critically asserted thought.

Gerrard59:
I am curious, how do you express genuine desire to a guy?

This love thing don dey hard pass further mathematics.

Magnoliaa:
A vn is still a tad appropriate. Especially when you're making an enquiry or just explaining something work-related to someone. Yes, it's still for
You don't have a gf? Have you tried finding a Sheraseven's follower?

Gerrard59:
I read about the individual - God forbid bad thing.

Magnoliaa:
🤣🤣🤣


I thought you're the calculated, coldly logical, rational/transactional to a fault kind? Methinks you'll do well with the same kind of woman. Not manipulative, but strategic.


It's just my unsolicited suggestion anyway, you do you lol.

folake4u:
Ah. SheraSeven of the good ol' days.

You're wicked, Maggie.