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What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 9:35pm On Jul 06, 2024
What part of the wedding do you think is unnecessary?
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by MufasaLion: 9:54pm On Jul 06, 2024
Feeding people that basically don't give a damn about the marriage but the food, aesthetics and the clout.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 12:44am On Aug 22, 2024
shocked
MufasaLion:
Feeding people that basically don't give a damn about the marriage but the food, aesthetics and the clout.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by rickleye: 1:42am On Aug 22, 2024
Honestly everything .
Let both parents meet each other. Ask basic questions.
Get a court date with witnesses. That’s all .
The reception is unnecessary
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Pzpropertylimit(m): 2:31am On Aug 22, 2024
The reception is unnecessary
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by londonbanks(m): 4:46am On Aug 22, 2024
I find the tradition of throwing money at the bride and groom a bit tacky. Why can't people give their gifts privately, leaving the dance floor for what it's meant for dancing. We glorify money to an extreme extent that even those who are struggling financially feel that no wedding is complete without this arbitrary practice.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by victory36(m): 6:51am On Aug 22, 2024
Everything is unnecessary. A court wedding at a local registrar is enough
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 7:23am On Aug 22, 2024
undecided
victory36:
Everything is unnecessary. A court wedding at a local registrar is enough
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by ObalendeCMS: 8:12am On Aug 22, 2024
I wish my marriage ceremony be low key as much as possible.

Need a very intelligent lady to understand that.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Lalami3232(m): 8:16am On Aug 22, 2024
The only important part I know is the DNA part especially if you didn't meet her as a virgin.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by minasu190: 8:44am On Aug 22, 2024
That aspect where they will invite plenty people to come eat your food and drinks,after everything they will leave the bride and groom to face their problems in marriage,out of 100s wey come wedding maybe na only few go get time dey check on them
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 9:56am On Aug 22, 2024
ObalendeCMS:
I wish my marriage ceremony be low key as much as possible.

Need a very intelligent lady to understand that.
Would you like to join a Singles WhatsApp channel group?
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Wainey: 10:33am On Aug 22, 2024
The part where I have to wait for the food
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 10:55am On Aug 22, 2024
huh
Wainey:
The part where I have to wait for the food
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by pansophist(m):
The lavish spending.

I can understand if you're spending lavishly on a ten, twenty, thirty years anniversary. A time frame where couples have proven the worth of their commitment and overcame challenges.

But for a marriage that just get started and haven't withstood the test of time, lavish spendings are is unnecessary.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by ObalendeCMS: 11:38am On Aug 22, 2024
lavylilly:
Would you like to join a Singles WhatsApp channel group?
No. Thank you.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by pansophist(m): 11:43am On Aug 22, 2024
lavylilly:
Would you like to join a Singles WhatsApp channel group?
Yes o, I want to join. Send me a link.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:58am On Aug 22, 2024
The kissing, and feeding each other. Just yuck!
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by CyrusVI(m): 5:10pm On Aug 22, 2024
The entire thing

I have never really attended any ceremony all my life, either to mourn or to rejoice. Convocation and POP inclusive, so I really wouldnt wanna attend my own wedding either

I fit hire person to stand-in for me but I'm not sure that would be allowed
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by ItisWell22(f): 8:09am On Aug 23, 2024
Everything! 😢😥
Too stressful. 😩
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 5:56pm On Aug 28, 2024
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 5:56pm On Aug 28, 2024
shocked
CyrusVI:
The entire thing

I have never really attended any ceremony all my life, either to mourn or to rejoice. Convocation and POP inclusive, so I really wouldnt wanna attend my own wedding either

I fit hire person to stand-in for me but I'm not sure that would be allowed
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 7:12pm On Dec 04, 2024
lipsrsealed
Lalami3232:
The only important part I know is the DNA part especially if you didn't meet her as a virgin.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Samantha125(f): 7:32pm On Dec 04, 2024
For me it has to be the part where there'll be about 20 elderly married women advising the bride on how to be a good wife... Most of the things they say just don't make sense.

You'll hear them telling the bride that even if she's unemployed and her husband who's working doesn't provide her with money for foodstuffs, she should go and borrow some money to come and cook food for her husband...🤦🤦🤦... That's nonsensical.

One elderly lady also told me on my wedding day that I must never ask for my husband's whereabouts, I smiled and agreed with her, only if she knew that I already had GPS on my husband... grin grin grin... But he's well aware of it and he doesn't mind and he also has one on me... We only make use of them when necessary.
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Kazeemme: 7:41pm On Dec 04, 2024
Samantha125:
For me it has to be the part where there'll be about 20 elderly married women advising the bride on how to be a good wife... Most of the things they say just don't make sense.

You'll hear them telling the bride that even if she's unemployed and her husband who's working doesn't provide her with money for foodstuffs, she should go and borrow some money to come and cook food for her husband...🤦🤦🤦... That's nonsensical.

One elderly lady also told me on my wedding day that I must never ask for my husband's whereabouts, I smiled and agreed with her, only if she knew that I already had GPS on my husband... grin grin grin... But he's well aware of it and he doesn't mind and he also has one on me... We only make use of them when necessary.
Have you seen any man that will marry you,v
Samantha, I am still available for you,let us take our relationship to the next level
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Samantha125(f): 7:43pm On Dec 04, 2024
I don't remember you... undecided undecided undecided
Kazeemme:
Have you seen any man that will marry you,v
Samantha, I am still available for you,let us take our relationship to the next level
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Kazeemme: 8:01pm On Dec 04, 2024
Samantha125:
I don't remember you... undecided undecided undecided
Drop your WhatsApp num or should I drop mine
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by Samantha125(f): 8:17pm On Dec 04, 2024
No, thank you.
Kazeemme:
Drop your WhatsApp num or should I drop mine
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by tete7000(m): 11:12pm On Dec 04, 2024
minasu190:
That aspect where they will invite plenty people to come eat your food and drinks,after everything they will leave the bride and groom to face their problems in marriage,out of 100s wey come wedding maybe na only few go get time dey check on them
We're they there when they were toasting themselves doing lovy-lovy?
Re: What Part Of The Wedding Do You Think Is Unnecessary? by lavylilly(op): 7:32pm On Dec 27, 2024
undecided
tete7000:
We're they there when they were toasting themselves doing lovy-lovy?
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